Wedding night thingy

[ahbengsony]

Copied From Delphiforum so tot might as well discuss over here.....

The wedding night for most couples nowadays would be an anti-climax. (Please forgive the pun!) Most couples would have had sex many times before their wedding and the wedding night would be nothing special where sex is concerned

surveys showed abt 50% brides are non-virgin (probably 70% for guys) on wedding nite. guess, for those virginia ones, the wedding nite cd be one of sexcitement or anxiety over performance and the very fact for many of us is both husband and wife will spend the night trying to balance the budget.think the most exciting thing is counting of ang pow: "Can Cover or Not!!??!!"

I do agreed with this saying. Maybe married bnros here can share.

[JohnDoel]

Hi,

It has been quite a long while since I visited this forum. It muz be good as it has been around for quite a while.

To be very honest and open, I didn't even noe whether my wife was a virgin or not on our wedding nite, 23 yrs ago. We were 20 at that time. She is my 1st and only gf and up to now, the only woman I has ever been intimate with. She had many bf b4 me though and told me that she has never slept with any of them. Thats wat she told me.

Before the wedding, during our courting, we did pet and oral, but no insertion. We were tempted though, but sumhow manage to hold back till our wedding nite.

[gussiman]

Well, my wedding night was a washout because my bride's menses just happened to start that day!!

And yes, we did count the "ang paos", need to see whether breakeven, make loss or make profit. I was fortunate - contributions from well wishers & guests were enough to cover cost of wedding.

But some wedding gifts were stolen - a couple of bottles of expensive liquor, iirc.

It also felt a bit weird the first few days, not just sharing a bed, but also the room, and your life.

I remember thinking to myself, "Have I made a mistake? What if this doesn't work out?" Feeling a bit panicked, lol.

Don't think we even did any petting that night - too tired 'cos had to wake up early for tea ceremony, then dinner at night which ended late. By the time we packed up and ready to sleep already about 1 am.

My wife (then gf) and I had plenty of 'fun' when dating, but we both decided to save intercourse for marriage. But months later when we got more experienced in bonking each other, she told me that if she knew how good it would be she'd have started bonking me before our marriage!

[ssilverzoommer]

Originally Posted by JohnDoel

Hi,

It has been quite a long while since I visited this forum. It muz be good as it has been around for quite a while.

To be very honest and open, I didn't even noe whether my wife was a virgin or not on our wedding nite, 23 yrs ago. We were 20 at that time. She is my 1st and only gf and up to now, the only woman I has ever been intimate with. She had many bf b4 me though and told me that she has never slept with any of them. Thats wat she told me.

Before the wedding, during our courting, we did pet and oral, but no insertion. We were tempted though, but sumhow manage to hold back till our wedding nite.

Bro u can really tahan. Thumb ups!

[chickenzip]

How true...

Couples nowadays have explored anywhere they could possibly do so before their tradtional wedding night...so it really kills off the excitement on their "first night".

the only excitement left was when they decided to generate their "operation", that is for the guy to inject his millions members into his wife.

And that seconds of pleasure will again caused a result of inertia in their sex life which could last months or years.

[wanker10]

Very true. On my wedding night which was 10 years ago, what I did was after gotten back to the hotel room was count 'ang pow' although the bloody head is spinning. It easily took me around 3 hours to count them as I opened the ang pow, my wife record on a piece of paper the name & the amount (for future reference). Steamy sex & romance leave it to the next day after going to the nearest branch to bank in the cash early in the morning.

Cheers!

[sex4LiFe]

[COLOR="LightBlue"]During my wedding night.. i was so washed out from the tons of wine, congnac and beer that i had down, that before the end of the dinner, i was already puking my liver away.

After that, i was so high that all my brudders had to restrain me from approaching this babe (god knows who she is but she was supposed to be my fren's cousin, he couldn't get a date so he asked his cousin along).

Of coz my wife was also a bit high la.. but luckily she wasn't aware!

End of the night, both of us fell asleep on the way home and my in-laws have to carry both of us out from the car.

Woke up next morning in the living room couch with a terrible headache!![/COLOR]

[dirtyhairy]

Yo Bro Sex4life,

I like your signature but I think it's too goody, goody kwai, kwai
so instead of:
"The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother".
Me DirtyHairy thinks should change so as to better relate to this thread to read:
The best thing a father can do for children is to make-love to their mother first!
No consumation, no children

[JChoo]

My wife and me tried to have sex before wedding but we were unsuccessful due to ignorance. It feels terribly difficult to have intercourse and she was quite afraid too. The wetness and lubrication were missing and I didn't know that KY existed.

In the end, we only petted and kissed. This lasted for almost 2 years and watching porn movies together didn't provide the education required for intercourse.

In the wedding nite, a few of her gfs hide in the room and only appeared when we were naked. Very paisey to be naked in front of 4 of her friends. They actually joined us in bed and make us play stupid games completely naked. I had an errection looking at her pretty friends in quite sexy clothes and they also touched me here and there but not the most critical part. They left about 2 hours later.

