One and Only Girlfriend

[kacangoven]

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks

[naan1974]

TS, let me play the devil's advocate here.

" The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling. "

With this mindset, if you go with the marriage, 90% you will stray because you've always felt short change and over time , all marriages gets boring and stale.

But if you choose to end this and you cant find a more suitable partner,
you will then join the group " i did not marry the women i love most in my life "

in either scenario, it's not perfect. You are only in your twenties, how much have you seen in life?

[Greendevil]

bro, whoever is your gf/wife now or future all sibei unlucki. together for long time , and since very long together you have to marry or end it. what kind of logic is this. it is not as thou feeling faded, then that another issue.

if you choose to end it, it is fair to your gf? She did nothing wrong. or probably her only mistake is not to ditch you earlier and wasting her youth on you. next time you marry a woman, also same thing la issit? marry very long liao, sian then divorce lor.

lanjiao itchy, just say lanjiao itchy, don give yourself or come here give this crap excuse. And don come here ask ppl for 'advice' hopefully to hear something positive to you so that you feel less guilty or better off as if you are doing the right thing. wanna go fuck other hole, jus go.

next time come here will ask, i only fuck two woman in my life, should i go fuck another one. then come 3 then 4 , then 5. so many holes in the world, where the end

JUST ADMIT IT, YOU R HORNY AND LANJIAO ITCHY

P.S: lucki today LB power used up else i sure zap your point

[purepulp]

I'm gonna up your points bro… Well said…

To TS,

Maybe you can tell your GF to pause the r/s for a year so you can go have other experiences and if nothing better comes along you guys can get back together and get married?

That self-entitlement mindset of the youth these days...

bro, whoever is your gf/wife now or future all sibei unlucki. together for long time , and since very long together you have to marry or end it. what kind of logic is this. it is not as thou feeling faded, then that another issue.

if you choose to end it, it is fair to your gf? She did nothing wrong. or probably her only mistake is not to ditch you earlier and wasting her youth on you. next time you marry a woman, also same thing la issit? marry very long liao, sian then divorce lor.

lanjiao itchy, just say lanjiao itchy, don give yourself or come here give this crap excuse. And don come here ask ppl for 'advice' hopefully to hear something positive to you so that you feel less guilty or better off as if you are doing the right thing. wanna go fuck other hole, jus go.

next time come here will ask, i only fuck two woman in my life, should i go fuck another one. then come 3 then 4 , then 5. so many holes in the world, where the end

JUST ADMIT IT, YOU R HORNY AND LANJIAO ITCHY

[ah rat]

Ts,u should happy that u have 1 only GF. Other ppls even don't have one.
Bro if u have more,it will be headache for u :D

[Eternal Luck]

If your gf treats you well why must you look at other girls?

[fictionman]

TS...Better stay single all ur life so u can fcuk other gals wzout any hint of guilt...

[demonhunter]

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks

You don't know what you are missing in life if you stick to one woman .



:D

[prettymannequin]

If you wanna end it, then end it now. Don't waste her time.

[Buki]

How to eat same dish every day? But don't over di it as well.

[BMW69]

If this is the only reason why you're not marrying her, marry her.

[bltan]

TS just imagine your gf asking the same question.

[tomyumgong]

Bro,

Follow your heart n go for it if you really love her. Pls Seperate love n lust.

Other ppl gf or wife are always better than yours no matter who u married.

So just decide now if your girl is the one that you can spend time with, to have children n can share up n down in life. If u think yes, then go for it.

To solve your lust, haha. Many ways. That's why we r here in this forum. But that doesn't mean we dint love our wife.

No girl will allow you to stop n reconsider the relationship for a year. If u think she is not the one, then end it. Don't waste her time. Move on. I married my second gf. I do think she is suitable as wife but not lover. But I m contented. I might nvr find a perfect choice. Why gamble n waste my time searching high n low. Haha.

[SpikeTitan]

If you are going to regret having one gf, please dont even have one. Just break up already and go flirt with other girls. You are simple not matured yet to have a relationship by asking this question.

I'm definately older than you and dont even have a gf my whole life, so quit bitching about regret and I'm neither am I complaining about having no gf.

[ishootarrows]

Bro, I think I understand what you're facing too. I'm also currently having my 1st girlfriend and it has been steady all this while, despite minor disputes which can be easily resolved. Personally for me, i love my gf but i'm not sure if she is the one i want to be with for the rest of my life. It's not about the sex, but your future.

IMO, you should try asking for a break in your relationship. This will let both of you have more experience. If you still love her and the feeling is mutual, y'all can just get back together. If not, then wouldnt it be good that you guys broke up?

