Chiong buddies

bonkpedia · #1 11-12-2011, 12:56 PM

I am sure everyone will have at least one or more chiong buddies.
But are they real friends or just chiong buddies?
For me, my chiong buddies are my real friends.
Chionging together locally are less likely to get into much conflict with each other.
Why, cos each session the most few hours.
But overseas are different.
Spending few days together can break relationship if not handle carefully.
Lets talk about overseas chiong buddies.
Lets talk about the good, bad and ugly.

adidas88 · #2 11-12-2011, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by bonkpedia

I am sure everyone will have at least one or more chiong buddies.
But are they real friends or just chiong buddies?
For me, my chiong buddies are my real friends.
Chionging together locally are less likely to get into much conflict with each other.
Why, cos each session the most few hours.
But overseas are different.
Spending few days together can break relationship if not handle carefully.
Lets talk about overseas chiong buddies.
Lets talk about the good, bad and ugly.

there r no perfect marriage in this world ... so there r no perfect friends or buddies ....
it's all abt getting along comfortably, same mindset, sincerity, honesty and trust ...
it started off as party strangers then become cheong buddies ... and perhaps it move further and become good friends ...
if u r uncomfortable with someone, dun get close to them so that there will be less conflicts ...
i have met many bad incidents partying with strangers but i also make many good friends ... end of the day, it's abt respect ...
everyone have their own party style ... but one must respect each other and the party ethnics ....

yayatiger · #3 11-12-2011, 10:02 PM

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Originally Posted by adidas88

there r no perfect marriage in this world ... so there r no perfect friends or buddies ....
it's all abt getting along comfortably, same mindset, sincerity, honesty and trust ...
it started off as party strangers then become cheong buddies ... and perhaps it move further and become good friends ...
if u r uncomfortable with someone, dun get close to them so that there will be less conflicts ...
i have met many bad incidents partying with strangers but i also make many good friends ... end of the day, it's abt respect ...
everyone have their own party style ... but one must respect each other and the party ethnics ....

Nicely said, especially chionging overseas together.
Any conflict along the way, just talk about it.
Don't let misunderstanding caused friendship to breakup.
My regular overseas chiong buddy is also my good friend.
Strange guy but a good friend.
How strange?
We can go chionging ktv and he not taking any gal.
But overall a nice fellow to be friend with.
Everyone got mood, just learn to live and let live.

indianmagicoil · #4 12-12-2011, 02:46 PM

TS have recently have bad experience overseas?

Chiong or not, my own personal experience that I experienced a long time ago that to see if someone can be your good friend is to go on a trip together for 2 weeks. Take a backpacking, low budget trip... ride buses, eat local, stay in hostels etc... after that trip if you havn't killed each other... then that person can be your good friend.

If chionging overseas have to go with peeps of same mentality or else just have to tolerate each other. I can't say for other countries but in Thailand if "buay gam" just go off on your own and explore. Highly unlikely you will be robbed or murdered. Rather than endure the other person and spoil your holiday.

I've met a few people here on this forum. So far, thank God, no bad apples. U also gotta lower expectations, take a mai bpen rai attitude and just chill sabai-sabai then you bpai teow sanook mak.

bonkpedia · #5 13-12-2011, 12:54 AM

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Originally Posted by adidas88

there r no perfect marriage in this world ... so there r no perfect friends or buddies ....
it's all abt getting along comfortably, same mindset, sincerity, honesty and trust ...
it started off as party strangers then become cheong buddies ... and perhaps it move further and become good friends ...
if u r uncomfortable with someone, dun get close to them so that there will be less conflicts ...
i have met many bad incidents partying with strangers but i also make many good friends ... end of the day, it's abt respect ...
everyone have their own party style ... but one must respect each other and the party ethnics ....

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Originally Posted by yayatiger

Nicely said, especially chionging overseas together.
Any conflict along the way, just talk about it.
Don't let misunderstanding caused friendship to breakup.
My regular overseas chiong buddy is also my good friend.
Strange guy but a good friend.
How strange?
We can go chionging ktv and he not taking any gal.
But overall a nice fellow to be friend with.
Everyone got mood, just learn to live and let live.

Agreed with both.

bonkpedia · #6 13-12-2011, 01:00 AM

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Originally Posted by indianmagicoil

TS have recently have bad experience overseas?

Chiong or not, my own personal experience that I experienced a long time ago that to see if someone can be your good friend is to go on a trip together for 2 weeks. Take a backpacking, low budget trip... ride buses, eat local, stay in hostels etc... after that trip if you havn't killed each other... then that person can be your good friend.

If chionging overseas have to go with peeps of same mentality or else just have to tolerate each other. I can't say for other countries but in Thailand if "buay gam" just go off on your own and explore. Highly unlikely you will be robbed or murdered. Rather than endure the other person and spoil your holiday.

I've met a few people here on this forum. So far, thank God, no bad apples. U also gotta lower expectations, take a mai bpen rai attitude and just chill sabai-sabai then you bpai teow sanook mak.

Not me lah.
My other friends lah.
But what you said about going overseas to see if can be friend is true.
But no need so long, 4-5days enough already.
Friendship need time and difficult to build up.
But very easy to end it with stupid reason.
(heard my friends' stories)

adidas88 · #7 13-12-2011, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by bonkpedia

Not me lah.
My other friends lah.
But what you said about going overseas to see if can be friend is true.
But no need so long, 4-5days enough already.
Friendship need time and difficult to build up.
But very easy to end it with stupid reason.
(heard my friends' stories)

a true friend takes time to nourish ...
these overseas trip (long or short) is just get to know each other better and get acquaintance ...
weakness & strength of each other will take a while to surface ...

teteku · #8 13-12-2011, 08:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by indianmagicoil

TS have recently have bad experience overseas?

