Weird Question: How to cum faster?

miloboy · #1 22-11-2009, 03:41 AM

Hi bros, I'm not sure if there is anything wrong with me so hoping to get some advice here. I visited a couple of HC the last couple of months and did FJ about 4 times in that period. And each time it always ends with the girl having to HJ me till I cum. I've never cummed from a bj or a fj b4 and frankly I've never even come close to cumming during the process. And at the end of each session(which I will always end up overshooting the time due to this problem) I will always ask the girl did I take longer than usual and they will always say yes, most guys usually dont take as long as I do. I always end up apologizing for overshooting the time as a result. Is there anyway to make myself cum faster without resorting to hj? I've even tried abstaining from any sexual activity for abt a week b4 i went for the fj and it also doesnt work. please advise.

Mankok · #2 22-11-2009, 05:01 AM

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Originally Posted by miloboy

Hi bros, I'm not sure if there is anything wrong with me so hoping to get some advice here. I visited a couple of HC the last couple of months and did FJ about 4 times in that period. And each time it always ends with the girl having to HJ me till I cum. I've never cummed from a bj or a fj b4 and frankly I've never even come close to cumming during the process. And at the end of each session(which I will always end up overshooting the time due to this problem) I will always ask the girl did I take longer than usual and they will always say yes, most guys usually dont take as long as I do. I always end up apologizing for overshooting the time as a result. Is there anyway to make myself cum faster without resorting to hj? I've even tried abstaining from any sexual activity for abt a week b4 i went for the fj and it also doesnt work. please advise.

Hi brother,
Are you me? I suffer of exactly these same things, I repeat: these same things.

Max77 · #3 22-11-2009, 06:31 AM

maybe the problem doesn't lies wif u leh...

Kiss Me · #4 22-11-2009, 07:04 AM

Better to look for a doctor.

Big Sexy · #5 22-11-2009, 11:00 AM

congrats!
stick to masturbation then
it has little risk of HIV and STD..

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Originally Posted by miloboy

And each time it always ends with the girl having to HJ me till I cum. I've never cummed from a bj or a fj b4 a

label34 · #6 22-11-2009, 11:21 AM

I get the same things as you, but it doesn't happen to every FL that I visit. For me, I realise it has to do with the mood you are in when you are having sex with her. I don't know how to explain..but when my 2IC is rock hard + my mind is very calm and quiet(instead of feeling super horny and excited), I can't cum at all. In fact, I don't even feel like cumming and 2IC feels a little numb but rock hard all the way.

Think about when you PCC...privacy 100%, and you can focus on the images in your mind/computer screen while you enjoy the moment, no stress. Tio bo? Maybe you can think about how to create that same feeling when you have sex. Jia you!

sammyboyfor · #7 22-11-2009, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by miloboy

please advise.

Could be the stress of having to "cum" within a deadline.

Do you face the same problem during a non commercial liaison?

joew2005 · #8 22-11-2009, 11:45 AM

like wat bros here mentioned,2 much masturbation could be the cause of it.
it could also be becos u feel insecure in a unfamiliar environment.
there could be alot of possibilities .....
don't think tat it's good if it takes 2 long 2 cum.

Big Sexy · #9 22-11-2009, 11:47 AM

sam..
it is probably 'mental'...
the guy is probably new to the trade..
he should be ok after a few visit...

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Could be the stress of having to "cum" within a deadline.

bonkster · #10 22-11-2009, 12:54 PM

Guess it's anxiety-related. Should get better if u r more relaxed. Try not to think about it and feel apologetic that u will "overshoot" the time. The more conscious u r about it, the harder it is for u to relax and let go of this subconscious anxiety. Just my 2 cents worth...

miloboy · #11 22-11-2009, 08:05 PM

[QUOTE=label34;4308922]In fact, I don't even feel like cumming and 2IC feels a little numb but rock hard all the way.[QUOTE]

This is exactly what i experience! Thanks to all bros for their advice, I only recently started visiting HC so mayb so of u bros are correct about the "insecurity" issue. Will try to relax about it as what u bros advise the next time.

Big Sexy · #12 22-11-2009, 09:07 PM

mate..don;t get me wrong
i wasn;t telling you to patronise the 'coop'
i was telling you to stop visiting it and let
your left hand do the job.

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Originally Posted by miloboy

I only recently started visiting HC so mayb so of u bros are correct about the "insecurity" issue. Will try to relax about it as what u bros advise the next time.