What are you paying your sugarbaby? (Malaysia)

[spicydragon]

Recently looking into finding a sugarbaby in Malaysia, since it suits my lifestyle more now.

Just wanted to ask some bros who have more experience in this area:

1) What are you paying? (Pay per meet/Long term monthly)
2) What does she provide in return (raw?/how many meets? etc)
3) If you have any other advice (i.e how to manage the relationship or how to find the best sugar baby)

Recently matched with a Malay 21y/o - around 4K MYR monthly, yet to meet.

From what I got quoted on SB websites - Chinese is roughly 2k/meet and 8-10k/long term? (got one quoted 12k+ , but honestly doesn't seem that hot)

Malay/Iban/others - 1k-1.5k/meet and around 4k-6k myr monthly.

Thanks in advance.

[Charleslec]

Those quotes include sex or just companionship?

[spicydragon]

Originally Posted by Charleslec

Those quotes include sex or just companionship?

Yes, included.

[Charleslec]

Originally Posted by spicydragon

Yes, included.

Not bad actually. Normally FL prices are 3-4k RM per shot or per 2 hours.

I’d recommend PPM as you might get tired and want to switch girls so monthly commitment may not be the best.

[spicydragon]

Originally Posted by Charleslec

Not bad actually. Normally FL prices are 3-4k RM per shot or per 2 hours.

I’d recommend PPM as you might get tired and want to switch girls so monthly commitment may not be the best.

I think I prefer to have one main one, and then can have PPM others

[Charleslec]

Originally Posted by spicydragon

I think I prefer to have one main one, and then can have PPM others

Good point. Used to have one.

10k/month. Meet as and when. I’m busy so max also 2x a week.

Raw is allowed when relationship is established but I don’t due to safety. I’m more into light BDSM.

Managing them is personal. I know friends who are very clingy. And they don’t like that - at least the one I know. They are also busy with their uni life whatsoever so be respectful of that. Besides, high value man as busy with building shit up and not just banging them. As much as you’ve “secured” them, you’ll still have to play the value game so they perceive you as someone they respect. Goes a long way.

Hope this helps.

[spicydragon]

Originally Posted by Charleslec

Good point. Used to have one.

10k/month. Meet as and when. I’m busy so max also 2x a week.

Raw is allowed when relationship is established but I don’t due to safety. I’m more into light BDSM.

Managing them is personal. I know friends who are very clingy. And they don’t like that - at least the one I know. They are also busy with their uni life whatsoever so be respectful of that. Besides, high value man as busy with building shit up and not just banging them. As much as you’ve “secured” them, you’ll still have to play the value game so they perceive you as someone they respect. Goes a long way.

Hope this helps.

Thanks man!

[elliotwave]

which platform do you guys use to find? can PM?

[ImBondJBond]

Originally Posted by spicydragon

I think I prefer to have one main one, and then can have PPM others

Great thead, good luck to TS
Also great comments from Charleslec, thanks for sharing your view.

I never had a sugarbaby but i browes dating apps and I feel so many girls looking for relationship. If you can be your partner you may try to find a genuine, non-commersial partner.

Good luck

[Ben1O]

Years or should I say decades when I was seconded to Putrajaya office. I met one young girl in Uni. Playful young and wild, YOLO type. Came from a very strict Chinese family. Can tell she wants to try many different things in her life. Got to known through Friendster last time.

Back then I gave her allowance of RM 5k which was a lot. I even let her drive my car and gave. Her a handphone - 8210 and subsequently 8850. On top of it all expenses paid for when she is out with me.

I let her keep her time and friends and even boyfriend if she wants. But she knowingly did not get into any serious relationship even though she would like to.

When I was earning more I even let her drive a second hand car I bought - vw beetle.

Ofcourse needless to say, meet up and timings are all done respectfully. There still needs to be trust and mutual respect.

The whole thing lasted for 2.5 years before I ended my secondment and naturally I gave her a sum and we ended off the relationship. Wished her well deleted every message and information and we both moved on in life.

Even now I wanted to find her it would not be easy.