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Surviving An Affair
I met a fren for dinner to catch-up. He is in the midst of saving his marriage after his wife found found he had an affair. He passed me a book on "Surviving An Affair" by Drs. Harley and Chalmers, and said he had just finished reading it and thought probably I would need it too. He is aware that I am in the midst of seeing some else too, and asked me not to play with fire.
Excerpts from the book : "INFIDELITY is one of life's most painful experiences for everyone involved - the betrayed spouse, the children, the extended family members, and even the lover and wayward spouse. So why do people have affairs when they create such sadness ? And once trust is broken, how can a couple ever hope to reconcile ?" The book basically has 4 main points : a. why affairs begin and end b. how to end an affair c. how to restore the marriage after an affair d. how to manage resentment and build trust I will start reading the book. I thought this is a good topic to start a new thread as I can tell from some posts some brudders are divorced because of affairs, go bonking away to numb their unhappy marriage, or got found out for involvement in affairs. Cheers ! [/list]
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Bro, appreciated tat. Good constructive post and a good forewarning to ppl like me!!
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Just be careful not to read the book at home!!!
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Points redemption??? Pls enlighten me. sToNecOlD |
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Good reminder for a start for the new week.
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Bro HP, does the book talk about cheonging, and the OC discover it ?
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a. How to manage an affair b. How not to be discovered while having an affair c. 100 lies for covering up an affair I have had several affairs and, thank goodness, have yet to be discovered. Having said that, it would be good if we could pick up a few more tricks along the way. |
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It is a good tread and a good reminder...... but somehow the lil bro always get the better control and ended starting to have another affair......sianz......
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Bro Horsepower is that book available in MPH or Times
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