Several bros had asked me why let my wife played by others?

[Sunwon]

By now, those bros and sis who had read my story thread will know roughly what is going on.

Several bros had asked me why let my wife played by others? And a few even scolded me stupid, moron or whatever! It does not matters to me. Already hardened after so many years..

And my answer is: From the start, do you think I wish too? There may be several reasons or maybe excusses you may like to call it! Mostly is not by choice but most likely by the my fate or destiny?

1) There is no denying that my parents had a major influence on me. It is embarrassed to say and write this but I can't change the facts! History already happened as not what I wished nor what I did not wish to! I saw dad letting his drinking kaki hit on my mum till she ran away! (Will write more on this if readers are interested to read and analyse)

2) My childhood was shaken by the cruel fate of my first so-called girlfriend got stolen under my nose (Will write more on this if readers are interested to read and analyse)

3) Compound by my weak, small, kind of to the point of impotent manhood, And to top it all, low sperm count that cannt make any female pregnant! So leaving my wife super upset and full of frustration! She was caught between her faithfulness with me but totalling missing her human needs! As the saying goes, at lot of female can go sexless for long time, due to taboo, self guilty or natural low sex drive. But my Mrs happened to be a total opposite, so making the situation extremely worse!

Ended up with her mood and temperament, just like the roller coaster up and and down, fast and slow, round and round. And then still coming back to square one at the starting point, waiting for another ride! Both of us were extremely difficult back in those roller coaster days.

Of coz adult toy can only do so much! Can it really replace the real thing? One is cold while the other is warm. One is dead while the other is live! One is robot while the other is human! The decision was so difficult when we started out many years ago.

If you are wearing my shoes, in your own opinion, what would you do?

Everyday quarrel till divorce?
Close one eye and let her cheat?
Confront the wall, either keep her inside like a jail cell or let the red apricot leans over the wall?

What say you? There is no right nor wrong. Skip the moral or taboo phrase will be easier. Even though i know your opinion or comments won't be able to change my history but still it will be nice to read your input. Thanks and cheers

[Nekofear]

I haven't read your story but I guess you kind of respect her decision, you are compatible with this and also this kind of controlled cheating if I were to find excuses to convince myself.

I'm not here to judge, no worries.

It's all subjective. Like some woman have really low threshold to consider husband cheats(husband chat w/ girl = cheat) while husband generally have high threshold to consider wife as cheating (wife sex with other man = cheat).

[absolutemayhem]

TS, as long as you happy with her.

[contentious]

Originally Posted by absolutemayhem

TS, as long as you happy with her.

Agree with you.

[verge]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

I haven't read your story but I guess you kind of respect her decision, you are compatible with this and also this kind of controlled cheating if I were to find excuses to convince myself.

I'm not here to judge, no worries.

It's all subjective. Like some woman have really low threshold to consider husband cheats(husband chat w/ girl = cheat) while husband generally have high threshold to consider wife as cheating (wife sex with other man = cheat).

I also agree with you.

[maddoff]

Hope to read more updates.

[gnabster]

Thank you for sharing your pov. Really a huge heart to make this decision.

[JustFarkIT]

Originally Posted by absolutemayhem

TS, as long as you happy with her.

Very well said.

[Az284]

Originally Posted by absolutemayhem

TS, as long as you happy with her.

Well said, much wisdom in few words.

[jhayr1015coc]

Originally Posted by absolutemayhem

TS, as long as you happy with her.

Totally Agree

[Sunwon]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

It's all subjective. Like some woman have really low threshold to consider husband cheats(husband chat w/ girl = cheat) while husband generally have high threshold to consider wife as cheating (wife sex with other man = cheat).

You are right, some wives can be quite unreasonable, that there is no fairness at all. When she cheated, she blamed everyone else but herself. But when I cheated, she gave me hell!

[Sunwon]

Originally Posted by gnabster

Thank you for sharing your pov. Really a huge heart to make this decision.

Not much of a choice. I was faced with imminent divorce OR sooner or later she wil start to find it outside!

[Sunwon]

To the rest of bros comments: all said about the same thing? As long I am happy?

Very safe answer, haha.. feel free to ask any question..

[viper]

As long as you happy...and she happy..can have fun together.
Open marriage.