falling in love with a siam bu, no money

[rachelmon]

hi bro and sis,

I am 24 years old this year.
Started chionging during my army days when i was 21 years old.
Started with KTV, then geylang then thai disco.
Now i found myself siam-ing everytime when i got my salary.
My salary every month after CPF is around 1300-1400 provided with OT.
Most of the time the siam budget will not hit 400.
However these past few month, i met a siam bu.
This siam bu is the one type i really like.
She is not really pretty, more to cute.
So first time when i met her, i spend 180 hanging flowers and buying shots for her.
Everyday i just feel like seeing her,
So went to that particular siam tiu just to see her.
Flowers, shots to impress her,
But she refused to have further relationship other than customer and siam bu.
Therefore i give up,
And i found out she is currently in relationship with her manager.
So i find that i am actually quite stupid.
Now i am left with 50bucks till next payday.
Lucky thing is she went back thailand already.
No more next siam target
My target now is to go travel around and lead a proper life.
Hope i could control my drinking/siaming habit and save more money.
Wish me luck.

With love,
Rachelmon

[Black_Hawk_Up]

It good you realise early such relationship does not end up anywhere most of the time. I have seem lot of friends and colleagues wasted time and money due to such relationship. No way u can talk them out of it until things turn south.

At your age do consider upgrading your skill for a better prospect. Never stop learning.

Good luck pal.

[jnudes]

I first cheonged at Thailand when I was 24 years old. New culture shock to me when I see naked ladies dancing on the stage for the first time. Broke up with my ex that time. At your tender age the best is to keep learning new things in life and keep improving. Only then you can be a better person.

[nextview]

the 1st time i chiong siam tui was with some of the samster and samstress over here, i only hang about $100 and when she come over and sit with me, i wasn't intend to fish any gals over there. after that i went few time again but i just told them i have gf and driving, so they didn't ask me to hang flower or drink again :D

you are lucky that you get back shore on time, else you will get Kced.:D


they come over to earn some quick buck and they will be back to their country, most of the gals only treat you like carrot head only

[Nonteerak2553]

It's part and parcel of chiong-ing life.

No matter which discos you go, as long there's coyotes/singers/models/pr/pg what ever they called themselves, they're bound to get KC by them, especially if you're newbie.

Some old bird also got KC, not to forget myself. There's a saying if you want to chiong, do bring your money but leave your heart at home if you don't want to have sleepless nights. :D

Anyway these girls are very good at making you throwing your money at them. It's their profession.

Keep some money, and if you really like thai girl, come to thailand and find one. Here there're a plenty for you to choose. 5555

[chanster]

All same one , be it Taiwan Korean or Thai hanging flower ..

[justl00king]

Bro, it's a blessing in disguise with only small damage.

Now snap out of it and go get a decent gf, good luck! :D

[esssinine]

its the privilege of the young to do all the stupid things as long as u do get into irreversible damage like being saddled with a debt that ruins u or get to go to jail terms that destroy your life.

but all these dumbass things got to stop too as u age

anyway u will probably get tired of it by then

[melikemsg]

24 years old! Wow... i was still mugging when i was 24. No lifer back den.

It's ok bro... at least you kinda snapped out of it/ kena forced to snap out of it. We cannot turn back time but at least we gained a lesson out of it.

Time to put that money to work for you or at the very least, save it for that trip to somewhere you have always wanted to go.

经一事，长一智. All da best!

[webpost]

no money, better no honey

[demonhunter]

hi bro and sis,

I am 24 years old this year.
Started chionging during my army days when i was 21 years old.
Started with KTV, then geylang then thai disco.
Now i found myself siam-ing everytime when i got my salary.
My salary every month after CPF is around 1300-1400 provided with OT.
Most of the time the siam budget will not hit 400.
However these past few month, i met a siam bu.
This siam bu is the one type i really like.
She is not really pretty, more to cute.
So first time when i met her, i spend 180 hanging flowers and buying shots for her.
Everyday i just feel like seeing her,
So went to that particular siam tiu just to see her.
Flowers, shots to impress her,
But she refused to have further relationship other than customer and siam bu.
Therefore i give up,
And i found out she is currently in relationship with her manager.
So i find that i am actually quite stupid.
Now i am left with 50bucks till next payday.
Lucky thing is she went back thailand already.
No more next siam target
My target now is to go travel around and lead a proper life.
Hope i could control my drinking/siaming habit and save more money.
Wish me luck.

