Do men in Singapore give their wives allowance? If yes, how much?

[parrotkid]

Hi. Do you guys give your wives allowance? The kind that she gets to keep and not spend on the family.
If yes, how much?

[SlimButHeavy]

$0/-. fyi:D

Hi. Do you guys give your wives allowance? The kind that she gets to keep and not spend on the family.
If yes, how much?

[parrotkid]

$0/-. fyi:D

Really? My wife told me her friends their husbands all got give so I don’t knkw how much to give is appropriate.

[enzyme00]

Give her some allowance to spend, say $1500 per month:D

[fallen11]

Really? My wife told me her friends their husbands all got give so I don’t knkw how much to give is appropriate.

$0 :D

friends husband give = u must give?
friends husband jump down from level 25 = u jump down from level 25 too?
:D

[vitamim]

Agree with you

$0 :D

friends husband give = u must give?
friends husband jump down from level 25 = u jump down from level 25 too?
:D

[vitamim]

Women earn more than man. Why not wife give husband allowance?

Really? My wife told me her friends their husbands all got give so I don’t knkw how much to give is appropriate.

[parrotkid]

Give her some allowance to spend, say $1500 per month:D

But she works too and doesn’t pay for family expenses.

[enzyme00]

Do you mean that your wife is working? If she is working then that is another story

But she works too and doesn’t pay for family expenses.

[parrotkid]

Do you mean that your wife is working? If she is working then that is another story

Then what is the other story?
I also pay for all family spending.

[enzyme00]

She give you money:D

Then what is the other story?

[vitahealth]

Women chapter power. Better be woman than man

Ya give your wife 1.5k monthly then when divorce time u see u jialat or not.:D

[Big Sexy]

since when is WOMEN'S CHARTER... women chapter? :D

https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=239909


Women chapter power. Better be woman than man

[vitahealth]

OMG!

Thanks for pointing out

since when is WOMEN'S CHARTER... women chapter? :D

https://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=239909

[fallen11]

Ya give your wife 1.5k monthly then when divorce time u see u jialat or not.:D

ya.
when she divorce u
the 1.5k a mth will also be proof to the court of her required upkeep.
use that to continue extracting the same amount of money from u every mth even after divorce.
Then she use the money pay little white face or pay amdk to screw her every night. :)

[watercome]

Don't keep money! Money will depreciate.

Last time a triangular currypuff cost $40\- now the same currypuff cost $2\- already.

Hi. Do you guys give your wives allowance? The kind that she gets to keep and not spend on the family.
If yes, how much?

[vitahealth]

$0.40 or $40\-?

Don't keep money! Money will depreciate.

Last time a triangular currypuff cost $40\- now the same currypuff cost $2\- already.

[vitahealth]

Wah! Killer to man! Cannot lah!

ya.
when she divorce u
the 1.5k a mth will also be proof to the court of her required upkeep.
use that to continue extracting the same amount of money from u every mth even after divorce.
Then she use the money pay little white face or pay amdk to screw her every night. :)

[AlienWar]

Agree, don't keep. Spend on FL

Don't keep money! Money will depreciate.

Last time a triangular currypuff cost $40\- now the same currypuff cost $2\- already.

[decrody]

ya.
when she divorce u
the 1.5k a mth will also be proof to the court of her required upkeep.
use that to continue extracting the same amount of money from u every mth even after divorce.
Then she use the money pay little white face or pay amdk to screw her every night. :)

Remain single the best. The law favours female.

[Zzz59]

$0. Cos she earning more than me

[watercome]

Spend on food lah!

Agree, don't keep. Spend on FL

[watercome]

$0.40 is 35years ago

$40/- is 35 years later

$0.40 or $40\-?

[liuhai]

Spend on $40 curry puff?:confused:

Spend on food lah!

[watercome]

Why not? It is possible!

Spend on $40 curry puff?:confused:

[fallen11]

rather spend it on xiao3! :)

[Jay Chou]

Then what is the other story?
I also pay for all family spending.

Up u bro. 😊

[Junction7]

What is xiao3?

rather spend it on xiao3! :)

[brownmole]

I also want to know

What is xiao3?