Both my wife and me fell asleep as I left the counting of the money to my brother in law to help. Just paid everything by credit card and settle the bill later. Did not managed to have sex in the first three months of marriage, until two of her married gfs came to our place to guide us in it. Damn embarassing but it was nice to have 2 girls guiding and encouraging me and my wife when in a room together. Now, I am quite good at sex but age is catching up and I am getting old and not so strong.

[sex4LiFe]

Originally Posted by dirtyhairy

Yo Bro Sex4life,

I like your signature but I think it's too goody, goody kwai, kwai
so instead of:
"The best thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother".
Me DirtyHairy thinks should change so as to better relate to this thread to read:
The best thing a father can do for children is to make-love to their mother first!
No consumation, no children

LOL! ... which i'm trying to do every morning before i leave for work.. before i meet my FB in the evening for sex romp (but of coz not everydae la.. 2-3 times a week)

but haizz.. sometimes she just ain't so turned on in the morning..maybe it's coz we already have 2 young and notti "monkeys" liao so she scared accidently pop out one more!

[sex4LiFe]

Originally Posted by JChoo

My wife and me tried to have sex before wedding but we were unsuccessful due to ignorance. It feels terribly difficult to have intercourse and she was quite afraid too. The wetness and lubrication were missing and I didn't know that KY existed.

In the end, we only petted and kissed. This lasted for almost 2 years and watching porn movies together didn't provide the education required for intercourse.

In the wedding nite, a few of her gfs hide in the room and only appeared when we were naked. Very paisey to be naked in front of 4 of her friends. They actually joined us in bed and make us play stupid games completely naked. I had an errection looking at her pretty friends in quite sexy clothes and they also touched me here and there but not the most critical part. They left about 2 hours later.

Both my wife and me fell asleep as I left the counting of the money to my brother in law to help. Just paid everything by credit card and settle the bill later. Did not managed to have sex in the first three months of marriage, until two of her married gfs came to our place to guide us in it. Damn embarassing but it was nice to have 2 girls guiding and encouraging me and my wife when in a room together. Now, I am quite good at sex but age is catching up and I am getting old and not so strong.

all i can say is.. YOUR WIFE GOT VERY GOOD FRIENDS!!!

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by JChoo

My wife and me tried to have sex before wedding but we were unsuccessful due to ignorance. It feels terribly difficult to have intercourse and she was quite afraid too. The wetness and lubrication were missing and I didn't know that KY existed.

In the end, we only petted and kissed. This lasted for almost 2 years and watching porn movies together didn't provide the education required for intercourse.

In the wedding nite, a few of her gfs hide in the room and only appeared when we were naked. Very paisey to be naked in front of 4 of her friends. They actually joined us in bed and make us play stupid games completely naked. I had an errection looking at her pretty friends in quite sexy clothes and they also touched me here and there but not the most critical part. They left about 2 hours later.

Both my wife and me fell asleep as I left the counting of the money to my brother in law to help. Just paid everything by credit card and settle the bill later. Did not managed to have sex in the first three months of marriage, until two of her married gfs came to our place to guide us in it. Damn embarassing but it was nice to have 2 girls guiding and encouraging me and my wife when in a room together. Now, I am quite good at sex but age is catching up and I am getting old and not so strong.

wahh ... damn kinky sia ... to hav women watching u n ur wife at it .. hahaha ... abit like some jap av lahh ...

u shld hav asked them to join in then .. akekeke ... no offense bro but ur experience quite unique lahh ...

[JChoo]

Yup, we still maintain quite close friendship with her gfs. We just had our quarterly lunch together, with their husbands too.

We, the husbands actually gang up and got our wives to be dressed sexily and when they are at my place, all the wives would be braless. Quite an experience but we keep it within a small community. No swinging, just play majong and card games together. Most of the time, the wives stick together and the husbands will talk about their wives and world events. One of the samster is actually my wife's gf's husband.

We had quite a good laugh everytime we meet. Although, sex life is quite good, I am still tempted to take supplements from the forbidden fruits outside marriage.

Originally Posted by sex4LiFe

all i can say is.. YOUR WIFE GOT VERY GOOD FRIENDS!!!

[JChoo]

My wife is quite jealous type. Her close gfs are really close to her and therefore they feel quite alright but joining in the sex part as in participating in sexual intercourse together is a long shot.

Originally Posted by gilagila100

wahh ... damn kinky sia ... to hav women watching u n ur wife at it .. hahaha ... abit like some jap av lahh ...

u shld hav asked them to join in then .. akekeke ... no offense bro but ur experience quite unique lahh ...

[vkoolboi]

I wish my wife got good friends. I don't mind being watched by her good friends while my wife has sex with me.

Count your blessings and hope that better and more interesting things will go your way. Cheers.