With love,
Rachelmon

Bro honestly , with your salary its quite hard to chiong .

Better to save up and end yr , go for a trip and relax .

If you give your parents $200 each , you will be left with $1 k .

which means $33 per day to spend ...

save up what ever you have and in the mean time try to strive for a better paying job .

Lead a good and proper life and avoid getting a woman by means of spending $ on her .

:)

[arsenal_84]

i started with FLs at the age of 25, 5 years down the road i'm a bit jaded and kinda felt like going into semi retired mode.

as years goes by, TS should be feeling less excited and not paying more money than he should be paying as he should be more street smart by now.
as for the KC factor, well should at least build up some tolerance for such issues.

[rachelmon]

Thank you to all of you guys!
To me family and money is most impt!
And i have stop contacting that bu too.
Now just have a drink to chill and continue with life. :)
Thank you to all of you guys once again!

[sentsggirls]

siam bu in TDs, when u tell her u left 50 , she will just auto run to other guys.

good siam bu in thailand that work proper job , when u tell her u left 50SGD, she will still stick to you and even give u some money to use to tide till next salary.

hard truths.

[stillgottheblue]

Fall in love with a KTV Siam? You better "Siam" first.

[DM76]

Bro, chong spot no real love.. I travel thailand many years liao..never seen real love between thai working girl and Sgp guy. Thai girls will work to support their whoring men but never true feeling to those who are true to them. Some even think Sgp men are naive and "multi-date" several guys at one time..

Play the game, but not the game play you.

[Ken79]

TS bro, u are not in love, u are under kc.
at your age first priority is build a career, if you have inadequate qualifications u need to spend your night time in a night school and not in a pub/disco.

maybe 1-2 times a month during weekends is ok, but dont ever get kc.... dont let your emotions get the better of your senses

[TonyCheong]

Some old bird also got KC, not to forget myself.

Wah piangz you're here also!? :eek:

Luckily not much chance to go Thailand these days so very hard to kena KC. :p

[flowbow]

I hope I'm not dampening your spirit here but it's hard to turn back once you've started... :( I chiong-ed for close to three years before waking up and realizing that all these are just a waste of money...

I guess the easiest litmus test (tested and proven) to confirm if she really loves you or just your money is to see how much you have to spend on her. If you find that you have to buy flowers or LDs for her, pay for all her meals (including the times she brings her "sisters" and "brothers" along hahaha) and basically everything else, the alarm bells in your head should be ringing already.

I've met many friends who don't spend a single cent on their siam bu... Maybe just small things here and there but never hang flower, never buy drinks, nothing. And the siam bu stays with them everyday. This may not be enough to show that she's sincere but at least at the end of the day you don't end up with a broken heart and an empty wallet, right? :D

Anyway it's not that sincere and genuine girls don't exist, but they are rare and hard to find. You're lucky if you can find one, but don't go searching for one.

My advice would be that it's ok to play... But make sure they don't treat you like a carrothead. :)

[Captainoceania77]

Every relationship needs money one.....

[Nonteerak2553]

Wah piangz you're here also!?

Luckily not much chance to go Thailand these days so very hard to kena KC.

5555 when ever there's story about siam bu, I'm always there. :D:p

PRC KC also strong na. :D

[procum]

Been there, done that. There are million and one situations making a gal enter the 'entertainment' scene. But one standard answer, quick money. See how fast she can make your hard-earned cash fly to her?

You go to the facility to get entertainment and be entertained, not entertaining the gals. When the well turns dry, smiles and cuddles will disappear faster than the disco tempo. Want to deal with KC traps? It involves a fair amount of experience=$$ and more $$.

Chiong within your means, it is suppose to make you happier, not sad when the bills mount up. Enjoy!!

