Confuse about My friend

[queeniegal]

Hi

Real life story from my friend A

(I know 3 of them)

Male :- L
Male Gf: J
Male fwb:- A

L got a long term relationship for years before he met A.
L & A seem normal outside.

L claims that he always argue with J to A.

A have been FWB with him for 3 years, she grow feeling for him.( I cfm on this if not she won't be crying to me)

A tell L off stop everything but many times L just appear telling A how much he miss her and A give in many times.

J seem to be normal gal but can feel L scare of her as in L won't dare to go out if J at his house.

Yesterday, A & L meet up and have a quick session. So, A thought they will be having dinner together L said sorry, need to meet J. A was upset telling him I told we have decided whole evening event.

L said he going to have quarrel with J. He drove A home and no news of him.

A told me that J last night stay over at L house and L said he is very sian!

I told A is very obvious you won't have any happiness with L

A keep saying L does not have sex with J coz J don't like so many year relationship their sex life suck less then 10 times

Plus J & L seem always argument so she pin some hope!

Can you guys here advise me how to make A totally awake I feel L and J eventually will get married and A will be always the hidden one!!! So unfair!

[rob_onny]

TS, life is always unfair...
I guess A is very much dependant on L (or only his hotdog) now...
& L may just want 2 keep A as his FB forever...
May b u can consider finding another hotdog for A...

[queeniegal]

A she is pretty smart, but not much friend haha always work and work weekend just cope at home... Omg worst then me -.-

[mlvnyong]

Hello TS, need advice, my advise to U get the FUCK OFF this triangle love affairs. If U hv intention to hook up with A or trying to get A to be ur fwb then that is another story.

[queeniegal]

But she keep crying to me -.- now I see guys who are loving with another type of view whaahahahahaha

[Tai_zi21]

Only ur friend can help herself! any advice will only fall on deaf ears

Cos in her heart she only have the guy! Widen her social circle and come out more often to meet more new ppl would be better for her

[zyspt]

the guys must have taken the advantage of their good relationship, thinking that A won't leave his side.
and true enough A cling onto him with the tiniest hope.
even L and J end broke up, doesn't mean L will take her as his new GF, he would still want keep her as Fwb (got more than 1 hole he can poke for free why not).
if outsider's word can't get to her then better hope she can get her head clear out by herself.
poor A, at any time she awakens she is already badly hurt and wounded.

[queeniegal]

Did not contact her today after she told me that guy Gf is staying at his house...

I think she hopeless

[lookinglooking]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

Did not contact her today after she told me that guy Gf is staying at his house...

I think she hopeless

Honestly, get her away from those people if she's a close friend of yours. This isn't benefiting her life. Else you could introduce her to us?

[queeniegal]

Not very close.. As in ex colleague? She talk to me I listen tho...
Hmmmm hard she so stubborn. She said I'm too blunt but she silly ha

[naturegreen]

Trust me - in such relationships, no matter how you advise your friend, she will not wake up from it.

[queeniegal]

I pity her that all! I told her u dun need be so cheapskates la...
I told her gals can do without man! But man can't do without gal!!!

Lol

[zyspt]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

I pity her that all! I told her u dun need be so cheapskates la...
I told her gals can do without man! But man can't do without gal!!!

Lol

cheapskate, u really told her that?
you should have rephrase what you wanna say to something nicer.
not careful your words might end up hurting her first

[naturegreen]

Originally Posted by queeniegal

I pity her that all! I told her u dun need be so cheapskates la...
I told her gals can do without man! But man can't do without gal!!!

Lol

明知山有虎，偏向虎山行. Nothing much you can help. Btw, there's no such things as gals can do without man. Man can't do without gals. It depends on individuals. YOU can do without man, does not mean other girls can. So you should actually limit your own personal view in this case. By calling her cheapskate it's quite hurting already. Some men can take a plane to bkk just for a fuck trip, I can't. Some men can do all sorts of stunts to get a girl on bed, I am limited to some stunts. It's really subjective. Get what I mean?

[BoinKING]

i see the name already i blur.
AJL LOL

can't even read the whole paragraph without reading the last sentence then when i end the last sentence i lost who is A J L