Is it ok to fuck around if your wife/gf dont give u sex?

[sadfa]

i dedicate this thread to our bro frankiestine becos he brought it up.
i dont mean he fuck around.

what if b4 u married or gone steady, your wife or gf let u fuck her 1001 style n say after married or get steady, this will continue.

u think ho say liao! u marry her or agree 2 go steady but she turn 180 degree n say "tired lar, dont want to fuck la, fuck once a week enuff la, dont want to try different style la, want u 2 buy tiffany's necklace b4 fuck la ..."

u insist, but she throw things at u, cry or say u treat her as sex object, love her body but not her.

if this happen, do u think its justified for u to fuck around.

after all, im a man n i have high sex drive.

or should we lan lan n live with it n pcc in toilet regularly becos we should respect the sanctity of marriage or becos we choose the charbor, we lan lan, have 2 live with it.

[hellfrezz77]

well bro, i guess its really wrong to fuck around after marriage, but in ur case, well who wont go out to party if u cant get any at home rite. its not that u r not faithful or anything, its just that u get none, zip, so how to tahan rite, i guess its not all that wrong when u have an excuse huh!!! so its up to u anyway, so enjoy urself bro. cheer!!!!

[Siong2]

Actually I very sad to hear these types of stories de..

Originally Posted by sadfa

want u 2 buy tiffany's necklace b4 fuck la ..."

I find this too much for a wife to do..... She treating herself as what????

Originally Posted by sadfa

or should we lan lan n live with it n pcc in toilet regularly becos we should respect the sanctity of marriage or becos we choose the charbor, we lan lan, have 2 live with it.

Why must we guys lan lan?
When they wan things and can't get, they throw things...
When we wan things which they dun give.... they also throw things.

For me, I will chiong man, will release everything outside if she can't help me to release them..
But of cos at the end of the day, the real lan lan thing is that we must remember to go home if you still wants that family.

Hai~~~~ Why are there such unreasonable beautiful creatures. Heehee, ofcos the above mentioned are only applicable to some of those beautiful creatures.... wait me kena zap by all the "she"

Just my 5 cents worth of opinion.

[ANOA1]

If the wife never do her job to satisfy her man, I think it is OK the man get himself some form of relief somewhere.

[yanki1]

a horny man is an angry man. a very horny man is a dangerous man. a super horny man is a superman, he will do anything and only he himself can stop it

Originally Posted by yanki1

a horny man is an angry man. a very horny man is a dangerous man. a super horny man is a superman, he will do anything and only he himself can stop it

Agree on the above as your insticts will take over thanks to the male hormones that constantly tells us to procreate.

You can tahan, but it can be frustrating. Anyone keen to try out this experiment? Cold turkey from sex or self stimulation is not fun when your brain tells you to get off.

However, it is still true that in most instances, your big head is still able to control your small head. Only in extreme psychological instances does your small head rule supreme. Then you will probably need a lawyer if you get caught.

[euks]

Moral values are set by traditions, society and social factors. They are generally humans ideas and what is right are usually just popular opinions.

In my own dictionary, I call them human bullshit. It is justifiable if you can come out with enough human bullshit to convince others that what you do is "ethical"

if you can convince your own wife againts popular opinions that you have the right to fuck around, that is it justifiable lor.
If you can't, and have to resort to fucking around behide her back, then it is not justiable lor.

After all, in our world, what you think is right does not matter. What matters is what other think is right.

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by yanki1

a horny man is an angry man. a very horny man is a dangerous man. a super horny man is a superman, he will do anything and only he himself can stop it

hahaha... i believe wonder woman can stop him, but linda carter has retired.

on the topic, most men may or will still fuck around no matter how wonderful the wife is. no need for any justification. when wife dont let husband bonk or vice versa, its a big problem beyond the normal understanding of outsiders. only the couple know what is actually happening.

Originally Posted by euks

Moral values are set by traditions, society and social factors. They are generally humans ideas and what is right are usually just popular opinions.

