Sex with other people gf/wife

[Laolucas]

waiting to hear more of your story bro

Originally Posted by Shogun456

@Rickey @TheDriverGuy

Haha, the worst thing that could have happened, M came back knocking the door, I was frantically cleaning up as much as I could but there was a stain of cum on the blanket

[Xgenre]

Originally Posted by woshixiaok

met a girl in her early 30s (I'm in my mid 20s).She practically told me she's okay with holding hands, hugging, kissing but nothing further than that. I havent progress to hugging, kissing yet.... Any chances I can up her? She scared she say she old cow eat young grass on me. We joke joke say go hotel what not but didnt happen.

Not sure is it cuz of her still married status. Any advice fellow bros?

I advise you to think logically with big head and sensually with small head. Logically with big head, I will think of the future. What are the possible ways this may end? Will she divorce her husband and marry you? Any kids involved? Will your social circles accept an older divorced woman? Is she simply a to-do list whom you will disappear from after sex?

Sexually with small head, I think you are very inexperienced as a lover. The biggest hurdle for a married woman is public display of affection. They are afraid of being seen with someone else. She tells you she is OK with that. She is open to going to a hotel and she even showed you her vulnerable side (no feelings for husband).

She is waiting for you to man up and take the lead. She is a girl no matter what. Does she have to lead you to the Hotel 81 reception and take out your NRIC from your wallet for you? If you want sex, you have to learn to lead. She already lay out the red carpet and you still cannot recognise the invitation. Your penis still growing pubic hair right?

[woshixiaok]

Originally Posted by Nekofear

Hold hands in public. If she want to go next step, grab her hands and tuck it in your arms/elbow when u guys meet up. Tell her that, you dont want other men to steal you away in public. Show to her that you are attracted to her when alone in lift, hug her. Tell her that the Dior perfume she used smell nice. Need her to get used to you touching her.

already hold hand in public ...
went out with her for a drink (thats when she shared she married)

she said its a gamble for her when she shared to me

as when she share to other guys, they immediately distance themselves from her.

also hand on her waist, over her shoulder, did say her perfume is nice (unbranded tho), considering to get her chanel/dior one

thanks for the other tips

[woshixiaok]

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I advise you to think logically with big head and sensually with small head. Logically with big head, I will think of the future. What are the possible ways this may end? Will she divorce her husband and marry you? Any kids involved? Will your social circles accept an older divorced woman? Is she simply a to-do list whom you will disappear from after sex?

Sexually with small head, I think you are very inexperienced as a lover. The biggest hurdle for a married woman is public display of affection. They are afraid of being seen with someone else. She tells you she is OK with that. She is open to going to a hotel and she even showed you her vulnerable side (no feelings for husband).

She is waiting for you to man up and take the lead. She is a girl no matter what. Does she have to lead you to the Hotel 81 reception and take out your NRIC from your wallet for you? If you want sex, you have to learn to lead. She already lay out the red carpet and you still cannot recognise the invitation. Your penis still growing pubic hair right?

Thanks ur advice is actually good

1. No kids, not sure about her divorcing her husband and marrying, but honestly I more towards the side of keeping her as fwb if possible. Right now, I'm single in my 20s no gf so no commitments.

2. Spot on, I admit I am inexperienced (that's why I'm asking for advice here). Did ask her before, she says her husband is a stay home type of person so she's okay.

3. Noted

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