Falling in love with a Thai prostitute in Geylang.. Advice needed..

[singathai]

Hi guys. I've recently met a Thai girl in Geylang on around 11th Jul. She only came to Singapore in 6th Jul. It was probably my 10th visit to Geylang, and I met her, whom totally gave me a different experience. I mean, people go Geylang for sex, so do I. But this time was different. Anyway, I went back for a second visit the exact same day.(I've never visited the same prostitute for the 2nd time ever) She was surprised to see me again. We both had good feelings about each other after chatting for a while. I promised her I'll come back the following week, 16th of Jul, but I went a day later than that. She was very happy to see me but she told me she was very disappointed that I didn't come the day before and thought I've forgotten about her. She even made a note on her calendar that I'd be coming on the 16th. We were very happy to see each other and we chatted the whole session. I bought her a Thai-English dictionary too because her English was really poor. I also attached a note telling her that she was different from other girls in Geylang. We didn't do anything other than talking. We exchanged our phone numbers that time. She often text me whenever she misses me and ask when will I visit her again. On the 4th visit, we sat down and talked. The note I gave her on the previous visit had some new words. It was her writing back to me telling me she misses me and likes me. I told her I like her a lot too. She asked if I had a girlfriend and I said I have. She was so upset she broke into tears. I told her to keep our relationship low profile and she agreed. She would only text me during hours where my girlfriend won't see(my girlfriend stays with me). After a few other visits where we always chat and occasionally made love, I've decided to stay over. I lied to my girlfriend about having night shift so I could stay over. (I couldn't do that too much as it is expensive) We chatted all night long and she told me about all her life. She said she was married once with a child, have parents and siblings in Thailand. She's now working in Singapore so that she could support her family and herself. She has many scars on her thighs because she was very upset with her life when she was married. Her ex-husband was a abusive one. She didn't tell her parents she's working in Geylang. She only lied to them she's working in a restaurant. She also told me she hates her job(which girl wants to be a prostitute?), and would often cry because of that. And on that night, I've decided to tell her I love her. She said she loves me too and wants to be with me too but she says I'm too good for her because she's a prostitute and I'm a young man who has a good job and future ahead of me. She doesn't want to break my girlfriend and I up too. On the 2nd night I've stayed a week after that, we were totally in love. I could tell from her eyes that she wasn't playing with my heart, unless her acting is really that good. We made love without protection and I had my load inside her. We trusted each other that we don't have any diseases. I miss her every single minute of my life I couldn't face my girlfriend anymore. I told my girlfriend I need some time alone as I'm unsure of our relationship.(we already had some problems before this) We're currently staying separately now. I went over to visit her yesterday, telling her I really love her and cannot do without her. I told her I want her to quit her job and stay with me and I will take care of her. I told her I might not be rich but I earn enough that she will never have to starve, have a place to stay, and will never have to work in Geylang anymore. I will bring her to USA with me for 2 years for my overseas detachment next year. I asked her to move in with me. If needed, I'll marry her too. She broke into tears and agreed. She said she'll talk to her friends and family about this to see how to go about things. I told her to talk to her boss about this too. I don't know how it'll turn out because she wants to be with me but doesn't know how to so I'm asking you guys out there to help me with this. I'm actually wondering how can she stop working in Geylang and be with me? She has a 2-year contract with the boss to work in Geylang(so that she can stay here). Can she break the bond in any way? I can talk to her boss if its needed. Can she get a work permit to stay in Singapore? Guys, I really need help on this. Sorry for the really long post here. I might be a little crazy to fall in love with her but I know what I'm doing. Thank you guys in advance (:

[sammyboyfor]

Get a life! :rolleyes:

[Greatking]

Nice article.

I heard from lao-bo that girls under such contracts will need to be escorted in and out by them. Break contract, leaves Singapore. The next visit, she will probably knock into ICA lock-up self and U-turn back home.

Pretty hard to get PR or citizenship too. Marriage needs lotsa courage and strength - to establish and to maintain. You will need to handle not only reality but psychologically.

Who will forget the fact that your wife used to be a sex worker? And gals of such trade wouldn't want people to remind them of such events either. Are you able to handle your parents? Are you able to handle when u found out your best friend bedded her before? Are you not worried that because of stress and negative events, you will find it very hard to love her again?

And if you are going for US attachment, u should be below 28yrs old. Are you not going to give yourself more time to think? She had been fucked by hundreds by now. What's the different with another hundreds?

Don't rush into it. It's a commitment.

[SammyNewbie]

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

[Greatking]

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

I'm going tonight to look at those that ends with a 9 at lor18 :o

[SammyNewbie]

Just worried he may be conned. I also know a similar girl!

And I also thought of buying a dictionary for her so can talk at least!

So when I heard his story I really WTF!!!

[asdfghjkl]

better spend more time and effort in this forum rather than on traps! :o

[Greatking]

better spend more time and effort in this forum rather than on traps! :o

Juz wokeup or preparing for sleep? :eek:

[SammyNewbie]

But have to admit...they really treat you very nice.

Probably cause they can tell you the shy innocent type.

[sibehchiam]

Another carrothead in the making.

[singathai]

Was her number... 9 by any chance?

God if it is I suggest you better NOT...Please Please PLEASE don't say yes.

You mean her tag number or phone number? Both's not 9 anyway..

[singathai]

Another carrothead in the making.

I know I might be stupid to get involved in such an incident but I just can't control my mind. I'd rather fail trying than giving up at this point of time.

[collin_23]

If what u said is the truth , I wish u all the best . ;)

Thai girls usually come to sg with agents , if I not wrong as u mentioned she just came recently , so maybe she still owns the agent money , their earnings go by half half with boss but sometimes agent gets a cut too . I am not familiar with this arrangement hopefully other more senior bros can guide u .

Have a nice talk with the boss for a possible arrangement , if really got problem , ask the girl to go to Antivice or AV to tell them she wishes to go back , provided u really love her and not play play only . Take note she have family and child to feed so if u r not serious just pay and forget .

I really hope u give serious consideration in this relationship and hopefully we will see a fairy tale in the making .

Cheers

[singmarine]

But the Thai gal allow him to fuck raw & unload everything inside.

[alan0338]

standby to elope la ... :D

[singathai]

If what u said is the truth , I wish u all the best . ;)

Thai girls usually come to sg with agents , if I not wrong as u mentioned she just came recently , so maybe she still owns the agent money , their earnings go by half half with boss but sometimes agent gets a cut too . I am not familiar with this arrangement hopefully other more senior bros can guide u .

Have a nice talk with the boss for a possible arrangement , if really got problem , ask the girl to go to Antivice or AV to tell them she wishes to go back , provided u really love her and not play play only . Take note she have family and child to feed so if u r not serious just pay and forget .

I really hope u give serious consideration in this relationship and hopefully we will see a fairy tale in the making .

Cheers

Thank you collin_23. I don't know if there's any termination penalty fees or anything, but you're right, their earnings are split 50 50. She tell me she wants to be with me and stop working but if she stop working, she can't stay in singapore anymore. I told her I'll find a way for her to get work permit here or something. She says she's afraid after leaving she won't earn enough to support her family and herself if I ever decide to leave her. I told her I understand her concerns and I'll marry her if that could give her the assurance she needs and to also ensure her stay in singapore. I'm still hoping someone in this forum to give me a solution to this problem. Of course, I'm not just playing around. I could totally just pay and fuck to play around. Thank you once again for your sincere comments (:

[singathai]

standby to elope la ... :D

Thought of it before but definitely not a solution man.. If we ever did, we'll both become wanted in the world. No work no money, and never able to step back into singapore. Plus I'm a regular in the rsaf lol. I have a family too unfortunately.

[sammyboyfor]

Thank you collin_23. I don't know if there's any termination penalty fees or anything, but you're right, their earnings are split 50 50. She tell me she wants to be with me and stop working but if she stop working, she can't stay in singapore anymore.

Stop being an idiot and come to your senses before it's too late.

Read this post http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6782617&postcount=136

Do you really want to screw up your life for nothing? :rolleyes: Do you want your children to be born from the cheebye of a freakin' WHORE???

Instead of messing around with pussy, concentrate on the important things in life like building your career and establishing your financial position.

There'll be more than enough time for all this lovey dovey nonsense once you've made it in life.

[BS KTV]

Bro singathai,

I must strongly discourage you from going further and take boss sam words seriously. Many bros been had been betrayed and hurted deeply by all these WL. Even if you marry her and provide her a good life, inside her heart she will still you as a customer. Very sad instead :( In their world, all are cash and money ruled.

Most SG old men who marry or into a long term relationship with these foreign WL did not have a good ending.

Today is our National Day and let us the younger SG men proved that we are not as dumb as that the foreign WL used to see us.

Go, Play and Forget ... then move on with your life :p

[singathai]

Stop being an idiot and come to your senses before it's too late.

Read this post http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=6782617&postcount=136

Do you really want to screw up your life for nothing? :rolleyes: Do you want your children to be born from the cheebye of a freakin' WHORE???

Instead of messing around with pussy, concentrate on the important things in life like building your career and establishing your financial position.

There'll be more than enough time for all this lovey dovey nonsense once you've made it in life.

Thank you for your comment. It might sound harsh but it does make sense to me. I know its hard to accept the fact that she's a "whore". You might think I'm naive, but I feel that no one wants to be a "whore". Everyone wants to live normally without being a "whore". She might have screwed up something some point of her life that made her so desperate for money. I know I might sound like an idiot, but we all only live once, don't we? What's the point of having a good career and money but not happy? I've also read the link you've attached. Its a really tragic incident that is unimaginable for me. I don't know what to do anymore.. Its just impossible for me to forget her..

[singathai]

Bro singathai,

I must strongly discourage you from going further and take boss sam words seriously. Many bros been had been betrayed and hurted deeply by all these WL. Even if you marry her and provide her a good life, inside her heart she will still you as a customer. Very sad instead :( In their world, all are cash and money ruled.

Most SG old men who marry or into a long term relationship with these foreign WL did not have a good ending.

Today is our National Day and let us the younger SG men proved that we are not as dumb as that the foreign WL used to see us.

Go, Play and Forget ... then move on with your life :p

Thank you for your comment. You seem to be an experienced person in this situation(looking at your signature). Did this happen to you and it turned out badly? I really don't know what to do. I can't forget her. I think I'll just continue persueing and get my self hurt so I'll stop. I just want to know how I can go about doing that.

[ahtat77]

in love with a prostitute? haha. go find a wife from match making agency and have raw sex with her at least you will be more respected.

[sammyboyfor]

but we all only live once, don't we? What's the point of having a good career and money but not happy?

That's exactly my point. You only live once so don't be an idiot and screw up the most productive period of your life. There's no getting it back once it's gone. You can't turn back the clock. While money may not buy happiness, I can assure you that lack of it will bring you plenty of misery.