[Hesenny]

Remain single the best. The law favours female.

This is very true

[EasterlyWind]

So when are you going to be a woman?:D

Women chapter power. Better be woman than man

[liuhai]

Don't keep money! Money will depreciate.

Last time a triangular currypuff cost $40\- now the same currypuff cost $2\- already.

$0.40 is 35years ago

$40/- is 35 years later

You flip prata very fast, minister material

[hliang]

I also want to know

Little 3 :D

[Junction7]

Fyi:

Click here (https://sbf.net.nz/showpost.php?p=17728782&postcount=32)

I also want to know

[HuangXiaoJi]

Me too $0/-:D

$0/-. fyi:D

[SlimButHeavy]

Good lor:D

Me too $0/-:D

[vitahealth]

I am already women

So when are you going to be a woman?:D

[watercome]

I worked in prata store before

You flip prata very fast, minister material

[Nexwaver]

Fyi:

Click here (https://sbf.net.nz/showpost.php?p=17728782&postcount=32)

Don't anyhow click, got virus or not?

[Buangkok15]

I also want to know

Don't anyhow click, got virus or not?

[parrotkid]

So no one gives allowance?

[JacqueMerlin]

I didn't give a fixed Allowance when i was married to my local wife. But i paid for every damn thing.

[devilborne87]

Give her none since u are already paying for family expenses.....buy her birthday present at most.....bring her out for dinner for anniversary.....more than enough le......

[ToCumCum]

I didn't give a fixed Allowance when i was married to my local wife. But i paid for every damn thing.

that's sort of the same as allowances....

[MoeLanYong]

Limit your wife to an allowance and she will limit your bedroom activities with her. Share with her everything you own and she will share with you everything she has.

[Taffy83]

Hi. Do you guys give your wives allowance? The kind that she gets to keep and not spend on the family.
If yes, how much?

If she is working, why need to give her allowance? And you are the one paying all the expenses

If you want maybe can start a joint account and both of you put in the same amount each month, so end of year can use that money for a family tour or save it up for retirement.

Money forever not enough...haa

[fallen11]

Limit your wife to an allowance and she will limit your bedroom activities with her. Share with her everything you own and she will share with you everything she has.

most people here would wish it were that simple:)

[MoeLanYong]

most people here would wish it were that simple:)

It is. The problem is most people don't do it. Scroll up. It is not a very difficult marriage concept. When you draw lines in the sand, she will also draw lines in the sand :)

[fallen11]

It is. The problem is most people don't do it. Scroll up. It is not a very difficult marriage concept. When you draw lines in the sand, she will also draw lines in the sand :)

well at least that didnt happen for me :(

[PlayToto]

If i give her $10 she will buy 1 set System7 and 3 sets ordinary.

if i give her $100 she will buy 14 sets System7 and 2 sets ordinary.


So i give her $10 only

[JLamb]

$0.

She has her own income. In fact, more than me.

[rey69]

I worked in prata store before

Top management or renowned politician like Donald Dump.

[MoeLanYong]

well at least that didnt happen for me :(

Then you need to have a long talk with her. About quid pro quo. If indeed you have given her your everything :)

[fallen11]

Then you need to have a long talk with her. About quid pro quo. If indeed you have given her your everything :)

she even reject to talk or counselling
so end up go lawyer firm sign docs to submit to court
:D

[parrotkid]

Limit your wife to an allowance and she will limit your bedroom activities with her. Share with her everything you own and she will share with you everything she has.

I doubt that will happen. If share money with her already and then she doesn’t give more bedroom activities then also lan lan. Worse. After that want to stop sharing money very hard.

[MoeLanYong]

she even reject to talk or counselling
so end up go lawyer firm sign docs to submit to court
:D

At the rate you are scoring goals outside, I too want to go court to complain you are having too much fun. :D

[MoeLanYong]

I doubt that will happen. If share money with her already and then she doesn’t give more bedroom activities then also lan lan. Worse. After that want to stop sharing money very hard.

Maybe thats why your bedroom activities are limited.

[parrotkid]

Maybe thats why your bedroom activities are limited.

If the bedroom activities depends on how much she receives, doesn’t that make her like a prostitute? Then she has no respect for herself. Like that hard to respect her if she respects only money.

