bros im fucked

[steinbecksg]

some of u may remember as the guy who lost his virginity only at the age of 27 to a FL. Im 33 this year already.. my life is even more fucked up. I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy. We had a pair of twins.. she took them to viet and of course i had to support them. Im sending 1k per month to her. its my responsibility.

at first i tried going for local gals but was rejected by them as expected. im low income, no car, no paper. was insulted by some of them, they think they r very great even though they were just holding some admin jobs with a dip.

with this setback and other problems, i developed severe depression and insomnia and was prescribed meds by imh but i had stopped taking them coz i think they r useless and medical bills are expensive.

however, i lost my job as a retail asst as i did not turn up for work due to my screwed up state. i went for interviews at metro, isetan and many other cos but no body contacted me for a job. i don't understand why too.

i have 2 elderly parents to support as well and im really at my wits end. i tried going to my dad's relatives. he had helped them financially in the past and they always claimed they will repay his kindness every CNY when we met up. But they refused to help and were unpleasant when i approached them.

on my studies front, i was a sec 3 dropout and only managed to get my O levels at the age of 32. Had to beg the poly authorities to take me in and posted me to a cold course that nobody wanted. I had a hard time coping as my foundation in maths were very weak.. night classes are really screwed up. and i had problems interacting with my classmates due to age gap and they were saying unpleasant stuff behind my back. i didn't talk much to them initially and was labelled unfriendly. when i tried talking to them i was labelled as a pedo. whatever i do im fucked.

applied for a bursary and got it but it only pays a portion of sch fees. With all these issues i was so depressed i thought of killing myself. but now i have decided to strengthen up and try my best to make money. i hope if any bros here have any lobangs pls intro me.

thank u for reading my wot, im screwed up mentally, hope i make sense in this post.

[volcano]

I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy. We had a pair of twins.. she took them to viet and of course i had to support them. Im sending 1k per month to her. its my responsibility.


hey dude..i think u r seriously screwed..wtf r u giving ur wife $1k per month when she cheated on u n take ur kids away...:confused:...and u still can think that its ur responsibility...u should not give her a single cent and let her return the kids to u if she cant survive.


i am living in HCMC,my household expenses together with my wife is less then 10 mills per month.so how much do u think ur kids can spend,unless u r feeding someone who gives u a green hat...$1k Sgd is about 16.6 mills Vnd,a fresh graduate is only earning half of this amount..hence,do the calculation urself.

[jnudes]

some of u may remember as the guy who lost his virginity only at the age of 27 to a FL. Im 33 this year already.. my life is even more fucked up. I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy. We had a pair of twins.. she took them to viet and of course i had to support them. Im sending 1k per month to her. its my responsibility.

at first i tried going for local gals but was rejected by them as expected. im low income, no car, no paper. was insulted by some of them, they think they r very great even though they were just holding some admin jobs with a dip.

with this setback and other problems, i developed severe depression and insomnia and was prescribed meds by imh but i had stopped taking them coz i think they r useless and medical bills are expensive.

however, i lost my job as a retail asst as i did not turn up for work due to my screwed up state. i went for interviews at metro, isetan and many other cos but no body contacted me for a job. i don't understand why too.

i have 2 elderly parents to support as well and im really at my wits end. i tried going to my dad's relatives. he had helped them financially in the past and they always claimed they will repay his kindness every CNY when we met up. But they refused to help and were unpleasant when i approached them.

on my studies front, i was a sec 3 dropout and only managed to get my O levels at the age of 32. Had to beg the poly authorities to take me in and posted me to a cold course that nobody wanted. I had a hard time coping as my foundation in maths were very weak.. night classes are really screwed up. and i had problems interacting with my classmates due to age gap and they were saying unpleasant stuff behind my back. i didn't talk much to them initially and was labelled unfriendly. when i tried talking to them i was labelled as a pedo. whatever i do im fucked.

applied for a bursary and got it but it only pays a portion of sch fees. With all these issues i was so depressed i thought of killing myself. but now i have decided to strengthen up and try my best to make money. i hope if any bros here have any lobangs pls intro me.

thank u for reading my wot, im screwed up mentally, hope i make sense in this post.

bro, I lost my virginity at the age of 22 years old which I considered late until I saw your post here today.

