Break-Off With PRC need separation fees ... ?

sbfpolis · #1 19-07-2005, 10:05 AM

When we break-off with local local sg gals, we just return the things the other person bought, pack your own things and go...

Recently I am deciding whether to marry my PRC gf of 1 year. She asked me that if we were to break-up, what kind of compensation will I give her. She told me in China the men would give something to the gal when break-up, usually in the form of money. For men who wanna give up on the mistress, she will also get a compensation, usually money or propert assets.

So anybody here encounter this "separation fees" thing ?

mebirdie · #2 19-07-2005, 10:12 AM

As far as what I know, you can promise PRC anything to get her.
Whether you want to fulfil is another thing.

This is my way of life.

kosheen · #3 19-07-2005, 10:13 AM

Tell her this is singapore, there're no such thing as seperation fee. Also tell her not to watch too much TV.

canny · #4 19-07-2005, 10:17 AM

Hey budder u tell her in Sillypore its different.. ger have to pay seperation fee to the guys becos ... she kill so many of your sper*.. no need to pay one huh ..

#5 19-07-2005, 10:18 AM

Borther / is all bull shit . those prc just want $$$ out of u ! u can also tell me the custom in singapore if guy break off with china gal . china gal have to pay a seperation fee . not the other way round .

come on guys are u willing to give money those hardearn $$$ of your to these gals not knowing if they are suppoort ing their bf in china or keeping a gigglo in singapore / we should stand by the bro of ours

sadfa · #6 19-07-2005, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

Recently I am deciding whether to marry my PRC gf of 1 year. She asked me that if we were to break-up, what kind of compensation will I give her. She told me in China the men would give something to the gal when break-up, usually in the form of money. For men who wanna give up on the mistress, she will also get a compensation, usually money or propert assets.

So anybody here encounter this "separation fees" thing ?

actually, some prc never mention it 2 me at all.
when i mention it, they got greedy n say have have!
so, dep on the circum, dont believe there is such thing applied consistently by prc gers.

singexpat · #7 19-07-2005, 10:21 AM

haha.. machiam like break contract...

Castrol · #8 19-07-2005, 10:22 AM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

So anybody here encounter this "separation fees" thing ?

tell her spore also have, but not more than $2.00

sbfpolis · #9 19-07-2005, 10:24 AM

That's why I get very turned off by this suggestion of compensation.

Hoeman · #10 19-07-2005, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

When we break-off with local local sg gals, we just return the things the other person bought, pack your own things and go...

Recently I am deciding whether to marry my PRC gf of 1 year. She asked me that if we were to break-up, what kind of compensation will I give her. She told me in China the men would give something to the gal when break-up, usually in the form of money. For men who wanna give up on the mistress, she will also get a compensation, usually money or propert assets.

So anybody here encounter this "separation fees" thing ?

I also heard of the same thing in China. My gf has a guy classmate who had to pay "compensation" to break off with his gf. But when I asked my gf about whether this is the norm in China, she said no. My guess is it depends on the individual. My advice is fuck them when they ask for compensation. You sacrificed just as much she did in the relationship.

newyorker88 · #11 19-07-2005, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by sbfpolis

When we break-off with local local sg gals, we just return the things the other person bought, pack your own things and go...

So anybody here encounter this "separation fees" thing ?

You want to marry her for life or just for materials? I mean you enter a contract or is it out of love? If she loves you, she will stay with you for life. Not mention about seperation even before marriage.

I think you better consider it properly first. Have a good talk is more important. Afterall, it is a life time thing, not a show of "marriage"

Hope that helps.

Good DAy

MMM88 · #12 19-07-2005, 10:32 AM

Bro sbfpolis......gif me a break.....wow piang....ask her wat if she break off with u???...is she gonna gif u a fee......

in a comospolitan world....wat seperation fee???.....both r willing parties enjoying bonking together (she enjoys too )....n it is so common for couples to break up n looking for new partners (either way)....tell her:
1) we r not in a dark age or cavemen era....
2) it is better to be upfront to tell her tat no compenstaion at all if either party called off t relationship.....if she is ok then continue, if not better say bye bye now......

i hav mani gfs , sillporeans or foreigners, but none had posed me tis question......so if a ger posed such question...she is probably insecure or jus looking for $$$$$........so bro be careful....jus my opinion okie.

sbfpolis · #13 19-07-2005, 10:40 AM

Thanks for all the suggestions and admonishments by samsters here. But any samsters here actually paid the compensation for the mistress like buying her a house when she goes back to China ?

The reason I am asking is because I myself know of some cases. My fren's mistress wanted a house after she complete studies here and go back. And my fren is doing it at Fujian...

Cheri_Popper · #14 19-07-2005, 11:32 AM

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My fren's mistress wanted a house after she complete studies here and go back. And my fren is doing it at Fujian...

It is up to individual to decide.

If you are a Multi Millionaire, what is 50K to 100K to you? But if you just an average worker earning an average pay, you can't afford it even if you wanted to, right?

Always remember that they are here to make a quick buck and at the end of the day, they will return to China.

This incident happened 2 yrs back. I had a friend who was madly in love with a PRC. this friend of mine comes from a well to do family in Malaysia and is a successful businessman. He is also married with 2 kids. This PRC was damn chio and has a devil's body. During the 8 mths that they were together, he gave her a total of nearly RM500,000. (This case happened in Malaysia) for various reasons, mother sick and is in need of operations, Brother want to start business but lack of capital, house in need of repair bcos of flooding, etc. The last draw was that she was going back and asked him for RM 200,000 to buy a house to build their future on. The $ was to buy and renovate a house in her hometown. My friend was totally taken in by her words and gave her the amount in cold hard cash believing that they really do have a future together. Becos of his deep love for her, he actually intend to divorce his wife to be with her!

Subsequently after she left, they kept in contact almost daily for the first 1 month and then out of the blue, there was no calls or SMS from her. Fearing that something unfortunately might have happened to her, my friend asked me to accompany him to China to look for her. (All expense borned by him)

Upon reaching her hometown and going to the address, we discovered that the house was desserted and upon making enquries from her neighbours, we learnt that she had recently moved house with her HUSBAND. They did not give them their new address. My friend was totally devasted.

After this lesson, whenever we go cheonging, he would chase out all the PRC that come into our room only allowing other nationalities to come in.

euphoria777 · #15 19-07-2005, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Cheri_Popper

...After this lesson, whenever we go cheonging, he would chase out all the PRC that come into our room only allowing other nationalities to come in...

other nationalities not greedy???
i feel that once they have decided to sell themselves to make money, money is the only thing in their mind, whether they are PRCs, locals, Viets, Thais whatever....so cheong with your eyes open.