Married Men Vs Single Men ! Married Women Vs Single Women ! Who will be better FBs !

jasdude · #1 12-12-2011, 11:37 PM

I have my fair share of experiences and also hear says from couples around me and friends . This is what I noticed also which I love to hear from you gals and guys as well .

Married Men Vs Single Men ! Married Women Vs Single Women ! Who will be better FBs ! Each category has their pros and cons ? which cat will be the more ideal one in your case ? ( to each your own cos you might be single , might be attached or married ! )

And also I would love to hear your take on also the following

Why Married men in FB relationships tend to demand exclusivity ? Also Married woman in FB relationships are more acceptable to exclusivity ? Why ?

charisme · #2 12-12-2011, 11:38 PM

i would prefer a single man. reasons being there is much less complications in it.

callmebad · #3 13-12-2011, 12:45 AM

I prefer single woman as FB.

syt_punisher · #4 13-12-2011, 12:54 AM

married woman. they are less possesive and knows what they want.

Charlotte · #5 13-12-2011, 02:17 AM

If it is a fb , married or single dun matter
Sex drive n Time spent that's important

wally888 · #6 13-12-2011, 02:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlotte

If it is a fb , married or single dun matter
Sex drive n Time spent that's important

besides that oso maintain interest in each other

Krazzie · #7 13-12-2011, 03:10 AM

Status does not really affect whether he/she will be a good FB.

A good FB is only in for the sex and able to be discreet about it. But then we all tend to have our own wants in the relationship.

Usually love and TLC from the ladies.... I guess more sex from the guys

jasdude · #8 13-12-2011, 04:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Charlotte

If it is a fb , married or single dun matter
Sex drive n Time spent that's important

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Originally Posted by Krazzie

Status does not really affect whether he/she will be a good FB.

A good FB is only in for the sex and able to be discreet about it. But then we all tend to have our own wants in the relationship.

A division of camps already ! True ! FB aka fuck buddies or friends with benefits . The emphasis is on whether you place sex more or companionship more on the pedestal . If you are into companionship , a single gal or guy will have more flexibility over a married man or woman . However when sex is the focus , it depends on the schedule of the FB already and whether the frequency matches the needs of the FB as well as the physical aspects of the sex . This type of FB relationship is built on sexual performance and needs and will last only when interest in each other physically exist over time .

amateur.bonker · #9 13-12-2011, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by jasdude

A division of camps already ! True ! FB aka fuck buddies or friends with benefits . The emphasis is on whether you place sex more or companionship more on the pedestal . If you are into companionship , a single gal or guy will have more flexibility over a married man or woman . However when sex is the focus , it depends on the schedule of the FB already and whether the frequency matches the needs of the FB as well as the physical aspects of the sex . This type of FB relationship is built on sexual performance and needs and will last only when interest in each other physically exist over time .

thumbs up!!! well said bro!!

charisme · #10 13-12-2011, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Krazzie

Status does not really affect whether he/she will be a good FB.

A good FB is only in for the sex and able to be discreet about it. But then we all tend to have our own wants in the relationship.

Usually love and TLC from the ladies.... I guess more sex from the guys

True, status does not affect how good an FB a person will be. as a FB is just for sex.

Y i say i would have a single man over a married man. even if it is just sex. i would wanna do it with clear conscience. knowing that this man here have got no other commitments. knowing that we would nvr have to fear being caught by the partner other half. i feel it is just way too much to have to deal with a married man. so dont wanna risk it..

As for y married man ask for exclusivity and a married woman is more willing to be being exclusive. It is easier having to handle only one partner than multiple ones? since they always ask to be discreet...

HunterJ · #11 13-12-2011, 10:14 AM

I personally feel, status of each individual doesn't really matters in this case. Everyone can be a good FB if they know what they are doing. For me, I'm single now, and I would prefer a married women, maybe because I love to indulge in woman older than me.

In terms of the exclusivity, like what TS has said, married woman are more open to this and will accept it. Maybe she just needs someone out there to be there for her, as the husband does not give any attention to the wife. But there are some married man who wants to be possessive and have not only one, but many woman in his life at one go.

jasdude · #12 13-12-2011, 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by charisme

Y i say i would have a single man over a married man. even if it is just sex. i would wanna do it with clear conscience. knowing that this man here have got no other commitments. knowing that we would never have to fear being caught by the partner other half. i feel it is just way too much to have to deal with a married man. so don't wanna risk it..

