life with OC

[ecruz]

Originally Posted by cncs

I guess alot of bros here have very understanding and co-operative wife. Every night I need to play scissor paper stone with my wife to see who does the chores.. Sigh!!!

Bro interesting leh ur life.. still so merry can play scissor paper stone..
cheers..

[Fatty George]

OC works, Come home, take dinner, watch television, sometimes conference call. Sleep. Touch her- she says tired.
I Go for In-Camp Training ...
EMA (Excercise Mobilisation Area) and
also talk about EMA - Extra Marital Affair.
Sex is not priorty or rather in her diary anymore.
Didn't eat out for a long time. Sometimes feel like having meal outside again.
Should I ?

[loneyheart]

Since t very 1st day gov encourage married women n full time housewives to continue to join t work force every thing had changed no more such word as housewife......n not to mention woman higher education level....

For t older generation no matter how low pay t husband earned when he come back from a hard day work he still received t respect as t master of t family.
She will make sure all house chores r nicely done n big decision still leave it to t master of t family.Wife duty to full fil husband sexual needs.....

Now women will asked for equality in every expect in life. they will tell u both r working n must share all house chores duty .....

If t husband earn much more then t wife , he still ok still have some respect as a small master of t family.
If t wife earn much more then t husband or even worse he is jobless....
then u can see who is bossing around......
not to mention sexual need , she can tell u pls do not disturb she is tired or she need to wake up early for heavy work next day....

High unemployment may be partly due to more n more working married women.....last time quite common to see guys work as Admin staff but now employer mostly hire lady only.....

Master of t family gone by t wind long long ago

I can understand why some choose to be single.....
Don't u married guys do sometime feel emptiness n lost somewhere in yr heart after more long years of marriage ?

More n more divorce cases why....
They dum see eyes to eyes in daily chores or one party flirt ard....

Of course there still alot of exceptional cases n i shall say t guy r greatly blessed. May they live happily ever after......

Just my narrow cent IMHO

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by sky_liner2

It's just like those young couples now that the BF carrys GF's handbag,

the amazing thing is when the boy boy would carry one of those cute tiny sexy little handbags for the girl girl when such little handbags are supposed to match the girl's theme or attire etc and the handbag will make her look even cuter carrying it. what can you put in a palm size handbag that need help to carry, and of course the boy boy will look like a barpo carrying it. is it supposed to be an act of love or what?

Originally Posted by sounding

last time my father told me this, if want get a wife get someone who can take care of you not only you take care of her.

i fully agree with it. we have to go for something more sustainable like her desire for housekeeping, cooking etc...

[yang punk]

The secret is to know "who needs who more" and never have joint bank accounts.
Of course having a loyal and faithful fb outside would make married life more bearable...

[StillLearning]

Originally Posted by lovemilf

Bro...I really envy you have such a wife.....my OC very very seldom do housework and now had totally stopped after we got maid and kid......most of the time, I'm the one to study and play with my girl.....
Cherish wat you have....does she know you surf SBF?

Yes, and she told me not to be addicted. In a way, a few of the stories are fun to read. She said that I should avoid reading the SBF stories and approach her at night. She is very accommodating.

[StillLearning]

Originally Posted by HCKing

nwadays alot of girls are demanding and intolerant.( too used to being pampered liao ) try raising yr voice at them and they will tell u to fark off instead of giving in. dont think the hard approach will work on them.

I believe that the younger generation have this attitide of "entitlement", that is they are entitled to this and that, which they were pampered as a child.

[VanGogh]

Originally Posted by Longitude

It is said that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. Yet there is also a saying that when poverty steps in at the door, love flies out of the window.

The latter is the sad reality of life.

i agree with u 100%... ...

remembered a chinese saying also quoted : "a poor couple will mean facing 100s of problem".. ... it really takes alot of understanding and mutual support to ride the couple thru.. ..

poverty was the main factor that drove my marrige nuts 8 yrs ago, although i was not really that poor, but my shit ex-OC kept comparing her lifestlye with her rich "tai-tai" friends.... while I'm just a poor engineer.. .. KNN.. ..

my divorce was painful with a tingle of joy... joy because finally i felt free of all the problems , quarrells and problem with ex-OC... painful was fully for my kids...

today, I did not regret my decision... ... what i'm trying to say is the people around your OC also plays a part... u know wat i mean ??

... just sharing my 2 cents though.. ..

[Softcore]

Instead of gripping about it here, why don't the guys that are pussified by their wives stand up to them instead?

[alea]

How nice if i do not have any libido. Then don't have to bother about pleasing OC, etc.

[lovemilf]

Originally Posted by StillLearning

Yes, and she told me not to be addicted. In a way, a few of the stories are fun to read. She said that I should avoid reading the SBF stories and approach her at night. She is very accommodating.

I really admired you wife for being so open and trusting you so much. Does she knows that the website also got a lot of lobangs to find sex?
Last time before my married, my wife would sometimes buy porn vcd for us to see together....but after married, she will be angry if I buy porn vcd or surf those websites

[lovemilf]

[QUOTE=sky_liner2;4069242]I acknowledge your calling for "HELP"!

Things that are related to my side are unimportant, but not vice versa.
QUOTE]

I certainly understand how you feel Bro.....why can't they think from our view...if we can't be bother with our family and treat them well, what makes them think we will be bother with their family.....i always tell my wife that if i'm those type of person which don't even care for my family, does she think that i will treat her family well? My wife is the youngest among her siblings and her age gap with them is quite big, that's why she had always been pampered and spoilt.....before marriage she is still ok and fun to be with but that changes after marriage.....but luckily for me is that her family ack that and that I treat them well....whenever we quarrel, they will always side me as they knew that the quarrel always arises due to her temper and minor things......and the most important factor that we are still together is....she borne me a cute girl who is everything to me now......whenever i feel down due to work or with my OC, seeing and playing with my daughter will cool down everything and brighten my day....

[aufait]

There are some things in life that we cant change. Instead of lamenting on them we should seek solace in the things that can give up happiness. Isnt this what this forum is all about?

[pokeman71]

Originally Posted by sundial

there are many here ....
always want this and that but cannot contribute ... a real liability

Halo, who are you to comment on a Sammer old bird. Look at his pts, you will know how much he had done for SBF. Look at you, we will know what have you done and contribute to SBF.

[Spanner]

My wife and I almost divorce 3 months, it was a tough marriage as she was mentally unstable.

Sex can be counted on 1 hand in a year. She can suddenly lose her temper fare up for no particular reasons.

I very much wanted to leave her but because of her condition and the love I decided to hold on and God (I'm a Catholic) lead me to more help that I can imagine.

And 3 months down the road, I'm glad that I hold back my decision, the help that we are receiving are encouraging.

Communication is important. My wife and will write to each other every night. Yes writing as in pen and paper. Its was a wonderful way to communicate.

Now sex life is consider quite ok. We have it for about 4 times a week, friday nights out and plus a sex role play on sat night. And I will cook a wonderful meal for her every sunday (I was a ex chef)

So to all the brothers here who have a terrible marriage, go and seek help from the professionals, gave yourself and and your wife a chance. It may turn out more than what you expected.........