Warning signs of a problem...

[garfield1218]

You should always treat a ho like a ho, meaning she got paid and you got a "i have just had sex" grin on your face. And you know, it is a problem when that system is messed up. The ho doesn't want your money anymore!!!

And brothers, I am having a problem. On a recent business trip to Tokyo, I had one of the student escorts coming to my hotel. I never truly believe advertisements but I would pretend to believe in it - after all I am paying for sex, I should get what I am paying for, right?.

Anyway, this ho showed up. Slim but busty, light skin, good looking and tall, really tall. I am 5'6 and she must be around 5'10. Plus, she got her high heels on. She looks just like a model or an JAV star. So you could imagine my surprise when she walked through my door. In the ads I got, she is said to be a Japanese literature student, cannot speak much English. But from my point of view, she speaks better English than most Japanese. I put her payment in a small chocolate box and gave it to her beforehand. She did not even look into it. I tried breaking the ice with some Japanese pick up lines like "you are cute"...and the ice was break. We had a good session, and while laying in bed we shared a bit more of our info. She said in English "you are cute", I thought it was weird. I got her real number before she left.

The next day, I sent a sms to her phone and also booked her via email like the first time. She showed up. We chat for a bit, I complained about cannot buy a ticket to Batman 3 movie because it was sold out. We had another session. And before she left, she showed the picture of her 'mamasan', saying this is the person I sent email to. And told me if I still want to see that movie, call her later.

A few days after that, I sent her a sms to meet up in my hotel lobby and go to that movie. I managed to get the ticket. She showed up almost an hour late so we could not go to the cinema anymore. I was upset so I returned to my room before she arrived. She came to my room with her apology. I said never mind. She did not have make up on, wearing flip flop. She looks just like another girl. We talked for about 10 min before I mentioned the movie again. And she bursted into tears, saying sorry and rushed out of my room. I felt really weird because it was not my intention. I rushed behind her. We came back to my room. I tried to calm her down and kissed her.

We had a good long sex. But the interesting thing was, she did not bring condoms with her and willing to have unprotected sex. Lucky for me, I kept condoms with me all the time. Things get more complicated after sex. I went for a coffee with her and walked her to the taxi. I pulled out an envelope with her payment inside and said "for the taxi fare...". Before I could finish, she said "no need". I felt a horrible feeling...This is not going to be good.

On my last day in Tokyo, I had the morning free so I texted her for a movie session. We managed to get that ticket and enjoy almost 3 hours movie together. We had coffee after the movie and I invited her for lunch. She did not even touch the foods but stayed with me all the time. Told me she must watch her figure so she did not eat much. The funny thing was, I started to believe her story. It makes sense!!! She has a good knowledge of Japanese literature and arts. Her English is not as good as German (she went to Germany to study the language and German literature), I speak some German so I believe her. She showed me pictures of her trips to Europe, fellow students in Germany, her family, pets...and to my bigger surprise, she insisted paying for the movie, coffee and my lunch.

Now, I know the rule of this ho-ing game. A ho is a ho, you bang her you pay her and no more. It is a business. But here, I got a ho that refused her payment and insisted on sharing the bills and paying for my meals. What is wrong? There must be a reason...Well, brothers, when I find that out, I will tell you.

Now I am back in my home. She texted me a few times, including a poem in German about what happened between her and I. In my replies, I mentioned that she would forget about me eventually. She said it is true but now she is missing me. I will give this problem another 6 months. After 6 months, i will tell you what happened. See you, brothers.

[alan0338]

wah, u need to use ho here and there ah to keep on reminding urself ... think u kena KC liao and she already get into u ... enjoy ur roller coaster ride .... :D

[see see only]

A whore is a human being afterall ....

To settle her problem or to fulfull her "dream" (most for buying branded stuff, travelling, etc) she chosen to sell her boby for it....