Low income guys tend to go for Viet brides and some end up with unhappy endings and nasty divorce in the end.

The SG girls money face behavior is nothing new. Having a diploma is also no big deal too. No one likes to be insulted especially you, I know. This is probably the lowest period in your life. Do not be discouraged. Stay strong.

You decided to take the traditional route of marrying (late 20s to early 30s) and to start a family with a foreign bride as no local girls want you. Truly understandable. If I am you I would remain single with zero commitment until today.

But they way you do it is too rush, meaning you did not know her well and most probably you married for the sake of making your parents happy?

You did not get a job because most the jobs have been taken by foreigner; Malaysian and PRC that gets lower pay than yours.

Your relatives talk is really cheap. Talk first say will repay but zero action later on. This is what I called ungrateful relatives. Same with my relatives in SG, only keep in touch through phone but never come to visit. Even my sisters marriage they also never bother to attend. Next time they die I also won't give a shit about their funeral. For me to help them out in trouble period better I give them to charity and remain anonymous. Expect people to remember your past kindness, nah, just forget it. The current society only knows money and material more than anything else.

What you mentioned above is getting bullied by your coursemates. What I can say is what you spent will be worthless just to get a diploma. You might need to venture into something else.

Life is tough if you are unemployed with money running out and with aging parents to take care. Of course you need to start everything from scratch again.

As Lord Buddha says, no matter how hard it is, you can always start from the beginning. Good luck with your decision making and money making goals.

[Tai_zi21]

My advice for u

Since u dun mind working retail, why not try ur luck with superstore? Example courts? Harvey norman? They always need people And they dun mind ppl with no experience Just tat are you willing to learn?

And for ur wife, well fuck it! Going to depression? Worth it? U r only 33 not 83 for christ seek!

[steinbecksg]

My advice for u

Since u dun mind working retail, why not try ur luck with superstore? Example courts? Harvey norman? They always need people And they dun mind ppl with no experience Just tat are you willing to learn?


bro i tried courts but they didnt call me back. i don't really like selling electric/it stuff. my brain not so good liao cannot absorb so much specs info, i scared when customers ask me i dunno how to reply

[steinbecksg]

thanks jnudes. what u say make sense

[steinbecksg]

hey dude..i think u r seriously screwed..wtf r u giving ur wife $1k per month when she cheated on u n take ur kids away...:confused:...and u still can think that its ur responsibility...u should not give her a single cent and let her return the kids to u if she cant survive.


i am living in HCMC,my household expenses together with my wife is less then 10 mills per month.so how much do u think ur kids can spend,unless u r feeding someone who gives u a green hat...$1k Sgd is about 16.6 mills Vnd,a fresh graduate is only earning half of this amount..hence,do the calculation urself.

bro u got how many kids?

[subidowa]

U are so seriously fucked up.... U should place ur family first, education second and then u can talk about finding a girl. Settling down is the last time u should ever do (no money no paper no career) how u want a girl to stick to u. This outcome only shows one more time that girls cannot be trusted. Never place too much hopes on them.

While u can still get urself out with money of course. Maybe u are not meant to study and do proper jobs. Maybe u need to risk something to gain money. Sidelines maybe more suitable for u since u. WIth greater risks come big money.

With money, girls willl come begging for u. No worry if u dun have papers, education or a proper job. THis time u can choose what kind of girls u want no matter jap, kor, taiwan or other countries. Once u sick of them liao throw. If u ever reach this stage, u should fucking ditch ur viet wife and sons too...

[Ken79]

TS bro, u need to pull yourself together now, continue with your poly course and find a job to at least pay your bills, meals n transport.
After u grad then consider your career options.

For your wife, she ran away and being so heartless to you i think you shld just send enough money back for the kids alone, maybe $500.
Why pay her more than enough for her to fool around with other guys or shake legs at home, while u go through depression and job loss?

I wish u all the best and when u are in such a tight spot now with little options and minimal resources to spare, always think for yourself first in times like these.

[alan0338]

your life is seriously fucked up from all the stories of urself tat u posted since 2011... :eek: :eek:

[stillgottheblue]

Stop giving allowance to your fucking wife and letting her use the children as a tool to get her means. If she calls you, don't pick up the phone, don't talk to her. We don't know the both sides of the story, so it's hard to come to conclusion if you're the devil or she's the bitch.

