Is it wise to have an office affair?

[twaryguy]

Is it wise to have an office affair with your subordinate? Who is like super chio... but also capable. Coz if the affairs turn sour. You'll probably end up losing her...

Some people tell me if she is the one just go for it. Sometime chances don't come twice.

Some people say say dun shit in your own living room.

[joew2005]

There is tis wise saying ..... do not eat & shit in the same place.

If u realli interested in her,u could proceed further in the relation provided 1 of u joins another company.

[hotspur_77]

losing her is peanuts... look @ the bigger picture, if things really turn sour & she filed a complaint to management of you sexually harrassing her, then u r in deep shit...

[twaryguy]

Originally Posted by hotspur_77

losing her is peanuts... look @ the bigger picture, if things really turn sour & she filed a complaint to management of you sexually harrassing her, then u r in deep shit...

Sound right. coz working together and she also nice figure a look... Can get very itchy sometime

[Haden Chow]

Originally Posted by twaryguy

Some people say say dun shit in your own living room.

bro, i think this is the key words.

[ekemono]

you can quit your job then hook up with her if it will sextisfy your small head.
You can't have the cake and eat it

[sytfriend]

Old saying is don't eat and shit in your own garden.

[lblittlebear]

I would advise you not to, unless you're moving on to another company soon.

I have a friend who was a senior director in one of the big MNCs in Singapore. He did something stupid like this. When things went soured, the lady complaint to HR for sexual harrassment.

Of course, he is asked to leave and since then, he could not find a similar job with similar big pay cheque as in Singapore, such news can spread very fast.

Also, the lady also went around to bad-mouth him - to his ex-colleagues, friends, and relatives. His wife nearly divorced him

Sometimes, when things go sour, women could be more SIAO than men. They will try to destroy you

Originally Posted by twaryguy

Is it wise to have an office affair with your subordinate? Who is like super chio... but also capable. Coz if the affairs turn sour. You'll probably end up losing her...

Some people tell me if she is the one just go for it. Sometime chances don't come twice.

Some people say say dun shit in your own living room.

[twaryguy]

Originally Posted by lblittlebear

I would advise you not to, unless you're moving on to another company soon.

I have a friend who was a senior director in one of the big MNCs in Singapore. He did something stupid like this. When things went soured, the lady complaint to HR for sexual harrassment.

Of course, he is asked to leave and since then, he could not find a similar job with similar big pay cheque as in Singapore, such news can spread very fast.

Also, the lady also went around to bad-mouth him - to his ex-colleagues, friends, and relatives. His wife nearly divorced him

Sometimes, when things go sour, women could be more SIAO than men. They will try to destroy you

Woman goes really crazy when they come for revenge. That i agree.don't mess wif a lady. Thats why i try very hard to lun... Even though she try to fluant her assets and i know its easy to up her. But consequence might be worse than i could imagine.

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by sytfriend

Old saying is don't eat and shit in your own garden.

Agree. You like trouble? You are if you going for this one. To TS, think with your big head this round.

[oyeah]

bro,
trust me... don't start if you have not start. i regret shiting and eating in the same place... been wif this colleague for 3 months... every week met once for meals, shopping n sex and now having a big problem shaking her off. everytime when i m wif my OC she will call on purpose and sms in the middle of the nite. OC is getting suspicious... lucky i put her number under a customer name... but she have tendered her resignation n leaving soon, going back to KL. i hope her going back hometown thing will help her to forget abt me.

[Savanna]

Originally Posted by oyeah

bro,
trust me... don't start if you have not start. i regret shiting and eating in the same place... been wif this colleague for 3 months... every week met once for meals, shopping n sex and now having a big problem shaking her off. everytime when i m wif my OC she will call on purpose and sms in the middle of the nite. OC is getting suspicious... lucky i put her number under a customer name... but she have tendered her resignation n leaving soon, going back to KL. i hope her going back hometown thing will help her to forget abt me.

Perhaps...

Your No2 maybe taking time off to catch up with your OC. So Beware!!! Prevention is better than cure!!!

[kwaychup]

well the keyword here is capable.
maybe it could be her plan to seduce you,
file u for harassment later,
after you gena sack liao, she will replace u

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by twaryguy

Is it wise to have an office affair with your subordinate? Who is like super chio... but also capable. Coz if the affairs turn sour. You'll probably end up losing her...

Some people tell me if she is the one just go for it. Sometime chances don't come twice.

Some people say say dun shit in your own living room.

braddah, of course not.

[etct88]

Originally Posted by twaryguy

Is it wise to have an office affair with your subordinate? Who is like super chio... but also capable. Coz if the affairs turn sour. You'll probably end up losing her...

Some people tell me if she is the one just go for it. Sometime chances don't come twice.

Some people say say dun shit in your own living room.

You asking, answering or asking and answering

Question : Is it wise to have an office affair with your subordinate?

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