Another Singkie man screwed by Women's Charter

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An honorable member of the Coffee Shop Has Just Posted the Following:

Hi Gilbert
Thanks for your kind concern.
So far I have attended about 10 court hearings, but still I don’t get to access/see my children.
Yet the court/ judge still hasn’t taken any action on her for breaching the court order.
At the last hearing on auxiliary matter, it was even worst – I lost my children’s care and control, matrimonial flat, need to transfer my CPF to her (which my solicitor still don’t know why under Women’s Act), maintenance $1200 /month for children + $600/month for her (total $1.8K a month – my income is only $4K/ month).
I also need to pay her legal fees of $4500 and the family service centre (pay to see my children – ridiculous) – really out to make money from victim like me!
Worst , this district Judge even stated in the latest court order asking me continue every Saturday for access (11am to 5pm) – go pick my children.
But actual fact is this has not been happening for past many many months as my ex-spouse refuses to co-operate! The police were always there waiting for me when I went up to see my children and the gate was locked too!
All these are ridiculous to me as I am not the one at fault here – my ex-wife found another person and I have to pay the price!?
I told my counsellor after these few court-mandated sessions, I will definitely lose my children forever due to this unfair law which is still protecting the women.
Counsellor told me her job is follow court order and finish her report to court.
The rest I have to go my lawyer. But my lawyer is also avoiding me!
So stressful, painful, lost, powerless, helpless and hopeless for me now. Badly affecting my sleep, job, appetite, etc.
I have to secretly spy on my children from afar at their school in case it upsets the court order! I am close to them and miss them alot…
If you could help me, please


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