The one you marry, is not the one you loved most?

[McSqueezy]

How ppl fall in love in the 1st place?

Do you know that before you even notice someone's character traits n stuff, you might already be attracted to that person's scent??

Studies have shown that before our brains register the diff aspects of a person we might like, our noses do the work 1st.

This is because our bodies give off pheromone( in this case,the sex pheromone). Different person will react differently with another's pheromone. If it's a gd reaction( aka e person here likes how e other smells), then the brain will trigger signals that says: "hey, that's a potential mate or sth like tat, blab, blab, blab..."

This is science!

[chocolate_mint]

i would like to share my story here too.
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i came to know K in a customer-salesman situation. we started off msn-ing each other whole night thru till morning. and this non-stop chit chat actually spark off feelings. sometimes our chit chat grew more sensitive and into the sex topic. i dont deny the fact that it makes the both of us feel so hot and horny each time we touch on that. this temptation couldn't last long, and soon after a few meet up, we have body contacts with each other. as a girl, i dont want to get so insecure with a guy who never ask u to be his gf and get F. i ever asked him why not we stead. we just said he's not ready. and i get real irritated. and finally, he confessed that he has a wife. u know, this piece of news really pierce my heart deep. but he comfort me and told me that he plans to divorce his wife. i took his words for real, and we continued to hang out. but our "hangout" is late night or sometimes 4am. cos he got to work whole week. everytime i sneak out the hse to be with him, and every moment of it, i treasure it to my heart. everytime he send me home i cant bear to get out of his car. i knew from that point of time, i am falling deep in love with him. as he is still married, and wouldnt want his wife to know he's seeing someone, he will off his hp once he's at home and becos of this, sometimes i couldnt find him when i miss him. howvever, we'll meet twice a week and everytime we meet, we'll engage sex, if not i'll bj him. i must confess that he's such a different person in bed that make me crave for him. but this man made me fall in love with him and i cant be with him, it is just so terrible. the divorce thing just didnt happen. and i also dont want to become a third party. i told myself i cant do this to his innocent wife. but everytime he complains to me that his wife gamble away his money and he owes bank $$ just make me feel sad. but i know he loves his wife too, and the divorce thing is just a lie to me at that time. i love him so much that i dont mind being hurt, i couldnt believe that i love him to the state that he has a wife i also dont care (starting). after 2 months, i realised my wrong doings, and feel that he and i cannot continue this relationship. so i decided to sign up for overseas attachment and leave spore for that time being to forget about him, and even get a bf online to replace him. he's driving me crazy that time. couldnt sleep well and thought of him always.

so guys out there, if u have a wife, dont be too nice to girls outside, u just make them fall in love with u and hurt them and made them so miserable missing u and cannot have u to herself.

[OceanEleven]

Originally Posted by chocolate_mint

i would like to share my story here too.
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so guys out there, if u have a wife, dont be too nice to girls outside, u just make them fall in love with u and hurt them and made them so miserable missing u and cannot have u to herself.

No one will consider about rejecting a fresh piece of meat, be it a man or woman. It takes two hands to clap, if terms and rules are laid down for all to see, then both shall be game to play on and bear the consequences.

Be it knowingly walking into a trap or simply fall prey to circumstances, we did make our choices afterall.

[aczeta76]

Sometimes... responsiblities and love do conflict with each other..

Life is never fair so .. wat to do

[wolverman]

Originally Posted by AmericanExpress

but bro is not that doing the correct thing? it take 2 hand to clap

But problm is the 2 hands doesnt clap forever.

[wolverman]

Originally Posted by WRX_STI

wat your story bro?

Long story but bottom line is never let your heart control your big head where marriage is concern. Never let emotions decide your fate/future. We are not saints. One may said come what may. Our love will be strong and be able to conquer all odds. I say Bull shit!

[red-perrier]

Originally Posted by wolverman

Long story but bottom line is never let your heart control your big head where marriage is concern. Never let emotions decide your fate/future. We are not saints. One may said come what may. Our love will be strong and be able to conquer all odds. I say Bull shit!

as human, we all will encounter this issue. only a matter of time. they say love cannot be eaten like food, but without food, the meals will be tasteless.

[featherbird]

I beg to differ.

The one I marry, WILL be the one I love most.....

but whether the WILL will happen?

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by featherbird

I beg to differ.

The one I marry, WILL be the one I love most.....

but whether the WILL will happen?

hehehe yes it good to marry the person u love most but if the other party play u out. u hurt the most it like the end of the world. been there b4

sometime i feel that if u can find somebody that love u more then u love the person maybe it a good thing but i still feel that both side must do their part to love each other else there is no point of one side love. just shits..........

maintaining a good realationship with each other sometime take alot of effort. most important is to understand each other n who more concern to each others need.

we may have love our ex the most but i still believe if we try hard enough, the love for the present one can be even stronger then the previous one. is how much we willing to devote ourself into.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by OceanEleven

It takes two hands to clap, if terms and rules are laid down for all to see, then both shall be game to play on and bear the consequences.

hehehe my favour phase. both happy gum wan what is there to said. just had to prepare for the worst. especially it a impossible mission.....

[featherbird]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

hehehe yes it good to marry the person u love most but if the other party play u out. u hurt the most it like the end of the world. been there b4

sometime i feel that if u can find somebody that love u more then u love the person maybe it a good thing but i still feel that both side must do their part to love each other else there is no point of one side love. just shits..........

Bro, the past have gone..... no point crying over spilt milk!
its time to move on!!!
CHEER OUT!!!!!

[Muraeno]

Originally Posted by McSqueezy

How ppl fall in love in the 1st place?

Do you know that before you even notice someone's character traits n stuff, you might already be attracted to that person's scent??

Studies have shown that before our brains register the diff aspects of a person we might like, our noses do the work 1st.

This is because our bodies give off pheromone( in this case,the sex pheromone). Different person will react differently with another's pheromone. If it's a gd reaction( aka e person here likes how e other smells), then the brain will trigger signals that says: "hey, that's a potential mate or sth like tat, blab, blab, blab..."

This is science!

Yo bro ur right about this.
My Exs were all chosen by my nose very very powerful scent that knock me off my feet. The scent on each individual is so different and it drives me crazy over them. Pheromones help chooses the most DNA compatible but heart wise is based on communication, trust, understanding and respect?

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by featherbird

Bro, the past have gone..... no point crying over spilt milk!
its time to move on!!!
CHEER OUT!!!!!

huh what u mean crying over spilt milk ah. i nothing to sad about lol i just said it since we talking who we love most lol..

As for myself i dont really care lol got got no have i also never mind lol.

[WRX_STI]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

hehehe my favour phase. both happy gum wan what is there to said. just had to prepare for the worst. especially it a impossible mission.....

some ppl cant clap same hand forever?

[Cum_Luver]

Originally Posted by wolverman

Long story but bottom line is never let your heart control your big head where marriage is concern. Never let emotions decide your fate/future. We are not saints. One may said come what may. Our love will be strong and be able to conquer all odds. I say Bull shit!

bro wolverman,u must have experienced it to say something like dat.
big head,small head or heart...when come to the biggest thing in life,must really think hard about it before committing into it.
else in the end if it does not turn out well,both parties will be very unhappy and miserable for a long long time.
and believe me,for some it can take a long long time to recover from it before they even think of going into another relationship.