Everyone wants to live normally without being a "whore". She might have screwed up something some point of her life that made her so desperate for money

There are millions of Thai girls who have less money than your darling whore but they have sufficient pride and self respect to find an honorable way of making a living. Girls who choose to become whores do so because they have lost all their self esteem and sense of honor and shame and want to make a quick buck with the minimum of effort. Do you honestly want someone like that to be the mother of your children????:eek: If you do, all I can say is you're a very selfish person to bestow this sort of fate upon your future offspring. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[collin_23]

Thai girls after leaving geylang will be banned for a period before allow to come back to singapore on tourist visit , think a few yrs at least .

Boss has his points which I fully agree I also believe your realtionship not easy cause her english is lousy so how she going be happy in USA ? However I am curious if u r really what u have said , pretty women usually happens only in movies .

If u have the time go to www.stickmanbangkok.com

Also , go read up stephen leather ' private dancer '.

Good luck !

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[Marcel]

TS so what are your plans? Are you going to bring her out of geylang or not?

Today is national day wonder if you need to do anything for the parade.

[Big Sexy]

Wow.. Congrats mate! you found the perfect recipe for disaster.

I have heard so many of such cases and the storyline is damx boring cos they are more or less the same but with same sorrow ending.

we were totally in love. I could tell from her eyes that she wasn't playing with my heart, unless her acting is really that good. We made love without protection and I had my load inside her. We trusted each other that we don't have any diseases. I miss her every single minute of my life I couldn't face my girlfriend anymore.

[sammyboyfor]

Singathai bro, you sound like someone who has a bright future ahead of him,

Correction... he sounds like someone who HAD a great future ahead of him. :rolleyes:

However, like many before him, he's giving it all away for the sake of a dubious pussy!:D

[sammyboyfor]

Wow.. Congrats mate! you found the perfect recipe for disaster.

I know how he feels. I've been in the same boat. The difference was that I was 13 years old and the love of my life.... the girl I would go the end of the world and back for.... the one who I would devote the rest of my life to no matter what... was my 12 year old neighbor who was as cute as a button.

By the time I started work, I was a lot older and a lot wiser and could tell the difference between a fairy tale and the mundane reality of real life. ;)

When it comes to marriage, look for a girl with good genes as your children are going to inherit 50% of her DNA. She'll also be the one who imparts values and defines ethical behavior to your offspring. Marriage is about perpetuating your legacy. It's not about sex.

[heroseven2003]

Thank you collin_23. I don't know if there's any termination penalty fees or anything, but you're right, their earnings are split 50 50. She tell me she wants to be with me and stop working but if she stop working, she can't stay in singapore anymore. I told her I'll find a way for her to get work permit here or something. She says she's afraid after leaving she won't earn enough to support her family and herself if I ever decide to leave her. I told her I understand her concerns and I'll marry her if that could give her the assurance she needs and to also ensure her stay in singapore. I'm still hoping someone in this forum to give me a solution to this problem. Of course, I'm not just playing around. I could totally just pay and fuck to play around. Thank you once again for your sincere comments (:

Why are you going to such length for a pussy ? This is a whore we are talking about here. She will always be a whore. From my experience (and believe me, I have a lot) I have engaged the services of ex-FL, ex-WL, ex-massuer many of whom are married to gullible men like you.

Whenever the need for some money arises, they can only think of the quickest way ie. to drop their pants for whoremongers like me :D
You are fucking yourself here, can't you see ?? Wake up man......

[MountainTurtle]

Thank you for your comment. It might sound harsh but it does make sense to me. I know its hard to accept the fact that she's a "whore". You might think I'm naive, but I feel that no one wants to be a "whore". Everyone wants to live normally without being a "whore". She might have screwed up something some point of her life that made her so desperate for money. I know I might sound like an idiot, but we all only live once, don't we? What's the point of having a good career and money but not happy? I've also read the link you've attached. Its a really tragic incident that is unimaginable for me. I don't know what to do anymore.. Its just impossible for me to forget her..

Yes, no one wants to be a whore, but question here, she have a choice not to be one further more was she force to be one? Why are you defending her like an idiot, you got cast black magic by her isit?

Yes, we live once, we should live our life to the fullest every step and decesion we made is in our own hands. If one can betray her own body for money, I don't know what she will do next.

[sammyboyfor]

Whenever the need for some money arises, they can only think of the quickest way ie. to drop their pants for whoremongers like me :D

I can vouch for that. I have the photographic evidence! :p

[Killforsex]

@Singathai, if you have been speaking Thai and still don't see the con coming. If you don't speak Thai then please go and learn it, you will find out more. Good luck.

[BS KTV]

Thank you for your comment. You seem to be an experienced person in this situation(looking at your signature). Did this happen to you and it turned out badly? I really don't know what to do. I can't forget her. I think I'll just continue persueing and get my self hurt so I'll stop. I just want to know how I can go about doing that.

My past experience are with PRC WL. To cut short my long story, I ended my relationships with those PRC WL that I went with. And more importantly cut ties with them and stop any contacts with them. I lost some money and got hurt but I am more mature now.

You should end the your relationship with her once she finish her stint here. Do not contact her anymore when she return to Thailand.

There are many threads in the forum and I do believe all are real life experience with WL. Many bros eventually did regretted. I am lucky to wake up early and quit while I can... quit while I am still young. That save me a lot of trouble, money and times for other important things in life :p

[cocacola2012]

i think one of the cores here is don't get involved the relationship, go release and then sayonara (no offence to anyone). the feeling she is giving you now is also the same when you were dating your gf previously, isn't it? just that you have forgotten only. Wake up before late! don't simply pick a wild flower while you are actually holding one on the road, how much you really know about how she grew??

[asdfghjkl]

Stop being an idiot and come to your senses before it's too late.

by the way, i like to know if other countries men face KC traps too? :o

[singathai]

Okay okay guys.. I know I am an idiot to all of you.. I'll definitely do something that isn't gonna be of my disadvantage. I will think carefully before actually executing whatever I've said I'm gonna do. Thank you guys, for the good and bad comments. I'll take all the comments into consideration. Might not be important to you guys but I'll update you guys.

[SammyNewbie]

Is KC kena cheat? I think it is... but lol.. cause I am new, I will ask again.

I think other men are more exposed, so they kena a few times liao then know already, like those americans. Everyday fuck fuck use here use there.

Not like us, got these values taught into us, so less interaction with women so when KC the time, the consequences are greater.

[nacal]

There are millions of Thai girls who have less money than your darling whore but they have sufficient pride and self respect to find an honorable way of making a living. Girls who choose to become whores do so because they have lost all their self esteem and sense of honor and shame and want to make a quick buck with the minimum of effort.

Have to agree with bro on this sentence. There are millions of Thai girls who have less money, and are prettier, but they are not in this line...

but i don despise them.. i only despise those who use this chance to KC or cheat or hurt other ppl. No worries.. to me there are millions out there who are worse than whores. At least they don rob or kidnap ppl or cheat ppl of their hard earn money,if they stick to their job strictly lol.

Thai WL sell their dignity, esteem for money.. some for own material gains.. Some to sponsor their bros/sis through universities. So many reasons.. some true some false. How to differentiate? Time..

Bro you have time on your side. Use it.. If she's serious, she will do something abt it. 1 yr, 2 yrs.. take your time to cool down, monitor and then prepare then decide. It's super tough to keep lying for 1-2 yrs and not leave any clues. DON commit anything within this month if possible, thats when u're passionately high!! Be prepared though.. she might give you a lot of pressure like closing a deal.

It's still considered high risk.. either you don take the risk like the bros advised. Or you take it by minimizing risk as much as possible. it's your call, bro, as no one knows it or her more than you yourself.

Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best then.. btw i like thai gers, though i just interact with few of them fr mps/fls in sg/bangkok. Generally i find most of them to be polite and very family oriented. And due to the high demand and thus high pay.. they took this fast & easy path, similar to MLM/prop agents/ FA here..

[nacal]

by the way, i like to know if other countries men face KC traps too? :o

i believe jap/hk/korea/prc (kena own kind lol)/SG/my/taiwan... aiyo so many.. sure face it. Maybe those countries that don have are the middle east countries? lol

[dOiOb]

TS. Read the BOSS's signature and learn from it! Be a player not a playee!

[sammyboyfor]

I'll definitely do something that isn't gonna be of my disadvantage. I will think carefully before actually executing whatever I've said I'm gonna do.

Don't bother thinking because you're not in the right state of mind for rational thought to take place. Just do as we tell you.

When you look back at this episode in a couple of year's time, you'll be thankful that you managed to get yourself out of this mess without too much harm done.

If you want to do a bit of research, read

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limbic_system
http://www.youramazingbrain.org/lovesex/sciencelove.htm

You can also read "The cocaine girlfriend" chapter of the "Winners' Bible". I provided the link here (http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?p=7480102&highlight=cocaine#post7480102).

In your case, what has happened is that your commercial sex episode resulted in the excessive release of oxytocin that has paralysed your rational thought centres of the frontal cortex of you brain.

[mackewell]

Have to agree with bro on this sentence. There are millions of Thai girls who have less money, and are prettier, but they are not in this line...

but i don despise them.. i only despise those who use this chance to KC or cheat or hurt other ppl. No worries.. to me there are millions out there who are worse than whores. At least they don rob or kidnap ppl or cheat ppl of their hard earn money,if they stick to their job strictly lol.

Thai WL sell their dignity, esteem for money.. some for own material gains.. Some to sponsor their bros/sis through universities. So many reasons.. some true some false. How to differentiate? Time..

Bro you have time on your side. Use it.. If she's serious, she will do something abt it. 1 yr, 2 yrs.. take your time to cool down, monitor and then prepare then decide. It's super tough to keep lying for 1-2 yrs and not leave any clues. DON commit anything within this month if possible, thats when u're passionately high!! Be prepared though.. she might give you a lot of pressure like closing a deal.

It's still considered high risk.. either you don take the risk like the bros advised. Or you take it by minimizing risk as much as possible. it's your call, bro, as no one knows it or her more than you yourself.

Be prepared for the worst, and hope for the best then.. btw i like thai gers, though i just interact with few of them fr mps/fls in sg/bangkok. Generally i find most of them to be polite and very family oriented. And due to the high demand and thus high pay.. they took this fast & easy path, similar to MLM/prop agents/ FA here..

Agreed with what you say...no matter what reasons they have, they are doing this for a sideline and even some for years for the money. Even if these girls say they have feelings for you, they still love money more. Surely, u have exceptional cases where its real love and your guy fren lives happily for a damn long time with the WL. But chances are really slim and i wont not invest all my time and money just to get that rare opportunity which maybe you can see only once or twice or not even once in your lifetime.

Dun wanna sound to be realistic, but to safeguard we chiongsters interest here, for most of the time, say 98 percent, treat who you met or what you find in this trade as a partial investment. The KC trap thing is deadly and sometimes they will just lie and not tell u how they really feel.

Thus you wanna find out more about 'her' and u gamble your money and time away for a long period of time. This becomes like a 'permanent' investment gradually. For this case, i think you need to access and observe intentively on 'her'. You may even need to make trips down to her homeland just to convince urself that 'she' is worth it. No matter how nice she can be, chances are back at her hometown, shes not what she seems to be and you get really devastated by the truth....