[James Porn]

Believe me, this question of whether the grass is greener over the other side will be forever be in your mind as long as you live :)

We are all humans, if we guys can think this way, what makes you so sure the gals don;t think the way we do? I have come across conversations among gals who fantasize about the hunky handsome korean actors. If given the chance, do you think they will reject? Ha ha!

Anyway, life is like a buffet spread. Just eat whatever you can handle.

[Demonkin7]

Believe me, this question of whether the grass is greener over the other side will be forever be in your mind as long as you live :)

We are all humans, if we guys can think this way, what makes you so sure the gals don;t think the way we do? I have come across conversations among gals who fantasize about the hunky handsome korean actors. If given the chance, do you think they will reject? Ha ha!

Anyway, life is like a buffet spread. Just eat whatever you can handle.

Totally agree with Bro James Porn.
From the looks of ts question can know that his mindset is rather fresh.
Ts u also haven't try lb n get banged before.
Maybe grass is grener on the other side too?
U never try u never know right?
There r so many things that might look good to u, so u want to try EVERYTHING?
With that in mind rather u dun waste ur gf time.
A lady's youth is more precious than a man's youth.
Dun drag someone else into ur hell.

[Greendevil]

I guess TS also nv try broke back mountain before. There a gay forum over there too, Choo Choo, go try!

[Nonteeruk2553]

If you start this thread means she is not one for u.

[zzaabbc]

Seems like you're seeking more towards fun than commitment. Then I guess you already have your answer, and she deserves someone better.

[Ashyboy]

Bro..jus break up with your gf la..Don waste her youth on you..from what u wrote over here..u r still on the funky type whom u don wan to finsh your single life..Trust me when u r married..NO MORE SINGLE LIFE liao coz everything will be tied down tgt with yr wife liao..and also u r not in serious in BGR too..i know u wan to try on other gals like siam bu..viet bu too...By no means coz u mayb already having single life..But when age catches up u might be regret that yr ex gf is well better then the outside "fishes".

Good Luck Bro..My cents of concern to u..

[kacangoven]

Thanks for all your advise bros.

Lets just say that I have been fucking around since college. I have tried many different nationalities before. I have been to strip clubs, FKK clubs, tried escorts, etc. So yes I have done my share of sins in the past. But even during "chasing her" part, I never even have any interest in doing it besides with her.

Maybe some bros here are right, that the question of "the grass is always greener" will always be there.

I guess I should just feel blessed that I found her.

[Topup]

Thanks for all your advise bros.

Lets just say that I have been fucking around since college. I have tried many different nationalities before. I have been to strip clubs, FKK clubs, tried escorts, etc. So yes I have done my share of sins in the past. But even during "chasing her" part, I never even have any interest in doing it besides with her.

Maybe some bros here are right, that the question of "the grass is always greener" will always be there.

I guess I should just feel blessed that I found her.


The whole saying is "The grass is always greener on the other side......because there's more shit there! " Mwaahaha haha!

[discordpiggy]

Ts,u should happy that u have 1 only GF. Other ppls even don't have one.
Bro if u have more,it will be headache for u :D

ah rat! well said! i will UP you... not with points :D

TS, u should be happy that you have a gf... some bros here don't have... while some women like me can never find...

you create the magic to make it work... it is all in you... good luck! :p

[cheanyee]

Ts should break up with his gf. Let her gf fuck by other guy like u fuck other girl

[itsme]

TS, glad you are here amongst bros and all with open sharing allowing you to see wider angle. I am like you, having one girl, and like the bros here said, I drool seeing pretty, fantasizing seeing sexy, I have itch and I get horny.
Then there is this thing that weighs much more than distrust, which I want no part in. Thank God over the years I somehow managed not to fix anything that ain't broken. I enjoyed it and nature it to blossom.
My girl friend of only 3 months & wife of 30 years is the someone I shaped out of love, and I believe certain part of me was gloomed by her too.
See this forum too has been very good to me and keeps my sex appetite going especially these recent years. Great thanks to the bros for their true sharing and unselfish, exciting contributions.
Cheers and God Bless all to be safe.

[Nikkikoh]

Once start cannot stop.
Think twice before making a decision.
Just don't be selfish.
What goes around comes around.

[tallsynn]

TS, some ppl may regret, but some ppl wont, it all depends on yourself.
For me, married to the right person, (someone that will help by ur side when things get bad) is more important then married to the one we wanted or lusted, Coz u can end up cheating her, making ur families frustrated, even jeopardize ur children future.

Is OK to hv just 1 women in ur life, It all depends on yourself. follow your heart, dun follow your eyes.

[mcyeoh]

most people do not know this....men and women are biologically wired to be polygamous but around 4 million....something amazing happen...monogamy happen...this evolutionary feature/trait propels us, humans to what we are and who we are today....research states that the comparison between a monogamous vs a polygamous relationship that a the former will have higher chance of achieving happiness whereas the latter have lower chance.

