The one you marry, is not the one you loved most? - Page 94

_AXL_ · #**1396** 05-01-2008, 02:49 PM

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Originally Posted by yinyang

Affairs of the heart more complex than junior's appetite. Blessed 2008, pal

precisely... so now, no more other affairs of the heart! junior's appetite...hmmm... maybe i m blessed with too much work stress these days, junior has been itching for variety leh...

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Originally Posted by virginboy

What about marrying the one whom you enjoy making love with the most? Great sex equates to happy marriage, rite?

great sex or great love making???

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

If you think you met the right one, don't wait let her wait.

I dont know... maybe i m still cynical... i think it is better to wait, so that the fox's tail can reveal itself. too many close calls for me liao, thus the skepticism...

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Originally Posted by kiko

I feel that the one that u going to marry, should always be the one that u love most.

bro, FATE is when the one u love most will appear at the darnest times!!! when u r not ready to settle down, not matured enough to settle down or when u r already married!!! if there is a higher power up there, either they have too much on their plates or that they r a perverted bunch to enjoy seeing people suffer...

airbrush · #**1397** 05-01-2008, 03:34 PM

To know whether the one you marry is the one you loved most or you do not loved most is time issue. You may not love him or her now but maybe you will love each other later in life.

yinyang · #**1398** 05-01-2008, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by _AXL_

...junior's appetite...hmmm... maybe i m blessed with too much work stress these days, junior has been itching for variety leh..

Snack attack!

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great sex or great love making???

Aiyoh, splitting the proverbial (pxxxc) hair? Joke asides, your distinction is more than shade of grey.. like passion? Ooops, gave myself away

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..appear at the darnest times!!! when u r not ready to settle down, not matured enough to settle down or when u r already married!!! if there is a higher power up there, either they have too much on their plates or that they r a perverted bunch to enjoy seeing people suffer...

Life's vagaries... All things said, don't think there's perfect match/fit.. not like lego some lego or jigsaw piece. Not sure of divine intervention (or laissez faire?) though

OceanEleven · #**1399** 05-01-2008, 06:05 PM

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Originally Posted by vesfreq

It is an irony that I am posting here (on this thread) again after many months. I was quite cynical back then. But, recently after I met this gal, I realised that the right gal may be around each one of us. It could be some indirect or direct friendship. If you think you met the right one, don't wait let her wait.

Talk about when lighting strike.....

OceanEleven · #**1400** 05-01-2008, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by kiko

To me sex is not that important in life, but love is really about trust , understanding and committment , no matter what happened, both of u will be there for each other.

Too early for judgement perhaps, wait till you open the Pandora Box and treaded down the path. We all know life isn't a bed of roses but still many forget that roses comes with thorns as well.

Xdecepticon · #**1401** 05-01-2008, 07:20 PM

Every problem encountered can be solved if theres sympathy. And Love is no exception. But would woman ever understand?? Sigh.....

airbrush · #**1402** 05-01-2008, 07:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Every problem encountered can be solved if theres sympathy. And Love is no exception. But would woman ever understand?? Sigh.....

No not all women understand, but I understand that women remember all the unpleasant situation and they cannot remember the pleasant situation.

Jekyll and Hyde · #**1403** 06-01-2008, 12:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Xdecepticon

Every problem encountered can be solved if theres sympathy.

I think empathy is more better. No one likes to be pitied.

Jekyll and Hyde · #**1404** 06-01-2008, 12:45 AM

I have a problem. I am about to marry someone I dont love. She has been with me thru thick and thin. Recently, I met a china girl i am absoloutely head over heels for. But I feel that my fiance has been thru so much with me that it would not be fair to just walk away. Neither am I willing to gif up on my china girl. Sigh

y7u8i9o0 · #**1405** 06-01-2008, 12:52 AM

Someone told me this...i think its quite true. A perfect wife is someone who....is a virtuous woman in the day and a whore at night. Many of us here in SBF i guess, marry virtuous women but couldnt make out the whore when the lights are out so end up looking for the 2nd half of that perfect wife. ha ha...

cheers
y7

virginboy · #**1406** 06-01-2008, 12:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Jekyll and Hyde

I have a problem. I am about to marry someone I dont love. She has been with me thru thick and thin. Recently, I met a china girl i am absoloutely head over heels for. But I feel that my fiance has been thru so much with me that it would not be fair to just walk away. Neither am I willing to gif up on my china girl. Sigh

How long ago did you meet this cheena girl? Are you sure that it is love and not infatuation? China girls know how to please men, so don't be fooled. If you don't love your fiance, why would you involve her when you're going thru thick and thin? don't you think this is unfair for her?

Jekyll and Hyde · #**1407** 06-01-2008, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by virginboy

How long ago did you meet this cheena girl? Are you sure that it is love and not infatuation? China girls know how to please men, so don't be fooled. If you don't love your fiance, why would you involve her when you're going thru thick and thin? don't you think this is unfair for her?

Well, I have known her for quite a while. But only met her 3 months ago. Its quite a predicament and I am hoping its just an 'lustful infatuation'. Only time will tell. But right now, its all about balancing both

desk13 · #**1408** 06-01-2008, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Jekyll and Hyde

Well, I have known her for quite a while. But only met her 3 months ago. Its quite a predicament and I am hoping its just an 'lustful infatuation'. Only time will tell. But right now, its all about balancing both

It's not going to be easy for you. Anyway, good luck to you.

Jekyll and Hyde · #**1409** 06-01-2008, 12:35 PM

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Originally Posted by desk13

It's not going to be easy for you. Anyway, good luck to you.

Thanks for the best wishes. I understand its not gonna be easy. But not easy to love just one person all your life. The "achilles heel" of man

johnnykk · #**1410** 08-01-2008, 09:56 AM

At that point in time, I forsake the woman that love me most to be with the woman that I love more.

Now, the same woman that I love more (my wife) has grown to love me more while I am no longer in contact with that woman that loves me most.

The irony was the woman that once loves me most was only with me for less than an year compared to my then girlfriend of 4 years.

Looking back, I regretted hurting the woman that once love me most and felt I should have handled the breaking up much better instead of suddenly disappearing totally from her life. While I do still think of her even after 6 long years and did think of the “what if” scenario, I no longer wanted to contact her and enter her life for fear of hurting her again......

As a bro has said, I now trying my best to 珍惜眼前人 and devote my attention and love to the woman that I once love more and still continue to love as much……….