First time visiting hookers. Help!

[incognito]

Veterans in the know, I beseech you for your input on the matter. Thanks a lot!

I'm considering visiting hookers for the first time as some of them are really gorgeous - not the licensed ones in GL but FLs as the quality of those seem higher. However, I'm very fearful of contracting STDs, especially HIV, since it's the only fatal STD.

My current understanding is that as long as you use a condom for FJ, the risk is negligible. The risk for BBBJ and CIM is also very low. However, I'm also into painting, fingering, and frenching. The following are my questions:


1. Is my understanding of the risks of FJ, BBBJ, and CIM correct?

2. Are the risks for frenching, painting, fingering as low as those of the a/m?

3. Is HIV less common than other STDs?

4. Is there something with respect to the risk of contracting HIV I am unaware of that those who regularly visit FLs know about, such that they can maintain this practice in the long term with no qualms? Are they really willing to accept exposing themselves to catching HIV, the chances of which albeit slim? For me, even 1% chance is too much. Does it mean that whenever you do so you are sort of playing russian roulette, gambling with your life, if you will? I mention HIV only as other STDs, though unpleasant obviously, are not fatal.

5. On an unrelated note, is it always good to jack off before you visit a hooker so as to get your money's worth? i.e. take longer to cum. Off course, the obvious drawback is the experience will not be so pleasurable since you are less horny.

6. One thing that has always puzzled me is why hookers indicate 1 shot in addition to 1 hour. If you cum, say, after 30 mins, why can't the hooker let you cum again since there's another half hour remaining? It's not as if some resource of hers dwindles by letting you cum again right? Her earnings don't get reduced too as she still would spend no more than the agreed 1 hour with you.


Thanks!

[BluePower]

How many sections u wanna post in?

[sammyboyfor]

1. HIV is no longer fatal. It can be managed just like many other chronic infections.

2. Other STDs, while not fatal either, can ruin your life. EG, Herpes can result in continuous outbreaks and your life will be miserable and your future relationships will be affected. HPV can cause penile and throat cancer later in life.

3. There is no way to quantify risk as there are so many variables. When it comes to catching something, life is black and white... you either catch it 100% or you don't. I've know guys who have fucked whores for more than 20 years and caught nothing while some have ended up with Herpes after a single encounter.

4. If you're paranoid about catching something, DON'T VISIT WHORES. You'll be sick with worry after the act. Paranoia is often worse than the diseases you're worried about. You could end up a mental case.

5. Life is inherently risky and you can also catch nasties from a girlfriend.

6. My advice.... stick to jerking off. It's 100% risk free.

[Totallyuseless]

Got to ask << totally>> he is knowleagble

[fictionman]

Once u go, aint no turnin back bro

[incognito]

Originally Posted by fictionman

Once u go, aint no turnin back bro

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, are you speaking as someone who has never done it, or are you someone who has and is unable to stop?

[proseek]

Originally Posted by incognito

Veterans in the know, I beseech you for your input on the matter. Thanks a lot!

I'm considering visiting hookers for the first time as some of them are really gorgeous - not the licensed ones in GL but FLs as the quality of those seem higher. However, I'm very fearful of contracting STDs, especially HIV, since it's the only fatal STD.

My current understanding is that as long as you use a condom for FJ, the risk is negligible. The risk for BBBJ and CIM is also very low. However, I'm also into painting, fingering, and frenching. The following are my questions:


1. Is my understanding of the risks of FJ, BBBJ, and CIM correct?

2. Are the risks for frenching, painting, fingering as low as those of the a/m?

3. Is HIV less common than other STDs?

4. Is there something with respect to the risk of contracting HIV I am unaware of that those who regularly visit FLs know about, such that they can maintain this practice in the long term with no qualms? Are they really willing to accept exposing themselves to catching HIV, the chances of which albeit slim? For me, even 1% chance is too much. Does it mean that whenever you do so you are sort of playing russian roulette, gambling with your life, if you will? I mention HIV only as other STDs, though unpleasant obviously, are not fatal.

5. On an unrelated note, is it always good to jack off before you visit a hooker so as to get your money's worth? i.e. take longer to cum. Off course, the obvious drawback is the experience will not be so pleasurable since you are less horny.

