Suspicious suspect

[yangyang77]

Quick question:

What will you do or say if you knew 90% that your girl is cheating on you or seeing another guy behind your back (be it with or without sex with the other guy).

1) expose her
2) enjoy your time with her but with lesser or without commitments

Do enlighten me brothers and sisters

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[marcussia]

When I was in my teens, something like this happened to me.
got angry, beat up the guy, created a huge mess, eventually the girl still left, create a huge problem for myself which I feel not worth it.

As I grow older, my last ex also did the same thing, but I didn't get angry. I felt its not worth it. So I treated her less like a gf, more like a f**k toy. Surprisingly the less emotion I put in, the more she started to "love" me back. Eventually we still broke up, but that was because I got bored, and I told her straight that I know that she was f**king behind my back with her ex (which she stopped after I stop giving a f**k)

Totally your choice, but I feel if there is no merit in continuing then just move on... Don't waste your time and effort...

[plok]

Option 2 for me. And break up totally if she doesn’t let u fuck anymore.

[oxeso]

Go confirm the remaining 10%. Move on if it is.. Tiagong Sluts r for fucking, not for loving.

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by yangyang77

What will you do or say if you knew 90% that your girl is cheating on you or seeing another guy behind your back (be it with or without sex with the other guy).

1) expose her
2) enjoy your time with her but with lesser or without commitments

Calm down and think slowly. Your response will depend on your final choice. Since you 90% know she is cheating on you, marriage is no longer the final option.

Is she pretty? Figure good? If she is a FL, how much will you pay per shot? If marriage is not the final goal, then enjoy her to the max. Take photos and videos for memory. You are not paying her for sex anyway. After each shot, you know mentally you have saved $xxx dollars. But please use a condom. You never know how clean the other guy is. You also don't want her to be pregnant because you cannot be sure you are the father. So enjoy till you think it's time to let go.

Do you have other options or other girls to go after with marriage in mind? If yes, break up with her now. Your youth is limited too. Breaking up without exposing her is advisable . No need to burn bridges especially if you have common friends.

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Calm down and think slowly. Your response will depend on your final choice. Since you 90% know she is cheating on you, marriage is no longer the final option.

Is she pretty? Figure good? If she is a FL, how much will you pay per shot? If marriage is not the final goal, then enjoy her to the max. Take photos and videos for memory. You are not paying her for sex anyway. After each shot, you know mentally you have saved $xxx dollars. But please use a condom. You never know how clean the other guy is. You also don't want her to be pregnant because you cannot be sure you are the father. So enjoy till you think it's time to let go.

Do you have other options or other girls to go after with marriage in mind? If yes, break up with her now. Your youth is limited too. Breaking up without exposing her is advisable . No need to burn bridges especially if you have common friends.

That is oso what I thought to be. Just enjoy max and just take it as nothing happen and dunno she is doing that. Because this only make her angry and stop the sex all.

Good sex tho but just feel weird if she be so sweet to me when I noe she also ‘dates’ and hang out with other guys.
But then I take it out on her on sex and we both enjoyed it.

I think not going to take photos and videos as it is risky to hav it leaked out so just gonna enjoy while I find someone by my side too.

Marriage is a no no and yes I’ll be more careful with cds now knowing the risk is higher than usual but always we are with cds so just taking extra precautions

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by marcussia

When I was in my teens, something like this happened to me.
got angry, beat up the guy, created a huge mess, eventually the girl still left, create a huge problem for myself which I feel not worth it.

As I grow older, my last ex also did the same thing, but I didn't get angry. I felt its not worth it. So I treated her less like a gf, more like a f**k toy. Surprisingly the less emotion I put in, the more she started to "love" me back. Eventually we still broke up, but that was because I got bored, and I told her straight that I know that she was f**king behind my back with her ex (which she stopped after I stop giving a f**k)

Totally your choice, but I feel if there is no merit in continuing then just move on... Don't waste your time and effort...