[TonyCheong]

5555 when ever there's story about siam bu, I'm always there. :D:p

PRC KC also strong na. :D

PRCs more straight forward with money. :p

[TonyCheong]

5555 when ever there's story about siam bu, I'm always there. :D :p

PRC KC also strong na.

PRCs more straight forward when it comes to money. :p
At least I know I'm not setting up a KC trap for myself! :D

[lanus]

I hope I'm not dampening your spirit here but it's hard to turn back once you've started... :( I chiong-ed for close to three years before waking up and realizing that all these are just a waste of money...

I guess the easiest litmus test (tested and proven) to confirm if she really loves you or just your money is to see how much you have to spend on her. If you find that you have to buy flowers or LDs for her, pay for all her meals (including the times she brings her "sisters" and "brothers" along hahaha) and basically everything else, the alarm bells in your head should be ringing already.

I've met many friends who don't spend a single cent on their siam bu... Maybe just small things here and there but never hang flower, never buy drinks, nothing. And the siam bu stays with them everyday. This may not be enough to show that she's sincere but at least at the end of the day you don't end up with a broken heart and an empty wallet, right? :D

Anyway it's not that sincere and genuine girls don't exist, but they are rare and hard to find. You're lucky if you can find one, but don't go searching for one.

My advice would be that it's ok to play... But make sure they don't treat you like a carrothead. :)

I agree... there was once a siam bu whom i liked her and i spend alittle on her. After work, drink and also sent her home via cab. After a couple of times, i dont buy her drinks just 20 bucks for flowers, she still go out with me and cry when i confronted her of something in which i have forgotten. Anyway she cried and got drunk despite me not giving her anything. In the end, i went to thailand and called her to bring me around. She drove a mercs in thailand and i was shocked. Then i come to know that she only come to sing because of her band as she is the lead singer. In real life, her family is quite well to do. I met her parents for the first night and we had dinner at her home which is a landed.

Really hard to say la...
But most want money...

When they c u, their eyes are $_$ means u jia lat.

[flowbow]

I agree... there was once a siam bu whom i liked her and i spend alittle on her. After work, drink and also sent her home via cab. After a couple of times, i dont buy her drinks just 20 bucks for flowers, she still go out with me and cry when i confronted her of something in which i have forgotten. Anyway she cried and got drunk despite me not giving her anything. In the end, i went to thailand and called her to bring me around. She drove a mercs in thailand and i was shocked. Then i come to know that she only come to sing because of her band as she is the lead singer. In real life, her family is quite well to do. I met her parents for the first night and we had dinner at her home which is a landed.

Really hard to say la...
But most want money...

When they c u, their eyes are $_$ means u jia lat.
So what happened to that siam bu? What's the ending for this particular story? Just curious to know :p

[stillgottheblue]

hi bro and sis,

I am 24 years old this year.
Started chionging during my army days when i was 21 years old.
Started with KTV, then geylang then thai disco.
Now i found myself siam-ing everytime when i got my salary.
My salary every month after CPF is around 1300-1400 provided with OT.
Most of the time the siam budget will not hit 400.
However these past few month, i met a siam bu.
This siam bu is the one type i really like.
She is not really pretty, more to cute.
So first time when i met her, i spend 180 hanging flowers and buying shots for her.
Everyday i just feel like seeing her,
So went to that particular siam tiu just to see her.
Flowers, shots to impress her,
But she refused to have further relationship other than customer and siam bu.
Therefore i give up,
And i found out she is currently in relationship with her manager.
So i find that i am actually quite stupid.
Now i am left with 50bucks till next payday.
Lucky thing is she went back thailand already.
No more next siam target
My target now is to go travel around and lead a proper life.
Hope i could control my drinking/siaming habit and save more money.
Wish me luck.

With love,
Rachelmon

If you started your relationship based on money first, it will surely fail. I have literally nothing when I married my wife.

[Parkerlon]

Bro honestly , with your salary its quite hard to chiong .

Better to save up and end yr , go for a trip and relax .