6. One thing that has always puzzled me is why hookers indicate 1 shot in addition to 1 hour. If you cum, say, after 30 mins, why can't the hooker let you cum again since there's another half hour remaining? It's not as if some resource of hers dwindles by letting you cum again right? Her earnings don't get reduced too as she still would spend no more than the agreed 1 hour with you.


Thanks!

Save yourself the anxiety. I was so worried about STD's my first visit, that it bothered me for the next 2 months at least.

The anxiety is not worth the hour of pleasure.

[doubletap]

Originally Posted by incognito

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, are you speaking as someone who has never done it, or are you someone who has and is unable to stop?

means: once u touch hookers, u ll forever (most of them) be having external girlfrds, flings, hooks, etc..........

[Goater123]

Just make sure you wear condom and to remove it carefully. Condom if used properly elimnate most of the risk. and dont get fluids into your mouth.

[incognito]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

1. HIV is no longer fatal. It can be managed just like many other chronic infections.

2. Other STDs, while not fatal either, can ruin your life. EG, Herpes can result in continuous outbreaks and your life will be miserable and your future relationships will be affected. HPV can cause penile and throat cancer later in life.

3. There is no way to quantify risk as there are so many variables. When it comes to catching something, life is black and white... you either catch it 100% or you don't. I've know guys who have fucked whores for more than 20 years and caught nothing while some have ended up with Herpes after a single encounter.

4. If you're paranoid about catching something, DON'T VISIT WHORES. You'll be sick with worry after the act. Paranoia is often worse than the diseases you're worried about. You could end up a mental case.

5. Life is inherently risky and you can also catch nasties from a girlfriend.

6. My advice.... stick to jerking off. It's 100% risk free.

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, are you speaking as someone who has never done it, or are you someone who has and is either unable to stop or has stopped?

What I really cannot understand is that even though risk is definitely present, albeit low if condoms are used, respectable and highly-educated people with good careers and lives still visit FLs, as exemplified in the case of the underage FL a while back, where even a school principal was involved. Is the reason that they know that if condoms are used, the risk is virtually nil? If not, it really doesn't make sense for these people to put what they have going for them on the line just for an orgasm.

[DeeDaDee]

I really salute TS to write such long essay to ask so many things....
Imagine those days don't have internet or SBF, who can we consult. We just F and go...

[incognito]

Originally Posted by Goater123

Just make sure you wear condom and to remove it carefully. Condom if used properly elimnate most of the risk. and dont get fluids into your mouth.

Thanks.

By fluids you mean the girl's natural vaginal lube? So means that painting and fingering is risky? What about BBBJ and frenching then?

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by incognito

Thanks for the advice. Just curious, are you speaking as someone who has never done it, or are you someone who has and is either unable to stop or has stopped?

What I really cannot understand is that even though risk is definitely present, albeit low if condoms are used, respectable and highly-educated people with good careers and lives still visit FLs, as exemplified in the case of the underage FL a while back, where even a school principal was involved. Is the reason that they know that if condoms are used, the risk is virtually nil? If not, it really doesn't make sense for these people to put what they have going for them on the line just for an orgasm.

I have never fucked a whore. I don't want to take the risk. It is not worth the consequences for me.

However, everyone has a different perception of risk and some view the risk to be worth the reward. Some are scared shitless after the first episode but gradually get bolder if they emerged unscathed.

Condoms do not make the risk virtually nil. In fact, condoms offer very little protection from viral infections that are transmitted via skin to skin contact eg Herpes and Genital Warts.

At the end of the day, it's your life. Your destiny is in your own hands. If you want reassurance that everything will be fine, it won't come from me as I have seen lives ruined. Check out Dr Tan's blog for a reality check.

Why the need to fuck whores in the first place? Is there something missing in your life? Is it emotional or physical or a combination of both or are you just curious because of all the stories you read here?

[Thug]

Originally Posted by incognito

Thanks.

By fluids you mean the girl's natural vaginal lube? So means that painting and fingering is risky? What about BBBJ and frenching then?

Since u're so afraid of the risks, why do you still wanna go? Most probably you gonna feel super regreted the moment your white soldiers leave the tip of your dick but then after a few days you will want more.

百恶淫为首，十善孝为先 brotha.

[whiplash]

If possible. Don't get started. Once you do there is no turning back. It is an addiction. Difficult to break.