Casino Girl True Story - Ending to be decided

[mebirdie]

Story Starts :

I visit Waterfront Casino very often since the Year 2003. I used to tease the junket girls, dealers, waiteresses as well. Most of the girl responded quite well. I think the reason is that I am not quite old (early 30) and always bring about 3K there. I always think of further development but backup. The main reason is that I may ended losing lots and lots of $$$ getting a little or nothing. This usually happens if you want to hook a girls in casino.

One day at end Dec 2003, I play at a table with only 1-2 friends. The female dealer is young (20yrs old), slim with slightly good looking. Since I am a regular, I knew that she has been there for a long time. Suddenly she responded that she seldom speaks during working although she does that now. Strange to me??? Due to this, I remembered her.

From that onwards, whenever I visited the casino, I will try to to for her. I will play on her table whenever she is a dealer. I found out that she get distracted whenever i sit at her table. So this went on two months until the chinese new year of 2004. She suddenly went disappear. I have try to ask other dealers but they do not know where she is. After a week, she is back. Her lips will dry and she looks sick. As she was working only at the rollette table, I was only able to smile and not much conversation. The next day she went disappear again. This time she never return to waterfront again.

For me, as time pass, I give up in looking for her. Reason is because I am Singaporean. So it is not possible to be again to see her again. I think many brothers know that Batam is not like Singapore. It is not easily to meet a person like in orchard road. Furthermore, Chinese in Batam do not move around. Of course, I do not move around batam due to fear. So the possibility is almost zero percent.

I continue to gamble in waterfront. At Dec 2004, some of my junkets went to Planet casino to work. Since I know them, I decided to pay them a visit. Of course, my main purpose is to gamble.

On my second trip to Planet casino, I met the same girl in Planet again. I was shocked and happy about it. She is working there as a dealer. There was no players in her table. I decided not to take any chance but to ask her whether she can give me her telephone number. Surprise, she quietly write down her number on the recording card and leave it on the table. I walk pass and collect the paper.

The next day, I call her. She answer the call and said that she do not feel happy working as a dealer as there is no future. I ask her let come out for a tea and talk. After knowing her working hours, I went to batam center and reach planet. She was in a cab and we went to Mandarin. As I want to show that I am not a active gambler, I just play in Mandarin for 20 mins with small bets and win $100. After which, we went for dinner. She ask me whether the winnings are for her so I decided since it is small amount, just pass it to her. This is like trying to get a BIG fish later. She told me that she wants to work in Singapore but how. For me, I also do not know how? I ask her to follow me back to Singapore and see how. She says she need to go back home and meet me tommorrow morning. After the dinner, she went home and I continue gambling until tommorrow. When I call her, she says that she is not prepared and decided not to go.

After two days, just a week before Chinese New Year in 2005, she suddenly call me that she want to come Singapore today. She emphasied that she only go $100 which I gave her. Of course, I said no problem. Just come and I will paid for all the expenses.

She reached Singapore after noon. I bring her around and ask whether there is jobs. I realised that it is not easy for an indonesian to find a job. At night, she saids that she did not knows what to do. I ask her whether I can become her boyfriend. We have some hugging but no sex at all. After three days, she returned back to batam. Knowing that New Year is coming and she need to go back to Jakarta, I have her $500. Also I bought some Chinese herbs for her as well. That cost about another $100.

Three days later, I realised that she has not returned to Jakarta yet. This is because she has given her parents the $500. Also her friends promise to lend her 2million ruppee for air ticket but did not fulfil. I decided to help the young girl wishes. Until now I did not know whether this is true.

26-Feb-2005, she is back to Singapore for 3 days. After some talks, I decided to give her $300 per month. I created an hotmail account for her and teach her how to surf net. We do not have sex yet.

27-Mar-2005, she is back to Singapore again for 3 days. At that time, she found a job as a shop assistant. That trip is her birthday. I bought her a Nokia 6600. We have sex after much talk. Suddenly, I received a sms from batam saying that Happy Birthay Darling, I will always love you. She told me that it is her true brother and they are so close and talk like lover. On 28-Mar-2005 she says she need to goback and settle something. I say ok.

29-Apr-2005, she is back to Singapore again for 3 days. She told me that she need to do something and need to go back at the next day. I was angry and said that you only stay for 1 day and go back.

When she is back in Batam, i sms her to tell her that i will not ask her to come back to Singapore again. At the end of May, she sent me a message "Are u ok". So we exchanged some messages. At 18 June 2005, she ask me whether can come Singapore. I told her I lost all the money and very poor. She replies saying that I need only to pay for the ferry ticket.

16 July 2005, she said that she want to come Singapore. However, after that, she saids she is not free and change to Sunday. On Sunday morning, I sms her and she did not reply. At about 2pm, she sms me back that she is coming Singapore at 3pm. I went to Harbourfront to meet her and wastold she is going back at 6pm. What can I say?