Regarding your job, you have to set it as your first priority in your life right now. You may need to keep trying, and continue to improve yourself with each interview. Whether in appearance, dressing or when answering the interviewer's questions. Without job, and in a place like Singapore, you will have many problems. You could try your luck at government agencies, at least they had more connections and job matching capabilities.

Lastly, your job situation is partly caused by the government by increasing the population to grow the economy. When the time to vote, you fucking consider if you should really want this government.

[Bery]

Dear TS,
Is the $1k alimony decreed by court? If not fuck it, just pay $200.
I would suggest menial job for the time being, rather than sitting around. 吃得苦中苦，方为人上人。
Dump yourself into work and your mental health will improve too. Carry on with the diploma course, will only do u good in the future.
No job is too lowly in this situation. I can think of food court/coffeeshop jobs, car washing (I always give tips for the good attitude ones), pump attendant etc.......
With all due respect to ladies, in Cantonese we say good one is 女人，bad one is 累人. Stay out of women for the time being, and leave it to fate later.

Take care bro.

[VanHouten]

Dear TS, please free up your inbox.

[sammyboyfor]

some of u may remember as the guy who lost his virginity only at the age of 27 to a FL. Im 33 this year already.. my life is even more fucked up. I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy.

What did you expect?... a "lived happily ever after" story? :rolleyes:

Read the link in my signature. Whores are for fucking not loving.

[sammyboyfor]

Stop giving allowance to your fucking wife and letting her use the children as a tool to get her means.

The children may not be his in the first place.

[steinbecksg]

Bros sianz why zapped me until -10. My inbox also shrank .

[Sam The Caterer]

When tt side no money, she will come back to ur side. As long as not decree by the courts, really dun f care.

[supergirl2011]

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[huhu123]

TS yr life really screwed up since few years back when u first posted...good luck to u. go n drive taxi like me:)

[Ken79]

Bros sianz why zapped me until -10. My inbox also shrank .

lol, i up u 3 then.
thanks for sharing your story here with us and i hope all the best for you, take every step rationally and not so much on emotions, u really need to cut or stop the allowance u send to your ex-wife, no way 2 kids need 1k sgd in hcm, that's about 2-3 month's pay there.

[stillgottheblue]

The children may not be his in the first place.

He better send them for fucking DNA test or else he'll be running a losing business throughout his life.

This Vietnamese may not be familiar with Singapore's law, so fucked it. In Vietnam, the women are like rabbits and men just dumped them after giving birth with no compensation whatsoever like as in Thai.

[TenSanYi]

Bro, sorry to say you really facing more problem and kinda screwed...

1) Your age 30s+ still did not specialize in any field
2) You do not have a minimum qualification required by most employers.
3) You screwed up your previous job thus when you go for interview your potential employers will do a reference check (thus they wont hire you)

Well I screwed up in my previous job as well and also lack of qualification thus very hard to find a new job. Study night class is a god damn tiring thing but seriously tell yourself no matter what you must pull through when come to your study.

Well a lot of other factors involved as well, I seen many people like you. I am working in Sales Recruitment, PM me if you need more advice :)

[ahit1]

Bro

Sorry to hear about your story. I feel you bro, cause i ever in been in your similar fate before. Poor, despair, in debts because of my business fail, almost go bankrupt, being look down even by own own brother. Let me tell you, don't despair. Don't depend on anyone to solve your problem..They only 'hor hor hor' and laugh behind your back. All these fuckers will not help..

I think you need to Settle your career and finance first. If retail line still no luck for you, why not try another indudustry? There are still alot of jobs that no need much education but still give quite a decent pay, like security guard, taxi driver, logistic etc. I know they always in need of people.

Did you buy a HDB flat when you get married? If have, since your wife is not here, why not rent out the flat and stay with your parents? This will lessen your burden abit.

As for your studies, it know is hard to communicate with your coursemate because of the generation gap. But try your best to complete it. If you really cannot complete it or fail your course, dun despair. Like i said, there is still alot of jobs still in need of people. Take course like taxi course, or class 4 license course. All this course can secured job with quite a decent salary and no need any much qualification. Then from there, try to look for other alternative to earn second income, like maybe start a small business, do sideline etc. Nowadays alot of ppl sell online thing to earn extra money as a partime.

