First Time Cheonging

[MannyCalavera]

Hi everyone! So uh, basically today I hired an FL for the first time. Honestly, I didn't know what to expect. I went there, was led into the room, showered and she took the lead. It was kind of difficult to talk to her due to language barriers, but what happened was that we had one round, and after that we just lie around doing nothing much. It was a really boring experience, and I guess what I'm looking for is decent company. Sure she's cute, but I somehow feel that she's using the fact that it's my first time to "slack off". So yeah, I guess what I'm looking for is how to get my money worth and how to make the most out of each session.

[AceAmando]

With more experience as time goes on you will be able to enjoy time even better.

[hotstuffm8]

trolololol

[MannyCalavera]

@hotstuff: Thank you for your response. Even if what I'm looking for is a hot fuck, that was one of the worst sex experience I ever had. I chose her initially because of the FRs she received, but somehow it turned out completely different from those.

[MannyCalavera]

@AceAmando: The only reason I hired an FL was because I'm too lazy to go through the process of sian-ing a girl. Problem though, is that when the time came, I don't know what to do. It's not a normal ONS whereby both parties are having fun, it's more of a business transaction. I'm not planning of cheonging much, and this time was more of an experiment. However, I do want to have decent GFE, which sadly she failed to provide.

Sorry for double post I don't know how to edit my posts.

[lonelyman007k]

Thats wat happen to me also during my 1st time with FL.. But after tat, I book her again n screw her upside down haha:D

[MannyCalavera]

Alright. After my second time, I decided that cheonging Will not get me what I want. Don't get me wrong, the sex is really good this time round, but what I want is a close friend more than anything.

[thaivisitor]

Hi everyone! So uh, basically today I hired an FL for the first time. Honestly, I didn't know what to expect. I went there, was led into the room, showered and she took the lead. It was kind of difficult to talk to her due to language barriers, but what happened was that we had one round, and after that we just lie around doing nothing much. It was a really boring experience, and I guess what I'm looking for is decent company. Sure she's cute, but I somehow feel that she's using the fact that it's my first time to "slack off". So yeah, I guess what I'm looking for is how to get my money worth and how to make the most out of each session.

I'm trying to figure out which part of your post gets you to start this thread in this section "Matters of the Heart".:rolleyes:

[S.B.Y.1]

Hi everyone! So uh, basically today I hired an FL for the first time. Honestly, I didn't know what to expect.but I somehow feel that she's using the fact that it's my first time to "slack off". So yeah, I guess what I'm looking for is how to get my money worth and how to make the most out of each session.

First time is more or less considered tuition fee but after spending hundreds of $ and your next thread will be "oops I've fallen for a WL" :D

You'll definitely get the hang of it after numerous times

[sean69]

Alright. After my second time, I decided that cheonging Will not get me what I want. Don't get me wrong, the sex is really good this time round, but what I want is a close friend more than anything.

KNS.. if sex is good, what is the problem ??

looking for a good friend?? .. are you seriously looking for a good "friend" by looking thru FRs and calling the service of a FL ??

[MannyCalavera]

Cause I wasn't sure what I wanted, I'm just trying to find out. A friend is my conclusion after my second time.

[MannyCalavera]

The problem is that I'm bored of sex.

[AllIsBad]

Good for you , find another hobby.

[Gaofar]

Shheeesshh.. And you are how old my good friend?.. Bored of sex already?.. I sensed a new monk coming up 少林寺 man.. :rolleyes:

[MannyCalavera]

@Gaofar: Haha is it obvious that I'm still young? Nah I hate being restricted by rules and whatnot.

[pengembara]

Brother Manny,
As they say, you pay peanuts you get monkeys. I'm assuming you went for a fairly budget FL, maybe in the $150-200 range where the sex is fairly mechanical and clinical, and devoid of any feelings. If you really want decent company and a GFE the reality is that you probably need to spend a bit more. Have a look at a recent SBF thread called "High end escorts" for more information. Good luck with your next cheong!

[MannyCalavera]

@pengembara: Haha high end escorts is way beyond my means. Thanks for the advice though, but it's unlikely that I'll cheong again for years to come. =)

[alan0338]

So yeah, I guess what I'm looking for is how to get my money worth and how to make the most out of each session.

