how to give an unforgettable first date?

[no_faith]

tis is abt gal, love.
sex, lust. no. maybe later part.

u know a gal. u know that she is the reason why u come to earth.
she is the one you have been waiting for.

after sooooooo long, see tis gal. natural, simple, plain, presentable look.
she is like heroin, so addicted to her. u need to see her everday to curb ur misses.

finally, the day for the first date came. it is the first.
u wan to give her un unforgettable first date.
this is such a special occassion and u dun wish to bring her to movies, meet her in town, window shopping @ town area, the sop stuff.
u dun wish to give her a common date like every1 does.


are there any ways to give her an unforgettable day?
Kindly provide sum pointers.


cheerz.

[yohooo]

haha... i dont mind having advice on it too...

get to know a girl who's very plain and is like heroin to me

[Harrier24B]

Most important thing is to be on time in picking her up....

If you really want to make it an unforgettable date,

Bring her to a nice place for dinner (with reservations made way beforehand), arrange for a bouquet of flowers, some decent wine and also make sure the food is good.

After the dinner and wine, you could possibly bring her to a cosy place for some drinks where it's not too loud so both of you can continues to talk and get to know each other better......

Another important factor is communication.......

After that, the rest is up to you to decide.....

[d(^_^)b]

Err...

Bro, I wanna give U suggestion but can I have this 2 Qn answered first?

#1 How long have U known her?
#2 Got car mah?
#3 Got budget mah?
#4 Duhz... I forgot what I wanna ask.

Braindead again.

Will ask again when I remember. But please give us more details.
Based on what U said earlier, very hard to give U suggestion when we dunno if U've other factors that might hinder us to givin U suggestion.

[no_faith]

@ bro Harrier, u mean fine dining? sounds gd but way too posh wor. sounds very materialistic to me and is quite common. apologize if im too offensive.
ur points still well noted. thx.

peace


@ d(^_^)b
not very long.
no car.
as long not in Ks will do.



as i have mentioned, dun wan to have the standard procedure.
eg. meet in town - watch movie - dinner - send her home - gd nite.
dun say abt eye mo tingy, thx.

1 more ting 4got to mention. we are in the process of chatting, knowing more abt each other.
issit me too kan cheong to ask now? sry if it is. sry, now i xiao lu ruan chuang. dunno y.
but i have prepare if things failed.

anyway, more advice pls.

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by no_faith

u know a gal. u know that she is the reason why u come to earth.

Yes the gal.. my MUM.
She is the reason why i come to earth bro...

Originally Posted by Harrier24B

Bring her to a nice place for dinner (with reservations made way beforehand), arrange for a bouquet of flowers, some decent wine and also make sure the food is good.

Originally Posted by no_faith

@ bro Harrier, u mean fine dining?

Bro, this is NOT a good idea for 1st date. alot of -ve points.
1) she may think you r a spendthrift person and will have a second thought on contiuning with u.
2) gals being gals... if you give so many surprises and gift on 1st date (not any special occasion like v-day or b-day), she may expect surprises everytime you ask her out. This will make you cook up more idea just to please her.. will be very tiring for u in long run.

Originally Posted by Harrier24B

Most important thing is to be on time in picking her up....

Car or no car....This is a MUST...
1) be punctual or if can be early will be best.
2) be attentive during conversation... maintain eye contact.. don wonder around even if got naked lady walk pass.
3) take note of the EARRING she wears, acessories she like...things she like eat/drink and the things she look at when window shop or walking along the street. These is to prepare yourself for followup dates and gift to buy next time...

So sorry to say that dating in singapore is quite an SOP. What gals need is ATTENTION from us... going anywhere for date is secondary. once you give your attention... she will know that you are the right person to look for in future if she need someone to talk to...

Hope this help. KT.
ps: why need to know the kind of earring she wears... bcoz it tends to be the smallest thing on the girls. it would mean you are giving her alot of attention. Next time can buy earring for her. studs/ring type... dun buy wrong earring

[block11]

Originally Posted by no_faith

as i have mentioned, dun wan to have the standard procedure.
eg. meet in town - watch movie - dinner - send her home - gd nite.
dun say abt eye mo tingy, thx.

if you don't want standard procedure then find some hobbies that both of you have in common... during chatting, casually ask her what she likes to do during weekend or after work / school. it'll be informal and a good chance to get to know each other better

if she likes the beach then you can plan for a weekend at sentosa. if she likes theater then you can plan to catch a show at esplanade. if she likes sports then you can do that... and so on

[dominion]

practice this
http://virtualunderworld.net/arianeb...coral-no-serve

but really, its more of how you behave than the activity itself
best thing to do is be yourself, because one cant keep up a pretense forever, better to let her see you as you are, and either accept it ornot

[d(^_^)b]

Process of chattin?

Then I suggest U hold Ur horses.

Juz get to know her first else I think U'll be rushin in too early for a kill only to get killed in the process.

[adlas]

Bro you want good romantic date, take her somewhere quiet like sentosa with a basket of food and a bottle of wine and sit on the beach eating and looking at the stars. Buy a small bouquet of flowers to give to her when you pick her up for the date. Works for those soft romantic girls, if u dating ah lian biker chick, then need another plan.

[covenn]

eh dun think im gd enuf yet to give advice. but i do think that its best to be urself. first date yes, but think further...wat if fr the 8th date onwards u cant think of anythin to make it interestin? then probably the girl will think she's shortchanged n it will be very tiring for u too. all the best nontheless!

[d(^_^)b]

I think he's moving in on the kill too fast though...

[JWNY]

For me personally,

I always bring my date around my "homeground", ie - places i am familiar (so i don't end up like a dork) unless the girl specifies...i would usually initiate the meet-up place.

48 hours before actual date, i would just comb the area to see if there are any things of interest (like event or night market) just to be ready.

I would then bring her to a familiar dining place of mine where i know a few faces so that striking a conversation with the staff would be easy and make the girl less uncomfortable, or at least be able to recomend the nice dishes. "Surprises" are not always a good thing, especially with regards to taste.

Those who love to pamper more, can either bring some jewelry, chocolate, flowers, write poetry (this is me ) or even do a simple but polite gesture of sending the lady home.

MOST IMPORTANT - be yourself, hard to quantify a good or bad date...you never know what kind of girl to expect.

JWNY

[sean69]

give her a good licking in public.. confirm it will be unforgettable for her!!!

bring her out to somewhere both of you could probably chill out, have dinner, converse with one another or listen to music etc. places like cosy bay, ti amo, essential brew, cafe del moar or equinox.