Just found out my wife has been cheating on me!

firefox_2046 · #1 02-12-2009, 01:16 AM

Feeling darn low at the moment...any advice on how to move on from this?

brudder · #2 02-12-2009, 02:07 AM

how serious is the cheating? can you forgive her once & move on?

peanuts100k · #3 02-12-2009, 02:34 AM

give a detail story lah so we knoe clearer...

firefox_2046 · #4 02-12-2009, 03:17 AM

she's slept with a few guys behind my back and i had no idea that it was happening.

at this stage i'm still in a state of shock and don't know how to move on from here...

kikapu · #5 02-12-2009, 03:34 AM

It is ok. You can go out and bang some girls officially .

No more worry about getting caught red-handed.

sammyboyfor · #6 02-12-2009, 04:27 AM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

Feeling darn low at the moment...any advice on how to move on from this?

Your wife has always had a wild side. I guess she can't change her spots.

Were her flings casual or was she having affairs on the side?

Roman city · #7 02-12-2009, 05:22 AM

I am sorry to hear that. Sleeping with one guy behind your back is bad enough, sleeping with a few guys is almost intolerable. You should start gathering your thoughts and plan your next course of action. Take care, bro.

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

she's slept with a few guys behind my back and i had no idea that it was happening.

at this stage i'm still in a state of shock and don't know how to move on from here...

Mankok · #8 02-12-2009, 05:34 AM

Forgive her. It was only physical contact.

andyk · #9 02-12-2009, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

Feeling darn low at the moment...any advice on how to move on from this?

=> Yo BRO...sorry to know about your problem !!!...But make 100% sure what U found out is really true !!!....

And if yes...and if she found out that U know already,then U need to think & plan how U are going to talk to her !....

Are U interested to find out where's the problem ?

Will she be able to change & you will forgive her for a new start ?

If yes...plan a holiday together soon to do your best to work out your problems !....

Btw do U have kids ?

cowyou · #10 02-12-2009, 07:36 AM

Plan your next course of action before you want to confront her

Be a brave man , keep yourself cool and try to work out a solution.

Maybe you should gather more evidences...like hiring private investigator

Don't use violent on her.

dirtbag_26 · #11 02-12-2009, 07:38 AM

bro TS ,bro andyk have the right idea

big question is got kids or not

if got kids then more problematical,if not got kids then very simple-DIVORCE HER

man different from woman,we dun have "expiry date"

marriage is a tradeoff,she give you her time when she is young and her tits are bouncy,you dun dump her and give her care when her tits are saggy

now she is giving her tits to other man-what for you stay for her?????

you might as well go and break off now,you got plenty of young bouncy tits for you to squeeze in the futyure, why for tie down with this woman you cannot trust anymore?

even if she got problem with you the right thing to do is to talk to you right,not go out and spread legs correct?

but go get good PI and good evidence,otherwise she turn around and say you got no reason to divorce

whatever you do you dont go and say "OK you can fuck around I can fuck around also"-i ever got heard of a case where the husband do that and then the wife sue HIM for divorce, and the wife got evidence he fucking around,but he dont have evidence for her, so the wife got most of his money and also got maintenance every month ,i tell you the man bang balls man

see see only · #12 02-12-2009, 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by firefox_2046

she's slept with a few guys behind my back and i had no idea that it was happening.

at this stage i'm still in a state of shock and don't know how to move on from here...

Did she confessed to you or you suspected only.

Nevertheless, gather your thought together and calm down my friend ...

IT IS NOT the end of the world

Gather a few good friends, go out and get some fresh air

calm down then plan your next move.

After you calm down then post the full details, SBF bros here will then post all our suggestion for you to choose

Bro colins & Bro colins no. 2 - where r u when u r needed most?

see see only · #13 02-12-2009, 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by dirtbag_26

bro TS ,bro andyk have the right idea

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whatever you do you dont go and say "OK you can fuck around I can fuck around also"-i ever got heard of a case where the husband do that and then the wife sue HIM for divorce, and the wife got evidence he fucking around,but he dont have evidence for her, so the wife got most of his money and also got maintenance every month ,i tell you the man bang balls man

Bro dirtbag_26,

"We can teach our friends to beat their children but never teach our friends to get a divorce"

Not saying that he should not divorce ... but I believe we should wait for more details first after he calm down before we make suggestion for his future

But your last paragraph, fantastic and very true ... take note TS

Big Sexy · #14 02-12-2009, 08:05 AM

mate...
i will different view on that...
we should never lay our hands on our children.

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Originally Posted by see see only

"We can teach our friends to beat their children but never teach our friends to get a divorce"

gambit88 · #15 02-12-2009, 08:21 AM

"My Personal Experience"

1) Get yourself a good PI to gather some concrete evidence on your wife's indiscretions. Time to protect your assets.

2) DO NOT take it as an excuse to stray for yourself. Even if both partner stray and end in divorce, there is NO guarantee the husband will not be penalized during the alimony settlement.

3) If your child/ children is involved, and the marriage is beyond hope already, good time to start preparing / "brain washing" them on the impending divorce and the possible custody battle.