However, there is no right or wrong in relationships but always remember there is always a higher chance to have a real and solid relationship with a decent normal girl, be it shes a thai, vietnamese or other nationalities.

Personally, having roam the bars of JC and GL to search for the 'vietnam' gem (which some of my friends got it now fortunately) since 2006, I did chanced upon one viet bar girl who i think is worth my permanent investment when i was chionging in geylang here three years ago. But i blew it and regretted when i did not make the trip down to her homeland to find out more about her. She has this ''C'' Cup which i die, shes even drinks my cum after sex(no joke) and she was so attentive to what i say.

When i tell her to talk softly on the phone as she always kinda rude( its viet culture lah i think), she toned down. When i ask her don wear so skimpy dress, she stopped. Super touch but DAMN.... gone liao then come and KPKB, drink beer like mad also no use.... :(. Lets face it, we guys wanna find a hot wife whos good in bed and good to you in person. She had both quality but i was so cautious as my frens keep warning me they lie alot. And i should have gave her a chance and observe more but of course not blindly just give her money.

If 'she'' really likes you, you can feel it to a certain extent if you alreeady know the effects of KC trap due to your long years of chionging in this trade. For newbies who do not knoe this, then please do not give up the ''forest'' here for this tree.

I know some guys here are desperate for something loving and good in your lives due to your not so solid relationship in your current lives, but learn and experience more in this trade(it takes years man) and then make the 'permanent' investment. Rather than bank on the '1 out of the 50 working gals' who is a true gem for a true relationship( i think now the figures are getting worst thanks to capitalisation and modernisation), Why not just live suavely, sophiscatedly and live like the casanova, treat them well and this 'sexual aka friend friend' relationship can still exist and it boosts your ego and makes you happy still...

However, dont sound to be biased, its really so hard to find a less materialistic and nice girl of the chinese ethnicity, korean and japanese, so i am rooting for the Puyings, spring Rolls, pinoys, Laos, Burmish, Myanmmar in this decade lolx.... The greed for statue and money is so evident......wad to do , haizzz... nice and pretty girls who tend to like you back will never settle for the simple life.

But on the otherhand, i may sound contradicting here, TO hell with that logic. Some of my frens are having that kind of awesome girls who they met in this nightlife scene in their lives now and they are happy, i will never give up on the search for that perfect gem in the nightlife scene and the normal scene....

Dun give up on both scenes, lol... i like consoling myself as i write this LOL... Just hate the sour grapes feeling as i envy my bloody friends with their thai fiancee or vietnam wife to be.......

Oh as always, the inevitable sin that we men always make, we think with our dicks and hearts at all times. Its time to be also brainiac in some situations lol...

[BS KTV]

I just want to share a bit more here on SG men & WL :p

Despite my past experience were with PRC WL, I think Thai WL shall be no different. These WL will follow old men who had deepest pocket and they will not hesitate to leave you once a rich sugar daddy take interest in her. WL will only retire once she find a rich old man to settle down and to maintain a ex-WL wife will cost SGD 5,000 a monthly allowance at minimum. That why I said usually WL will settle down with rich old men. I never see guys in 20s or 30s looking for true love or true relationship with WL.

SG men - There are 2 of kinds.

1. Decent-minded proper educated guys - These guys go out to play & have fun. Yes, they looked for WL for sex but not love or relationships. These guys will not take WL as real girlfriends because of their complicated nature and not exclusive to them.

2. Night scene old men & fat men - These men are exceptionally different from the previous group of guys that I mentioned. These men can accept relationships that are not exclusive to them and involved in their complicated night scene circle that filled with betrayal & money-oriented environment. These WL can be nightclub singers, KTV girls, massage girls or even streetwalkers. These group of men usually spent the most money on these WL by visiting their hometown, buying lavish gifts for them and remitting money to them. Some men even on brink of been bankrupt because they owe banks money and need their parents to bail them out.


Bro singathai, unless you are very well-off and you can give your Thai WL & her family a good life. If not, don't ever to think of long term relationship with her or marry her. Money will never be enough for such people.

[MountainTurtle]

Agreed with what you say...no matter what reasons they have, they are doing this for a sideline and even some for years for the money. Even if these girls say they have feelings for you, they still love money more. Surely, u have exceptional cases where its real love and your guy fren lives happily for a damn long time with the WL. But chances are really slim
gave her a chance and observe more but of course not blindly just give her money.

Some of my frens are having that kind of awesome girls who they met in this nightlife scene in their lives now and they are happy, i will never give up on the search for that perfect gem in the nightlife scene and the normal scene....

Dun give up on both scenes, lol... i like consoling myself as i write this LOL... Just hate the sour grapes feeling as i envy my bloody friends with their thai fiancee or vietnam wife to be.......

Oh as always, the inevitable sin that we men always make, we think with our dicks and hearts at all times. Its time to be also brainiac in some situations lol...

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."

[wishy51]

Bro, personally, one of my buddy's life got ruined by one of the Thai WL & your story looks exactly the same. They went into courtship for 2 years & when the golden qn came, they tied the knot. Later part of the story it's about the same as what other bros said. He lost everything.
I would say you might want to consider someone else if possible soon. =)

[wishy51]

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."

Bro, your "The little mermaid" reminded me of secret garden sia.. :D

[sta1100]

Ho Bro

Not worth the time and $$$ more over you only know her for few month, in this few month how much do you know her ???

1) Can you get over her past
2) Are you sure you can support her and her family ??? Unknow
3) Are you been KC by her
4) Does she really love you or a better life out of proverty and $$$
5) She did raw with you are you sure she will not do RAW with other using the smae trick
6) Since you have a good GF but some problem on and off, you need to over come talk anout the problem not walk off. How long did you know your Singaporean GF ???, she has also wasted so many year with you, just because you found a thai lady and you dump her like that X@%#
7) Better make a trip to thailand to see her family B4 you jump into the boat
8) You also check with ICA she been working her as a yellow card can she married you in not how long did she need to wait b4 she can tie the knot with you, and during all this year you are not beside her how she going to earn $$$ you send her $$$ can you be sure that the $$$ you send her will be enought ??
9) As mention she don;t want to work as a PRO in SIN, since she has apply the job she is will inform B4 hand. She is talking a easy out.

Think over over agian to get a good girl beside you is not easy, and in a relation ship is also not easy, don't screw yourself for a thai pussy

[BS KTV]

On your point 5, best is never do raw with any WL. It is alway better to protect ourselves with a condom. Especially PRC WL, they can do raw with many sugar daddies or boyfriends. I do not trust any WL at all :o

[littlepok]

hi TS, it seems like a touchy problem and i really agree when men kanna KC, they are dumber than women. they can let u feel like top of the world at 1 moment and wish you were never born the next.

some basic questions: how much can she earn a month? simple maths, pardon me if i am wrong. 20 customer a day, $60 each person, she get 50%, $600 a day, assume work 20 days a month (count in off day, mensus days and room for error, assume don't have 20 customers a day).

she easily earn $12k a month in SGD. ever wonder why they all got laptops and handphones to entertain them while waiting for customers?

her chances of spending is lower too (only on off days, can go out splurge and remit $) so she tend to spend on big items and good food to pamper herself and her tired CB. (used to higher end of life).

ask yourself, if u are earning $12k (or more) monthly salary and ask u to give it up in return for perhaps $2k monthly allowance (not bad liao unless u super highly paid. how many give their wife 2k a month). Will 2k be enough for her? especially she is used to high spending and she got MORE time to spend now? even if u got her a WP, her pay is max $800 (she can barely speak english. $800 is overrated already), it is world's apart from her previous pay and life.

as 1 bro said, when $ is not enough, the fastest and most convenient way is to panties-off. not that she has not done it before and she will definitely earn more than the $30 per customer in the past. she could be charging by hundreds and earn more than what u get in 1 month by freelancing in few days. what sort of respect do u think she will give u?

in short, u are the carrot who can bring her out of that crap hole that earn her $30 per customer. once out, she can easily charge 2-300 hundreds. she knew she have the asset and skill to get customers, why waste it? if she can KC u, what is stopping her from widening her net to get more potential carrots? u see her once a week, u think she is pinning for u for 6 days?

the skill of "i don't know english but i learn so i can talk to u" works on ALL men who feel special and superior. luring her to go US with u for 2yrs give more plus points to KC u further.

the weirdest thing is she allowed u to go in RAW with her which clearly violates ALL vice rules implemented which could get the owner into trouble too. they usually have 2yrs contract which they must leave and cannot return (not sure how long) after completion of contract.

IF u feel u want to go ahead, then good luck because u really really need lots of it. speak to the boss about redemption, let her go back thailand then u arrange to bring her over. ROM with her so she can apply long term visit pass or dependent pass.

PS: try faking poor and see how much she is still willing to stick to u. perhaps u can meet her outside during her off days. ask if she can lend u any money (her red alert will be buzzing off already). borrow 3-400 each time and promise to return on time (which u should) then increase the amount gradually to see her threshold. drop hints about your bad financial status and do not mention about your savings, pay, assets etc. might sound evil but it could dash your fairytale dream faster than you thought.

[AHH2222MK6]

Cannot completely blame all the fault on the Thai girl. Majority of 90% Thai girls in flesh trade will use KOO MAN TONG to lure every single man to love them, like them, bow to them. Perhaps our fellow TS have fallen under her charm. Even after years of mongering, I still falling for the same old trick. But somehow I manage to rob all their valuables as last resort when I find out the Thai girl is betraying me:D

[mackewell]

Well said, fair posting. Really agree to max. Personally I think with your fair judgement and experience you should actually contact this TS personally and guide him through this stage. After reading your post it actually remind me that even fairytales have their odds of not having a happy ending that will be "The little mermaid."

Bro i am not in a position to advice him lah, not that experienced still. Aniway, thank for your comment. Just share if i can loh. Seriously for the bro who start this thread, i think you need to ask yourself two questions. I think you are a newbie in the nightlife scene here so you really to ask yourself, using ur brain now:

1) Did you really fall in love with her cause you know her well enough and you foresee that you can go along with her, live with her in the long run as you reallý 'know'' her real personality?

IF not, you like her cos she was a stunner in bed, she treated you like a real lover with loads of GFE in bed? Sad to say, that is not love. If it is, i have to jio alot of thai girls cos usually some of them i came across in this trade have great chemistry with me and they serve me better in bed... No starfish treatment, bath you like a baby, wipe you dry with the towel like what your mum may have done in the past. It makes you feel good but thats not love, its service, its business.

Interesting, ''she'' gives you non-mechanical xxx service, she frenches you, go to the extent of licking ur arsehole just to make you happy, allow you to COF and CIM, even RAW liao.

Still, she could have some motive in being so 'nice''. i shall talk about this in point 2.

2) you has this grandmother story and soap opera crap coming out of her, she keep saying this but however she is smart enuff not to link it to money directy as you may suspect her motive. By the way, is she a Lao Chiao(old bird) in this trade?
For me to see if shes lao chiao, what i will do is sometimes i will ask my frens to help me monitor her. For instance, when this particular viet bar girl was super nice to me and i starting to like her liao, i will act blur, dun go in the pub meet her, and ask my frens go in instead and find out more for me.