True, if you were an eskimo, then you would have to lend your wife to your guest for the night. If you were the guest, then you would rightfully be allowed to commit adultery in Iceland.

Originally Posted by euks

In my own dictionary, I call them human bullshit. It is justifiable if you can come out with enough human bullshit to convince others that what you do is "ethical"

True, although we do feel that this, ahem "conservative" island should not have immoral practices, it is still humans that dictates what is considered to be immoral in a society.

Originally Posted by euks

if you can convince your own wife againts popular opinions that you have the right to fuck around, that is it justifiable lor.
If you can't, and have to resort to fucking around behide her back, then it is not justiable lor.

Frankly, if brudders here truly love their wife, not many can accept the fact that your wife is doing someone behind your back. Just turn the table around and see how it feels like sitting in the hot seat for a change. If your wife and you are swingers, then by all means, since you guys are agreeable and have laid the rules straight. If not, you might want to re-consider before getting hitched. Its not about popular opinion, we are talking about human instinct. Biologically, men's brains have been hard wired to want to possess things. Women included. You will not be that willing to share unless you are really that enlightened. Its Caveman mentality 101. For men, the bitch bit is that we are constantly told to procreate with as many partners as possible so as to ensure the survival of our offsprings, but the irony is that if a modern man loves a woman, he would still return to her, but she would have a divorce settlement waiting for his signature. Some guys then realise how much they love their wife and try to mend things. This ain't easy. If your wife has been unfaithful, you will find it hard to accept the fact and move on too. I am in no way trying to justify men's behaviour in "dining-out", but just stating the facts as I have seen to many of this instances. At the end of the day, its not about convincing your partner to allow you to have multiple partners, but convincing yourself if she requests the same of you in allowing her to have multiple partners as well.

Originally Posted by euks

After all, in our world, what you think is right does not matter. What matters is what other think is right.

True, we have social/moral/legal obligations as a member of society, thats what enables society to function. Not perfectly in the sense of utpoia, but for a sense of order. Although some might argue that too much enforcement might lead to a policed society. True again, but it is what keeps soceity sane. And it is true gradaul evolution in society that allows us to improve and adapt to changes in life.

Simply put, no brudder here would "think" that the raping of their wife/daughter/gf to be right, even though the ten rapist that commited the act might "think" its ok.

Can we actually live with the fact that we would really one day be that "open-minded" or "enlightened"?

I always tell my clients, be careful what you wish for. It just might happen and you could live to regret it.

Oh....for brudder Frank.

My you know my reasoning lah, but what can I say brudder, I know its tough on your "end". hehe.....

Make do brudder. See you have been holding on and keeping it together. Just try your best lah.

if wife ask 4 tifany necklace... i ask her fxxk off... how ex is tt

definitely ok 2 fxxk ard in this case. teach her e power of $40 versus hundred plus worth 2 buy tt stupid necklace

[blackheart]

IMHO, there is no right or wrong. The man seeking sex outside of his marriage will be able to give 101 reasons to justify his action. Similarly, the wife can give 101 reasons to refute him.

I am a firm believer that one is responsible for one's own actions. If your wife cannot fulfil your sexual needs and you choose to accept a life of "celibacy", then don't regret that you have wasted your life when you are lying on your deathbed.

Similarly, if you cannot accept a life of "celibacy" and choose to seek sex outside your marriage, then don't regret when your wife finds out and seeks a divorce.

Too many people makes decision without seriously considering the consequences that comes with that decision. That's the reason why they live with regrets.

Blackheart

[medicheng]

we men ain't no saint, if we dun get rid of our horniness, others might suffer?

keke.... up to individuals i think, right or wrong u should decide yourself...

It's hard to say whether is right or wrong as this is very subjective. And I definitely agreed with some bros here mentioned that we got to be responsible for anything that we do. At the end of the day, it's very important to go back to where we belongs, and that's our home sweet home.

[youngboy99]

i think its wrong to do that.. just like why you don't steal when you need money