If you give your parents $200 each , you will be left with $1 k .

which means $33 per day to spend ...

save up what ever you have and in the mean time try to strive for a better paying job .

Lead a good and proper life and avoid getting a woman by means of spending $ on her .

:)

Nice one bro well said
R u a ex cheongster?

[lanus]

So what happened to that siam bu? What's the ending for this particular story? Just curious to know :p

Siam bu returned to thailand, before she return to thailand, ask me go thailand stay with her. I do not want cause i do not know the language and i am not rich enough. She called me every day thru line but now die off le. We are still friends.

[Intltuk]

I hope I'm not dampening your spirit here but it's hard to turn back once you've started... :( I chiong-ed for close to three years before waking up and realizing that all these are just a waste of money...

I guess the easiest litmus test (tested and proven) to confirm if she really loves you or just your money is to see how much you have to spend on her. If you find that you have to buy flowers or LDs for her, pay for all her meals (including the times she brings her "sisters" and "brothers" along hahaha) and basically everything else, the alarm bells in your head should be ringing already.

I've met many friends who don't spend a single cent on their siam bu... Maybe just small things here and there but never hang flower, never buy drinks, nothing. And the siam bu stays with them everyday. This may not be enough to show that she's sincere but at least at the end of the day you don't end up with a broken heart and an empty wallet, right? :D

Anyway it's not that sincere and genuine girls don't exist, but they are rare and hard to find. You're lucky if you can find one, but don't go searching for one.

My advice would be that it's ok to play... But make sure they don't treat you like a carrothead. :)Good write up and advice; totally agree. Unfortunately, rare are those who listen....they've to go thru' the `rite of fire' to learn.

[flowbow]

Siam bu returned to thailand, before she return to thailand, ask me go thailand stay with her. I do not want cause i do not know the language and i am not rich enough. She called me every day thru line but now die off le. We are still friends.

That's good. This proves my point that sincere and genuine girls do exist, BUT they're very very rare... And no point looking for one because it's like searching for a needle in a haystack! :p

Good write up and advice; totally agree. Unfortunately, rare are those who listen....they've to go thru' the `rite of fire' to learn.

Well once they've gone through it I believe most will wake up and be more wary in future. It's not that they will stop chionging (it's really quite hard to stop completely hahaha) but at least they'll learn that it's nearly impossible to look for love in such places.

Going through the "learning process" may be painful and expensive, but it's still a lesson learnt after all and I believe most will be wiser when chionging after their expensive lesson learnt! :p:D

[Intltuk]

Siam bu returned to thailand, before she return to thailand, ask me go thailand stay with her. I do not want cause i do not know the language and i am not rich enough. She called me every day thru line but now die off le. We are still friends.

Language should not be an issue as u can pick it up. Not rich should not be an issue if she loves u for u...and vice versa. Personally, if I'm young and single....I would give it a go as good relationships are hard to come by :D....but tat's just me :)

[flowbow]

Language should not be an issue as u can pick it up. Not rich should not be an issue if she loves u for u...and vice versa. Personally, if I'm young and single....I would give it a go as good relationships are hard to come by :D....but tat's just me :)
Relationships with a Thai may not be good all the time... In the beginning maybe yes, but having a partner who's from a different country and culture will generate lots of problems in the future... Not saying cannot work out or impossible, just that both have to really put in a lot of effort. It's really not easy.

And also the Thai culture... And Thais in general... Quite vastly different from Singapore and us Singaporeans IMHO.

[Intltuk]

Relationships with a Thai may not be good all the time... In the beginning maybe yes, but having a partner who's from a different country and culture will generate lots of problems in the future... Not saying cannot work out or impossible, just that both have to really put in a lot of effort. It's really not easy.

And also the Thai culture... And Thais in general... Quite vastly different from Singapore and us Singaporeans IMHO.

True, there are obstacles like culture/mindset but how big a gap, depends on which country. Even relationship with PRCs(we're not talking whores here) women will hve their obstacles.

Maybe I'm a little biased...but I've always have a good impression of Thai women vs Vietnamese or PRCs(again, not talking about whores)....again, it's just an impression and I may be wrong :D.

