lost interest in having sex with gf

cgfreak · #1 23-09-2005, 12:44 AM

fellow samster,

I'm in a dillema here, I've been with my gf for nearly 2 years now. but recently, I seemed to have lost interest in having sex with her. I don't know why exactly, I never seemed to lost interest with doing it with my ex before, but with my current, we seems to be doing it less and less. now maybe just once or twice a month.

Is it some symptoms that I don't really love my gf anymore? she does makes advances on me, but I usually just don't have the mood for it. and she always complains I can't sextify her anyway.

any bros have a similar problem?

desperately need advice here.

asdfghjkl · #2 23-09-2005, 01:14 AM

bro.. think u are upset by her remarks.. u felt threatened by her experience?

Cyberspace Nerd · #3 23-09-2005, 01:16 AM

maybe she always choot the same pattern , so u sianzzzz?

cgfreak · #4 23-09-2005, 01:40 AM

sigh, maybe, coz she always insist on being on top. and if I try doing other pattern, she says pain. she's always dry, I try to finger her first, but she also complain dun wan, and say I'm rough on her. so ended up always one style only. then after I come and she can't come, then complain I am not good.

really fed up sometimes, sien.

what can I do to convince her, maybe try other positions, she might like it better?

Cyberspace Nerd · #5 23-09-2005, 01:46 AM

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Originally Posted by cgfreak

sigh, maybe, coz she always insist on being on top. and if I try doing other pattern, she says pain. she's always dry, I try to finger her first, but she also complain dun wan, and say I'm rough on her. so ended up always one style only. then after I come and she can't come, then complain I am not good.

really fed up sometimes, sien.

what can I do to convince her, maybe try other positions, she might like it better?

bro, a dilemma indeed.
since she dont like your finger, how about try using your tongue?
when she is dry and you finger her, of course not comfortable. try applying saliva or lubricant then u finger, the feeling is different.
maybe you can try to satisfy her first before you satisfy yourself?

maybe u can try watching porn and then suggest the position to her?

baby · #6 23-09-2005, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by cgfreak

sigh, maybe, coz she always insist on being on top. and if I try doing other pattern, she says pain. she's always dry, I try to finger her first, but she also complain dun wan, and say I'm rough on her. so ended up always one style only. then after I come and she can't come, then complain I am not good.

really fed up sometimes, sien.

what can I do to convince her, maybe try other positions, she might like it better?

Well bro u can try buying some sex toy to excite ur sex life. But if not u can buy KY to put on her n try for other pattern. Next is lick her clit n finger her n some girls like tht alot. Hope this help. Cheers

sanmateo · #7 23-09-2005, 03:15 AM

Maybe there is really no more excitement in your sex life anymore hence the lost of interest. You need to be more creative on bed then!

#8 23-09-2005, 03:47 AM

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Originally Posted by cgfreak

sigh, maybe, coz she always insist on being on top. and if I try doing other pattern, she says pain. she's always dry, I try to finger her first, but she also complain dun wan, and say I'm rough on her. so ended up always one style only. then after I come and she can't come, then complain I am not good.

really fed up sometimes, sien.

what can I do to convince her, maybe try other positions, she might like it better?

Take it easy, try 2 find opportunity 2 talk 2 her n sort things out instead of jus guessing on ur part.......gd luck then

crazysexycool · #9 23-09-2005, 11:06 AM

brother

Its time like this when goin down to a s3x shop to get some books really
help

I am 100% sure some of the bros here have bought them

Learn some and share some wif her, dont tell her everything

The basic secret to substaining a sexual immortality to your relation is to be creative

Buying some toys or kinky stuff sometimes goes a long way for her, tho not all women feel the same way

ask her what her fantasies are and work on them NOT ard them

All girls need love b4 giving u s3x (for GFs or wifes, not professionals)

the above and maybe more from the prev posts will go a long long way to improve the quality and interest

cheers

jjdoggie · #10 23-09-2005, 11:43 AM

I think at least half of use will tend to lose interest with his gf after sometime. Seems yr gf only likes 1 style, well there are several ways doing it.

1)Get some vcds to watch, preferable different positions to entice here and make her wet.
2)if u have a computer, great, feel up yr harddisk with porns and pictures to increase her interests.
3)drinking always helps regardless of wine, cocktails or alcohol then to sex....
4)chat with her nively, compliment her, eg: i'd love to see yr expression in this and that, wqanna make u wet.etc..
5)food,fruits and desserts can more spice to yr life...
6)Sex toys always helps.....
7)like what other bro tells u, Fantasy always helps, every1 of us will have fantasies...

HorseD77 · #11 23-09-2005, 02:36 PM

Bro - try to make her feels good either by giving her oral, and more importantly, you need to make her wet.... if not surely it will be painful for her.

Learn to see her body language and if possible sextisfy her first b4 you release yourself. It must be hard for her not to have the sexual release & i am sure she must have consider carefully b4 telling you that you have not sextisfy her.... not easy for a gal to tell a guy, esp from gf to bf.

tittyhawk · #12 23-09-2005, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by cgfreak

fellow samster,

desperately need advice here.

Perhaps its the mindset that is playing the tricks?

KL_boy · #13 23-09-2005, 10:17 PM

If she is dry bro..Try more fore play. ELse u might wanna try this medication.

TOPAZE- If u are in Malaysia..It is a product by HOE pharmaceuticals.

venture · #14 23-09-2005, 11:01 PM

i also lost interest in my gf.....i think i hav too much chicken rice.....once awhile must eat duck rice or noddle....that the solution...i suppose..

thaivisitor · #15 24-09-2005, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by cgfreak

fellow samster,

I'm in a dillema here, I've been with my gf for nearly 2 years now. but recently, I seemed to have lost interest in having sex with her.

Quote:

Originally Posted by venture

i also lost interest in my gf.....i think i hav too much chicken rice.....once awhile must eat duck rice or noddle....that the solution...i suppose..

Lost interest in having sex with your girlfriends?

I don't think there's really any cause for concern. I'm sure your girlfriends will be able to find someone who will be interested in having sex with them lah...

Does the above statement hurts? Sure it does.

It takes 2 hands to clap, so it takes both to enjoy having sex, and when one loses interest, mind you, so does the other.

I suggest you sit down with your respective partners and have a heart to heart talk. Although there are many suggestions given by fellow bros, it still won't work if your partner don't agree to them.

thaivisitor