Even to the extend of asking my friends to just test her by sitting with her and talk to her and see how. Those old bird girls will not reveal much even at this point and i may even go to the extend of knowing her freinds in the same trade and find out more. Sad to say, you need to see her kind of frens also. If they are all lao chaio and they are so pro in KC trap, chances are they psycho your ''girl' to learn their way of so called 'put long bait ,hook big fish'*( chinese phrase which is so handy man) to earn bigger bucks in this trade.

Lastly, dont mean to splash cold water on you, but it seems you are quite newbie(no hard feelings here) and you like her coz she served you well. So its time to stop being a noob and knock yourself into becoming a better player in this trade if she happens to be an old bird in this line even if she smokes some story to cover it up. Time to know more and spend more with her, And for once stop thinking with your dick.

And but very careful with your money, if she ask you transfer or help her with vita M using her soap opera, grandmother based story, you can't stupidly do it lah. The moment you do once, she will ask again and again.
Then , you are screwed. Of course, dont so cheap skate until treat her eat normal meals also cannot. Food and Drinks of course but not go ur shangri LA and show off ur ego to her( still early, not yet time to do that unless shes the right one for you).

If she really likes you for who are, she will be happy to go out with you, hold hand, eat normal meals, watch movie, window shopping even( Trust me, this is the time where she will slowly ask for the perfume, bags and so on. She will start from the cheaper ones if shes a old bird. She will play reverse psychology with you.)

LOL, WTH, initially wanted to just write a brief comment but see what got to me now hahaha. Aniway good luck bro, and i just love such threads as it allows newbie for once to tone down with their ego and learn from the seasoned fellas here. Remember, forget about the FACE issue thing here. If shes not the right one for you, move on. Its not ashameful to do that and do not cling into her cuz you dont wanna lose face to your frens who knoes about this.

If You really check if shes xin chiao( new bird) or lao chiao( old bird) and if she means what she saes, and you still like her. Then go for it. However, just to point out, i have came across lao chiao who has that chemistry and serves you well in bed(COF, CIM, stand in front of mirror fuck and so on). But i back out from having a realtionship with such girls

Why back out? simple, lao chiao girls are smart and cunning and practical about monetary issues. There is sure exception and no offence to single mothers like them( most are single moms). Unlike the caucasians, can we asians accept the fact that shes come along with two kids or even more at times?( she will not say until yu go to her homeland and find out..)

If she is a single mom(in most cases they are as when i chiong in pattaya, met hot babes but got kids liao sianzz), she will value her kids and parent above you. And you are feeding her whole family( its financially taxing K) and she still devalues you in your new family tree you are building then.

So again and again, dont stupidly jump into the relationship and not analyze, understand and find out the real truth afterall. I have been a newbie and its not ashameful to learn from your mistakes. I know some bros here will blast me coz i am not thinking realistically on the financial side yet. But seriously, for once, live life to the fullest and with a open mind.

Money is not the measuring stick for everything. And i think with an open mind, you will find out the truth.( no hard feelings here seasoned bro here, i learnt alot from you guys too, i was once the noob and i now flapping my own freaking wings HAHA). Haha , once again contradictory me, be on the neutral on this issue. Take the advice of other samster bros on the financial side and also maybe take part of what i say in order to find out the real truth.

I think after you done all this( as what i listed below), things are gonna be so open and complex. You will then start to think like seasoned bros like us and it may be a good thing. The woman's mind in this trade can be so vicious and unpredictable and go, explore and search for your answers with care

Cheers
Marc

[singathai]

I sincerely thank all of you bros out there who have given me your piece of advice. Yes I will definitely be more careful when I'm with her. I'm starting to think better already. Anyway, just to clarify with you guys. Firstly, I've told her my actual income. Its definitely not a 5 digit pay like what they earn(if that's really the amount they earn monthly). Just imagine the salary of a regular serviceman in his early 20s(with diploma education only). She told me in my face its definitely not enough to take care of her and her family. I agreed with her. I told her I can find ways to get her to work and stay in singapore but the salary would be less than 2k. She is now considering this way that I've mentioned. And secondly, I don't think with my bottom brain lol. I'm not a person with very high sex drive. And her skills in bed and her other services aren't the best I've experienced. Its just something more than this transaction guys get from prostitutes. I don't know, maybe she's using some spell on me like what one of the bro mentioned earlier on. But why sould she do that? I've made it clear to her I'm a poor fuck lol. For looks? Okay not that I want to say this, but I'm actually above average looking. I don't know what a matured woman(in her late 20s) can look for in me. I'm sure she needs money more than looks. So I don't know what's the point of putting a spell on me. Pardon me for my assumptions bros. Once again, I appreciate all comments all bros out there that have commented in this thread.

[Maxdom]

When a WL say i miss u, i love you and later Cry a few time will always do the trick.. Man is so fucking easy. He is only here to seek advice how to break her contract and stay in Singapore. Not whether he should marry her or continue to penetrate her raw. No amount of advice, criticism or insult will bring him to his senses. The next time he sees her or hear her voice, she just have to say i love u, cry again and deepen the toxic. The only way is to lock him up in a rehab like any addict and let time do the work. Until such facility is available, he will just be another statistic and another useful URL link for future idiot to refer to which the new idiot will still feel his one is definitely "different" cos "She love me".

[mackewell]

When a WL say i miss u, i love you and later Cry a few time will always do the trick.. Man is so fucking easy. He is only here to seek advice how to break her contract and stay in Singapore. Not whether he should marry her or continue to penetrate her raw. No amount of advice, criticism or insult will bring him to his senses. The next time he sees her or hear her voice, she just have to say i love u, cry again and deepen the toxic. The only way is to lock him up in a rehab like any addict and let time do the work. Until such facility is available, he will just be another statistic and another useful URL link for future idiot to refer to which the new idiot will still feel his one is definitely "different" cos "She love me".

Hey bro, u were once a noob which made all this mistakes too in the past so i think u shld not b critical to this bro. We are here to give positive feedbacks and not strike him down. Just remember experienced bros or frens were there to help ya out when u faced such issues too man...

[TheXXthe]

It's ludicrous to think that there should be even an ounce of positivity in the comments for such an appallingly-mindless situation.

That and tiresome blabber of absolutely nothing at all :rolleyes:

[Nonteerak2553]

TS,

Have you ever find out about her background? Where's she residing in Thailand.
What's her occupation before she work in Sg, and so on.

Before you bail her out, you need to find out those things. And unless your family owns a company, otherwise there's no way she can work in Sg. With her limited command of English, where else can she work? If she can't stay in Sg after you bail her out, you intend to move to Thailand for good? Do have any saving if things really needs you to move to Thailand? By the way if you got her spelled, I believe you won't come in here to ask for opinions.

I hope to hear from you soon. Anyway good luck, we as third party only can voice out our opinion, ultimately you; yourself need to think which is good or bad. :)

[ahtat77]

ts,she is preying on your naive-ness...she is only a prostitute...that is why it is almost impossible for her to get a man once she reveal her past unless she is really rich...seems to me that she wants you only because you are one of the few who can accept her for what she is...do not be taken in by her

[DareForRAW]

this just don't sounds good... :o
but wish you good luck in the future whatever you decide to do... :rolleyes:

[jj_jj]

Bro,
Even if you are rich enough, what's to stop her from 'taking' from more meal tickets? To them, the more the merrier. These chicks learn from a standard 'template' of sob stories, over time the smarter ones 'makeover' the stories to suit their ATMs.
You ever hear of the family heirloom etc?

Now that you have made known to her your salary and she has responded to you,
let's hope you wake up for good cos I see you stirring from your sleep :)
you unlikely have gotten kumantong (sic) cos you still have the sense to ask around here.

btw, can you really bring over a gf for the whole duration of your overseas training?

Cheers,
jj_jj

[sta1100]

On your point 5, best is never do raw with any WL. It is alway better to protect ourselves with a condom. Especially PRC WL, they can do raw with many sugar daddies or boyfriends. I do not trust any WL at all :o

Never RAW with PRC what they want is your $$$

[BS KTV]

I sincerely thank all of you bros out there who have given me your piece of advice. Yes I will definitely be more careful when I'm with her. I'm starting to think better already. Anyway, just to clarify with you guys. Firstly, I've told her my actual income. Its definitely not a 5 digit pay like what they earn(if that's really the amount they earn monthly). Just imagine the salary of a regular serviceman in his early 20s(with diploma education only). She told me in my face its definitely not enough to take care of her and her family. I agreed with her. I told her I can find ways to get her to work and stay in singapore but the salary would be less than 2k. She is now considering this way that I've mentioned. And secondly, I don't think with my bottom brain lol. I'm not a person with very high sex drive. And her skills in bed and her other services aren't the best I've experienced. Its just something more than this transaction guys get from prostitutes. I don't know, maybe she's using some spell on me like what one of the bro mentioned earlier on. But why sould she do that? I've made it clear to her I'm a poor fuck lol. For looks? Okay not that I want to say this, but I'm actually above average looking. I don't know what a matured woman(in her late 20s) can look for in me. I'm sure she needs money more than looks. So I don't know what's the point of putting a spell on me. Pardon me for my assumptions bros. Once again, I appreciate all comments all bros out there that have commented in this thread.

Bro singathai,

I did said actually the same thing to my WL too but money is alway not enough for them. Your WL is Thai. Do you know that my young pretty PRC WL can earn up to $1000 per short times session with old men :) she used to work in high end KTV.

Never trust the words of any foreign WL here if she really love you she don't need your money at all :cool:

[BS KTV]

Never RAW with PRC what they want is your $$$

That very true and alway protect ourselves with condoms. Sometimes I cannot imagine my PRC WL did raw with all sort of old men and just to earn their big money :eek:

Damn I had woke up from a nightmare :cool:

[Maxdom]

Hey bro, u were once a noob which made all this mistakes too in the past so i think u shld not b critical to this bro. We are here to give positive feedbacks and not strike him down. Just remember experienced bros or frens were there to help ya out when u faced such issues too man...

Positive feedback ? Have you ever watch American idol ? You can give him all the hope you want and give him all the reasons to errr...think logically. Wow... I hope that works. Wow!

It is suppose to be negative. I expect him to take it negatively too and be angry. He is injecting himself all the positivity that there is hope between him and her. He is thinking of marrying her and give her all the money for goodness sake. :mad:

[pojstemp]

bro, fm my observation n experience, her child is the main FOCUS.
If she got u in hand, her problems are solved. For how long, ask yourself?

A fren did not heed my advice like u. After 2 mths,they separated.
Though she single, still she need ANY companion. She bedded me
when I visited her in BKK. Now she hv 5yr daughter fm old poor
Am. man... Dont rush, taste more food n socialise around more.

[mackewell]

Positive feedback ? Have you ever watch American idol ? You can give him all the hope you want and give him all the reasons to errr...think logically. Wow... I hope that works. Wow!

