Does it remind yourself when you were once young?

nooewbie · #1 23-10-2009, 05:33 PM

It goes like this:

A 22yr old shy guy in real life but bit daring on internet due to anonymity goes on a internet venture into porn and stuffs and came into this forum, know about FL and massage palors.

Due to still being a virgin and don't want anyhow lose it (want to lose it to ex-gf instead, but its impossible as she had a beau which already lasted 3yrs and still ongoing.), but still tempted to experience being touch again as he had some hanky panky with ex-gf before, like the feeling. Tempted to go massage parlors for a massage + HJ.

The guy is me. Am i hopeless?

Should i go ahead?

Feel so confused, 1 angel and 1 devil above me with the rights and wrong

HCKing · #2 24-10-2009, 12:57 AM

if i am the guy i will go try the HJ 1st as i will feel less awkward or guilty for a 1st timer since it's only someone else PCC for me instead of i PCC myself. but believe me bro, the feeling is very different.

colins · #3 24-10-2009, 01:31 AM

You want a relationship, go learn how to get a girl and settle down into one. To you, getting sex and closeness to a female provides an escape from reality (that your girl is no longer yours 3 years ago). 3 YEARS, my friend, and you are still regretting the fact that you din bonk her.

You're in need of emotions, not just sex. People like you get KC cos you're already 99% there. Its like on the brink of an orgasmic eruption, the moment some chabor touch your cock, you cum liao. My advice is, dun start. If you really HAVE TO start visiting prostitutes, do it after you have a gf and bonk her silly.

Of cos, then you will realise that you do not need a prostitute tell you she love you.

DuaKaTsua · #4 24-10-2009, 02:44 AM

HarharHar !!!!!!!

Good advice la....now u geen nah listen 2 senior bro Colins hor n go learn sumthg.

Sad la why lik dat? But i rmbr my retired ex-veri--senior SBf samster peng yew oso like u once. He start wif cat $40 (now cat $50 la) n kanna gian tio until neber look back. Why? Bcuz he dont want 2 b 30-yr virgin. Did it wen he 29 wif a few month left.
In d end oso many many adventure tio KC many time by siam kway, PRC kway, Viet kway now call an ex-whore his wife n got kids. I cannot say his nick but tis kind of adventure wether happi or not (i not sure n even he is not sure if 100% got gd ending or not, otherwise why he still cheong joo chiat n go Thai Land ?!!!???) not for everyone.

So u all kiddo listen n listen up gd gd la. Ai sng is can sng one but u must know wat u want n nevr go too far beyond dat. Sng eh ki pang eh loh die die remembr hor!!

Bess still is dun cheong kway n stay wif decent gal n still got bonk bonk bonk. Fairy tale sum will say but mos ordinary people like dat one. Really realli.Dont tink SBF is normal real life. Cheong kway one esp regular we is elite special population hor. N nothing 2 b hao lian abt .. Bonk pay $$$ vs Bonk + Love wch one u take ?

see see only · #5 24-10-2009, 12:14 PM

COME WHAT MAY

I had friends that lost their first to "Pay" girls as well but they are now bonking happily still. They didn't lose a meat for that.

But if you insist to lose it to a girl that you will feel good about it, wait lor

DONT need to be shy to tell others you r a virgin still at 22yrs old right?

Just say: "ME a virgin at 22, so what & so what if you lost yours at 12, it dont make you more handsome also?"

nooewbie · #6 24-10-2009, 01:41 PM

Hi collins and DuaKaTsua. Thanks for your insight especially collins. You hit the nail right in it. I need relationship, but i had no confidence of myself, no looks, no body, and shy in nature as well.

But regarding i still regretting the fact i didn't bonk her is not really true as i really love her, but that time due to its first and only relationship to date, i may had expressed myself wrongly. She may had felt that i am not serious about her, but its not the true. 2weeks after she left me, she is with her current bf now for 3years. But i would still like to lose my virgin to someone i love and care about.

