Understanding Thai Life Partner

[FL Lover]

All bros out, having said so many bad points about Thai girls, I wonder how many actually married Thais girls as spouses and any comments on that? I have friends who married Thai as legal spouse but had a hard time understanding them.....

[s69ex]

hard time understanding them as in wat bro.....?

[FL Lover]

bro, as what my friend told me..... he got married for about a 1 yr to a Thai lady... according to him ... she is not a FL (duno true or not true), no kids with her.... He treated her very good. We can see from his actions....

But the problem is that he told me his wife likes to flirts around....According to him, maybe his wife is too friendly to pple as what Thais usually do... LOS.

He is worried... hahaha... so helping him to ask bros over here... Do any bros know of someone who is married to a Thai... Are they really that faithful once they married?

[devilboy1978(2)]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

bro, as what my friend told me..... he got married for about a 1 yr to a Thai lady... according to him ... she is not a FL (duno true or not true), no kids with her.... He treated her very good. We can see from his actions....

But the problem is that he told me his wife likes to flirts around....According to him, maybe his wife is too friendly to pple as what Thais usually do... LOS.

He is worried... hahaha... so helping him to ask bros over here... Do any bros know of someone who is married to a Thai... Are they really that faithful once they married?

I have a very gd friend whom married a ex-WL..They were married
4 8 years n they have a 6 year old son..So far so gd 4 them,nothing
happened all tis years..Mayb some will b faithful once they r married
wif d man they love..

[cyrus]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

All bros out, having said so many bad points about Thai girls, I wonder how many actually married Thais girls as spouses and any comments on that? I have friends who married Thai as legal spouse but had a hard time understanding them.....

Meaning .. got many friends?

[Orica]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

bro, as what my friend told me..... he got married for about a 1 yr to a Thai lady... according to him ... she is not a FL (duno true or not true), no kids with her.... He treated her very good. We can see from his actions....

But the problem is that he told me his wife likes to flirts around....According to him, maybe his wife is too friendly to pple as what Thais usually do... LOS.

He is worried... hahaha... so helping him to ask bros over here... Do any bros know of someone who is married to a Thai... Are they really that faithful once they married?

Are they staying together or not?
If one stay in SIN and the other in BKK, chances of straying is quite high

[kwanteen]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

All bros out, having said so many bad points about Thai girls, I wonder how many actually married Thais girls as spouses and any comments on that? I have friends who married Thai as legal spouse but had a hard time understanding them.....

in any marriages is a very challenging situation whether wif a local or foreigner, crucial question is how well do both know each other and are they ready or just jump into it....of cos they are many other factors...

cheers

[Hakoshu]

It depends on ur partner really.. If he/she is the playful type.. High chances of fooling.. If not, its fine.. This applies to all countries .

[Red_Tirak1099]

Originally Posted by Hakoshu

It depends on ur partner really.. If he/she is the playful type.. High chances of fooling.. If not, its fine.. This applies to all countries .

Thai culture is generally about being SANUK SABAI SABI....so most Thai Ladies have a casual relax attitude towards sex. Those with Thai wives or looking to marry Thai ladies must keep an eye on them as temptations abound. Jus my 2 bahts worth

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[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by Orica

Are they staying together or not?
If one stay in SIN and the other in BKK, chances of straying is quite high

So who strays? The Thai one or the Sing one? Makes no difference at all, even when both are together, people still stray. Where they are not the important thing, who they are is the most relevant issue here. Thai ladies are generally nice, soft spoken and polite and of course depending on the education level as well. Hence we cannot simply judge them simply base on one case or as in generally.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by FL Lover

I have friends who married Thai as legal spouse but had a hard time understanding them.....

Your friends are idiots.

[DNAT]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Your friends are idiots.

SAM, why you like that label people's friends 1 ?

[no_faith]

very jia lat marrying a Thai lah.
i witness bad marriage.

[GLHunter]

Originally Posted by no_faith

very jia lat marrying a Thai lah.
i witness bad marriage.

The root cause is not about marrying a thai.

Its more likely to be both parties rushing through the courtship process, into marriage, thinking that everything will be fine & ever after, even though its still a immature relationship.

Being bf & gf for, say 2 years is enough to enable us to understand each other character & foresee each other behaviours after marriage. So what turns out is hardly any surprise.

We can only blame ourself on why we choose this path & now having 2nd thoughts when marriage fails due to incompatible character. Talking about Nationality when things screw up is definately finger pointing.

[High till Dry]

I guess it will take all our lives to understand the opposite sex cos men are from mars and women from venus.

Marrying thai or local have a set of problems to deal with.

Ultimately, it's ur choice.