Life Story to Share - Difficult Times

[AudiKoupA5]

I m young adult in early 30+. Looks = So-So only i am married living happily with 2 beautiful children and a maid. Owns a decent apartment (fully redemeed), drove a decent car earning approx 100k per annum. I am quite comfortable with my life as this moment. I work in a MNC, most of my colleagues regards me as a good father and MR NICE. I dun have any family problem but...

I got to know this colleague 3 years back from a company event and we hit off quiet well. (She is in her late 20s, divorced with a child) She is adorable but not not dead gorgeous, soft long hair, 34C-27-34 - CFM look She comes from a complicated background. Both parents are divorced. She is not well to do but i admired her spirit of being a strong single mother. She is a kinda of lady who will pay attention to every detail of you, shows great concern and take care of u. (This was part of the reason why i am attracted to her) She will made breakfast for you. She will offer to buy lunch for you knowing you are tight up at work. She will give u priority where work is concern when you need it done. We enjoy each other company so much that we start to develope feelings for each other that we start off a relationship. She became my close office spouse.

She was obliging, she will do anything for me as long i m happy or need. We made love almost everywhere, in my car, hotels, mscp, open concept car park, at my apartment and Spa Pool She is young and wild in bed BUT not adventurous. Even when she is on code red, she will give in to me. If situation not possible, she will perform a HJ on me and ease me off. We seldom talk abt $$$ issue. I will try my best to help for the care and concern she did for me ; will ferry her, get her stuffs and gifts from reputable brands, bring her to up class spas to pamper her. When we dine (fine dinning or even hawkers), she wont have to worry abt payment. I will settle 99% of the times - good gentle gesture At times, i will pass her few hundreds out of heart (She work partime in a pub to make ends meet, which is why i respected her, a responsible mum)
We were very happy, she promised she will stay by me, even as a 3rd party, she dun mind no status and suffering. She told me she was never being pamper by her ex-boyfrn or ex-husband with this kinda of (i would say lavish treatment).

However, good things also comes to and end, natural disaster will strike, after almost a year, we started to quarrel over issue, e.g. she give out nos to guys who ask for it, started to go out with guys who has show interest in her. Reason - she is lonely at times, feel stress as a 3rd party. (As you know, i had a family and cant always be with her, at times i wanted to meet her up also, but i had my limitation as well as a married man)

[alan0338]

camping here liao, interesting leh....

[chinchiahoe]

Wow, a story of different context. Good headstart. Camping with all my outdoor barang barang. Pls continue!

[chinchiahoe]

Furthermore, seems like virgin post from TS. Good acceleration from the Audi driver.

[AudiKoupA5]

Originally Posted by chinchiahoe

Furthermore, seems like virgin post from TS. Good acceleration from the Audi driver.

There u go... tragedy coming;

She started to see a guy (playboy, divorce also), which she knows him before me, eventually she fall in love with him (becos he is always there when she is lonely and need company). I still pick her up when she call me at this guy house afew times, i qns her do you know wat is she doing, she told me they are good frn only, nothing else. I think i was navie in believing her, i only something is wrong, but i choose to belive her cos love is blind Despite this deteriorate condition, we are still together, but of course not that close anymore. We seldom made love anymore, at most kiss. The dramatic part is that, one day, she call me up telling me she is pregnant and the baby is mine. I was shock, i told her that how can that possible, (the last time we make love was on the 9 days after her peroid, and i did withdraw method) I mean we have been making love for the pass 7 to 9 months, sometimes we go all out without protection and even shot in during safe peroid. Nothing happen also. I was skeptical. But again, i choose to believe her. We went for an abortion, to be discreet and protect her, the ops was done at a very reputable private hospital. ($2k if any bro wan to known) - Later i found out that she and the guy actually had sex a couple of times in his house during the peroid. (No wonder, she didn't turn up at work many a times during the period and uncontactable) - I WAS TRUAMATISED & ANGRY I wonder the baby is it really belong to me???