Though in the end i may or may not go to massage parlors, if i were to go, would most probably settle for JG and HJ, as from what i read, its the most minimal or zero risk of getting STDs.

thaivisitor · #7 24-10-2009, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by nooewbie

It goes like this:

A 22yr old shy guy in real life but bit daring on internet due to anonymity goes on a internet venture into porn and stuffs and came into this forum, know about FL and massage palors.

Due to still being a virgin and don't want anyhow lose it (want to lose it to ex-gf instead, but its impossible as she had a beau which already lasted 3yrs and still ongoing.), but still tempted to experience being touch again as he had some hanky panky with ex-gf before, like the feeling. Tempted to go massage parlors for a massage + HJ.

The guy is me. Am i hopeless?

Should i go ahead?

Feel so confused, 1 angel and 1 devil above me with the rights and wrong

Sorry, it does not remind me of myself when I was once young.

I lost my virginity way before 22 years old.

Cheers
Tee Vee

我是好人! · #8 24-10-2009, 03:01 PM

Ya, it doesnt really matter when or how you lose your virginity..you will lose it anyway someday somehow.

And what do you mean, you are virgin & dun want anyhow lose it? Its something like..if its your 1st time & you dun enjoy it, you will not have sex again? Massage parlour hj is better or means not "anyhow"..

Pengz..u sure u 22 mah....or 12..

loneyheart · #9 24-10-2009, 03:19 PM

Hi Bro Nooewbie

At yr age of 22 u must b just completed yr NS n start to build up yr career n enjoying yr youth.

Visiting Hearth Center , KTV, FL, Prostitutes for pay sex is a BIG NO to u.
As u will be addicted n mayb too exp to u n not to mention their KC POWER

Spend more time w yr friends n kakis in yr age or n go out w them to enjoy wat t "happening encounter" they have. It can happen to u too n waiting for u.
There r so many CHIO SYT waiting for u to explore ..... shopping mail....working area.......especially DISCO n PUBS n u may easily end up w a ONS ...WHO KNOW MAY END UP ONS W A VIRGIN CHIO SYT

n may end out as a relationship or FB

U r no hopeless ...
Animals also has their mating season haha.....its a stage of growing up
U just need to b more open n spotting n build up yr self confidence n learn more of t "pick up line ".
Why shy n shy u die

青春不留白
Young bro t world is yrs, enjoy it b4 u get tooo old to regret
N enjoy yr VIRGIN BONK tooo

How i wish i can turn bk t clock n enjoy t youth of being 20s now at yr time.
But during my time SYT r more conservative n not so sexy n daring
Haha....m sure alot of bros feel tats tooooo

IMHO

nooewbie · #10 24-10-2009, 08:53 PM

我是好人! bro, what i mean is like next time when u remember your first time, it would be someone u cared or loved. I am a sentimental person

loneyheart bro, you are right. I am now having pte uni education, so no career yet. Disco, pubs really not for me, find it quite waste of money to get myself drunk and suffer after effect. The money could be saved to do other things.

Haha, right now you may be thinking go massage with JG or HJ also waste money right, but well, at least a good massage would help relieve stress

uncle gg · #11 24-10-2009, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by nooewbie

The money could be saved to do other things.

bro, left hand pcc, right hand keep the 50 bucks. money also well saved. i felt there's no hurry in need to find a companion. at 22years, time is at your side.

for you might unknowingly gave an all in into your coming r/s. with hopes pinned high, falls harder eventually.

do open and widen up your social circle, thou visits to GL might be least appropriate

colins · #12 25-10-2009, 07:15 PM

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Originally Posted by nooewbie

Hi collins and DuaKaTsua. Thanks for your insight especially collins. You hit the nail right in it. I need relationship, but i had no confidence of myself, no looks, no body, and shy in nature as well.

But regarding i still regretting the fact i didn't bonk her is not really true as i really love her, but that time due to its first and only relationship to date, i may had expressed myself wrongly. She may had felt that i am not serious about her, but its not the true. 2weeks after she left me, she is with her current bf now for 3years. But i would still like to lose my virgin to someone i love and care about.