As for your wife, is it really necessary to give 1k so much? Why not totally cut connection with her and don't remit any money for her? MIA from her. What pass is she holding now? If currently she is not holding any pass, dun apply for her any pass/visa to come back to singapore. I think it will save you quite a trouble and money also. Dun bother about her life over there. She already have her PRC boyfriend to take of her liao.. And tell you something, nowadays PRC ppl alot are rich ppl, acting poor in Singapore.

Hope my suggestion works!

[thomko]

besides diploma n degree, can also apply certificate in eg: safety sups, security sups etc.. im in construction, with correct certification can easily get $2-4k...
pls no zap me, sibei tulan to get zap giving advice, some samsters too much..

[tipspecialist]

Bro

Sorry to hear about your story. I feel you bro, cause i ever in been in your similar fate before. Poor, despair, in debts because of my business fail, almost go bankrupt, being look down even by own own brother. Let me tell you, don't despair. Don't depend on anyone to solve your problem..They only 'hor hor hor' and laugh behind your back. All these fuckers will not help..

I think you need to Settle your career and finance first. If retail line still no luck for you, why not try another indudustry? There are still alot of jobs that no need much education but still give quite a decent pay, like security guard, taxi driver, logistic etc. I know they always in need of people.

Did you buy a HDB flat when you get married? If have, since your wife is not here, why not rent out the flat and stay with your parents? This will lessen your burden abit.

As for your studies, it know is hard to communicate with your coursemate because of the generation gap. But try your best to complete it. If you really cannot complete it or fail your course, dun despair. Like i said, there is still alot of jobs still in need of people. Take course like taxi course, or class 4 license course. All this course can secured job with quite a decent salary and no need any much qualification. Then from there, try to look for other alternative to earn second income, like maybe start a small business, do sideline etc. Nowadays alot of ppl sell online thing to earn extra money as a partime.

As for your wife, is it really necessary to give 1k so much? Why not totally cut connection with her and don't remit any money for her? MIA from her. What pass is she holding now? If currently she is not holding any pass, dun apply for her any pass/visa to come back to singapore. I think it will save you quite a trouble and money also. Dun bother about her life over there. She already have her PRC boyfriend to take of her liao.. And tell you something, nowadays PRC ppl alot are rich ppl, acting poor in Singapore.

Hope my suggestion works!

haha brother not bad huh.... hows your issue coming?

[peekaboo]

The viet run away with the kids is betting that you will give her the money. You will have to tell off the viet and say that you are not working. At least that will help you to save some money for yourself.

As far as job is concern, its all up to you which job you can do. Age of 30+ is not so easy to find a high salary job for your qualification. There are still jobs out there.

1. Security
2. Food and Beverage

Above are the two that always need workers but the pay may be not so attractive. They do not need high qualifications. All you need to do is to get a job first. Change job later when you can find a better one.

Good Luck

[CornStickStand]

yo bro cheer up k. you are not as bad as i know someone k but you old to think so take time as all bor said dont send so much money to her as i only send 200+ to my GF in thailand only. you you can think what to do right

[Nonteerak2553]

TS,

I feel for you. I believe you're at your lowest point of life.
Some of the bros opinions are quite useful.

Best is to get a temporary job, be it what kind of job. Right now you can't be so choosy about the work. The 2nd step after you got yourself a job is to try to get your twins kid back to Sg. Once after you got your kid, I believe you no need to bother with your wife who had left you for the PRC guy.

1k sgd is a lot of money, rather by giving her these money, you hire some one, to babysit cost you less than that. And you able to see your own flesh blood after a day of hard work.

Remember what doesn't kill you MAKES you stronger!

Do update us your story. I want to up your points, but you don't have any new post.

Good luck. :)

[ahit1]

haha brother not bad huh.... hows your issue coming?

Thanks bro for your concern. So far so good for me. Our bro here is facing a bigger shit than my stupid problem. I really hope he can get back on his feet and move on.