A friend is my conclusion after my second time.

no working ladies will wanna be friends with a fussy customer la... :p

[HCKing]

@pengembara: Haha high end escorts is way beyond my means. Thanks for the advice though, but it's unlikely that I'll cheong again for years to come. =)

if thats the case then 4get abt paid sex and concentrate on finding a gf instead.

[smallbaron]

@pengembara: Haha high end escorts is way beyond my means. Thanks for the advice though, but it's unlikely that I'll cheong again for years to come. =)

Bro MannyCalavera,

You have become "independent" at a young age and can retire with immediate effect from this forum :)

[sgjoey]

Brother Manny,
As they say, you pay peanuts you get monkeys. I'm assuming you went for a fairly budget FL, maybe in the $150-200 range where the sex is fairly mechanical and clinical, and devoid of any feelings. If you really want decent company and a GFE the reality is that you probably need to spend a bit more. Have a look at a recent SBF thread called "High end escorts" for more information. Good luck with your next cheong!

It is not true in my experience that you need to pay sky-high prices for great sex. I have had many memorable experiences spending time with Thai sex workers in just that price range (in fact, slightly lower). Just this very afternoon in fact, I met a smouldering beauty -- tall, fair and pretty face that provided me with a love-making session I shan't forget for a long time to come.

To my mind at least, having great sex partly depends on how one treats the sex worker. Treat her with some respect and you might be repaid with bonuses many times over.

[pengembara]

Of course, of course, Brother SGJoey, there are always exceptions to the rule and I am envious of your good fortune in finding an excellent FL in the budget price range. And I fully agree about treating FLs as human beings and being rewarded. However, on average and based on the law of probability, you probably have a higher chance of a good experience with a high end escort. Just my personal view.

[AvgJoe]

It is not true in my experience that you need to pay sky-high prices for great sex. I have had many memorable experiences spending time with Thai sex workers in just that price range (in fact, slightly lower). Just this very afternoon in fact, I met a smouldering beauty -- tall, fair and pretty face that provided me with a love-making session I shan't forget for a long time to come.

To my mind at least, having great sex partly depends on how one treats the sex worker. Treat her with some respect and you might be repaid with bonuses many times over.

Totally agree with what you said. If you treat the WL well you would be rewarded many times over, not all the time but more than 50% based on my experiences.

Sure, some bros here may argue that WL are whores, but they are still human. I am not asking you to fall in love with them, but treat them nice and it will be reciprocated.

If you are looking for friends or more than friends, you shouldnt be looking at FLs, they are for bonking, nothing more. Start by visiting some KTV or HFJ, but be forewarned about the KC there :D

[sean69]

The problem is that I'm bored of sex.

ah... i think what u are trying to say is you are bored of sex with a woman..

why dun you try getting your arse poked?.. not saying you are turning gay but just to get exposure to different things.. who knows? you might find where your true desires lies !!! :D

[freezetheDB]

i think what TS needs is actually
knowing the chick his dick is screwing (ala
fuck buddy, or a gf).

I have the same feelings, a girl may be hot but its just a physical release. Nothing is more exciting than fucking someone you know or have the already hots for. Because the largest sex organ is the brain

[postcd]

Hi everyone! So uh, basically today I hired an FL for the first time. Honestly, I didn't know what to expect. I went there, was led into the room, showered and she took the lead. It was kind of difficult to talk to her due to language barriers, but what happened was that we had one round, and after that we just lie around doing nothing much. It was a really boring experience, and I guess what I'm looking for is decent company. Sure she's cute, but I somehow feel that she's using the fact that it's my first time to "slack off". So yeah, I guess what I'm looking for is how to get my money worth and how to make the most out of each session.

try more FL..... lol..

[Likeucare]

i think what TS needs is actually
knowing the chick his dick is screwing (ala
fuck buddy, or a gf).

I have the same feelings, a girl may be hot but its just a physical release. Nothing is more exciting than fucking someone you know or have the already hots for. Because the largest sex organ is the brain

nice :D at least someone here makes sex more exciting