Relationships with a person in another country always carry a unique set of challenges.

Oops....just notice u've a saying in Thai........."I know it must hurt either ...
To know that it hurts ... But I was willing to be hurt because of love "

Think I need to shut up and listen :D

[lanus]

[QUOTE=flowbow;10906388]That's good. This proves my point that sincere and genuine girls do exist, BUT they're very very rare... And no point looking for one because it's like searching for a needle in a haystack! :p

maybe i seldom am interested in girls and of course i have a joker character which is why easier to break the ice.

Anyway as long as you dont search for it, then most of the time the real deal will come along the way.

[lagonda]

Relationships with a Thai may not be good all the time... In the beginning maybe yes, but having a partner who's from a different country and culture will generate lots of problems in the future... Not saying cannot work out or impossible, just that both have to really put in a lot of effort. It's really not easy.

And also the Thai culture... And Thais in general... Quite vastly different from Singapore and us Singaporeans IMHO.

Bro,mind sharing the main/some of the cultural differences?

[ManUFiredMe]

Bro,mind sharing the main/some of the cultural differences?

This would be interesting to know

[H9000C]

maybe i can share a few cents worth of my experience for bros here...

personally i am married to my wife who is Thai and also some ex-gfs who are thai as well.

lifestyle wise of course thai and singapore are different but not vastly because we are still a tropical country and we have foods that are similar to thai food as well.

the main differences will be the language barrier. If you cant speak thai or the girl cant speak english , then the relationship will not last long as communication is key for any relationship , even with SG girls as well.

culture wise they are actually very similar to singapore or chinese, they celebrate CNY same us , they eat kway chap, kway teow, dim sum , hence i dont see any VAST differences at all.

my wife have not much issues settling in singapore as she can speak/read/write english and has a university degree. my advice is if you want to marry a foreigner be it thai/prc/viet , best find someone with at least some qualifications , reason ?

can get Singapore PR much faster, unless you are in the high income group then is another story.

I would encourage any young people (i am in early 30s =p) to have at least once long dist relationship, of course , its not for everyone's liking but it can let you experience what kind of love you desire.

thank you for reading my few cents, i am sorry if i get long winded , just personal experience here =)

[flowbow]

Oops....just notice u've a saying in Thai........."I know it must hurt either ...
To know that it hurts ... But I was willing to be hurt because of love "

Think I need to shut up and listen

No la, it's good to have people share their experience too.

Bro,mind sharing the main/some of the cultural differences?

1) I'm not a bro.

2) I'm not an expert... There are many more experts here!! But I do have many friends who are attached/married to Thais and most of what I know is through my personal experience and the experiences of the people around me.

Thais in general love to have fun. Not saying us Singaporeans don't but as we all know working in Singapore is getting increasingly stressful... Everyday we work like dogs and at the end of the day are too tired to do anything except collapse on our beds and sleep. Thais on the other hand can go chiong everyday of the week until 3am, go home and sleep for a few hours and then get up for work in the morning. I have a group of Thai friends working in an MNC in Singapore. They're out partying almost everyday after work but still make it to work the next day... And they're all doing very well. Is that a cultural difference...? I'm not sure. But what I do know is that it IS a difference between us and the Thais - unless you are also the type who goes out everyday despite having to work the next day, or unless you are the very open-minded type of person who can tolerate your partner going out almost every night.

As most people here have already mentioned, Thais treasure their families very much and are mostly very filial. So if they were to find a foreign partner, they'll definitely find one who can support them as well as their family and allow them to lead a comfortable life. If not, they'd probably just settle for a fellow Thai. That said, it wouldn't be right to believe everything they say... Like when they say "I need to send money home to my parents" it may not necessarily be true. Especially if she's working in Singapore as a WL, FL, singer or PR, she definitely would have more than enough money to send home for her parents, dog, house, brother, sister etc. Most people get mind fucked because they're not sure when their Thai girl is speaking the truth... To me, the simplest test would be a) whether she's willing to stay with you or spends most of the time she's awake with you; b) whether you have to spend more than what your salary can afford on her OR incurring debts because of her; c) basically just the way she treats you. Most times, the signs are obvious if she only thinks of you as a customer or a carrothead... That is, IF at that point in time you can still think with your big head instead of the small one. :p

