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Old 09-09-2013, 02:08 PM
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what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

As per the title.. what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been sleeping with another guy? If both of you have been together for v long? Would you forgive her?
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Old 09-09-2013, 03:02 PM
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

2 options are present for you:

1) Just treat it simply that you both are incompatible and move on.

2) She's cheating on you normally means that she finds something that you are lacking (not just in terms of your sexuality) or because of it feels insecure because of it. So find out what is it that she feels lacking and see if you want to, or have the ability to cover what she lacks.

P.S, if you are a kid or have not started your career, then only option 1 is available to you.

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Old 09-09-2013, 03:13 PM
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

Definitely not. She will definitely do it again.. Why give yourself the chance to get hurt one more time? Now havn't married already like that, can you imagine how it would be after marriage? Furthermore, imagine catching her chat on you again after marriage and you decide to divorce. You still have to pay alimony, if got children, they will suffer. Move on bro.
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Old 09-09-2013, 04:29 PM
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

I totally understand that ache that you are going thru right now. Why? I went thru the same thing just a few weeks ago.

Been together for 4 years and found out that I was cheated on. Been told it was a fling but I never believed.

If you are a student - Move on. I know it is hard. More to come.

Otherwise, have a real conversation - No holding back. But this does not mean to trash her and scold her. Find out why she did it - Maybe it was your fault too? Not spending enough time with her?

But if you decide to forgive her and move on, you really have to move on. No such thing as in the future using this as an excuse for argument.
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

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As per the title.. what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been sleeping with another guy? If both of you have been together for v long? Would you forgive her?
for me, i will choose to ignore her till silent breakup and move on.


is not about how long u spend with each other. sometime u just have to learn how to let go.

i can accept men cheat but i just cannot accept women cheating hahahhaah

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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

I will have dump her and move on to other for sure.
Perhaps I'm one of those guy that can't tolerate partner for cheating... But me myself can...
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

breakup n move on ba..... as some bros here have highlight, if she can cheat once, she will cheat twice or even more time.
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

No No for me...if u are still young...let it go and move on...theres still alot of galz out there...its just a matter of time....mean wile go and screw up gals out there and remain single first...hehehe
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

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I totally understand that ache that you are going thru right now. Why? I went thru the same thing just a few weeks ago.

Been together for 4 years and found out that I was cheated on. Been told it was a fling but I never believed.

If you are a student - Move on. I know it is hard. More to come.

Otherwise, have a real conversation - No holding back. But this does not mean to trash her and scold her. Find out why she did it - Maybe it was your fault too? Not spending enough time with her?

But if you decide to forgive her and move on, you really have to move on. No such thing as in the future using this as an excuse for argument.
The honorable thing for her to do is to just break up and then sleep with whoever she wants, especially when the couple is not married and there aren't many things holding her back from a break-up.
You should also see whether it was a moment of weakness or whether it was premeditated. The law treats the two differently, and for a good reason. I would have a very high tolerance for a drunken ONS, but would find it very hard to accept cheating with premeditation.
Why did I say that - my gf of 4.5 years had cheated on me (physical+emotional) two times, with two different guys. This happened more than an year ago. I knew the emotional part and forgave her quite easily. Only recently did I know that it was physical too, and with a lot of premeditation. She has changed quite a lot now, and I am also at crossroads. It is not easy to let go. I am 30 btw.
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

Bro, it is really up to you. Cause we are not you and can only give you on how we think. If you really choose to forgive her, it must be a "true" forgive and locked away in an unopened safe. Never to bring it up again and any circumstances.

But for me personally, I will not forgive my GF if she does that with a sound mind. This is what I believe:

1) When single, you can have all the flings you want.

2) But when in a relationship, I believe both guy and girl should remain faithful to each other. Cause if not faithful now, how do you expect to be faithful in marriage?

3) If due to druken state, I might choose to forgive but never if her mind is clear.


What "lust blow over my head" is all crap to me. My first GF said that to me and I dump her straight and replied "you loved lust over me",
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

Ask for Anal as compensation. TheN dump her after that.
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

i will just act blur but deep down...that's it...i won't treat her as gf anymore...just as a fb until she knows that i have found out then clean break...

Just continue banging her la and find a new gf who deserve your love....when banging her, treat her as a pros/fl...dun need to care about whether she song or not...just ram and release make sure you song...
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

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Ask for Anal as compensation. TheN dump her after that.
LOL, bro... I almost burst out laughing in mid-drink when I read that.

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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

It is never easy if you are so in love with your gf.

But being rationale is extremely vy important especially you know that no matter what happen, there will be cracks in the relationship. It will never be the same.

I used to have the same situations twice, 2 different gfs. I realised when it happens, you will lose all trust and trust is the biggest element in any relationship.

Therefore u really need to wise up and be fair to your self. Forgiving is easy but forgetting is tough. Don put our life misery on a assumption that this gf is going to be your life partner.........
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Re: what would u do if u found out that ur gf has been cheating on you?

So do you expect your girl to forgive you if she finds that you have been cheating?
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