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20-05-2012, 01:04 AM
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Marital affair
Dear all cheongster,
this is first time i write to the forum, this is real stories and i need some advise. Thanks you in advanced. Abt myself, i am considered a good loving husband until 4 years, my first involved cheonging intro by friends, but i am not regular, just once a while. Until recently, i meet up with a girl, also looking for NSA. we are so clicked, and loving each other. She is currently attached too. This girl, is pretty, tall , elegant, professional jobs. If you just look at her, you will never though she will having NSA with me. Esp in bed, she is good in very aspect. Well trained by his boyfriend, We meet up once a week, and sometime overnite. Until recently things goign overboard, Our initial purpose, is just to release stress and tension for both of us having sex. But we develop a true love feeling. i love her and she love me. in a same time i cant leave my wife and she cant leave her bf. Previously, until discussion, she wanna be with me and wan to leave her bf, she ask me willing for me to do the same. just to be with her. I cant give an answer to her. Of course these will upset her, she is thinking she is willing scarifies for me, and i willing to do the same for her. dear all, any advised what i should do next??? 
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#4
20-05-2012, 01:16 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Go back to your wife. Nothing is worth your family. Nothing.
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#5
20-05-2012, 01:18 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Confirmed trouble if you continue...anyway I was more concerned what you wrote...".Esp in bed, she is good in very aspect. Well trained by his boyfriend." ..his???? I got a shock...why a she becomes a he...
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#7
20-05-2012, 01:30 AM
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Re: Marital affair
dear all,
she is pure 100% girl. sorry for my grammar. I mean not only in bed, she is caring loving, when i sick, she is taking good care of me, sensible person. i really dunno what to do next??
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#8
20-05-2012, 01:36 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Quick ques
do u have any kids? And it a very thin line btw love and lust only....
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#9
20-05-2012, 01:38 AM
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Re: Marital affair
no kids yet
it is not lust, we sometime spending time together like movie, dinner, sleep ( without any sex) I clearly now, that i love her now one day no see her message, missing her like crazy
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#12
20-05-2012, 02:13 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Sometimes its just about meeting the right person at a wrong time. Its hard to decide and I understand. But pls try to do the right thing. No matter what your outcome is, someone is going to get hurt.
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#13
20-05-2012, 02:14 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Dear Psychan,
I urge you to handle this seriously and carefully. You might want to talk things out with your wife and try to be sweeter to her and see if there's any chance to reignite the flame. After all you two are married. When you are trying, probably you'd want to put all your heart into doing that and not give up halfway and say she's not appreciating and lie to yourself because you are finding an excuse to leave her for the now "fresh meat" If you have tried and felt that she really is not well, giving back much or care, you might want to consider leaving her (your wife). Especially when there's no kids. When you have a kid already. I am telling you. It is a definite no no. If you still love your wife, really do try. Sit down and think very hard to yourself. What are the things that make you love your wife so much and the sweet things she has done for you that made you marry her. I can totally understand and relate to why some guys, a loving husband in the end still ends up cheating on their wives. Unless, you're not that kind of husband. I suggest that you work something out with your wife, have a talk or even approach a marriage counsellor. Do take note that and a reminder to you, during a marriage, your wife caught you cheating and has evidences. They can be used against you to make your life hell and get monetary benefits from you. So please do not make rash decisions okie bro?
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#14
20-05-2012, 02:16 AM
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Re: Marital affair
oh, and another thing that might help you consider.
If she has a bf and is doing such things behind her bf's back. What makes you think she won't do the same to you and dump you for another in future too?
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#15
20-05-2012, 02:22 AM
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Re: Marital affair
Bro,
its better to return back to your wife, do remember the vows which you have made on yr wedding day... The girl is just another excitement you have in your life which will come and go..in due time...
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