Time to time, she realise she need some social life as well .... and happen that she chosen you as the "lucky" one to share a bit of her social life with .... nothing uncommon.

So TS,

What kind of problem do you expecting from her especially she is in Japan? I guess you simply imagine too much :o

However the possible source of the problem would likely come from yourself, judge yourself or classify yourself as a lucky man to be liked & missed by a lovely Jav girl (whore) which in the end putting yourself into another possible victim of another KC case.

1 of the very high possiblity is :- you became one of her foreign royal donor to her "Easy life foundation fund" tt $$$$ to her bank account to solve her possible problems eventually :rolleyes:

[Apocalypse]

Now I am back in my home. She texted me a few times, including a poem in German about what happened between her and I. In my replies, I mentioned that she would forget about me eventually. She said it is true but now she is missing me. I will give this problem another 6 months. After 6 months, i will tell you what happened. See you, brothers.

You made her cry. You are not a very nice guy because of batman :D but she still like you wor. :p

There are a few ways to see it.

You were lucky on the gambling table once, and you have to know when to quit. You are back home so there are a few ways that will happen next.

1. She will ask you to TT $ to her a/c (possible: 30% chance)
2. She will ask you to get her out from tokyo (more likely: 60% chance) This will involve the airfare, and some processing fee for her mamasan to take "leave". Once she is here, she will do everything she can so she can stay. (Do you want that?)
3. She is lonely, and she just want someone to chat with her, and she likes you (unlikely: 10% chance)

for now just enjoy the kc with the jap doll but don't think with your little head when the requests comes. :D

[pssybank]

Bro TS,

Interesting story you have. You wouldn't be in such a dilemma if you have met her in a very different circumstances, ie non-commercial sex.

Imagine if you have met her as a normal person, without knowing first what she actually does (in this case, FL), things could have worked out very differently. And may be a happy ending is possible?

[Blackrain]

Was thinking of camping here but pitch tent for 6 months damn "Siong" wor !

[jklpoi]

2. She will ask you to get her out from tokyo (more likely: 60% chance) This will involve the airfare, and some processing fee for her mamasan to take "leave". Once she is here, she will do everything she can so she can stay. (Do you want that?)


Why would she want to get out of toyko to come sillypore? Unless she really love TS which then this thread will be invalid anymore and we should be all be offering our congrats to TS.

[Apocalypse]

Why would she want to get out of toyko to come sillypore? Unless she really love TS which then this thread will be invalid anymore and we should be all be offering our congrats to TS.

do u know how much $ it cost for her to take leave to come to sillypore and also to leave her clan? :D

[CrisRonaldo7]

dont go down that road. u have seen and heard many cases from here before. it is not worth ur time and emotions. find a decent girl to invest ur emotions on. cheers and all the best.

[SMGG]

A whore is a human being afterall ....

So TS,

What kind of problem do you expecting from her especially she is in Japan? I guess you simply imagine too much :o
:rolleyes:

Think TS just self KCed too much hehe :D

[ironbird]

What is KC by the way? Can't find the acroynms.

[sane1]

What is KC by the way? Can't find the acroynms.

kc = kam cheng, hokkien in feelings/friendship/relationship

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=4215179&postcount=1

[Oxen]

Think TS just self KCed too much hehe :D

Yes agree, think too much and got himself self smitten.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

kc = kam cheng, hokkien in feelings/friendship/relationship

Oh really, for a moment there i tot it was Kar Chng :D
Learn a new word today RV tks ;)

[xxxaddict]

Oh really, for a moment there i tot it was Kar Chng :D
Learn a new word today RV tks ;)

hahahaha.... kena KC = kena kar chng... quite funny... cos if you think of it, kena KC is really kena car chng burnt....