I wanted to put an end to this relationship after i get to know everything. I was extremely upset. I had to managed my work, family and her. I really ask myself why i have to go through these shit. I have a bright future and happy family.
I was stressed. However, she beg for forgiveness, want to come back to me like before. I say no way, but my heart soften. She shows repent, start to show care and concern, no matter how i tarnish her, she will just accept cos she know is her fault. In conclusion, i accepted her back on conditions she had to broken off with ther guys. (Anyway, this guy is a real loser - he treat her like dirt, even ask $$ from her. This is one of the reasons why she leave him, she have a child to support, how can support another man)

[AudiKoupA5]

The story continues....

Life for us goes on. However, damages and phobia is oredi done. As times goes, the scar somehow gets lighter less painful (I m a easy going man, forget and forgive). We still continue to have great sex, we kiss passionately everytime, she moan with great thrilled which is a turn-on for me (it’s a sexy kind not those china gal kao pei kao bu kind) hehe ; Sometimes i have to cover her mouth( Haha… scared neighbour complain
, it’s real loud) especially when i push hard and reach her max. Her pair of boobs is irressitble to me, 34C, with nice auroras (AV type and sensitive nipple) i will fondle, squeeze, lick the nip and really tease them. She will just lay down and let me autoroam. There was a period, when I had free “human milk” to consume. Taste Good. Ask those father and they will tell u…. Haha… At Office, she like to wear short skirts and low tight blouse, which always capture my attention, making me fantasize. When opportunity comes, I will just brush her top purposely with my chest or arm, just to tease her. We also did a quickie kiss, along the stairways. haha... (i m a naugthy father and i have to admit) Having an office spouse is fun but at a price!

Everything goes on well till, Tusnami strikes again, this time, she get involved in a guy, the difference is, she told me about it. She told me, she just need a companion, to keep her accompany when she is lonely. As I cant see her as often, due to work and family commimtment. She assure me, it will be pure companionship; no sex involve.
she told me she still love me very much and dun want to lose me and will make love with me only. She request to stay by my sided, when i need love, she will be there for me. i refused and told her to let go but she can't bear end this relationship. I feel stressed up over this relationship. However, when I am stress and told her abt it she will be there to comfort (made love to me even more gf feeling, just wan to make me feel good).

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, she's a loser dating a married man and opening up her pussy to another guy at the same time. You too are a loser for betraying your wife and kids. Shame on you. You currently have the option of being a better husband and father or f'ing it up all together ie ending up in divorce to that loser you think you are in love with. The choice is yours. I don't think you really lover her or you would have left for her a long time ago. SG society going down in the gutter every day. Should be a wholesome society yest infidelity paid sex and all sorts of social ills are swarming.

[abchow]

HI bro,

If I were you , I would distance my self from this woman. You have a good family and good job. DO not let some woman get over your heart and make trouble for you.
Its no fun having to juggle this relationship..
very stressful !

[sabcf]

Better not to have deep emotion with this woman. Remember your wife and two lovely children are most important and don't hurt them.

Better let her knows that you are there only for fun like she is also having fun with you and other man.

[roller]

Gr8t story , but if its real , then better wake up for your family .

[nin-nao-hiah]

You are going to hate me when I tell you this but I will tell you anyway:

If your story is for real, then you are an asshole & an idiot.

You have a good job, housing, car, a wife & two beautiful children. Why the hell do you want to get involve with this woman?

You should treasure your family & your job because not everyone is as lucky as you to have what you have. I hope you will learn to want what you have.

If you need companionship you should remember the reasons how & why you fell in love with your wife in the beginning & why you got married. If you need sex (like me & most bros here) occasionally then you should simply pay for it & then be done with it. Why get involve emotionally?

[simple2kee]

interesting! camping here.

[AudiKoupA5]

Testing... To be continue....

[chinchiahoe]

Bro TS, I hope this ordeal of yours is a thing of the past, and not a still ongoing relationship. Juggling the lady at home, family, career and an extramarital relation is definitely not learning ABC. I do understand cos I just ended my additional relationship not long ago too. If you are still with, hope you can make a clean break soon. Your family and career should come 1st. ECA like this should only be carried out if you've the surplus timing.

Anyway, your story is well written and hope to see you continue soon. Give you some petrol(my humble 1-pt) to top up your tank so you can go the extra mile.

[BoinKING]

wah as much as i want to say no, i also want to see how it ends in the gamble..
Can you have it all and how do you manage it..interesting indeed