[jameschong1]

some of u may remember as the guy who lost his virginity only at the age of 27 to a FL. Im 33 this year already.. my life is even more fucked up. I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy. We had a pair of twins.. she took them to viet and of course i had to support them. Im sending 1k per month to her. its my responsibility.

at first i tried going for local gals but was rejected by them as expected. im low income, no car, no paper. was insulted by some of them, they think they r very great even though they were just holding some admin jobs with a dip.

with this setback and other problems, i developed severe depression and insomnia and was prescribed meds by imh but i had stopped taking them coz i think they r useless and medical bills are expensive.

however, i lost my job as a retail asst as i did not turn up for work due to my screwed up state. i went for interviews at metro, isetan and many other cos but no body contacted me for a job. i don't understand why too.

i have 2 elderly parents to support as well and im really at my wits end. i tried going to my dad's relatives. he had helped them financially in the past and they always claimed they will repay his kindness every CNY when we met up. But they refused to help and were unpleasant when i approached them.

on my studies front, i was a sec 3 dropout and only managed to get my O levels at the age of 32. Had to beg the poly authorities to take me in and posted me to a cold course that nobody wanted. I had a hard time coping as my foundation in maths were very weak.. night classes are really screwed up. and i had problems interacting with my classmates due to age gap and they were saying unpleasant stuff behind my back. i didn't talk much to them initially and was labelled unfriendly. when i tried talking to them i was labelled as a pedo. whatever i do im fucked.

applied for a bursary and got it but it only pays a portion of sch fees. With all these issues i was so depressed i thought of killing myself. but now i have decided to strengthen up and try my best to make money. i hope if any bros here have any lobangs pls intro me.

thank u for reading my wot, im screwed up mentally, hope i make sense in this post.
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tell yourself that heaven has eyes & heart and heaven will help u
tell yourself to fight on because
(a) u still have your old parents to look after
(b) u owe yourself that responsible as u only live once
(c) u owe your kids that duty
also tell yourself to forget about that rubbish dump woman; heaven has eyes & she will be dump by that prc dog soon

[topcook1]

Bro cheer up....This is a wake up lesson for most of us here . Dont let our lower body controls our heart. Hope we guys can live with loneliness and stay happy.

[jnudes]

Bro cheer up....This is a wake up lesson for most of us here . Dont let our lower body controls our heart. Hope we guys can live with loneliness and stay happy.

This is what I had been doing over the last 10 years. Being single & lonely cannot be an obstacle for a happy and peaceful life. I also had quitted Facebook 3 years ago. Life can still go on despite being lonely. Absolutely no complaints.

[late bloomer]

Bro steinbeck. Points in this sex forum won't get u a job
although there were rumours that
u can xchange 1000 points for a Big Mac.
Point is, what matters for u now is the real world,
not the virtual one.
Bottom line: did u manage to benefit from good advice from us?
Not just the constructive ones but also the not-so-nice ones.
Even for those of us who zap u,
they r prob concern abt u cos ur still giving too much money
to yr viet wife (or is it ex-viet wife now?)

some of u may remember as the guy who lost his virginity only at the age of 27 to a FL. Im 33 this year already.. my life is even more fucked up. I got married to a viet massage gal and within 1 and a half year she cheated on me with a prc guy. We had a pair of twins.. she took them to viet and of course i had to support them. Im sending 1k per month to her. its my responsibility.

Bro I agree with the rest of the bros here.
I also think ur giving way too much.
Am not saying don give. Just give less.
U need to pull yrself together and re-build yr broken world.
I did go to yr profile & read a bit abt yr life history here & there.
You remind me of a friend, and of cos my own dark past.
You need to find a way to cheong less, like what Bro Jnudes advised.
It's ok to be alone. Find a way to transform loneliness to solitude.

True we are not saints and we will fall along the wayside led astray,
but u just have to find a way to pick yrself up again. You must.
What Bro Nonteerak advised here is true too.
Whatever does not destroy u make u stronger.

After u get a good paying job,
u can choose to give yr viet wife n kids more,
but pls give within yr means.

at first i tried going for local gals but was rejected by them as expected. im low income, no car, no paper. was insulted by some of them, they think they r very great even though they were just holding some admin jobs with a dip.

Bro i agree that money is impt but if the local girls u know
r interested in money only as a criteria,
then I'm sorry to say that they r not worth it.
I know many poor families that r happy, even the kids.
Anw now is not the time to look for girls anymore. Focus on career first.

with this setback and other problems, i developed severe depression and insomnia and was prescribed meds by imh but i had stopped taking them coz i think they r useless and medical bills are expensive.