[asdfghjkl]

best KC master is Steve Jobs.. :o

[FeeeFeee]

Isn't he back to the maker liao :)

[sane1]

Oh really, for a moment there i tot it was Kar Chng :D
Learn a new word today RV tks ;)

dun always think of kar chng leh :p .. btw wat's the acronym for RV?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

dun always think of kar chng leh :p .. btw wat's the acronym for RV?
Roses r red
Violets r blue
You were born pretty
All the best to you ;)

[sane1]

Roses r red
Violets r blue
You were born pretty
All the best to you ;)

no wor, im v ugly, pretty one u gotta find tat one at the poll thread :p

[DO_YOU_BJ]

hehe no wor, im v ugly .tt pretty 1 u gotta go to the poll thread and find :p
It's ok dear, i have no feud wif anyone there :)
I too got my own personal fan club incase u were not aware lolzzz

[sane1]

It's ok dear, i have no feud wif anyone there :)
I too got my own personal fan club incase u were not aware lolzzz

haha no wonder i think i read somewhere too about u being good looking :p

[DO_YOU_BJ]

haha no wonder i think i read somewhere too about u being good looking :p
Ya in inverted commas :D

[sane1]

Ya in inverted commas :D

It's true :) if i m not wrong, it's the thread about the 2 ladies fighting for u at the HFJ coz of your boyish good looks, quite some time ago.

[DO_YOU_BJ]

It's true :) if i m not wrong, it's the thread about the 2 ladies fighting for u at the HFJ coz of your boyish good looks, quite some time ago.
Ooh this kinda history i can't & there's no need to remember la.
Think more about fighting for the $$$$$$$ lol

[sane1]

Ooh this kinda history i can't & there's no need to remember la.
Think more about fighting for the $$$$$$$ lol

hehe so i rem correctly :p yantao dun nid be shy ..bao will hv lotsa women fighting 1..

[DO_YOU_BJ]

No leh, now nobody wan wor....only my biggest fan post weekly in the forum to be ANALED by me n my bros :D
Me prefer females wif faces not clones who r faceless n bollsless :D

[sane1]

No leh, now nobody wan wor....only my biggest fan post weekly in the forum to be ANALED by me n my bros :D
Me prefer females wif faces not clones who r faceless n bollsless :D

I like reading the posts here too, eh wat's bollsless?

[DO_YOU_BJ]

I like reading the posts here too, eh wat's bollsless?

Aka No Balls

[sane1]

Aka No Balls

OOh..ic ic..learnt 2 things fr u tdae :D

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Hv to give back wat i took mah :D

[sane1]

Hv to give back wat i took mah :D

hehe tks, have an early nite :D

[shiokpleasure]

See you again in 6 months Time

[ironbird]

Thx brother sane1

[MaMister]

TS, go thailand and meet another hooker, they are better at this. :D

[Ladyrain]

kc = kam cheng, hokkien in feelings/friendship/relationship

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showpost.php?p=4215179&postcount=1

Oh! Finally I know what kced meant! I thought it's karchng! Hahahaha!

[Apocalypse]

Oh! Finally I know what kced meant! I thought it's karchng! Hahahaha!

if u give me your kc, I am willing to be kced by you, for as long as it lasts. :eek::rolleyes::p

[ChokDeeDee!]

Free sex? Share Bills? Or better still, RAW? These are some common baits used to bag big fishes. Once the mouth is hooked, its painful and hard to let go. I've heard of WLs willing to pay their boss for customers to overnight them, cool huh? But nothing is free in this world. Think about it, there are always customers who are younger and better looking, if they need companionship and sex, they've got it several times a day. So why would they wanna invest to keep you with them? Think hard, with the big head that is...

[frivolous_ami]

A whore is a human being afterall ....

To settle her problem or to fulfull her "dream" (most for buying branded stuff, travelling, etc) she chosen to sell her boby for it....

Time to time, she realise she need some social life as well .... and happen that she chosen you as the "lucky" one to share a bit of her social life with .... nothing uncommon.

