Morality/Ethics of Prostitution

[ChickLuver]

Prostitution is often a inequitably misunderstood word! To most of
us, prostitutes are exclusively sex workers.

In its true meaning, prostitution is the "selling of one's honor". So
befittingly, a prostitute can be a professional – let's say – who
take bribes to compromise or shirk his duties. A prostitute is the
ordinary person who compromises on virtues and honor for monetary
gains or in kind! He / she could take money to stand as false witness
or to hush-up! It could be somebody who takes money to frame another.
Or he could be an assassin! These are the prostitutes of the world
and they hail from all corners of society.

The Bible for instance makes reference to the "Great Prostitute" in
the Book of Revelation. Obviously this refers to the "Great
Corrupter" of mankind and not a supreme fucker whom you wait in line
to pay $1,000 to have mind-blowing sex with. So there are many
prostitutes amongst us and perhaps on par in numbers, if not
exceeding, the number of sex workers. Are you a prostitute?

As for sex workers, they can be considered as being in the personal
service industry. Service obviously pertains to sex. Are they in the
right or in the wrong? Neither, I guess, as they are just humans like
any of us. I personally have seen the humanism in some of them and
have been a recipient of sincere kindness and hospitality from sex
workers. It wasn't that I was patronizing their services but rather
when as a youngster, I needed help from strangers and they were the
ones who answered. On the other hand, I got quite a dressing-down
when I asked a "priest" (no not a Christian one) for 40 cents.

Sex workers have hearts too. Perhaps humility has taught them so much
as against wealth making some of us arrogant, degenerated and
oblivious. I don't discriminate sex workers. In fact I have respect
for them and at times sympathize with them!

There is honor in the sex service too! Firstly they don't force
themselves upon you against your will. Robbers and kidnappers do.
Most of them earn an honest (albeit illegal) living. They rarely hide
the fact that they are sex workers. We have our scruples and values
and they have theirs. Is just that theirs may be different – as with
some of our priorities are different.

Selling sex, though illegal in many countries, is not a heinous
crime. They don't cut you up because they want your wallet. They
don't drop bombs on you while you sleep. Sex workers hail from
different backgrounds and causes for choosing such a profession can
differ from person to person. Most of them are "victims of
circumstances". Some are lured into it while some are tricked and
some are forced. Some see it as a sure way of getting out of abject
poverty. A good number of them willfully chose this profession.

Just as you have humans diving into the sewer to unclog it,
sanitation workers who take care of filth, cadaver collectors and
funeral directors who take care of human "carcasses". They make life
better for us for without them, we have to co-exist with ever-
mounting filth.

Sex workers serve the clientele who at least have a place to go where
they can have their sex – either as a side adventure or for plain
relief. There is no need to let our animal selves go out and rape
women for sex services are available.

Why do people derogatorily "brand" sex workers as "prostitutes"
and "illegitimate" children as "bastards"? Yet they use such services
and constantly produce such children. Shouldn't there be a mark of
appreciation instead?

Some sex workers are nymphomaniacs. They reckon to themselves, why
should they do it for free when they can get paid and still enjoy it.
Furthermore they can also choose their clients. Some women fell like
they are their husband's exclusive prostitute. After all, he puts the
food on the table, hardly talk to her and mount her each time he
feels like it. On top of that, she cannot have other man if she so
desires, expected to bear him children and care for them as well as
put up with the occasional abuse. Then there is the housework,
cooking and cocking! Instead of a prostitute, she may feel more like
a sex slave - since prostitutes are paid and she is not! Why does she
take all this shit? Well because he takes care of her (and the family
he created) by providing a home and the necessities that come with it.

So, it just a question of finances? Now, why can't she be independent
and not allow herself to be "owned" by any man. Via prostitution, she
has her sex and still can earn a lucrative income and she can take
care of herself – minus his children and abuses! What about morals,
values and decorum? "Well, I am not hurting anyone but myself". Now,
does that make practical sense? You can expect that a good measure of
these sex workers are downright practical and smart women.

Sex workers are on level ground as women especially if they lack
looks, education and wealth. They contend with the fact that they
still have a decent pussy as compared to the lady doctor, accountant
etc. and can feel not shortchanged or deprived! She appreciates that
she also has something of "universal demand and monetarily value"!