It is suppose to be negative. I expect him to take it negatively too and be angry. He is injecting himself all the positivity that there is hope between him and her. He is thinking of marrying her and give her all the money for goodness sake. :mad:

Bro i like ur sarcasm, but the bottom line is we can only advice him and if he makes the decision he thinks is best for him. And btw i was very realistic in weighing the pros and cons in my comments. I am not encouraging him in any manner.

Enuff said lah, just for sharin, no point gettin working up mah. Chill bro max, i know u frustrated but just let him be lah, we cant force him wad lol, we done our part, peace man.

[sammyboyfor]

Bro i like ur sarcasm, but the bottom line is we can only advice him

Should be "..we can only ADVISE him..".

"Advice" is a noun.

[mackewell]

Should be "..we can only ADVISE him..".

"Advice" is a noun.

Haha Yes SIR, sorry my england veri powderful wor....

[ChokDeeDee!]

Bro singathai, I strongly discourage you in doing anything rash. It's entirely possible having a Thai WL falling in love with you. However, one fact on why she is in love with you instead of some random guy back in thailand is because she deems "foreigners" being the ones with capability taking care of her family.

Financial state is a core criteria that Thai girls consider in a relationship. When you marry a Thai girl, you technically marry her family. They may or may not be out to cheat your money but they WILL ask for money when their family is in need. Father, mother, siblings and kids are always held in priority compared to you. If things ever gets sour over financial matters with her family, she will ditch you and choose her kins, even if she is reluctant. This is just Thai culture, find yourself a good Thai girl who holds a decent job with a decent pay, good family background and you'll have less problems. The fact she is working as a WL shows a lot about her family needs. If you really want to take care of her, be prepared to spend thousands every month. If you do your sums, it can easily work out to be 20-30k a year to support her family, kids and herself. Some things in thailand aren't as cheap as most people think. This depends a lot on where she stays.

Although its possible, WLs have a hard time trying to get legally married in Singapore. She'd also be banned in sg for several years after she gets deported. Attempted re-entry can be rejected at the customs. They usually have to give/earn several thousands of security deposit to be kept by the boss only to be returned if she fulfills her 2 years stay. If she hasn't paid or earned enough to pay, you'll have to fork out the balance to bail her out.

Thais need visa to get into the states, if you're there for detachment, you'd probably be on official/work visa. She probably won't be able to get the same kinda visa like you do. If you're with the military, getting involved with this girl will sooner or later affect your career for some reasons. Be careful on what you promise her in this area. Think hard before committing, many thai girls are willing to sex you raw, it doesn't mean anything to them. To them it's some to take care of their family that matters. Just my few cents...

[Greatking]

To TS,

9.9 out of 10 posts, tells you the same thing.

These threads accumulate 5 pages of sincere postings and advices.

If you are willing to take in, you should be safe by now.

If you aren't going to take in, even if this threads welcome its' 100millionth's postings, I reckon nothing of those advices is going to put into practical use by you.

The choice is yours. Weigh which side of your balls is heavier. The guts or the brainy.

[sammyboyfor]

These threads accumulate 5 pages of sincere postings and advices.

If you are willing to take in, you should be safe by now.

If you aren't going to take in, even if this threads welcome its' 100millionth's postings, I reckon nothing of those advices is going to put into practical use by you.


"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

[LinLaoBei]

ya .. TS..

I discourage ur action too.... somemore u are attached, although u have problem with ur current gf. this does not mean u can use this execuse to break up with her.
u are still a young chap, with gd future....

bro here, always pay n f off... leave no feeling behind... that y we PAY for their serivce.

[singathai]

Actually, her intention was very simple. She only wanted me to visit her once in a while. She always pays me back whatever amount of money I pay to her boss. She will text/call me daily before and after her working hours. She doesn't want me to break up with my girlfriend at all. All she wants is having a part of me in her life. I don't know how stupid and foolish this can sound to you guys, but that's what she showed me. It was me being that stupid fucker you guys think I am lol. I told her about taking care of her and stuff. She was really happy that I have the intention of doing that but she wasn't ready for it. She told me we wouldn't be able to support her and her family and come back to Singapore for quite a while if she breaks her bond. And she told me she only knew me for less than 2 months. She's afraid I might leave her and she'll end up jobless and nowhere to go. So now, my plan is to just stay over her place once a week and see how things goes. I probably can't do anything to break her bond and make it possible for her to stay with me since I don't earn enough. Anyway, thank you all bros out there that have given me your sincere comments and advices. I'll update again.

[sammyboyfor]

Anyway, thank you all bros out there that have given me your sincere comments and advices. I'll update again.

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

[singathai]

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

Okay lah!! Haha my england C6 for O lvls okay..

[Bebeque]

Actually, her intention was very simple. She only wanted me to visit her once in a while. She always pays me back whatever amount of money I pay to her boss. She will text/call me daily before and after her working hours. She doesn't want me to break up with my girlfriend at all. All she wants is having a part of me in her life. I don't know how stupid and foolish this can sound to you guys, but that's what she showed me. It was me being that stupid fucker you guys think I am lol. I told her about taking care of her and stuff. She was really happy that I have the intention of doing that but she wasn't ready for it. She told me we wouldn't be able to support her and her family and come back to Singapore for quite a while if she breaks her bond. And she told me she only knew me for less than 2 months. She's afraid I might leave her and she'll end up jobless and nowhere to go. So now, my plan is to just stay over her place once a week and see how things goes. I probably can't do anything to break her bond and make it possible for her to stay with me since I don't earn enough. Anyway, thank you all bros out there that have given me your sincere comments and advices. I'll update again.

From how you described her, she seems so simple and has a heart of gold "...She doesn't want me to break up with my girlfriend at all...."

It also appears that she takes you as a financial backup "... She's afraid I might leave her and she'll end up jobless and nowhere to go..."

As admirable as these qualities are for both of you, many bros have advised you to be careful and don't be a "... stupid fucker...".

You are young, you have been cautioned and yet want to go through the baptism of fire of being snookered, heart, body and wallet.

Do what you want to do as this is your life. Hopefully, you will go through this episode not entirely broken in body, soul and wallet.

Don't be offended by what bros commented. We just want to share our views as probably we have had been there, done that, even before you were not born!!!

Just take care and good luck.

[collin_23]

Since she still going work here for 2 yrs , come back again in 2 yrs , now talk what also no use . Got time go read up the relationship stuff in here .

99 times out of 100 , the relationship will fail for relationship with WLs . The remaining one is a Gem ,usually when the girl just enter the trade not long ago , no family burden , no child , speak english or chinese , can cook can take care house , hardworking , good in bed , understanding , not money conscious .

Also provided the guy is handome , speak thai , understanding , RICH , got time for her , have car , have house .

10 yrs ago 1 thai girl ask me what is love , that time I still young I cannot answer her . Recently another girl ask me ' love is ..' ? Love is to know that the person u love is happy always , doing all u can to make sure she is comfortable and happy . If one is unable to stay in thai , your chances r almost nil for the relationship to work , even for me now , every 2 -3 months I will fly thai , I don't dare get a gf ..

[Greatking]

"Advice" is a non countable noun; you do not add an "s" to make it plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the Rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "Rice", like "Advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to English Language Quiz - Countable or Non-countable Nouns (I-TESL-J) (http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html) and take the test.

Thank you.:D

[seekers]

Double posting...

[seekers]

Brother, I have been reading since day one of ur posting... As u said u r not high educate as I dun think so, but i think most of the Bro also know what r u working as lioa, as I advise u better, make the right choice...

GO UR HEAD, OR GO AHEAD... GoD Bless You... All the best to u, Bro... Think wisely, as we grow older but not foolishly... :rolleyes:

I'm a regular in the rsaf lol. I have a family too unfortunately.

I sincerely thank all of you bros out there who have given me your piece of advice. Yes I will definitely be more careful when I'm with her. I'm starting to think better already. Anyway, just to clarify with you guys. Firstly, I've told her my actual income. Its definitely not a 5 digit pay like what they earn(if that's really the amount they earn monthly). Just imagine the salary of a regular serviceman in his early 20s(with diploma education only). She told me in my face its definitely not enough to take care of her and her family. I agreed with her. I told her I can find ways to get her to work and stay in singapore but the salary would be less than 2k. She is now considering this way that I've mentioned. And secondly, I don't think with my bottom brain lol. I'm not a person with very high sex drive. And her skills in bed and her other services aren't the best I've experienced. Its just something more than this transaction guys get from prostitutes. I don't know, maybe she's using some spell on me like what one of the bro mentioned earlier on. But why sould she do that? I've made it clear to her I'm a poor fuck lol. For looks? Okay not that I want to say this, but I'm actually above average looking. I don't know what a matured woman(in her late 20s) can look for in me. I'm sure she needs money more than looks. So I don't know what's the point of putting a spell on me. Pardon me for my assumptions bros. Once again, I appreciate all comments all bros out there that have commented in this thread.

Okay lah!! Haha my england C6 for O lvls okay..

[shiokpleasure]

路遥知马力，日久见人心

[pojstemp]

bro singathai, we know u in love now for right or wrong reasons. Our other bros can see fm outside clearer than u. You, like many of us have a weakness for women. May I suggest to you.? Go Golden Mile, ktv or thai disco, if possible all outlets there and see for yourself the Thai culture. Maybe, u find a gem there.

[stillgottheblue]

No one answered your enquiries directly. So I'll rebut you while answering

1) The Working Lady has to attend to 150-200 customers to pay her agent fees when she began working in the house
You mentioned she just arrived. So you will have to pay for all her "losses" to her agent and the local house owner.


2) She is allowed to work a maximum of 2 years, in the midst of her contract, she can request to return
Yes, she can throw in the towel and go back home as you wished. Her family will grilled her, "where is my $$$?"

3) When she returns, she will be barred from entering Singapore for the next 2 years
You are a regular, and she will be barred for 2 years from entering Singapore. Most of your communications will be in the form of skype/whatsapp/phone or visits when you are clearing your leave. Can you can break your military contract and choose stay in Thailand?

Even if you get to marry her after 2 years, she may or may not get PR status. It all depends on case to case basis on the relevant agencies. So you have to pay more for everything she uses... e.g., housing/medical, etc... no subsidiary rates. Without PR and given her history as a Working Lady and education, it will be very hard to get a work permit.

5) She had a child and needy family commitment
She told you your salary cannot meet her needs, how are you going to increase your income. Can you get along with her child and family?

You known her for only 1 months or less. What makes you think you have understood her enough? Some couples married a life-time and yet don't really understand each other.

Many of these ladies in GL had iPhone, iPad, laptop. They carry designer bags and use branded cosmetics and designer perfumes. They like to purchase gold accessories frequently. Can you afford her all these luxury?

Have fun and forget... and don't do raw you don't know if anyone before you has got any "problems". The house will be penalised by AV when they found sperm inside the girls during their regular check-up.

