Advice from Everyone please..

Sam_Pro · #1 12-04-2008, 03:44 AM

Hi,

I have been together with my gf for about 5 years. We have never engage into sexual intercourse and of course I did suggest countless times. She never did agreed. I always thought that she wanted to keep it for marriage night but recently when we had a talk, I found out that she's actually more afraid of the 'pain' involved. She heard most from flowerpods forumers that the pain could not be avoided and having a 'pain-fear' nature, she does not dare to try it.

She then told me that she would prefer me to deflower her when she's unconscious; perhaps via liqour or drugs. I feel like of odd if I really do it coz it feels like 'rape-ing' someone. I don't think bringing her to a psychatrist would do any help. I have tried a thousand and one ways to improve her self-confidence but no avail.

Could bros advice me on this? I was thinking if those drugs that could make her unconscious, is there maybe any kind of drugs that could make her hormones increase at a rapid rate so she could just forget about that 'phobia'?

sammyboyfor · #2 12-04-2008, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam_Pro

Could bros advice me on this? I was thinking if those drugs that could make her unconscious, is there maybe any kind of drugs that could make her hormones increase at a rapid rate so she could just forget about that 'phobia'?

Should be "Could bros ADVISE me....".

"Advice" is a noun.

VanHouten · #3 12-04-2008, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Sam_Pro

together with my gf for about 5 years. We have never engage into sexual intercourse and of course I did suggest countless times. She never did agreed. I always thought that she wanted to keep it for marriage night but recently

Good moral!

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Originally Posted by Sam_Pro

having a 'pain-fear' nature, she does not dare to try it. She then told me that she would prefer me to deflower her when she's unconscious; perhaps via liqour or drugs. I feel like of odd if I really do it coz it feels like 'rape-ing' someone. I don't think bringing her to a psychatrist would do any help. I have tried a thousand and one ways to improve her self-confidence but no avail.

I can see you have patience.

Sam_Pro · #4 12-04-2008, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be "Could bros ADVISE me....".

"Advice" is a noun.

Somehow I could sense this is coming.. Ha.. But how do I edit the thread?

Sam_Pro · #5 12-04-2008, 05:48 PM

Are there any bros out there to help me?

hang37 · #6 12-04-2008, 07:51 PM

make her high from drinking then poke her lor...

did you have foreplay b4?
make her real wet then try fingering then slowly increase the number of finger then bingo if she dun feel pain...

topcook1 · #7 12-04-2008, 08:46 PM

My advice is to save it for marriage perhaps she will be more ready for it. In the mean time go and try Wls and Fls around. There are too many choices now adays dont waste time in thinking of bonking your GF. It might hurt your relationship if you cant get it from her.

comm · #8 12-04-2008, 09:24 PM

i will deflower her for you

mustbang · #9 12-04-2008, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by comm

i will deflower her for you

And i just deflowered your points.

comm · #10 12-04-2008, 11:30 PM

this "points" are not "mine"

lifeisfun · #11 13-04-2008, 12:22 AM

forgot to mention..i just zapped u too

humpcheepang · #12 13-04-2008, 12:28 AM

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Originally Posted by mustbang

And i just deflowered your points.

Me followed suit!

Ero-Senin · #13 13-04-2008, 12:30 AM

start it slow bro , my 1st time with gf also like that , foreplay n oral a bit for the 1st few times , then when getting more comfortable , take a step further , fingering then really prepared get some dom dom if not willing 2 take the risk of getting her pregnant , foreplay + oral + then everything else is history ... good luck bro

p/s : having sex with one party who is unconscious is like screwing a blow up doll ?

destarius · #14 13-04-2008, 12:37 AM

I would advise against getting married unless you truly believe that this is a problem that can be overcome and that you are also sexually compatible with her. An issue with sex could become a serious problem with your marriage. If she's not principally against pre-marital sex, then you should try to work this out first.

Also, you deserve an award as you are an incredibly patient man. FIVE YEARS without sex with your GF - you must really love her.

ohyeahbaby · #15 13-04-2008, 01:25 AM

Its a good thing that u realized its not a good idea to do the drugged and alchohol thinggy.
I think u should tell your gal that u will do it gently and slowly. Tell her to try it out and see how was it first