mtf trans? post op CD? sugar daddy?

blackponyx · #1 23-07-2015, 10:45 AM

retyping this - posted new thread with long story but somehow went missing.

local chinese - 24, MTF post op BUT still not fully transition (attending uni as male).

saved up, gave tuition, finally had my bottom surgery last year. now post op.

still saving for other surgeries e.g. face and breast, and also to repay student loan for uni once i graduate.

what i'm looking for:
want to say $$$ but then that's not the most important. friends/care and concern matter too. if you are up for a chat expecting no sex in return, i'm happy to chat along. but if you're feeling extra generous and trust me, and want to help me with my transition journey, you're welcome too.

what i'm not:
NOT an escort/offering $50 paid sex service [as much as money is in need].
NOT a fully transitioned trans/lb - technically a post op CD.

PM me to chat more - with email/whatsapp/wechat.

P/s: i will be in bkk late july and will have a place. if anyone wants to hang out, let me know

blackponyx · #2 25-07-2015, 11:55 PM

hello, no worries at all. i've explained this a lot because obviously this is not the 'logical' way or most common route taken.

my reasons are as follows:

1) i did srs at 23, i wanted to stop masculinisation as much as possible. the earlier u do srs the more the feminisation effects. this is true as after op now, i am getting more breast development than ever. [i was not on anti-androgens previously]

2)legal gender change. i am in a local university and will graduate soon. i want to enter the workforce legally as a female. some people have told me that looking like a female is more important since no one will check your IC all the time, but your face....people look at it everyday. i agree, but gender change is important is i want to work in singapore. the industry is small, even changing companies, i can't stealth...so i need to start on the 'right' note.

3) get rid of NS!!! no more call-ups...at all.

my mentality was that if i knew srs was a matter of sooner or later, why not now? i am of course thankful i had the opportunity to, as not everyone can.