As for y married man ask for exclusivity and a married woman is more willing to be being exclusive. It is easier having to handle only one partner than multiple ones? since they always ask to be discreet...

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Originally Posted by HunterJ

I personally feel, status of each individual doesn't really matters in this case. Everyone can be a good FB if they know what they are doing. For me, I'm single now, and I would prefer a married women, maybe because I love to indulge in woman older than me.

In terms of the exclusivity, like what TS has said, married woman are more open to this and will accept it. Maybe she just needs someone out there to be there for her, as the husband does not give any attention to the wife. But there are some married man who wants to be possessive and have not only one, but many woman in his life at one go.

Bro hunterj , in your case since you are happily single . You have the choice and freedom to sample all as long you have the ability to handle it . Thus you are more willing to try or more willing to experiment to find out and know what suits you best . For example now , you know you want someone of maturity and sophistication to indulge you mentality and physically .

Lady C , How good in this case should mean how compatible is the FB to you in terms of your requirements and lifestyle . Like no guilt , like no hassle , no fear . Married men will dread to be seen in public , thus its most of the time room meet if best . Only occasionally they will venture out into streets when the coast is clear doubled checked with numerous calls or sms to the wifey . However single guys for you will be more easy for you to get emotionally attached too . Do you not fear that ? or are you hoping for something more ?

In regards to the second question . I beg to defer there are other reasons like ability to have raw sex ( once you are used to it , you will hate condoms - men and women alike ) , no worries of STD etc , no worries of looking for others and meeting someone that you will know . However exclusivity breeds possessiveness which is a big no no in all FB relationships . Do you agree guys ?

silkypussy · #13 13-12-2011, 10:28 AM

Very good postings.

I actually have no preference whether or not Married or Single status for my FB. However I am inclined towards Married Men based on a few of my own reasonings

Married men are "cleaner" and "safer". I demand that my FB goes to a annual checkup for any signs of STD. Being married men, they are less likely to have high risk sexual tryst outside their marital wife as the impact of a STD passed on to the wife and family.

Single men on the other hand tend to have more sexual partners. I am sorry, I am being frank and honest. If the FB is a single guy, what makes you so sure you are both "mutually exclusive"? I tend to believe that Single guys are more playing the field on the range more so than Married men.

The other key thing is sexual compatibility. I like older guys, as they can hold better. The connection with an older guy gives me a much more intensive sexual interaction versus a young buck who just wants to cum.

Married men are less possessive and they are also more respectful. Perhaps I should say, the qualities of a FB should be one who is respectful and knows when I say NO, I mean NO. A young buck tends to have their dick rule over their heads.

After Sex, I tend to want to just chitchat for awhile. A young guy will just lay over and smoke or worse still, get up clean and get dressed.

Sorry, no matter what, an FB is still a person. Yes, there's the nice sensation after cumming. But as a woman, I still sometimes wanna chat and not have sex when we meet. I find this almost impossible with a single guy. They just want to get on with the physical act.

Reoxy · #14 13-12-2011, 11:00 AM

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Originally Posted by jasdude

Why Married men in FB relationships tend to demand exclusivity ? Also Married woman in FB relationships are more acceptable to exclusivity ? Why ?

Is the FB master planning of writing a auto-biography?

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Originally Posted by silkypussy

Very good postings.

I actually have no preference whether or not Married or Single status for my FB. However I am inclined towards Married Men based on a few of my own reasonings.

Thank you for your strong support.

We married men normally have good house training by our OCs.

jasdude · #15 13-12-2011, 11:23 AM

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Is the FB master planning of writing a auto-biography?

WOAH ! too big a hat for me to wear or hold BRO . I am just a dude ! I am JASDUDE ! who would want to even read my life story .

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However single guys for you will be more easy for you to get emotionally attached too . Do you not fear that ? or are you hoping for something more ?

Sorry . felt that i need to rephrase this ! However taking singles guys as FBs will make you more possibly prone to getting emotionally attached too . Do you not fear that ? or are you hoping for something more ?