[a2014]

If the bedroom activities depends on how much she receives, doesn’t that make her like a prostitute? Then she has no respect for herself. Like that hard to respect her if she respects only money.

It all boils down to who you married to and not how much you need to give. If you choose the wrong party for some reason which most of us use to do then too bad, the consequence will be there waiting for you.

[parrotkid]

It all boils down to who you married to and not how much you need to give. If you choose the wrong party for some reason which most of us use to do then too bad, the consequence will be there waiting for you.

Seems to be the case. She used to be a simple person who is happy with a $2000+ salary. She knew my job when she married me and there was no way my job could provide for a luxurious lifestyle. Cost of living was low then too. Nobody expected it to rise so much and for women to evolve and change when they keep interacting with lousy people around them.

[somefatguy]

Seems to be the case. She used to be a simple person who is happy with a $2000+ salary. She knew my job when she married me and there was no way my job could provide for a luxurious lifestyle. Cost of living was low then too. Nobody expected it to rise so much and for women to evolve and change when they keep interacting with lousy people around them.

Human need to evolve. And when they initially agreed for the marriage they was naive. But society is harsh and they start to compare.

So if salary remains low without ambition, so do the family. If others could afford a condo and a nice ride at young age. Why not her, she will think.

Maybe initially no think so much.

[MoeLanYong]

If the bedroom activities depends on how much she receives, doesn’t that make her like a prostitute? Then she has no respect for herself. Like that hard to respect her if she respects only money.

If you are kind to someone and that someone returns the favor by being kind to you, does this make that someone a hypocrite? After all, he is only kind to you AFTER you were kind to him.

No, my friend. He was reciprocating. As your wife will, if she is normal. Courtesy begets courtesy. Selfishness begets selfishness. Someone buys you a beer often enough, you will want to buy him back a beer.

[verywelldone]

Very well said:D

Human need to evolve. And when they initially agreed for the marriage they was naive. But society is harsh and they start to compare.

So if salary remains low without ambition, so do the family. If others could afford a condo and a nice ride at young age. Why not her, she will think.

Maybe initially no think so much.

[fallen11]

At the rate you are scoring goals outside, I too want to go court to complain you are having too much fun. :D

dont assume ah.
thats the problem u see.
most people come to conclusion like this.

breakup = treat girl bad
if not treat girl bad and break up = go out fuck around other girls.

in your mind, your world really so simplistic?

[parrotkid]

If you are kind to someone and that someone returns the favor by being kind to you, does this make that someone a hypocrite? After all, he is only kind to you AFTER you were kind to him.

No, my friend. He was reciprocating. As your wife will, if she is normal. Courtesy begets courtesy. Selfishness begets selfishness. Someone buys you a beer often enough, you will want to buy him back a beer.

If in a marriage need to use money in order for the wife to treat the husband well then the husband only has to lose and it is a lose-lose situation.
When husband keeps giving wife money and leave little to himself, the wife becomes very rich when both are old and then will kick the husband out when he starts to earn less and give less.

This kind of wife, marry for what.

[MoeLanYong]

If in a marriage need to use money in order for the wife to treat the husband well then the husband only has to lose and it is a lose-lose situation.
When husband keeps giving wife money and leave little to himself, the wife becomes very rich when both are old and then will kick the husband out when he starts to earn less and give less.

This kind of wife, marry for what.

Its about using money to structure and benefit your marriage. Not let money divide you two. Or worse, make money an issue to quarrel over. Then, you have unwisely prized money above your happiness. Quarrelling over money is a common reason why many marriages break down. Money is a good servant but a bad master.

To you, more for her means less for you. It shows the sorry state of affairs.

When I wrote "share", I meant having a joint acct with her that both have access to. She will feel trusted and responsible. Keep small amounts in separate individual accounts for daily living. For big ticket items (set limits eg 1k and above), discuss and pay from joint. This way, money binds. Not separate. I use this method. It works wonders.

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Ps: Oh, if you are the kind that want to keep a secret slush fund to womanize outside, please ignore what I wrote above. It was written on the assumption that one is sincere about making his marriage work.