love ache n heart break..........

fion20 · #1 24-02-2010, 11:11 PM

fion here jus need a place to vent.........

been with my guy for awhile his ex is nw in my n yet i noe she maybe coming back soon to claim his heart back but i aint giving up.

wedding is on de plans but our sex life is so down ever since i stayed at his place we did once have full intercourse as he always tel mwe he cant do it here alot of her memories.

it makes me feel so worthless like i am nt his girlfriend at all, we use to go to hotels on weekends and we can really onli have good sex there...

i dont want to onli have sex with him in hotels it makes me feel cheap.........
he used to do it daily with her but now i dont even have that where has all his urges gone his ex is a married woman has a hubby in my...........how can he be so sure dey have no sex..........urgh

should i marry him...........

cherrignon · #2 24-02-2010, 11:28 PM

hi...just my 2 cents worth:

not having sex is one thing......but the fact that he has not forgotten about his ex is ONE BIG PROBLEM.

why are you 2 talking about marriage when he is clearly not over his past relationship?

JIU XING · #3 24-02-2010, 11:34 PM

kekeke ts, sex so important to u then u shouldnt marry him la...

find a new bf who like sex as much as u or more than u... sure many bros will be interested here

plsfloodme · #4 24-02-2010, 11:54 PM

sis fion20, it's time to move on. perhaps to me.

fion20 · #5 24-02-2010, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by cherrignon

hi...just my 2 cents worth:

not having sex is one thing......but the fact that he has not forgotten about his ex is ONE BIG PROBLEM.

why are you 2 talking about marriage when he is clearly not over his past relationship?

is nt he cant forget is just she potray till like her hubby will toture her argggggg n is nt de sex ok is de intimacy is de feeling of being doted on u all ming bai ma

ours is a rectangle.........she wans de both of de best i onli wan my hubs y cant she let go

plsfloodme · #6 25-02-2010, 12:06 AM

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Originally Posted by fion20

is nt he cant forget is just she potray till like her hubby will toture her argggggg n is nt de sex ok is de intimacy is de feeling of being doted on u all ming bai ma

ours is a rectangle.........she wans de both of de best i onli wan my hubs y cant she let go

sis fion20, if he can't let of his ex seriously shouldn't you think twice about marrying to him? Kind of pity you because your rival is too greedy. Anyway you should really give it a thought first otherwise you might regret after marry him and yet his heart is still with his ex.

Pardners · #7 25-02-2010, 12:08 AM

hey life goes on, only time will heal .... hang in there!

goodpartner · #8 25-02-2010, 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by fion20

should i marry him...........

Go ahead. U've nothing to loose but half his asset to gain if worst cum to worst. So no need to wonder

One thing that always amaze me is the details u wrote here; wat are the chances ur boyboy is a samster here reading ur story?

Maybe I'm him...

cherrignon · #9 25-02-2010, 01:54 AM

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Originally Posted by fion20

is nt he cant forget is just she potray till like her hubby will toture her argggggg n is nt de sex ok is de intimacy is de feeling of being doted on u all ming bai ma

ours is a rectangle.........she wans de both of de best i onli wan my hubs y cant she let go

if that is the case, sis fion20, you really need to talk to your soon to be hubby..tell him that you are not comfortable and you would like him to ignore her no matter how pitiful she acted out to be...

your future hubby will listen to you?

cablesnwires · #10 25-02-2010, 08:54 AM

Sis fion20, ever heard about punctuation marks?

sammyboyfor · #11 25-02-2010, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by fion20

it makes me feel so worthless like i am nt his girlfriend at all, we use to go to hotels on weekends and we can really onli have good sex there...

Why is there so much reference to sex? You sound like a pervert.

Good relationships don't require sex to succeed.

fion20 · #12 25-02-2010, 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Why is there so much reference to sex? You sound like a pervert.

Good relationships don't require sex to succeed.

Boss morning, is not the sex but i being neglected, last night i talked to him and he say hes giving her up.

i do not want to be living in her shawdows forever.

Boss i did pm you some time back isit poossbile for u to del all my fls thread for me??

etct88 · #13 25-02-2010, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by fion20

Boss morning, is not the sex but i being neglected, last night i talked to him and he say hes giving her up.

i do not want to be living in her shawdows forever.

Boss i did pm you some time back isit poossbile for u to del all my fls thread for me??

Actually, I didn't want to comment, till I read this post of your's.

Best you leave everything behind and move on.

Wish you all the best.

fion20 · #14 25-02-2010, 12:10 PM

who does not have a past at least i left the scene long ago........

DO_YOU_BJ · #15 25-02-2010, 02:54 PM

Everyone has a past.
The prob is, some live in the past some moved on.
In your case, its so freaking obvious you were a stand in after his GF left.
Dun need sherlock Holmes to figure that out.
Now you should tink, 你愿意做小的吗？
It's clear you do not have number 1 status between the 3 of you