Meet prc gf parent in PRC

[korean]

Hi bros,

Anyone mind to share your stories or stories u heard of meeting your prc gf 's parent in prc? Many thx!

[ShittyAss]

Originally Posted by korean

Hi bros,

Anyone mind to share your stories or stories u heard of meeting your prc gf 's parent in prc? Many thx!

Different Prc standard different parents expectation man..

What's up? U meeting yours?

[korean]

Originally Posted by ShittyAss

Different Prc standard different parents expectation man..

What's up? U meeting yours?

yeah maybe in 3 months time.

u got any story to share?

[Johnbass]

Tiagong the entire PRC village will be there to welcome you...

[a2014]

TS, you really want to meet one ?

It all depends on where they stay. If in the village then most likely the whole clan will welcome you especially when the know where you come from.

This was told to me by PRC lady who has a decent job here. Even they go home once a year or two each trip they have to spend close to 20K SGD alone so if you are going there as a bf you know how much you need to throw away.

Hopefully what you see is a decent family that don't ask for much.

Take Care

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

TS, you really want to meet one ?

It all depends on where they stay. If in the village then most likely the whole clan will welcome you especially when the know where you come from.

This was told to me by PRC lady who has a decent job here. Even they go home once a year or two each trip they have to spend close to 20K SGD alone so if you are going there as a bf you know how much you need to throw away.

Hopefully what you see is a decent family that don't ask for much.

Take Care

it is not about want or not...

Yes I did hear many complaining not dare to go back to hometown (especially cny) as need to spend alot on gifts etc...(even my part time maid aso say so). Luckily my gf parent is not money minded, same for her too. She didnt spend much (not even rmb 20k I think) on the trip back to her hometown after one and a half year.

But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...

[Harvest]

Originally Posted by korean

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But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...

Dun worry bro, if your gf's parents know that you are from SG, all cultural barriers and walls will be torn down immediately!

[korean]

Originally Posted by Harvest

Dun worry bro, if your gf's parents know that you are from SG, all cultural barriers and walls will be torn down immediately!

rolfmao! seriously, some of them dunno where is singapore

[justl00king]

TS bro, u want prc story? Ok...I share one

Got to know a chio prc in SG, we will hangout n chill everytime she is here.
After some time, once while she's back in prc, I received a call from her, ask me to go visit.
She mention had spoken to parents few times about me, so they would like to meet me
Told her to book hotel for me, she said no need, just come n she arrange all for me.

When I reach airport, she already there waiting for me, pick me up in her luxury car and go makan. After the meal, ask her where we going, she said surprise.
So I just go with the flow, she drove to one luxury condo, told me it's her place and she's staying alone. Later I found out the condo actually paid for by a SG guy.

After a couple days of showing me around, third day went to meet her parents. They were happy to see me, we got along well. Her parents told me to take good care of her, which I mention only natural, will do so. In my mind, thinking I could be an excuse to her parents, so she can come SG often on the pretext to see me, but actually to make more $. I stayed at her condo for a week, had fun, n soon time to go back. She sent me to airport, saying she will come soon to see me again.

If bros interested to know what happen after that, let me know to continue

[justl00king]

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...

[orangeproud]

Originally Posted by justl00king

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...

Bro Justl00king, seems like ur story's r getting more spicier n exciting, pls continue or update us when u r free.

[korean]

Originally Posted by justl00king

This story not related to meeting parents, dun mind I just share here too

One time while in casino, spotted a prc chiobu playing at one of the tables.
I sat down same table, changed some chips to play, while glancing at her from time to time.
She return with a smiley look, so I chatted her up. After the gaming session, we went makan to chat, got to know more about her.

Following up, she would jio me to go casino or outings. When we go casino, she play with her own money and we just have fun (wait for it). I think on our second or third date, we ended up in hotel. After that, she would say save the hotel money, just go to her place. She stay alone in a rented apartment.

One time in casino, we playing at different table. She came to me saying lost all her $.
So I pass her 2K ask her go play, losses I absorb, winnings she keep. She came back later with even more chips, told me my 2K gave her luck, won a few K and she pass me back all the chips. (wait for it) I told her just pass me back 2K will do, keep the winnings as I'm a man of my word, but she said no. So end up told her just split the winnings half half which she accept, we went back to her place again after that. Later on one time when we are together, she ask me to be her BF. Told her too soon, I do like her but let's see how things go.

( the wait for it part) After some time, she started to "borrow" from me, saying loss money in casino. Just a few K here and there, I just pass to her. She did try to return me once, but I was busy to go meet her, next time when I saw her again, she told me loss money again, I told her it's ok, no hurry. After that, will be requests to help her pay rent, about 2.5K a month.

Should I continue?...

interesting story. share at ur will and pls help urself here as long as it is real be it urs or others

[a2014]

Originally Posted by korean

Luckily my gf parent is not money minded, same for her too. She didnt spend much (not even rmb 20k I think) on the trip back to her hometown after one and a half year.

But thanks for bringing this up as I have yet to think on this aspect. I'm more worry of the culture, acceptance of different province (not even talk abt different country!), etc...

TS, who this gf of yours you are talking, if not wrong in your past threads there were quite a few you are talking about if I have not remember wrongly. Pardon me if I have mixed them all up.

One very basic thing, give them your expectation let them manage it. I guess this will be better than asking around. Different people, different encounter and again different girl different character, different expectation so difficult to compare be it a decent girl or and experience girl.

Not all experience girl are bad and not all decent girl are good either.

Take Care.

[korean]

Originally Posted by a2014

TS, who this gf of yours you are talking, if not wrong in your past threads there were quite a few you are talking about if I have not remember wrongly. Pardon me if I have mixed them all up.

One very basic thing, give them your expectation let them manage it. I guess this will be better than asking around. Different people, different encounter and again different girl different character, different expectation so difficult to compare be it a decent girl or and experience girl.

Not all experience girl are bad and not all decent girl are good either.

Take Care.

yes she is Baby. It is not to discuss abt marriage but get to know daughter bf during the 1st meetup.

yes agree different ppl different encounter etc...just want to hear other ppl experience that all...

she said the biggest hurdle is having the same surname as her dad n auntie/uncle were look down by others during their young age due to same surname of her grandparents. Just quoting one of the example which is unheard or something new, at least to me.

[esssinine]

better meet them on skype or wechat cheaper n safer