Should I be honest?

[Lemonjuice]

On dating app looking for dates. Not for long term relationships but for short friendship with benefits.

I did not tell the lady I am married. My past experiences told me not to. Once, I chatted with an Indonesian lady for fun, and she came to Singapore. I met her but still didn't admit anything. But guess her sixth sense picked it up. I confessed in the car and tried to kiss her. She didn't resist and eventually gave me a blowjob. We spent that next 2 days dating/fucking.

Anyway, there is this Singaporean divorcee looking to meet me. I just want to date/fuck and go. Am I a 禽兽

[hellzell]

Depends. You got conscience or not? If not then go ahead and do whatever you want. If have conscience, just state outright that you are not looking for long term in your profile.

[Bigbluebird]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

I just want to date/fuck and go. Am I a 禽兽

Not rocket science. No need Doctorate to deduce too.

What are you seeking from us here? To agree and empathise with you?

Do anything, just be prepared for whatever comes along. Good, bad, the crap, karma etc.

[JohnBoLanPaJi]

Honesty is never the best policy

[ctan100]

Feels that when you asked whether should you be honest kinda putting emotions and feelings to it.

if you just want to satisfy yourself, which i presume the other party is also looking for, what you want is to get what he/she want also. So there really isnt a need to want to be 100% honest unless guilt is setting in

[oxeso]

Hell no! Be nice! If she's fugly, say u HIV+.

[talismann]

If you meet one who gets seriously pissed off with you lying to her, she may hunt you down and tell your wife.

[Tangible]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

On dating app looking for dates. Not for long term relationships but for short friendship with benefits.

Anyway, there is this Singaporean divorcee looking to meet me. I just want to date/fuck and go. Am I a 禽兽

Meet up and see actual person first.
If keen to move forward, state prior you are not looking for commitment.
It will be much better for you to just restrict yourself to non locals, less potential for repercussions.

[mikestc]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

On dating app looking for dates. Not for long term relationships but for short friendship with benefits.

I did not tell the lady I am married. My past experiences told me not to. Once, I chatted with an Indonesian lady for fun, and she came to Singapore. I met her but still didn't admit anything. But guess her sixth sense picked it up. I confessed in the car and tried to kiss her. She didn't resist and eventually gave me a blowjob. We spent that next 2 days dating/fucking.

Anyway, there is this Singaporean divorcee looking to meet me. I just want to date/fuck and go. Am I a 禽兽

Which dating app you use?

[ArmKarn]

Originally Posted by JohnBoLanPaJi

Honesty is never the best policy

Not always the best policy but usually is good policy ..,

[Peacekeeping]

You already know the answer. It never pays to be honest.

[Nekofear]

Honest only to be serious. Otherwise, nobody really wants to know the full story of anything :|

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by Lemonjuice

On dating app looking for dates. Not for long term relationships but for short friendship with benefits.

Why is honesty a requirement for short term friendship? Why do you assume they are being totally honest with you as well?

The danger to your question is you are not just looking for a short term relationship.