Though in the end i may or may not go to massage parlors, if i were to go, would most probably settle for JG and HJ, as from what i read, its the most minimal or zero risk of getting STDs.

Just remember this. The moment your sexual urge is released by or together with someone whom you paid, you are going into it. You may say its only a HJ.....I won't get STD...whatever bullcrap, you're still using money to get it lo. Sooner or later you WILL transit to FJ, its a matter of time. Once you realised the sweetness of it, it will not allow you to stop.

All the 'it' above is, of cos, soliciting sex. 吃喝嫖赌中的 '嫖'. Whether it is HJ or FJ you are still 嫖妓ing and that also makes you a 嫖客. So if one day your mum or dad comes back home and out of a sudden is inspired to give you some lessons on sex education, you can just reply '没事，我早嫖妓嫖掉了'.

The reason I advised you not to start is very simple. The possibilities are very limited if you start. It almost 100% that you will continue to pay for sex n for someone to KC you. Then you won't need a gf or a relationship. You will forget about the pesky quest to be happy, confident and basically fucking hell feel like a real man. All you need is lots of money and emotion to burn. It won't help with your confidence, it doesn't need to, but it will make you feel that you NEED to buy attention.

But until then, you would have no choice but to continue with this habit cos your entire existence relies on it. Quite bleak isn't it? Couple of my friends got it, still doing it and everybody give up liao. Friends whom I have known since young, now preferring to believe that they are the most popular guy on earth in the FL circle. In reality, they are the stupidest 嫖客 and votes are casted by FLs themselves.

But my friend, there is hope. You seemed to have the rare ability to do self-reflection and is quite honest about your shortcomings. Perhaps you may even have a religion to hang on to (praying and confessions help a lot in that). And you are in one of the best environment to get girls!!! If you choose to specify a condition to say that If I have no body, I WILL NEVER allow myself to feel confident, then fucking work on it la. Go exercise lo. If I cannot feel confident becos I am introverted and shy, then fucking talk to 10 new girls everyday la. The only thing that matters is whether you are willing to change only what. PM me la, we see what can be done with you.

GeMiNiZzzzZzz · #13 25-10-2009, 09:27 PM

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Originally Posted by colins

Just remember this....

Wow...

Bro nooewbie, 快点叫爸爸

nooewbie · #14 26-10-2009, 12:11 AM

Colins bro, you really no words spared in lecturing me. Though we may be strangers, but you really let me feel that what you said is true and right.

Yea, regarding the body part i heed my friend advice and bought a set of dumbells and weights to train. Trying to improve. Now with your lecture, it help alot in me trying to banish my thoughts on JG/HJ.

"Whether it is HJ or FJ you are still 嫖妓ing and that also makes you a 嫖客" and your friends plight really left an impact for me.

I hope this would be a constant reminder to me whenever i have the urge.

Really appreciated it.

colins · #15 26-10-2009, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by nooewbie

Colins bro, you really no words spared in lecturing me. Though we may be strangers, but you really let me feel that what you said is true and right.

Yea, regarding the body part i heed my friend advice and bought a set of dumbells and weights to train. Trying to improve. Now with your lecture, it help alot in me trying to banish my thoughts on JG/HJ.

"Whether it is HJ or FJ you are still 嫖妓ing and that also makes you a 嫖客" and your friends plight really left an impact for me.

I hope this would be a constant reminder to me whenever i have the urge.

Really appreciated it.

Whatever you want to do, go all the way. Thats the way to live a life. Spare no chance of having to fail in something you want. To train up, get a specialist in a gym to help. They dun just lift dumbbells, they think and plan.

You dun get confidence for having a athletic's body. You dun get confidence in even getting a gf in the future. You will only get confidence after achieving what you set out to do. At the end of the day, that means anything you want in this world can be yours should you decide so. That, is the ultimate confidence.

Take it easy bro, having a relationship is supposed to be fun. Dun spare the rod on yourself in achieving your objectives, but for everything else, just enjoy.