One sided

[manyheart]

Have anyone feels like they have a one sided feeling towards someone... feel lost if the other party dont talk to you or ignore you?
At first they flirt with you and make you feel good but subsequently distance from you when you start to have some feeling with them?

[Wintermelontea]

you already stated flirt...

[chanster]

Go to hanging flower and u will know this is common , go b to school

[prettymannequin]

Originally Posted by Wintermelontea

you already stated flirt...

Yea flirting nia.

TS, no point pining! Move on.

[manyheart]

ya... like anti climax kind... one moment, one moment cold ... si bei jia luck...

[eatingcrayons]

Don't feel discouraged! No one cruises through life without experiencing at least once and if anything, best to feel this way when you are young. You know why? It forces you to take a long hard look at yourself and ask why aren't you THAT guy. Not everyone is your cup of tea, and just the same way, not everyone is her cup of tea. Sometimes you just flirt because you can and it doesn't have to go anywhere. That is precisely what you should do to slowly build up your 'game' or your confidence level. Find out what you lack and improve it! You will be a chick magnet in no time

[Mr_don_juan]

Originally Posted by manyheart

Have anyone feels like they have a one sided feeling towards someone... feel lost if the other party dont talk to you or ignore you?
At first they flirt with you and make you feel good but subsequently distance from you when you start to have some feeling with them?

I don't quite understand your question.

If she flirt with you and distance herself than you go flirt with other girls and make her jealous? The flirting should be light hearted and not serious.

This isn't anything new, most girls in pub, disco flirt for fun even if they may have no interest in you. You keep your distance and flirt back, she touch you, you tease her back. Sometimes if you talk in her ear lightly, and by blowing in her ear, you can create sexual energy. She will make out if she’s interested.

[loneyheart]

TS yr name stated all u too many heart

[manyheart]

thank you all so some good advice... may be i shoukd just take a step back and see see...

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by prettymannequin

Yea flirting nia.

TS, no point pining! Move on.

oi! you keep quoting me later i kena your suitors zap again hor...

[Wintermelontea]

Originally Posted by manyheart

ya... like anti climax kind... one moment, one moment cold ... si bei jia luck...

that's y u unlucky ma...flirting rule is like that one la. the first to feel something (negative) is the loser...

[Ken79]

bro its the same thing as shopping la, u see something u like (a phone, shirt, etc) but after trying n some deliberation u decided its not to your taste... u cant buy and bring home everything u set your eyes on mah...

same thing for this gal, at first sight she might have gain an interest on you but on further thought, she decided otherwise.

[conquer]

If you pay enough attention, this kinda things happen always. Just the matter is we didn't even care about it if that person is just a random person or just a normal friend.

That person who treated like this didn't mean to hurt your feeling. Just you care about her reaction to you too much.

[manyheart]

hmm ... how not to think of her... there is some kind of spell...

[johnthiomas]

Ahh..the beauty of infatuation..everything revolves around her..it's just so nice to believe that SHE is the one that makes the world turn and the sun keeps setting in west..

back to your question ..first it looks like she is interested in you..then you feel that it looks lie you have a chance..you start making advances..she avoids you for no reason..gives you cold shoulder..then boom..falling into that bottomless pit again..just keep missing & thinking bout her..

Honestly bro..this happens all time & every single time I take a liking to a girl