29-July-2005, I went to Batam. I bought a HI-Card and ask my friend to sms in malay.
Me: I came from Singapore
Gal: Who is that?
Me: You darling from Singapore
Gal: Wrong SMS
Me: You darling from XXX of Singapore
Gal: HP change to another person

14-Aug-2005, I sms her again.
Me: I am going to batam

16-Aug-2005, sms reply
Gal: Change hp already
Me: I know it is you.
Gal: Crazy Man

As I sometimes login her email account created. I am shock seeing the following mail to another guy. It is because the email is invalid then i am able to see the bounce mail.


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From: [email protected]
To: [email protected]
Subject: Delivery Status Notification (Failure)
Date: Mon, 15 Aug 2005 22:25:28 -0700
>This is an automatically generated Delivery Status Notification.
>
>Delivery to the following recipients failed.
>
> [email protected]

Dear,


I want broken to you but your take my ring give another girl, hate you . me wait you

the evening can my answer please ???? me tomorrow going singapore abort your child.,,,,,, very latak

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The next day I call her batam number. Not on. Since I have her Singapore number, I call her. The number rings.
Shit!!! What should I do. Later at night I call the Singapore number, off and the batam number rangs.
My phonebill has the previous number she used to call.

What can I do now? Revenge????

[marji]

Bro,

I hate to say this but I wanna be honest with you.

you create this trap, walked into YOURSELF and now you want revenge on this gal?

This gal probably was smitten by your generousity and attention to her. but you yourself dug this hole. She didn't do anything to you!

my best advice, forget about this whole issue and cut off all ties. Don't not sms her again or try to contact her again. The money you spent just take it as losings in the casino or a very expensive bonk.

Move on my friend!...

my 2 cents worth. No offence!

[mebirdie]

I am not concerned about the money. But it is because I start to like her. She told me she love me so much and in the end......

[mebirdie]

I want to find out the truth. What is the truth?

As what Chinese always said,

When you are killed, you have to know why you are being killed

[Ah_Hia]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

I am not concerned about the money. But it is because I start to like her. She told me she love me so much and in the end......

They all do....dun they all !

Take care and forget about it bro.
cheers !

[Power]

Agree. Should move on. There isn't likely to have a happy ending. Not pouring cold waters but jus trying to be frank!

[mebirdie]

Originally Posted by JT

Brother. So what you find the truth?? No point! Just let it go.Even you know the truth also no use. Wait you soft hearted and lose more money. Frankly, just let it go. Sometime have to die without knowing why. Not knowing is better than knowing.

Join us at TCSSSGL10 this 31st Aug at geylang. Meet the brothers from SBF. Forget abt the episode. More exciting ones ahead of you .All brothers reading this thread also welcome to join.

I realised say is easier than do.
Die without knowing why.
WO JIU SHI BU GAN XIN

[rocket cheongst]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

I want to find out the truth. What is the truth?

As what Chinese always said,

When you are killed, you have to know why you are being killed

I am very straight forward person,

i think you know the truth any better than anyone here, by your story outline, you should already have in mind what to do. You just need general public ( friend's or fellow forummers>??) to agree with you?? I may be wrong.

Forget abt this gal, even she called back and explain everything abt hiding the truth from you because scared u are hurt Bla bla...

its better to start a fresh one....

Simple bro,

The easiest way 2 4get a relationship is 2 start a new 1.......trust me, it works.

[mebirdie]

Originally Posted by rocket cheongst

I am very straight forward person,

i think you know the truth any better than anyone here, by your story outline, you should already have in mind what to do. You just need general public ( friend's or fellow forummers>??) to agree with you?? I may be wrong.

Forget abt this gal, even she called back and explain everything abt hiding the truth from you because scared u are hurt Bla bla...

its better to start a fresh one....

I have thought of calling her batam friends and tell them what happened.
But after Bro JT, Powe, marji, Ah Hia advises, I am still thinking of what to do next. They really wake me. Of course the final decision still lies on me

Originally Posted by mebirdie

They really wake me. Of course the final decision still lies on me

Ya man.......wake up n dun keep thinking of something that may not cum bk again......ter's always greener pasture ond other side of d mountain......cheer up.

[marji]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

I want to find out the truth. What is the truth?

As what Chinese always said,

When you are killed, you have to know why you are being killed

Let it go bro.... no point in persueing the matter further!

the heart might hurt a bit, but it will heal....

go find another bird to help heal your pain bro!!

[rocket cheongst]

Originally Posted by mebirdie

I have thought of calling her batam friends and tell them what happened.
But after Bro JT, Powe, marji, Ah Hia advises, I am still thinking of what to do next. They really wake me. Of course the final decision still lies on me

i think u still ponder's around, its never easy to convince urself that u have to let go....

esp when u are smitten by the gal..... (this one i myself been in this before and i suffered, but for me i am lucky cause i manage to save back what i have lost after one YEAR !!! )

[AHGONG]

Bro...i hv onli 1 advise for u....let go.....the faster u r able to let go the better it is for u...then u can move on with yr life....sometime it is better to not know the true...becos true hurts...ask yrslf whether u can take it and whether it is worth all the trouble....

each day is a lesson.....learn it and improve.....

cheers,
jus my 2 cent

[spidey2278]

For women that ever took money from me and when they say they love me...i onli thrust 50%..and give myself 50% into the relationship!...and those who give me money and yet say they love me..those i would not mind putting my feeling down..