I know there r advertisements everywhere
that encourage those with depression to go IMH.
I know some people actually improve in their mood swing
after taking medication.
But taking these kinds of medication (esp the stronger western drugs)
in the long run is NO GOOD.
A friend I know went into depression after a break up with a girl.
Started taking medication.
But he finally move on and stop taking it.
Now married another girl and free from drugs ever since.
Bro I study a bit of psychology last time
n read a bit on my own so trust me.
It is possible to get over yr depression w/o drugs.
Drugs should always be the last resort to 'kickstart' yr brain.
Once that happen, do not depend on it anymore.
Your mental thoughts can affect yr physical body.
Go google 'psychosomatic disorder' bro.
A lot of constructive advice & help u understand yr situation.
If u continue to think negatively abt yrself or feel suicidal,
or if u have psychological issues not resolved, like bitterness,
no amount of tranquilizer or anti-depressant can help u.

however, i lost my job as a retail asst as i did not turn up for work due to my screwed up state. i went for interviews at metro, isetan and many other cos but no body contacted me for a job. i don't understand why too.

Bro like i said, u need to get out of yr screwed up state.
We all have bad days at work, so if u take 1 or 2 day MC
nobody is going to complain. We r all human n r entitle to be sick.
But if u take like one week MC, then I don't think
any company is willing to employ u.

Choose any good religion that will help u think positively,
but not the dubious cults
and I definitely advise against some mega-churches.
(Some, not all.)

i have 2 elderly parents to support as well and im really at my wits end. i tried going to my dad's relatives. he had helped them financially in the past and they always claimed they will repay his kindness every CNY when we met up. But they refused to help and were unpleasant when i approached them.

Bro, u have 2 redeeming traits.
You still support parents
and u still take responsibility for yr viet wife and kids.
Kudos to u. For that, god will bless u
and the good u do shall be return unto u as karma.
As for yr relatives who refused to help,
I don't think u should depend on them to return the favour anyway bro.
Depend on yrself, and they will also have more respect for u.

on my studies front, i was a sec 3 dropout and only managed to get my O levels at the age of 32. Had to beg the poly authorities to take me in and posted me to a cold course that nobody wanted. I had a hard time coping as my foundation in maths were very weak.. night classes are really screwed up. and i had problems interacting with my classmates due to age gap and they were saying unpleasant stuff behind my back. i didn't talk much to them initially and was labelled unfriendly. when i tried talking to them i was labelled as a pedo. whatever i do im fucked.

Bro. Pls do not over-rate a good education.
Some of the most well-educated people I know
may be rich but anyhow spend money and
are far more damaged / uncivilised / rude / dishonest
than many low income earners, who may come from
poor background but have humble heart ...
some even kind enough to give money to others
with the little they have left.
God have eyes, he see bro.
So pls don say things like you're fucked.
Cos if ur, then i would say all of us r fucked to some extent by society.
We just have to find a way to enjoy being fucked and fucking.
I know many ppl who r more fucked than u.

The coursemates who call u anti-social or pedo,
will receive their bad karma for their unkind words.
No need bother abt them.

With all these issues i was so depressed i thought of killing myself. but now i have decided to strengthen up and try my best to make money.

Some final words.

In Singapore, they say that after u reach age of 30,
if u quit, you can't find another job
as high paying as yr current one.

After u reach age of 40,
if u quit, you can't find another job. Period.

Sad but true to some extent.

It's not just u bro. All the rest of us r the same.
We no longer have what u call iron-rice bowl anymore.
Not even gahment / civil service sector.
I miss the good old days where job security and benefits
and pension are more.
Am I bitter & angry? Yes.
Do we all kill ourself? No.
I am far older than u, part-time myself,
not even sure if company want to employ me the next day
or ask me fuck off. Also learning to cope ...
If I'm alive here right now struggling to survive
I don't see why u should give up.
Hope this help bro ...

[MaMister]

The children may not be his in the first place.

I think so too.

[Fuckster]

This is the reason why I choose to be single. Marriage itself is gambling. If I can pump plenty of pussies with no committment, why would I want to risk my whole dam life and money in a single pussy and marriage with no garantee of winning?

[lonelygirl]

I don't think finding a girl into your life is the main issue that we shub keep thinking whole day!!!