[Greatking]

bro singathai, we know u in love now for right or wrong reasons. Our other bros can see fm outside clearer than u. You, like many of us have a weakness for women. May I suggest to you.? Go Golden Mile, ktv or thai disco, if possible all outlets there and see for yourself the Thai culture. Maybe, u find a gem there.

If its a must for you to look for a Thai-girlfriend.

Online cupid websites
Thai Community here
Request for posting to kacharburi or Singapore embassy there (if you are lucky)

Pardon me if I'm wrong, but from my understanding, girls that are into these lines like KTVs or sex workers, wouldn't hope their husband or future husbands to know they did these before, if they have the choice to choose.

There will always be a psychological barrier. Because, girls who wanted to live back a decent life wouldn't want their love ones to know about this black mark. It will also be difficult for you, you will never stop being suspicious over the slightest thing and quarrel often over sensitive issues.

Why make your life difficult? It might seem difficult to get over a r/s, but most buddies here knows that its not that difficult and on contrast, its pretty easy. Just let time take its cause.

In those cupid websites, not difficult for you to find someone whose decent and/is decent now. If you manage to find someone online who used to be a sex worker (of cos, thru mean of finding out other than she tells you automatically), she's probably someone who wants a decent live back. These are the girls that you can go for.

Anyway, juz my small input. All the best, bro ;)

[yunnamhaircare]

Bro, you can view my thread below. I actually encourage relationships with FLs.
http://sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=290184&highlight=

But I find that you are really childish and too inmatured to handle marriage with any girl, not only FLs. Your level of thinking, maturity, and rationality is really too low to manage a family. I will actually pity that FL (not you) if you marry her. :mad:

[Nonteerak2553]

May I suggest to you.? Go Golden Mile, ktv or thai disco, if possible all outlets there and see for yourself the Thai culture. Maybe, u find a gem there.

Those places you mentioned are no different to G lane. All are money minded. Once you dry, they will find other man for money. To learn real Thai culture, come Thailand, and stay for months, make friends, and remember before falling in love with the ladies here, best to find out about her background, or else she could be someone's wife, then you inviting trouble. :D


In English language we always say, "no money no honey", in pasa Thai we would say, " mai mee ngern mai mee kwarm rak" these phrase standard for WLs.

[pojstemp]

I think we bros here dont want to doubt you too much.
Pls give yrself chances to socialise in other entertainment battlefield.
Did u try other thai dishes, fruits, drinks, clothes, etc ?
Go, give yourself a chance to appreciate.
I hv seen 2 of my frens divorced after 2 mths of whirlwind relationships
with them; and they regretted not heeding my advices.

[nacal]

路遥知马力，日久见人心

i second that.

And er.. Bro whatever don kill you, makes you stronger. Just don commit suicide.

[Greatking]

I think we bros here dont want to doubt you too much.
Pls give yrself chances to socialise in other entertainment battlefield.
Did u try other thai dishes, fruits, drinks, clothes, etc ?
Go, give yourself a chance to appreciate.
I hv seen 2 of my frens divorced after 2 mths of whirlwind relationships
with them; and they regretted not heeding my advices.

He shouldn't be trying anymore.....

[pojstemp]

singathai, I think she try to impress u, having caught a bird who dont know what is "catalput" . On the other hand, u are just infatuated.

[david61]

Hi Bro

My five cents worth of man to man advise.

Love know no boundary !!!

Just follow your heart as it desire.

It's your future you are talking about.

Make hay while the sun shine:)

Enjoy life :cool:

LIFE'S SHORT MAN HE HE HE

[sammyboyfor]

Hi Bro

My five cents worth of man to man advise.

Love know no boundary !!!

Just follow your heart as it desire.


Should be "... man to man ADVICE.".

"Advise" is a verb.

Following ones heart is good. The problem here is he's following his dick head.

[david61]

THANKS BRO FOR CORRECTING ME :D

HAVE A NICE MONDAY YEAH :cool:

[Iemanishere]

I wish you all the best.. But please do take care of ur self... Sometimes it not worth taking the risk...,

Cheers

[Marcel]

Has the TS told us what his next course of action will be?

[Big Sexy]

this is what a cunt would look like after being screwed by thousands of dicks.
go ahead and take the risk!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c1/SOA-Herpes-genitalis-female.jpg

http://www.dermnet.com/dn2/allJPG3/herpes-immunocompromised-6.jpg

[Rub&Buah]

Feeling is the most funniest & undescribable thing on earth.

For a period of time your mind tells u.'I can't leave without that,I want that badly!I know what I'm doing!I'm very sure it's true!'

After sometime when the strong emotion is gone your mind tells u

'WHAT ThE FUCK DiD I DO ThAT TO GET IN ThESE SHIT???'

While I applause your loves have no boundaries attitude,I also have to congrat u that you just dig a grave for yourself.

Run while u can bro.human are all selfish creature that includes your tirak.u really don't have to get a ticket to hell.:cool:

[singathai]

Greetings to all bros that have posted on this thread. Our relationship is kept simple. We only text and talk on the phone daily now. I will visit her once or twice a week only. Nothing more than that. Guess I've figured out that its almost impossible between us. Thank you all bros for the comments. Sorta made me the situation clearer to me. :)

[pojstemp]

Greetings to all bros that have posted on this thread. Our relationship is kept simple. We only text and talk on the phone daily now. I will visit her once or twice a week only. Nothing more than that. Guess I've figured out that its almost impossible between us. Thank you all bros for the comments. Sorta made me the situation clearer to me. :)

Bro singathai, I guess Big Sexypixs must hv scare you to hell.

[UnSexpected]

this is what a cunt would look like after being screwed by thousands of dicks.
go ahead and take the risk!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c1/SOA-Herpes-genitalis-female.jpg

http://www.dermnet.com/dn2/allJPG3/herpes-immunocompromised-6.jpg

OMFG, gross sia!!!!:eek::eek:

[Dreamworks]

this is what a cunt would look like after being screwed by thousands of dicks.
Go ahead and take the risk!

http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/c1/soa-herpes-genitalis-female.jpg

http://www.dermnet.com/dn2/alljpg3/herpes-immunocompromised-6.jpg

what the black!!!!

[singathai]

Bro singathai, I guess Big Sexypixs must hv scare you to hell.

Hahaha no lah. Not really afraid of gore. But still, its pretty disgusting..

[nacal]

Greetings to all bros that have posted on this thread. Our relationship is kept simple. We only text and talk on the phone daily now. I will visit her once or twice a week only. Nothing more than that. Guess I've figured out that its almost impossible between us. Thank you all bros for the comments. Sorta made me the situation clearer to me. :)

glad for you. you've leveled up and stronger now.

[singathai]

glad for you. you've leveled up and stronger now.

Yes thank you. I guess everyone grows from experience. :)

[Summerhillt]

Hi guys. I've recently met a Thai girl in Geylang on around 11th Jul. She only came to Singapore in 6th Jul. It was probably my 10th visit to Geylang, and I met her, whom totally gave me a different experience. I mean, people go Geylang for sex, so do I. But this time was different. Anyway, I went back for a second visit the exact same day.(I've never visited the same prostitute for the 2nd time ever) She was surprised to see me again. We both had good feelings about each other after chatting for a while. I promised her I'll come back the following week, 16th of Jul, but I went a day later than that. She was very happy to see me but she told me she was very disappointed that I didn't come the day before and thought I've forgotten about her. She even made a note on her calendar that I'd be coming on the 16th. We were very happy to see each other and we chatted the whole session. I bought her a Thai-English dictionary too because her English was really poor. I also attached a note telling her that she was different from other girls in Geylang. We didn't do anything other than talking. We exchanged our phone numbers that time. She often text me whenever she misses me and ask when will I visit her again. On the 4th visit, we sat down and talked. The note I gave her on the previous visit had some new words. It was her writing back to me telling me she misses me and likes me. I told her I like her a lot too. She asked if I had a girlfriend and I said I have. She was so upset she broke into tears. I told her to keep our relationship low profile and she agreed. She would only text me during hours where my girlfriend won't see(my girlfriend stays with me). After a few other visits where we always chat and occasionally made love, I've decided to stay over. I lied to my girlfriend about having night shift so I could stay over. (I couldn't do that too much as it is expensive) We chatted all night long and she told me about all her life. She said she was married once with a child, have parents and siblings in Thailand. She's now working in Singapore so that she could support her family and herself. She has many scars on her thighs because she was very upset with her life when she was married. Her ex-husband was a abusive one. She didn't tell her parents she's working in Geylang. She only lied to them she's working in a restaurant. She also told me she hates her job(which girl wants to be a prostitute?), and would often cry because of that. And on that night, I've decided to tell her I love her. She said she loves me too and wants to be with me too but she says I'm too good for her because she's a prostitute and I'm a young man who has a good job and future ahead of me. She doesn't want to break my girlfriend and I up too. On the 2nd night I've stayed a week after that, we were totally in love. I could tell from her eyes that she wasn't playing with my heart, unless her acting is really that good. We made love without protection and I had my load inside her. We trusted each other that we don't have any diseases. I miss her every single minute of my life I couldn't face my girlfriend anymore. I told my girlfriend I need some time alone as I'm unsure of our relationship.(we already had some problems before this) We're currently staying separately now. I went over to visit her yesterday, telling her I really love her and cannot do without her. I told her I want her to quit her job and stay with me and I will take care of her. I told her I might not be rich but I earn enough that she will never have to starve, have a place to stay, and will never have to work in Geylang anymore. I will bring her to USA with me for 2 years for my overseas detachment next year. I asked her to move in with me. If needed, I'll marry her too. She broke into tears and agreed. She said she'll talk to her friends and family about this to see how to go about things. I told her to talk to her boss about this too. I don't know how it'll turn out because she wants to be with me but doesn't know how to so I'm asking you guys out there to help me with this. I'm actually wondering how can she stop working in Geylang and be with me? She has a 2-year contract with the boss to work in Geylang(so that she can stay here). Can she break the bond in any way? I can talk to her boss if its needed. Can she get a work permit to stay in Singapore? Guys, I really need help on this. Sorry for the really long post here. I might be a little crazy to fall in love with her but I know what I'm doing. Thank you guys in advance (:


Firstly ,

I would not be like the others and scold you that your getting messy with a hooker from geylang. I respect all of the girls working in geylang as most of them has a really sad story behind them.

I think you should let this thai girl go and stay with your girlfriend.. i mean what has you girlfriend done to deserve this. Would you ever be able to live your life saying that i met my right one from a whore house?

Regarding the contract thing.. she can go back as soon as she wants but bear in mind that they have an unwritten aggrement.. my last kc girl from geylang told me she paid 10k sgd to come here work, so think of that when you want her to elope with you to USA.

Anyway bro , cheers and have fun bonking. But to do that without condom was really really heroic. ;)

[sammyboyfor]

I would not be like the others and scold you that your getting messy with a hooker from geylang. I respect all of the girls working in geylang as most of them has a really sad story behind them.

Their sad stories are all a load of bull. They become whores because they want to earn big bucks... end of story.