So why can't society be respectful of sex workers? Why can't men who
use their services be respectful and appreciate them for what they
do? In fact, it's us that need our morals and values scrutinized.
Are we bigots and prejudicial that we compartmentalize and brand
humans? Where did I hear that famous saying: "let he who has not
sinned cast the first stone"?

On the downside, sex workers may receive constant harassment,
mockery, degrading jibes and snares of disapproval from the public at
large. If it's illegal they get harassed by the authorities and are
victimized by corrupt officials. They risk bodily harm each time they
ply their routes or accept a customer's offer. They risk getting
murdered by deranged people who see them as easy prey. All of Jack
the Ripper's victims were sex workers.

They get harassment from violent and blood-sucking pimps. If they are
freelancers, they still can get harassment from their competitors'
pimps. Ultimately, they run high risk of contracting fatal diseases
especially when customers refuse to use protection.

Usually when they pray to God, they ask for understanding and
forgiveness. How many of you ask for things instead? When you want
your kids to pass exams, get somebody who is dying to become well –
no matter if he has been a SOB all along. Some ask to strike the
lottery or a high paying job to ease their financial woes. "I know I
am a sinner – but please grant me this one request"!

Prostitution is also a PhD that acts like a lowlife!

Who's the prostitute now?

[spermmann2003]

Ya, watever. Later i am going geylang, join me?

[Tongue]

Originally Posted by ChickLuver

Who's the prostitute now?

What are u trying to implies in ur thread?

[euks]

US.

Originally Posted by Tongue

What are u trying to implies in ur thread?

Most of us have been a prostitute at some point of our life.

There were many a time where we struggle with the decision of compromising our principles, pride or honor for an easier way out.

We are really not much better than a sex worker who have to endure the humiliation of having sex with someone she detest.

[evo065]

I have no idea what you are trying to get at mate.

[Hazeline]

Originally Posted by evo065

I have no idea what you are trying to get at mate.

Correct me if I am wrong.
I think threadstarter is trying to say everyone of us is a pros (1 way or another)
It is the nature of service offer is differ.... Tio bo??

[Sureshoot]

Chim ah..

[euks]

I generally hate most singaporean women. Alot of them I come across with are prostitute wearing a business suit.

While sex worker offer sex services for money, alot of singaporean women offer "the fake possibility of having sex or being in a relationship with her" in exchange of whatever she want or need.
She tease and misled and rip you of your time, effort, emotions and money and yet continute to think they are oh, I am miss high class. I am so cute and adorable. I can't help it if people want to fall in love with me. I AM JUST BEING NICE BY NOT REJECTING THEM SO AS NOT TO HURT THEIR FEELINGS!

These women are not only prostitutes. They are also a swindler.

Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

[Hazeline]

Originally Posted by euks

I generally hate most singaporean women.
These women are not only prostitutes. They are also a swindler.

Cool down bro.
That is the reason why i am into globalisation.

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by euks

Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

bro euks, i like ur post. perhaps u wanna share some of ur real life experience with us? thanks...

jimbo

[The_Hustler]

Whatever it is, the threadstarter does certainly make some senses in the morality/ethnics issue. I for once, enjoyed reading and it made me ponder for thoughts. Fresh compared to the stale FRs and countless talk cocks flooding the forum nowadays.

I think he deserves more rep point than this - I've given him 9pts.

Appreciative,
The Hustler

[Lonev]

Originally Posted by ChickLuver

Who's the prostitute now?

Once a wise man ever said "...He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her...."


If only i got the power, i'd have upped your point...
Good on you!

[free]

Originally Posted by Tongue

What are u trying to implies in ur thread?

Dun think he is implying anything in particular but just giving us a different and wider perspective on that term.

Read with an open mind, its really interesting food for thought and nothing offensive at all.

[Cheri_Popper]

Prostitution is the oldest and easliest profession for a woman to earn $.

There were already whorehouses in ancient China and Rome even before BC let alone AD!

There is not much difference between anicent men and modern men. When there's a demand, there's always a supply!

[Toyota Honda]

Originally Posted by euks

Too often, I see those classic Mr-nice-guy turn devil after being taken for a ride for most of his life.

That is why I am never true to any girls since the last day of 2004 when she broke off with me... To me, girls are just there for us guys to play and if possible, get one to settkle down and produce offsprings.