Successful stories with WLs

tptheprc · #1 28-09-2008, 11:03 PM

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hi bros. 1st time in this forum and happened to see this thread. i have been active in geylang and initially having the mentality of "i'm jus going there to let off some load and go home a happy man"
it is until 4 mths ago when i met this girl in the legal house. she was nice and friendly so i had a pretty good impression of her. After a few visits, we started talking on the phone. in the beginning, i didnt really think anything was gonna happen. But now, i am in a relationship with her.
i have nv had a girl treated me so nicely until i met her. she have nv asked anything from me and all i ever bought her was a necklaces that cost onli $100. she knows that i am poor, she even put money into my wallet when she know i have no money to spend. she will always ask me not to go to her work place to look for her. instead she rather get up early in the morning sacrifice her sleeping time and come to my home to rest. sometimes she will cook for me. she will specially come to my place and take care of me when i fall sick, even thought its jus a few hours in the morning "cos she have to work in the afternoon". when she knows that i am having cough, she will make some herbal tea for me.
lets be frank bros. how many girls in singapore will not ask u to buy anything for them? and how many of them is willing to cook for u? i believe that many sg girl are not like her. i am not saying that there are none but its true.
i agree with some of u bros that no one can overcome the fact that his gf is servicing another man. but the fact that she is here to work cos of some money issues. no one want to be in the line if given a choice. she always apologise to me, things like she is working this job, she is unable to take care of me when im sick, unable to call me everytime etc. it makes me feel very sad sometimes. worst of all, i am the jerk sometimes cos i couldnt take this kind of emotion torture that i purposely quarrel with her over small matter. sometimes i feel that i really am not understanding enough.
anyway,in another 2mths time she will be going back and she had asked me if i want to stay with her in her country. i am considering now. hope that u bros can give me some advice.

sammyboyfor · #2 29-09-2008, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by tptheprc

hope that u bros can give me some advice.

You are a moron.

Heart Break Kid · #3 29-09-2008, 10:32 AM

If you want to have a successfully relationship with WL & marry them.. well its possible

Make sure you earn a lot money to feed her & her family for the lifetimes &
more importantly can afford to let her spend lavishly on luxury goods & services

If you can fulfil the above mention, you can have a successful wonderful marriage with WL ..go for it guys

vmtech · #4 29-09-2008, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

If you want to have a successfully relationship with WL & marry them.. well its possible

Make sure you earn a lot money to feed her & her family for the lifetimes &
more importantly can afford to let her spend lavishly on luxury goods & services

If you can fulfil the above mention, you can have a successful wonderful marriage with WL ..go for it guys

that's just stereotyping...

aczeta76 · #5 29-09-2008, 11:02 AM

Real feelings need some time to develop.

R/S with WL are sometimes like those forged in time of extremities ... disaster, emergencies and may crumble when life reverts to normal.

For a hollywood movie version of this, look at Speed and Speed II... they talk about it too.

If u want to try, allow her to return to her normal lifestyle.. assuming she does not do this in PRC and see if the two of you can still click.

Love may be between 2 people, but a sustained relationship involves much more parties.

Cheers, good luck and be safe.

DO_YOU_BJ · #6 29-09-2008, 12:02 PM

I will give you 2 options.
1st will be like wat bros are telling you, cut it off.
2nd will be, its still very early, thus ur heart is telling you to give it a go and see how.
From wat i read so far, give it a go and see how.
But, you must be very ready to drop at any sign of signals thus meaning u must keep the bros here very up to date on whats goin on, the things she say etc.

I do not wanna pass judgement as of yet, though 99% are all emotional entrapment tactics, but i'll give this gal a benefit of a doubt for now and decide as time goes by to mind F her of just move on.

You dare to take this challenge?????
Rewards: You'll never feel so loved and cared for in your life
You'll never feel so wanted in your life
Your ego will be on a all time high

Setbacks: If its confirmed a trap, you may have difficulty to pull back
You will be heart brokened

You decide and do tell us your decision.

Maxdom · #7 29-09-2008, 12:15 PM

Lets see.

1) She put money in your wallet when you have no money to spend.
2) She cook for you.
3) She look after you when you are sick
4) She never ask you buy anything for her.
5) I am sure there a lot more good virtue...............
6) The list go on......
7) On and on.........

Only issue to most man is she is a sex worker but you have justified this perhaps not her number one career choice and you have begin to accept this as long in the future her cunt belongs to you.