[justdifferent]

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks


once upon a time, i was in your situation. so now i'm "过来人", the advice that i can give to you is: choose.

before you marry her, choose.

take some time and ask your heart and your mind: do you

a) love her more than you want to play
b) want to play more than you love her

it really is that simple. if you feel more like playing then do break things off properly and firmly with her and go play till your heart's content. if you love her more then don't think about playing around. sometimes the more you feed your mind something, the more you go down that path. stop thinking about it, stop fantasizing about it, etc. it takes time to gear your mind that way, but it is possible. we are partially in control of our thoughts.

it may sound simple but in reality when you're in such a situation, it is really difficult. we all want the best of both worlds. i knew at that point of time after i've tried everything and played around enough that the person i want in the end is still her. so what would be the point of playing around first? sometimes, if you don't experience something for yourself you would never accept that it is so.

just know that there is a huge probability (or actually more like almost definitely) that she will not be yours anymore after you've went and played around. the temptation will always be there. the question is: is it worth it?

[4getful]

TS, u sure she has only one men? If yes, u got yourself a virgin, y wait? Treat her gd n married her. Sometimes, u need to ask yourself. U love her or love her body? I noe of many men like to get a standby b4 they found the one worth to get married. But if u think u still want to play, might juz break up n let her meet other good men, like myself:D

[ebonkie]

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks

dun bullshit, u so fussy.. how to find 'outside grass'

[computerGuy]

TS, ya go out, have fun and be a playboy.
Break up with your gf and let her go. Dont waste her time and effort.

Guess how shameless you are if your gf are reading this.

[doublejay]

Hi Bros,

I know that this particular sub-forum is suppose to be about sex. But I got a question to ask you bros. I have a girlfriend, and so far she is my one and only. I am currently in mid-twenties, and so is she. So we are at the point whether to go all the way (marriage) or somehow to end it.

The concern that I am having is that I am afraid that I might regret that during my whole life I only had 1 girlfriend. I know that sometimes "your neighbors grass is not always greener" but I still have this tingling feeling.

so, is there any bros out there that his wife is his one and only girlfriend, and do you bros regret it?

Thanks

Hi TS,

May i ask if you are also your gf one and only? If so ever considered she may be thinking the same?

[topman8788]

I used to date my first gf for 7 years and came to a time have the same thinking as TS. Decided to be brave one day and call it an end. Date was dull, sex was boring. She dont doll up. Different mindset. Once break off, never look back since. I swear on that day I wont even go near to anyone who is not at least 8/10. Lol. TS JUST BREAK UP WITH YOUR GF. If you thinking like this, dont waste her time anymore. Thanks me later

Mr Topman

[orangeproud]

Thanks for all your advise bros.

Lets just say that I have been fucking around since college. I have tried many different nationalities before. I have been to strip clubs, FKK clubs, tried escorts, etc. So yes I have done my share of sins in the past. But even during "chasing her" part, I never even have any interest in doing it besides with her.

Maybe some bros here are right, that the question of "the grass is always greener" will always be there.

I guess I should just feel blessed that I found her.

Since u last time having lots of fun & fling liao, nw u hv found her, but u seem unsure tat d one u going to spend ur whole life wif is it her? If u unwilling to settle dwn so young due to financial problem or others, juz tell her dun mislead her. Some guys juz can't spend their entire life facing 1 woman.

Juz mix around, make more friends, dun go steady first. There're lots of younger, prettiest n sexiest ladies out there but might nt suit u.

Treasure wat u hv nw. If feel ur love life is getting boring, do something to spice it up.;):)

[junior_cannibal]

Marriage in reality is not just about two people. Its about two families. Some questions you need to ask:

1. what is that about her you hate yet you can live by it
2. are the two families able to get along well

The reason why I didn't ask you what is that about her you love, cause if you can answer question number 1, it is as good as answering the question about what you love.

Like one of the bros here mentioned, what if she were the one that raise the same question about you? How would you feel.

[Slaveatwork]

Strongly agree with bro justdifferent. And it goes without saying, you know which other advice to ignore. My view is this:

Guys always want to play. I happen to have a few buddies who were extremely wild back in their 20s. No one ever thought they would settle down but all of them now are happily married, some with kids. If your gf is the one and no one else can tell you whether she is or not, then please do not let her go. For anything.

If she's just someone you've been dating a long time, please do yourself a favour, go out there and have some fun. Your 20s are a great time to be doing some irresponsible things. I myself had the best time with girls in my late 20s.

Eventually you will mature and just grow out of this phase. And when you do, you just got to find someone who will make you happy for the rest of your life.

[PrinceCharles]

Strongly agree with bro justdifferent


Same here ;)