Chiong or not, my own personal experience that I experienced a long time ago that to see if someone can be your good friend is to go on a trip together for 2 weeks. Take a backpacking, low budget trip... ride buses, eat local, stay in hostels etc... after that trip if you havn't killed each other... then that person can be your good friend.

If chionging overseas have to go with peeps of same mentality or else just have to tolerate each other. I can't say for other countries but in Thailand if "buay gam" just go off on your own and explore. Highly unlikely you will be robbed or murdered. Rather than endure the other person and spoil your holiday.

I've met a few people here on this forum. So far, thank God, no bad apples. U also gotta lower expectations, take a mai bpen rai attitude and just chill sabai-sabai then you bpai teow sanook mak.

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Originally Posted by adidas88

there r no perfect marriage in this world ... so there r no perfect friends or buddies ....
it's all abt getting along comfortably, same mindset, sincerity, honesty and trust ...
it started off as party strangers then become cheong buddies ... and perhaps it move further and become good friends ...
if u r uncomfortable with someone, dun get close to them so that there will be less conflicts ...
i have met many bad incidents partying with strangers but i also make many good friends ... end of the day, it's abt respect ...
everyone have their own party style ... but one must respect each other and the party ethnics ....

Bro,
I just want to say that these two bros are wonder friends and great host too.
Bro indianmagicoil we meet at one of best restaurant in ratchada near plazzo hotel and you play host to us for the sengkok festival.
I owe a big one for that.
And for Big Bro adidas88, we cheong a few time, but the most memorable was the Chinese new years period. You are undoubtedly a gentleman and a great friend to all of us the newbies to CP.

Cheers to you both.
Hope to cheong with you guys soon.
By the way, bro indianmagicoil you are back in SG right?

adidas88 · #9 13-12-2011, 09:12 PM

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Originally Posted by teteku

Bro,
I just want to say that these two bros are wonder friends and great host too.
Bro indianmagicoil we meet at one of best restaurant in ratchada near plazzo hotel and you play host to us for the sengkok festival.
I owe a big one for that.
And for Big Bro adidas88, we cheong a few time, but the most memorable was the Chinese new years period. You are undoubtedly a gentleman and a great friend to all of us the newbies to CP.

Cheers to you both.
Hope to cheong with you guys soon.
By the way, bro indianmagicoil you are back in SG right?

Bro ... Have we Cheong before? Sorry for my ignorance .. Perhaps I'll recognize u when I see u ...

pete_the_fish · #10 14-12-2011, 01:44 AM

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Originally Posted by adidas88

there r no perfect marriage in this world ... so there r no perfect friends or buddies ....
it's all abt getting along comfortably, same mindset, sincerity, honesty and trust ...
it started off as party strangers then become cheong buddies ... and perhaps it move further and become good friends ...
if u r uncomfortable with someone, dun get close to them so that there will be less conflicts ...
i have met many bad incidents partying with strangers but i also make many good friends ... end of the day, it's abt respect ...
everyone have their own party style ... but one must respect each other and the party ethnics ....

good advice. same goes to the forum.

teteku · #11 14-12-2011, 08:11 AM

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Originally Posted by adidas88

Bro ... Have we Cheong before? Sorry for my ignorance .. Perhaps I'll recognize u when I see u ...

Bro,
As far as I could remember at Ouya with WKK and we meet this guy from beijing I forget his nick big tall dude Singaporean golden hair.
And a few time with Ken.

Cheers.

adidas88 · #12 14-12-2011, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by teteku

Bro,
As far as I could remember at Ouya with WKK and we meet this guy from beijing I forget his nick big tall dude Singaporean golden hair.
And a few time with Ken.

the golden hair guy from beijing must be and_alloy ... and ken must be ken2882 ...
u have good memories, bro ...

pacificboy21 · #13 14-12-2011, 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by pete_the_fish

good advice. same goes to the forum.

watch ur font bro. most of the time you can choose to ignore what others say and dont need to capitalize in such huge lettering.

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Originally Posted by adidas88

the golden hair guy from beijing must be and_alloy ... and ken must be ken2882 ...
u have good memories, bro ...

My taikor Adidas88 is a man of good memory and ethics, almost everybody say nice things about him.

Taikor can i be your luggage boy when u go LED fair?

adidas88 · #14 14-12-2011, 10:09 AM

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Originally Posted by pacificboy21

watch ur font bro. most of the time you can choose to ignore what others say and dont need to capitalize in such huge lettering.

bro .. ignore the fish lar ... pretty soon it will end up in muthu curry ...

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Originally Posted by pacificboy21

My taikor Adidas88 is a man of good memory and ethics, almost everybody say nice things about him.

me getting old liao ... memories starting to fade ... so better cheong more before i can remember which mm i have sleep with ...

there r many good bros in this forum too and in low profile ...
if u have been in the cheong scene long enough, u'll know who they r ...
all gentlemen with good personality and cheong ethnics ...

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Originally Posted by pacificboy21

Taikor can i be your luggage boy when u go LED fair?

hahhaha ... unfortunately i'll not be going to the LED show but i'll be in china ...

smartke · #15 15-12-2011, 02:30 PM

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Originally Posted by adidas88

the golden hair guy from beijing must be and_alloy ... and ken must be ken2882 ...
u have good memories, bro ...

hmmm... i wonder teteku = aakumu = aakumu2??