Relationships wise, I would say Thais tend to play a lot of mind games, especially those who have had proper education or those working in the nightlife industry (feel free to correct me if I'm wrong, as mentioned these are all based on my personal experience as well as the experiences of the people around me). Having a gik (which translates to fling or fuck buddy in local context) is very common for them. They can have a stable bf or gf but still fuck around. In some cases, the bfs or gfs even know about it, but choose to close one eye... This is smth I initially found really unacceptable. Most of them who come to Singapore to work already have bfs/gfs/husbands/wives back in Thai. They sleep with their customers for money/flowers/LDs and most of the time their partners back in Thai don't even know about it. Their sisters/brothers working together with them will also help them to keep the secret... When the secret is exposed, their explanation is that they do it for the money. Unacceptable to us, but relatively acceptable to the Thais I suppose.

Some people would also have heard that over at Thailand, the Thai girls work to support their Thai bfs or husbands, who choose to stay home doing nothing all day long. This is true to a certain extent but recently I've seen quite a number of exceptions. My ex bf was Thai who worked to support himself. He didn't earn enough to support me though (his salary back in Thai was just about SGD 900 per month) which was fine by me because I didn't need his financial support. However when I flew over to find him he'd take care of all my expenses for me, and occasionally buying my air ticket for me as well. My current bf is also Thai, and he too doesn't rely on me for financial support. He also works to support himself and at times would give me money when he gets his salary. When we go out we take turns to foot the bill.

That said, my personal experience with Thais is that they're not very good at saving money. Since they love going out, socializing and having fun, they can spend almost all of their salary within the first one week after payday. Of course there are exceptions, but for some reason about 80% of the Thai friends I have are like this. :D:p

Can't think of any other points for now so I guess that's about it. Again I don't claim to be an expert... My knowledge of Thais and the Thai culture is not that deep yet. So if you would like, please take everything you read here with a pinch of salt :o

[lixiao17]

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[Intltuk]

No la, it's good to have people share their experience too.

1) I'm not a bro.

2) I'm not an expert... There are many more experts here!! But I do have many friends who are attached/married to Thais and most of what I know is through my personal experience and the experiences of the people around me.........

Thais in general love to have fun.
Tks for sharing......sis(previous not sure..now confirm :D)

[milfmilf]

No la, it's good to have people share their experience too.

1) I'm not a bro.

2) I'm not an expert... There are many more experts here!! But I do have many friends who are attached/married to Thais and most of what I know is through my personal experience and the experiences of the people around me.



Some people would also have heard that over at Thailand, the Thai girls work to support their Thai bfs or husbands, who choose to stay home doing nothing all day long. This is true to a certain extent but recently I've seen quite a number of exceptions


Where to find such girls?:D

I will be happy if she is true to me, and have my interest at heart and our own family priority 1st then come the parents....
Are thai girls also very prone to "her family first"? like the vietnamese girls? (according to viet sexpert here) .. foreign husband marrying thai girl must help to take care her family that type of mindset?

[Madprince]

Its not uncommon for people who just entered the TD scene to be mesmerised and addicted to it. Many thai girls are sweet and demure and pretty and most importantly they give you the attention you seek. But we must always remember to be rational and only indulge with your eyes wide open.

[flowbow]

Where to find such girls?:D

I will be happy if she is true to me, and have my interest at heart and our own family priority 1st then come the parents....
Are thai girls also very prone to "her family first"? like the vietnamese girls? (according to viet sexpert here) .. foreign husband marrying thai girl must help to take care her family that type of mindset?

Yes, Thais treasure their relationships with their family very much. And if you're her partner you're expected to take care of her family as well... But of course only to a certain extent. You can't and shouldn't be paying for her auntie's house, her cousin's car... Etc etc. There are also well to do Thai girls from well to do families who don't need you to support her family, as long as you treat her family well. It would be wise to remember to never offend a Thai's family member :p or good friend, even.