If the above is your criteria to be with someone, please go be with her. It is common sense. You only get to live once. If you are certain no one can love you here in Singapore and you do not wish to adjust your criteria, I guess you have not much choice. Many sex workers know how to cook one and you may now have more hooker choice. Why not you explore to see which one can cook better or put more money in you wallet if their choice of work is no longer an issue for you?

But I particularly like criteria number 1. I sincerely hope you and her will continue to meet each other expectation when you are in her COUNTRY.

Just go with her and remember to share with us your experience later so the statistic can ONCE AGAIN be updated. Cheers.

Heart Break Kid · #8 29-09-2008, 01:27 PM

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Originally Posted by vmtech

that's just stereotyping...

It is not stereotyping ...this is fact of life. You no money you think women want you let alone WL

colins · #9 29-09-2008, 01:59 PM

Bro TS, everyone play a role in our lives. Her role is to tell you what you want in a relationship and at the same time, what pains you in a relationship. But what you should be considering is which role you should play in her life and the lives of your family and friends here in sg.

I think there is no right or wrong decision, whatever it is, be happy about it. The worst scenarios are
1. Give her up then you wallow in pain for the loss, for the rest of your life.
2. Go with her, regretted and after a struggle, return to sg.

Unfortunately, there is no half half decision. Cos that will give you the best position to start hating yourself for choosing what you have chosen.

aces68 · #10 29-09-2008, 02:08 PM

bro TS, I think it is still early days yet for you to make any concrete decision. You cannot make a life judegment based on knowing a person for 1-2 months only.
Furthermore, you may know her in 1 environment only at the moment. I would say, go with the flow but be mentally prepared to cut loose if KC signal appears.

FL Lover · #11 29-09-2008, 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by tptheprc

anyway,in another 2mths time she will be going back and she had asked me if i want to stay with her in her country. i am considering now. hope that u bros can give me some advice.

To TS,

you may want to consider the following issues before making yor big decision:

1) How are you going to survive when you are in her country? Are you prepared to start all over again in her country? work? career?
2) Are you prepared if she decide to work in the same line in her country?
3) Do you have sufficient or enough $$ in your bank to support her?
4) What abt your parents? Have you told them abt this?
5) Do you really believe bread is not important but love is? come on... we are living in a realistic world, not fairy tales.
6) Have you ever ask her if she is prepared to stay in sg with u instead of you going over to her country?
7) Are you sure that she is not just fishing you for a bigger catch by giving you a bit of "this and that" for the start?

Just make sure that you are prepared to face through what I have just asked you. Even living in other country will require you to have some saving in yor bank, are you sure that she is 100% loving you or just fishing you for your $$? You had told everyone you are poor.. but in the eyes of WLs, everyone is RICH....

Heart Break Kid · #12 29-09-2008, 03:50 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

You are a moron.

Many people forgotten how their parents upbring them ..like taught them never love or marry bad women (WL) yet
when despite growing up & growing old they still like that.

Maybe those lowly educated men like to look for WL as wife

Apichi · #13 29-09-2008, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Heart Break Kid

Many people forgotten how their parents upbring them ..like taught them never love or marry bad women (WL) yet
when despite growing up & growing old they still like that.

Maybe those lowly educated men like to look for WL as wife

Better stop here, is sad to tell you this but are you ready to take on the whole world. They are many out there within your circle against it.

tptheprc · #14 29-09-2008, 07:15 PM

thanks for the helpful advice bros. have really helped me alot with my thinking. really happy to hear that some of u bros are being very frank to me. i think for now i will just wait and consider about going to her country with her.

i am into this relationship cos i am already sick and tired of most sg girls. all they know is ask u for this and that. got car or not, can buy me this bag etc. then when i get into financial trouble, they will be missing and no where to be found.

Heart Break Kid. its not i want to be a show off, but i own a car, a condo and i am a master degree holder. i believe that not every one is a money faces like u and so shallow as u to think that everyone only cares about money. cos there are ppl out there that having enough money to survive is already good enough. i am poor NOW cos i recently made some lost in investing property. so please keep ur rude remarks to yourself. and dun always think u know everything and can i know do u even have a PSLE certificate?

goodfun · #15 29-09-2008, 07:48 PM

i have friends sharing the same fate like u bro,he really went to thailand stay for at least a yr...

his gals really fed him and push money to him for all the time that he is at thailand...
after sometimes,my friend just couldnt get over about her past,also when he get horny he bonk other gals,than he discover he is not ready to lock his penis to a women...in the end he left her...

like wat most of our bros mention,better think properly and consider well,i think my friend is lucky without kuku birds being cut off or tio gong tao