Yes just enjoy it while it last. No point be angry or expose her thing will only get bad. That how I feel tho.

She do take the step to initiate nowadays feel weird but gon na just enjoy haha

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by oxeso

Go confirm the remaining 10%. Move on if it is.. Tiagong Sluts r for fucking, not for loving.

So gonna continue fucking and not lovin hahahahaha

[chrisdemon2004]

Sorry to hear this experience

I too have the same problem years ago...angry n sad at the same time

But be a man, and understand that until you're both married, there's no commitment.

So continue to be a bf, usual outings and fuck like rabbits.

End of day you're like paying a local freelance . Should feel better

[yangyang77]

Originally Posted by chrisdemon2004

Sorry to hear this experience

I too have the same problem years ago...angry n sad at the same time

But be a man, and understand that until you're both married, there's no commitment.

So continue to be a bf, usual outings and fuck like rabbits.

End of day you're like paying a local freelance . Should feel better

Yes I guess that’s the only way to go about. No point to hold grudges etc…. Life still go on. Because I personally caught and saw her that is why I can confirm and not assume. But even if I tell her she will not admit or maybe quarrel and argue and fight all which I Dunwan. So if can enjoy just enjoy the sex. Sex is good and better lately maybe because she is guilty or her six sense feel that I know about it.
Guess it is good for me haha but something in me still feel weird

[chocstarfish]

Originally Posted by marcussia

When I was in my teens, something like this happened to me.
got angry, beat up the guy, created a huge mess, eventually the girl still left, create a huge problem for myself which I feel not worth it.

As I grow older, my last ex also did the same thing, but I didn't get angry. I felt its not worth it. So I treated her less like a gf, more like a f**k toy. Surprisingly the less emotion I put in, the more she started to "love" me back. Eventually we still broke up, but that was because I got bored, and I told her straight that I know that she was f**king behind my back with her ex (which she stopped after I stop giving a f**k)

Totally your choice, but I feel if there is no merit in continuing then just move on... Don't waste your time and effort...

A wise man. Women never realise their looks and body are passing on. More often than not, their innate folly cost them some really good men. They then spend the rest of their miserable lives blaming us.

[chocstarfish]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

Calm down and think slowly. Your response will depend on your final choice. Since you 90% know she is cheating on you, marriage is no longer the final option.

Is she pretty? Figure good? If she is a FL, how much will you pay per shot? If marriage is not the final goal, then enjoy her to the max. Take photos and videos for memory. You are not paying her for sex anyway. After each shot, you know mentally you have saved $xxx dollars. But please use a condom. You never know how clean the other guy is. You also don't want her to be pregnant because you cannot be sure you are the father. So enjoy till you think it's time to let go.

Do you have other options or other girls to go after with marriage in mind? If yes, break up with her now. Your youth is limited too. Breaking up without exposing her is advisable . No need to burn bridges especially if you have common friends.

Plenty of younger women in the world for older men.

[chocstarfish]

Originally Posted by yangyang77

Yes I guess that’s the only way to go about. No point to hold grudges etc…. Life still go on. Because I personally caught and saw her that is why I can confirm and not assume. But even if I tell her she will not admit or maybe quarrel and argue and fight all which I Dunwan. So if can enjoy just enjoy the sex. Sex is good and better lately maybe because she is guilty or her six sense feel that I know about it.
Guess it is good for me haha but something in me still feel weird

The man in you have you chosen to act accordingly towards her. Like the rest of the men here suggested. Never ever make her a wife. On the sides, go pick other girls. I wish you good luck.

[chocstarfish]

Originally Posted by chrisdemon2004

Sorry to hear this experience

I too have the same problem years ago...angry n sad at the same time

But be a man, and understand that until you're both married, there's no commitment.

So continue to be a bf, usual outings and fuck like rabbits.

End of day you're like paying a local freelance . Should feel better

I couldn’t agree more.