So TS,

What kind of problem do you expecting from her especially she is in Japan? I guess you simply imagine too much :o

However the possible source of the problem would likely come from yourself, judge yourself or classify yourself as a lucky man to be liked & missed by a lovely Jav girl (whore) which in the end putting yourself into another possible victim of another KC case.

1 of the very high possiblity is :- you became one of her foreign royal donor to her "Easy life foundation fund" tt $$$$ to her bank account to solve her possible problems eventually :rolleyes:

You are right. A whore is not any different from any of us. They are making a living, albeit a hard one. Its not the best profession to be in. Whats unfortunate about their line of work is getting in is easier than getting out.

This kind of gal not easy one. I won't say that I am a saint. Have went out with some of the ktv gals before. Honestly, if a guy thinks the WL only has one guy, then he is very wrong. Almost (actually ALL) every WL has many "good" suitors who think that they are the "only man" chasing the WL.

Not saying it is wrong, but we all have to thread carefully. Its easy to be emotionally involved with WLs, but getting out is a different story.

To quote on case, a friend was banging a VB. Then, the VB got up to check her hp and a lot of sms saying "Dear, how are you?", "XXX, you are a nice gal", and etc etc. Not saying every WL is the same.

We all have to be careful. Play is fun, but we shouldn't lose ourselves in the process of playing. As guys, we also have a lot to lose, such as our reputation (if any), career, family and etc.

[frivolous_ami]

Free sex? Share Bills? Or better still, RAW? These are some common baits used to bag big fishes. Once the mouth is hooked, its painful and hard to let go. I've heard of WLs willing to pay their boss for customers to overnight them, cool huh? But nothing is free in this world. Think about it, there are always customers who are younger and better looking, if they need companionship and sex, they've got it several times a day. So why would they wanna invest to keep you with them? Think hard, with the big head that is...

There is no free meal. Its either pay upfront or pay later. If not, still must pay back somehow.

Normal gal or WL, its the same. Play liao, must pay back. WL must pay before bang. Like ERP and road tax, pay before use! Normal gal is pay after bang, like eating in a restaurant. After ordering all the lobster and crab, bill still must settle, don't need say more also.

[garfield1218]

Hi guys,

First of all, thank you for your comments. I read all of them and to be honest, I learnt a whole heap of stuffs. I never heard about KC before, I do now :)

It's not 6 months yet but the result is already here so I jut want to update what happened to me.

After I got back home, the girl and I kept communicating via message. First few weeks, she's sent me a couple of pics from her daily life, her bff, her dog, etc... She told her bff about me, her bff told her to "get real", I commented "she must be a good friend" :) I thought about her a couple of time when I have coffee (I never drink coffee b4 meeting her), or have Japanese foods...It was a difficult time because my partner suddenly became very cautious (yeah brothers, women can really tell).

A month after my trip, I was on my way to NYC for business and got a message from her. She told me she was on her way to the US for her friend's wedding. And the wedding would be in Baltimore - about 4 hours drive from my hotel. I didn't tell her I was in the states, thinking I would contact her in the weekend. It was a wise decision because I was shipped out the next day. She kept me updated with pics from the wedding and later her holiday in Fiji.

However, I received no words from her after that. Her Kakao turns blank. I think that's it. She's out of my life now, I should feel relief but I feel like something is missing inside. Nevertheless, my warning signs did not lead to a problem or I am just lucky this time.

Happy ho-ing everyone ;)

[JuzNiceM]

Every experience gained is a lesson learnt. :)

[kenl8888]

Japanese culture is different; men treat women like dogs and use them for sex..
that's why she likes you so much ; as you have shown her respect and treat her like a lady.. It happened to me when I was in Japan 35 years ago.. a japanese lady colleague went out with me several times during my study trip of three months; when I came back; she kept sending letters telling me how lonely she was.. without me.. very pretty lady with 36D boobs.. too bad I had a fiancee back here... still remember the good times we had together so many many years ago

[paulfrank]

Hey TS, its 6 months today :D.. Do update us your story:p