[Big Sexy]

Heroic?? It is just plain stupid Firstly ,

Anyway bro , cheers and have fun bonking. But to do that without condom was really really heroic. ;)

[heavybackhand]

Bro singathai,

I strongly urge you to read this article before making up ur mind, this article sums up thai ppl culture, thinking and values, very very well !!!!

I will PM you the link

[jj_jj]

Bro singathai,

I strongly urge you to read this article before making up ur mind, this article sums up thai ppl culture, thinking and values, very very well !!!!

I will PM you the link

Pls put the link in the thread to benefit all.
Why the need to PM?

[heavybackhand]

Pls put the link in the thread to benefit all.
Why the need to PM?

Okay since u requested, but beware, it's 19000++ words essay, and it doesn't talk abt Thai wl, more of Thai in general, bar girl, normal girl and even girl from
Good background, it's was a brilliant analysis and insight.

http://www.stickmanbangkok.com/Reader/reader1803.htm

Below is the link to a list of good articles about thai
http://www.stickmanweekly.com/StickmanGreenStarSubmissions.htm

[pojstemp]

heavybkhand, tks for the link, long torture read but insightful.

For some unique case, i hv a relative who emptied his cpf, build house, buy land only to be abandoned with 2sons by his Thai wife of 15 yrs who now live in castle..Unimaginable.

[ch33baguy]

Yes thank you. I guess everyone grows from experience. :)

Bro singathai,

Please test for std or aids before you head back to your gf.

[porscheclub]

When it comes to marriage, look for a girl with good genes as your children are going to inherit 50% of her DNA. She'll also be the one who imparts values and defines ethical behavior to your offspring. Marriage is about perpetuating your legacy. It's not about sex.

I've got to agree with boss on all counts for this thread & the above is highly legitimate!

When we mate, we want to procreate & continue the species. Choosing the right partner with the best offspring may sound maths but who wants to marry the poor & ugly?

[porscheclub]

Yes thank you. I guess everyone grows from experience. :)

Excellent. Looks like you woke up ;)

I too had an experience with a Thai WL called "Kiao" which is 9 in Thai. I learnt Thai & she English, she even cooked for me. A lot of happy times & when I sent her off at the airport, there were two other Romeos! :eek::D

Only thing is, I didn't do RAW with any WLs. You better go & check your blood once every six months for the next two years. Good luck.

[xiaoheii]

I have 3 friend that do the same thing .. Fuck raw cum inside .. Go back thai with those hooker .. Starting everything so good lovely .. Slowly their pattern all come out ... THEY ARE WHORE FOR A REASON !! TS WAKE UP !!!

[spidey7]

Hi guys. I've recently met a Thai girl in Geylang on around 11th Jul. She only came to Singapore in 6th Jul. It was probably my 10th visit to Geylang, and I met her, whom totally gave me a different experience. I mean, people go Geylang for sex, so do I. But this time was different. Anyway, I went back for a second visit the exact same day.(I've never visited the same prostitute for the 2nd time ever) She was surprised to see me again. We both had good feelings about each other after chatting for a while. I promised her I'll come back the following week, 16th of Jul, but I went a day later than that. She was very happy to see me but she told me she was very disappointed that I didn't come the day before and thought I've forgotten about her. She even made a note on her calendar that I'd be coming on the 16th. We were very happy to see each other and we chatted the whole session. I bought her a Thai-English dictionary too because her English was really poor. I also attached a note telling her that she was different from other girls in Geylang. We didn't do anything other than talking. We exchanged our phone numbers that time. She often text me whenever she misses me and ask when will I visit her again. On the 4th visit, we sat down and talked. The note I gave her on the previous visit had some new words. It was her writing back to me telling me she misses me and likes me. I told her I like her a lot too. She asked if I had a girlfriend and I said I have. She was so upset she broke into tears. I told her to keep our relationship low profile and she agreed. She would only text me during hours where my girlfriend won't see(my girlfriend stays with me). After a few other visits where we always chat and occasionally made love, I've decided to stay over. I lied to my girlfriend about having night shift so I could stay over. (I couldn't do that too much as it is expensive) We chatted all night long and she told me about all her life. She said she was married once with a child, have parents and siblings in Thailand. She's now working in Singapore so that she could support her family and herself. She has many scars on her thighs because she was very upset with her life when she was married. Her ex-husband was a abusive one. She didn't tell her parents she's working in Geylang. She only lied to them she's working in a restaurant. She also told me she hates her job(which girl wants to be a prostitute?), and would often cry because of that. And on that night, I've decided to tell her I love her. She said she loves me too and wants to be with me too but she says I'm too good for her because she's a prostitute and I'm a young man who has a good job and future ahead of me. She doesn't want to break my girlfriend and I up too. On the 2nd night I've stayed a week after that, we were totally in love. I could tell from her eyes that she wasn't playing with my heart, unless her acting is really that good. We made love without protection and I had my load inside her. We trusted each other that we don't have any diseases. I miss her every single minute of my life I couldn't face my girlfriend anymore. I told my girlfriend I need some time alone as I'm unsure of our relationship.(we already had some problems before this) We're currently staying separately now. I went over to visit her yesterday, telling her I really love her and cannot do without her. I told her I want her to quit her job and stay with me and I will take care of her. I told her I might not be rich but I earn enough that she will never have to starve, have a place to stay, and will never have to work in Geylang anymore. I will bring her to USA with me for 2 years for my overseas detachment next year. I asked her to move in with me. If needed, I'll marry her too. She broke into tears and agreed. She said she'll talk to her friends and family about this to see how to go about things. I told her to talk to her boss about this too. I don't know how it'll turn out because she wants to be with me but doesn't know how to so I'm asking you guys out there to help me with this. I'm actually wondering how can she stop working in Geylang and be with me? She has a 2-year contract with the boss to work in Geylang(so that she can stay here). Can she break the bond in any way? I can talk to her boss if its needed. Can she get a work permit to stay in Singapore? Guys, I really need help on this. Sorry for the really long post here. I might be a little crazy to fall in love with her but I know what I'm doing. Thank you guys in advance (:

Not advisable 2fall in luv w a FL. FLs fall in luv w ur $ only.

[spidey7]

I quote I kenna zapped. No head no tail oso kenna zapped. Haiz ... Tell mi wat is e correct procedure ...

[sammyboyfor]

I quote I kenna zapped. No head no tail oso kenna zapped. Haiz ... Tell mi wat is e correct procedure ...

What does it say when you hover over the quote button you twit?:rolleyes:

[GentlemanPirate]

TS,

I dunno what else to say to u as many bros in here hv given u very very good valuable advice on your topic. To me, you have already made the choice. If you feel u r damn right abt it... then go do it. U r those ppl who needs a few bumps in your life then you will learn or gather the experience.

Try living in Thailand for sometime & u will know even prettier ones, working in office sort of ladies then u will somehow realise the one u are "dating" now is just a fucking timebomb which will kill u anytime....

Well, all the best....

[merlinlion3]

@bro GentlemanPirate

If I got pts, I would upz u. Yr comment very good.

"Try living in Thailand for sometime & u will even prettier ones, working in office sort of ladies when u will somehow realise the one u are "dating" now is just a fucking timebomb which will kill u anytime...."

Anyway to add this to a sticky as it sums up the whole woes of a tirak mess so well?

[dudenumber1]

I cannot say whether your feelings are true to each other. I think when you go for a pros. remember you are there to have fun not develop feelings. I think u r digging a hole ... deep hole.

[yunnamhaircare]

Their sad stories are all a load of bull. They become whores because they want to earn big bucks... end of story.

For Thailand dacades ago, their sad stories might be true but for present day, their stories can hardly be true. Thailand is now an emerging nation. Their industrial parks are huge and always not enough labourers. There will be work for you if you need money.

Nowadays, thai ladies work as prostitutes confirm is because of easy money. Those that genuinely have sad stories will stop prostituting after they tide over their financial difficulties in a few months. This is from my experience with a lady shop owner who FL temporarily.

[cuntarow]

Greetings to all bros that have posted on this thread. Our relationship is kept simple. We only text and talk on the phone daily now. I will visit her once or twice a week only. Nothing more than that. Guess I've figured out that its almost impossible between us. Thank you all bros for the comments. Sorta made me the situation clearer to me. :)

Good to know that you have wake up, dont waste time on fruitless things, all sweet things the WL did to you was inducing you into the trap, eg paying you back, giving u small gifts, texting you showing u endless concern, you got tempted becos your gf is not doing all this, chiong wisely and carefully be a player and not being played.:)

[Nonteerak2553]

Nowadays, thai ladies work as prostitutes confirm is because of easy money. Those that genuinely have sad stories will stop prostituting after they tide over their financial difficulties in a few months. This is from my experience with a lady shop owner who FL temporarily.

It's addictive to work as a FL. Sorry to say this, but if you really read stories from those forums, some even sent monthly as high as 50K BHT to their teerak, so that she will stop working as FL. Only handful managed to stop, but majority still doing this once their foreign bf back to their country.

[D'sauna]

Bro.

You are too shortsighted. You are in love now coz she is still pretty and able to deliver the fantasies you want every night.

Think of her 50years from now and think about the after consequences:
1. Later she need your financial help since she have kids.
2. Later she will need your help for her families as well
3. Maybe there are more hidden agenda that you do not see.

Bro. You need a break to really really think it through.

Perhaps, you are just too lonely right now that the current & only option for you now seems to be the best. Suggest you to talk to more friends, relatives & family member if possible and seek more opinion.

[merlinlion3]

@bro D'sauna

What is love and lust to a man? They are the same. :)

Ask any man, would he prefer to love an untouchable woman from afar?
Or would he prefer to have his fantasies fulfilled every night?

[HarryPotter]

TS, looks like you kena gong tao at first. But luckily you wake up in time.

[Greatking]

Pure lust..

Plant one x banana tree :D Everynight

[ThaiGirlKiller]

One thing for sure that this girl know that you can bring her out of poverty, can support her and her family, blah blah blah. When her mother, father, brother, sister, sister in law, brother in law, cousin, pet, ...... sick or anything were to happen, think they will expect you to help them. So if financially you can make it, then its fine.

If you were to marry her, immigration might not allow her to live in Singapore for long. Have to travel between thailand and Singapore quite often if that really happens. Might strain relationship.

Anyway I dont know your girl but I can tell you that some of these Siam Bu are really super expert in telling lies. So good luck :)

[zhang]

plz dun do that bro jus fuck and move on. they come sgp to earn $$. they is no true love. after all they have to go back to thai and even they have husband in thailand a not u oso dunno.
so what the point of felling in love wif them?

[VoltaRedonda]

Greetings to all bros that have posted on this thread. Our relationship is kept simple. We only text and talk on the phone daily now. I will visit her once or twice a week only. Nothing more than that. Guess I've figured out that its almost impossible between us. Thank you all bros for the comments. Sorta made me the situation clearer to me. :)

Good to hear Bro. Cheers!!!! =)

[Shadow_warrior]

The word, falling in love and prostitute should never be used in the same

sentence.

or for that matter falling in love, geylang

[Atomants]

Kinda free today and read this interesting post..Well there is absolutely no wrongs falling in love , we all do . However, falling in love is like a trance and as long as someone can make you in that trance you will be forever be in love.

But! maybe one day you might just wake up and realized that you have wasted precious years.

Why do we fall in love in the first place? and why with a whore? Although we have to be fair to say that they are human too we have to take a real deep look into our inner desire to love and be loved.

In your instant could it be that you are in some way troubled by your relationship with your GF then ..that makes you unappreciated and left out that you are seeking for someone to show affection and when someone can make you feel loved ...that you kinda sink in?

And also while reading your post i realized that there is an element of "pity" with the other party. This can also lead us to believe that we might be in love . But pitying someone is definitely not love. we grew out of it and then what happen?

Sorry for the long reply and I could go on and on.

Perhaps you might want to re-examine your inner feeling before going on the fast train?

So they said: " love is blind " I'm a true believer of that !! but not without a prize! ..

Wish you luck!

[<<totally>>]

The word, falling in love and prostitute should never be used in the same

sentence.

or for that matter falling in love, geylang

Sigh, as a man in geylang, I do have to admit most of the times, what the brothers offered are true cases. However in any cases, there are exceptions. If TS or others are going for that exception, I do hope you have a big wallet. The big wallet indeed does helped to get over a lot of hurdles, with the last hurdle ending either you or her having a chance of heart.

[Guardsmanwarrio]

I don't even bother to read what you write and I know already the whole story , my advice to u..


WAKE UP!

[milford]

I think she cast black magic on you. You are crazy to fall for a prostitute. I really looked down on you, bro. Find some gals who has standards , eat oso feel happy. after eating, feel a bit got class alr.

[Austere]

Bro, dont ..... Whores are for fuking, You paid them, they give you what you want.


Dont, do stupid things.

[wynchn]

Bro dun be silly in falling luv with them. Their target is to earn $$$ n go back to their country. Since u have a gf now and has problems. I suggest u have a good talk with yr gf to sort all the problems. Y waste time on a prosititue!!!,!,

[Stealthfighter]

There are millions of Thai girls who have less money than your darling whore but they have sufficient pride and self respect to find an honorable way of making a living. Girls who choose to become whores do so because they have lost all their self esteem and sense of honor and shame and want to make a quick buck with the minimum of effort. Do you honestly want someone like that to be the mother of your children????:eek: If you do, all I can say is you're a very selfish person to bestow this sort of fate upon your future offspring. You should be ashamed of yourself.

There are taxi drivers, insurance, sales people, finance industry people with the exact same attitude... Not just whores.

With the current cost of living, not everyone wants to have kids.

[Stealthfighter]

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[Putdaitumdai]

Hey Bros, 

Was just browsing through the forum when I stumbled across Singathai's predicament (which he no longer is in. Good for you, bro). I can recollect so many stories of guys being tricked by pretty docile working Thai girls. It's almost always a road with a sad ending. 

we all know we go to gl to fuck and forget, but sex is a natural bonding experience for some of us and we will fall into this hole inevitably some time or later. If u can't get out, here's a story.. 

I was madly in love with an angpai almost 8 years ago. We went through a hell of a storm to break her shackles of geylang and got her home. Her boss wanted his angpai to stay and did not make things easy at all. 

[Fuckster]

Actually not very difficult to test out whether or not she's a liar. Tools that you need to carry out this test will be no.1, a guy who's excellent in his acting skills, not too bad looking and must not be a carrot head, no.2, a few hundred dollars. However, you must be prepared to accept the outcome whether it is good or bad.

Here's my suggestion;

1) Request this guy to visit her 4 times in a week (3 short visit and 1 overnight visit) you pay for the cost la of coz.

2) This's where the acting skill comes in. The guy got to act as if he's a professional earning more than 10K per month and makes her feels that he has fallen in love with her and also let her know that he has the ability to take care of her and her entire family.

3) Upon the last visit, ask her if she have a lover and is she willing to marry him and promise her that he will set up a family with her in Thailand.

If her answer to him is she doesn't have a lover and she's most willing to marry him, then you finally got an answer.

Total investment

3 days X short visit = $50 X 4 = $200
1 night of overnight visit = $150 X 1 = $150

Total = $350

This suggestion may sounds childish and stupid but think again, if by spending $350 could stop your brain from guessing and saved you from future pain and suffering that you will be going through, I think it's dam cheap.


Here's the most difficult thing to consider, who should you send for this mission? Can't be your best friend, I don't think you would want your best friend to upz your potential future wife. Good Luck. :D

[capital]

Hey Bros, 

Was just browsing through the forum when I stumbled across Singathai's predicament (which he no longer is in. Good for you, bro). I can recollect so many stories of guys being tricked by pretty docile working Thai girls. It's almost always a road with a sad ending. 

we all know we go to gl to fuck and forget, but sex is a natural bonding experience for some of us and we will fall into this hole inevitably some time or later. If u can't get out, here's a story.. 

I was madly in love with an angpai almost 8 years ago. We went through a hell of a storm to break her shackles of geylang and got her home. Her boss wanted his angpai to stay and did not make things easy at all. 

So is she ur wife now?

[Guardsmanwarrio]

Some idiot zap me witout leaving a name , so coward ..

[Nato17]

Actually not very difficult to test out whether or not she's a liar. Tools that you need to carry out this test will be no.1, a guy who's excellent in his acting skills, not too bad looking and must not be a carrot head, no.2, a few hundred dollars. However, you must be prepared to accept the outcome whether it is good or bad.

Here's my suggestion;

1) Request this guy to visit her 4 times in a week (3 short visit and 1 overnight visit) you pay for the cost la of coz.

2) This's where the acting skill comes in. The guy got to act as if he's a professional earning more than 10K per month and makes her feels that he has fallen in love with her and also let her know that he has the ability to take care of her and her entire family.

3) Upon the last visit, ask her if she have a lover and is she willing to marry him and promise her that he will set up a family with her in Thailand.

If her answer to him is she doesn't have a lover and she's most willing to marry him, then you finally got an answer.

Total investment

3 days X short visit = $50 X 4 = $200
1 night of overnight visit = $150 X 1 = $150

Total = $350

This suggestion may sounds childish and stupid but think again, if by spending $350 could stop your brain from guessing and saved you from future pain and suffering that you will be going through, I think it's dam cheap.


Here's the most difficult thing to consider, who should you send for this mission? Can't be your best friend, I don't think you would want your best friend to upz your potential future wife. Good Luck. :D

You have got to be kidding as in paying someone else to screw the lady you like. I don't think I can ever do that. Sorry but that is kinda going to be on my mind all the tiime.

[littlehappiboi]

Bro singthai... Look i understand how u feeel... Same case happen to me in 2008.. i was young and naive... Went into a "relationship" with a thai wl... Same thing.. met her many many times... I even went to the extend of help her to run away from her "boss".. checked her into a 4 star hotel in two for 2 days and bought her tickets to fly home.. and for 3 months i gave her $600 maintainece to pay for her "rent", "loan" and mother's "hosptial and medical fees".. we talk about getting married and all... Then i decided to check on her... But so happen she was dumb enuff to post all her cheonging pub photos and staying in expensive hotels... So i talked to a trusted bro about it.. he rebuked me and ask me to end it... So i ended it. She came flying back to sg staying in orchard of coz with my money and try to patch things up... But by then i am determine to end it... I mean $600 bucks a month for 3months.. wtf was i thinking... Wat i get is hurt and being cheated.. so i told her no.. she still can tell me her sister is jobless and all.. but then i said no... Bro.. my advice is just forget it.. i know its hard but its better to be safe then sorry...

[harris88]

Bro, i agree with all the brother's advice and comments, not all goes all out to milk you but what is the percentage that really fall for you.
say she really like/love you and you get married, spore is really a small place what happen when you going out with her and say met your friend, introduce her as your wife and so happen he had use her before.
worst case is your parent find out her last job ? guess both will have heart attack.
If you are game for thai lady's, take a trip to BKK you can make friend with sales girls and they are interested in spore boys, Thai boys don't treat girls well, they are like butterfly.

[data]

I'm in the same predicament. met one cute PRC in selangor. good unique service, and GFE experience (so so la) but her foreplay is unique leh.

so cute. met up with her for 4 times liao. even give her massad once, and she liked it. Kissed her head, shoulders, she giggles, like my ex gf did. (found her in wechat as well.) heart got taken in. so cute, so nice. her breath smells of flowery blossoms, her pussy of honey and paradise. Her flowing long hair of spring fresh leafs flowing thru my nose. Smooth silky white skin, supple and soft to the touch. Small boobs but pointy. Tickles you with her nipples as she foreplays you when you lie down. oh so cute. each time open wechat i see her cute pics, my heart melts again. During VDay i got her some small gift.

But things are easier said than done. Its hard not to fall in love when intimacy is there. haaiizzz... .... need to take mind off by focusing on my business more. :(

[eugene_wong]

I'm in the same predicament. met one cute PRC in selangor. good unique service, and GFE experience (so so la) but her foreplay is unique leh.

so cute. met up with her for 4 times liao. even give her massad once, and she liked it. Kissed her head, shoulders, she giggles, like my ex gf did. (found her in wechat as well.) heart got taken in. so cute, so nice. her breath smells of flowery blossoms, her pussy of honey and paradise. Her flowing long hair of spring fresh leafs flowing thru my nose. Smooth silky white skin, supple and soft to the touch. Small boobs but pointy. Tickles you with her nipples as she foreplays you when you lie down. oh so cute. each time open wechat i see her cute pics, my heart melts again. During VDay i got her some small gift.

But things are easier said than done. Its hard not to fall in love when intimacy is there. haaiizzz... .... need to take mind off by focusing on my business more. :(

which place in selangor? I'm there..

[data]

which place in selangor? I'm there..

Kepong lolz....the heavenly town. :D

[Blast88]

To the bottom line, the root cause of all this affair is because of our 'little brother', cut away & all issues will be resolve:D

[88798]

don't love them you will regret for life ;)

[bettyboob]

any update from the ts?

[TonyStarkMK8]

any update from the ts?

I'm TS's friend/colleague. He left the woman eventually. She still kept calling/smsing him every now and then. She would also send wishes like "Merry Christmas" and "Happy Valentine's" to him. But he wouldn't care at all. He's good now, still chionging with me to FLs and KTVs. He has up-level already, he don't get emotional ANYMORE when it comes to girls. To him its all just a commercial scene already.

[bettyboob]

happy for him :)I'm TS's friend/colleague. He left the woman eventually. She still kept calling/smsing him every now and then. She would also send wishes like "Merry Christmas" and "Happy Valentine's" to him. But he wouldn't care at all. He's good now, still chionging with me to FLs and KTVs. He has up-level already, he don't get emotional ANYMORE when it comes to girls. To him its all just a commercial scene already.

[cuntjigger]

Tink rationally n u shall hve no regret...do not pave a primrose path for yaself. There are so many bros who hve given u the best advice..cheers.

[Benben8821]

I wonder if bro singathai is still around?