fall for colleague!!!

[jakelkh5]

dangerous game but dont know how to get out... any advise?

[fishing around]

u married? attached? same department?
she married? attached? working in HR/Finance?

In general not good as touchy and can damage yourself in long run if not handled properly (speaking from experience).

[georgemagnum]

Originally Posted by fishing around

u married? attached? same department?
she married? attached? working in HR/Finance?

In general not good as touchy and can damage yourself in long run if not handled properly (speaking from experience).

Gd qns .... HR? Finance? Big no no ....

gm

[Wintermelontea]

Wah. Don't eat and shit in the same place bro.

Getting out depends on how deep you have gone in? Provide more details?

[jakelkh5]

not married, hr or fin but i am married...

now only on surface only ... hope am able to pull myself together and get out....

[esssinine]

find another job

[jakelkh5]

i am looking for one.... if not i will keep sliding deeper... sigh

[conquer]

Seems to be fun... Can bang in office toilet during lunch hour. Hmm...

[Lamborghini]

It is going to be tough. You have to pull through.

For your future.

For your family.

[damong777]

Better not risk it...

[HappyOwl]

Originally Posted by jakelkh5

i am looking for one.... if not i will keep sliding deeper... sigh

Bro. jakelkh5, if you are doing well in your current role, there is no need for you to make this sacrifice because it brings home bread and butter.

She has nothing to lose. You have a whole family to lose. Never never never slide too deep. It will create another life.

Unless you already D****** before you met her then is fine. But she should never be the reason for you to be single again.

[Wintermelontea]

Don't need to quit. Both are adults and so do the adult way? Talk it over calmly and rationally. And if this works, at least still can maintain as friends.

Job is not so easy to find nowadays. The more senior a position, the harder it is. Think twice.

[loneyheart]

Try not to b alone w her ....

[jakelkh5]

thank you for all the advise... will be rationale and not take risk... hopefully...

[Wintermelontea]

I remembered my ex-colleague said this to me one day,

"It is better to pay and up an escort than to mess around with somebody in here (office). At least it is paid and don't have to worry of the after effects."

And that was during my early career days...stayed with me till today.