[arizona]

24 is such a great age to build up a good career, so much in life to enjoy as an individual than dwell on Love relationship or a relationship that tie you down that early.

If you find that you do not make enough for ends meet, then what should you do to makeup for the numbers you like to fill in?

;)

[Haha5555]

hi bro and sis,

I am 24 years old this year.
Started chionging during my army days when i was 21 years old.
Started with KTV, then geylang then thai disco.
Now i found myself siam-ing everytime when i got my salary.
My salary every month after CPF is around 1300-1400 provided with OT.
Most of the time the siam budget will not hit 400.
However these past few month, i met a siam bu.
This siam bu is the one type i really like.
She is not really pretty, more to cute.
So first time when i met her, i spend 180 hanging flowers and buying shots for her.
Everyday i just feel like seeing her,
So went to that particular siam tiu just to see her.
Flowers, shots to impress her,
But she refused to have further relationship other than customer and siam bu.
Therefore i give up,
And i found out she is currently in relationship with her manager.
So i find that i am actually quite stupid.
Now i am left with 50bucks till next payday.
Lucky thing is she went back thailand already.
No more next siam target
My target now is to go travel around and lead a proper life.
Hope i could control my drinking/siaming habit and save more money.
Wish me luck.

With love,
Rachelmon

Good that you are seeking opinions from bros here. Quitting this can’t be overnight and it has to be gradually. My advice is too lower your Chionging Budget even more even you can’t change over night. I pretty sure that will help if you have the will to do it.
Cheers

[Uncleleong]

My friend recently just break off with the Thai girl. Before was very sweet. Almost meet everyday. Buy her ld,flower,hp,bag. Recently he just change job so income drop, the lady very fast Mia. But not all are bad. Have good ones too

[pakpak2001]

My friend recently just break off with the Thai girl. Before was very sweet. Almost meet everyday. Buy her ld,flower,hp,bag. Recently he just change job so income drop, the lady very fast Mia. But not all are bad. Have good ones too
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99% always the case
regardless of race language & religion, 99% of them will MIA, eveb vlock your whatsapp, FB once u stop hanging flowers, stop buying her presents etc

[Ghostimage]

Thailand girls really got no good ones de meh? All like very evil and materialistic. No success stories on good thai girls?

[Sub0099]

Thailand girls really got no good ones de meh? All like very evil and materialistic. No success stories on good thai girls?



Have... but not pretty no figure dark skin girls then... even then once u are foreigners... they and their family expect more from u

[Ghostimage]

Normally province girls should be more docile than city girls no? They may expect abit more from foreign man but will still stay loyal right?

[onglai99]

hi bro and sis,

I am 24 years old this year.
Started chionging during my army days when i was 21 years old.
Started with KTV, then geylang then thai disco.
Now i found myself siam-ing everytime when i got my salary.
My salary every month after CPF is around 1300-1400 provided with OT.
Most of the time the siam budget will not hit 400.
However these past few month, i met a siam bu.
This siam bu is the one type i really like.
She is not really pretty, more to cute.
So first time when i met her, i spend 180 hanging flowers and buying shots for her.
Everyday i just feel like seeing her,
So went to that particular siam tiu just to see her.
Flowers, shots to impress her,
But she refused to have further relationship other than customer and siam bu.
Therefore i give up,
And i found out she is currently in relationship with her manager.
So i find that i am actually quite stupid.
Now i am left with 50bucks till next payday.
Lucky thing is she went back thailand already.
No more next siam target
My target now is to go travel around and lead a proper life.
Hope i could control my drinking/siaming habit and save more money.
Wish me luck.

With love,
Rachelmon

Siamdiu for life, Siambu for wife 😂

[Johnsonviona]

You earn very little for singapore standard....you may as well considered to be poor in singapore.

[fallen11]

Have... but not pretty no figure dark skin girls then... even then once u are foreigners... they and their family expect more from u

then how come they dont expect so much from ang mo bfs / husbands?
:confused: