cheong when way wrong

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
Here is my story, but before that I want to say that I have not lost too much in my exprience with the girls.
Having said that it still does feel nice getting hurt....
In truth, any FLs if decided not to be with, there is nothing you could do to change their mind.
To be fair, all FLs are in it for the money, but sometimes money is not the only factors, but the main factor is money.

I was seeing a footies girls in China for a few months, she went with me everytime I am in town. We hit it off quite well till she demands more and more money.
I decided to drop her, even though the sex was good; her demands just turn me off.
There was money, shopping, Cellphone, Ipads, Notebook, rental, but buying a house under her name is where I draw the line.
What a waste, just had to let go a girl who is totally my type, for those who know me, my type is a few and far in between.....


My humble two cents.

[justl00king]

Bro,

You already know FL are in it for the money. So they will try to fleece as much as possible from each target, nothing new here.

Good that you know where to draw the line, sadly many don't.

You'll get over her soon when the next one appears.

[stillgottheblue]

This is what emptiness can do to a person.

[kicapterbang]

First of all, *went.
As the poster above said, FL are doing what they do for money. To her, you're just another easy source of money. Who knows, aside from you she had another sugar daddy hidden from your knowledge. In general it's best not to get too personal with them. We all like to cheong and all, but i bet most of us agree we'll find a FL a wife/long term partner material. It's fine to befriend them, but draw a limit somewhere. In your case, she's asking a house under her name which you refused. Who knows, IF you had gone with it she'll paster you with a marriage proposal... ^^l

[alan0338]

nvm la, just find another cheaper fl will solve the problem ...

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
Here is the part two of my story, I was station in Jakarta for a while, while I was there I met this FL, working in a spa type.
To make a long story short, when she choose not to be with you there is nothing you could say to change her mind.
She stayed with me for about two months, I had to pay her debts to the pimp, which is fine, I had to go to China for a while, she said she wanted to go to school, so she went back to stay her home. When I came back to Jakarta, she told that she is back to work in the spa..... I was upset, but caculated the numbers, it was still worth it, even though she is a gem....really.....she is perfectly my type. Last week I was at the spa, and saw again, she asked me if she could come to my place, which I said yes. At my place she told me that she is having a baby in 6 months. I told her she could stay with me, but she wanted me to pay her debt again....which I finally agreed. When it came to coming over, she was no way to be found.... I went to her work place, she was working; that piss me off....I asked her why she was working. She said lets get a room, which I did. In the room we talked and I found out that my offer was not to her liking, she caculated that if she worked she might get more that if she would if she stayed with me and she even said she has other men she is stringing along to give money. On one hand, I am relief that I was off the hooked, but on the other hand it is disapointing not to get a girl like her in my hands, trust me, she is a gem, not too easy to get what I want..... But the kicker was, she was lying all the way with me so even though she is not willing to stay with me now, she wants to keep me for the future to help her with the baby.... When she saw me she was not happy, as She could not pretend anymore, I told very nicely, is now or never, and to every quiestions I ask, she keeps saying "I dont know yet"...; which means I want to keep all my carrothead in play, dont want to throw any away. I walk away from it feeling dejected, nothing to do with love, just felt that I was not the "carrothead" she choosen...... It is just no nice to be rejected, not the first choice; I have to be greatful that she did not choose me, it still hurts to have lost a fine gem. When an FL have too many choices, it is time for us to go, they will leave you and hurt you with no regards for you feeling. The only FL you could have some feeling for are the new comers whom does not have any backers yet, because they go on need bases, who ever can fill their needs they will follow, but if the demand for her out weight the supply, you are screwed.....she will play you like a fiddle, just like what happen to me.



My humble two cents.

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by alan0338

nvm la, just find another cheaper fl will solve the problem ...

Hi bro,
Easier say than done, but some time, it is not so easy to fine the type I want....

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

This is what emptiness can do to a person.

Totally agreed, very empty inside my heart.

Originally Posted by justl00king

Bro, You already know FL are in it for the money. So they will try to fleece as much as possible from each target, nothing new here. Good that you know where to draw the line, sadly many don't. You'll get over her soon when the next one appears.

Yes bro, but the type is not easy to come by.


My humble two cents.

[carmeo88]

True it is not easy to come by, but at least you know where you stand and start to look for new gem.

[stillgottheblue]

All WL, no matter from where, had the same pattern, lol... it's a good sharing for us all to learn too. Thanks.

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by carmeo88

True it is not easy to come by, but at least you know where you stand and start to look for new gem.

Hi bro,
The mind agreed, but the heart and ego is still hurting....

Originally Posted by stillgottheblue

All WL, no matter from where, had the same pattern, lol... it's a good sharing for us all to learn too. Thanks.

Sure, we have to help and share in order others do not fall into the KCtrap again....

My huumble two cents.

[aakumu]

Hi bro,
Part three of my story, this happen about three years ago, I met a thai FL, she was quite cute, nice body and can get along very well with me.
I met her twice in Singapore and visited her in BKK often, went to dinner go shopping and normal things, but in side, but it feel hollow, that is why when I am wondering if we want to make the next move, let me tell you better not, as in a getting serious or married, there should be no doubts, if you you are considering, she might just not be the one....
I have do not doubt that there FLs out that are looking for love, but the love there are looking for is come with a risk for us.
Unlike normal girls, these FLs are always looking out for what is best for themselves; if they are not happy, they will leave you in half a heart beat.
and secondly they have many other choices; back to work, other men they string along.....The main different I have found between there FLs and normal girls are these girls are more into me not what is good for us.
If truth is to be told, in their eyes is what is good for her only and only her.


My humble two cents.

[justl00king]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Yes bro, but the type is not easy to come by.

Understand how you feel, been thru that before.

Just have to cheong more to get the right type again!

Originally Posted by aakumu

I have do not doubt that there FLs out that are looking for love, but the love there are looking for is come with a risk for us.
Unlike normal girls, these FLs are always looking out for what is best for themselves; if they are not happy, they will leave you in half a heart beat.
and secondly they have many other choices;

Well said, she may love you but reality is she will always love money more.

You may invest true feelings but will always run a very high risk.

Very bad choice for ROI.

[carloe]

Originally Posted by aakumu

Unlike normal girls, these FLs are always looking out for what is best for themselves; if they are not happy, they will leave you in half a heart beat.
and secondly they have many other choices; back to work, other men they string along...

good reminder. we all know that these girls are in this line for the money, isn't it. it's just that sometimes we cannot think properly when we are in the mess of it.

[aakumu]

Originally Posted by justl00king

Understand how you feel, been thru that before.

Just have to cheong more to get the right type again!

Well said, she may love you but reality is she will always love money more.

You may invest true feelings but will always run a very high risk.

Very bad choice for ROI.

Hi bro,
Thank you for your support.
The funny thing is that the harder I look for these types, the more I missed her......hahaha......

My humble two cents.

[stillgottheblue]

Don't look for love with WL, period. It will will be a hard journey.