I fell in love with a ktv girl - need advice

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by Castrol

hahaha... for me when time to give tips, i always sing soo rei's song "jiu kang tan bway boh".

i prefer to sing,zhou hua jian "zui jin bi jiao fan":P

[Souledge]

ya... just move on take care bro....

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

i prefer to sing,zhou hua jian "zui jin bi jiao fan":P

Bros,

I always start with the Hokkien song, "一百万“，when come to paying time, I sing "有影无“。

Hahaha....

Regards

PTR

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

The usual excuse "She is different, she is not after my money".

Hi Bro PTR,

Agrees with the abv statement...

Sometimes i come across people saying..'my china gf is a good girl..your china gf is after $$'...they like to compare, and hope the stories of others turn up to be a tragedy whereas theirs will end up as a fairy tales...

if u start wif a mindset that 'my china gf is differnt from others, cos she is a good gal'..the ending will be a tragedy..best is to keep an open mind ...

and one thing why many sillypore men die under the hands of china mm...cos one word ..a lot of them r corky....they always think they are the 'special' ones to the china gals..but in actual facts the china gal have many 'special ones'....

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

if u start wif a mindset that 'my china gf is differnt from others, cos she is a good gal'..the ending will be a tragedy..best is to keep an open mind ...

maybe thats the prob with me,i always thought "she" is the special 1 who really like me for who i am,not after my $,bro u shld knw who i am talking abt.thk god i eventually woke up,dun knw where i will end if i choose to pursue on further.hope all the bros who are considering going into a r/c with any of the WLs,be it ktv etc..hv a clear mind,be sure of wat u r doing and most importantly,dont regret the final decision u make at the end of the day.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

Sometimes i come across people saying..'my china gf is a good girl..your china gf is after $$'...they like to compare, and hope the stories of others turn up to be a tragedy whereas theirs will end up as a fairy tales...

I already sick of this "falling in love with WL". A lot of samsters go cheong fall for WL. These ppl who read so much shit in this forum abt having relationship with WL n still carry on with love love with his WL, y bother abt them?? They r using their heart to think, that is y all these shits abt "she is very different from other gers". No point talking sense with them. Let them choose their own path... if success, they won't come n praise or reward u, if unsuccess they lost everything or worse kill himself, u also can't do anything. End of the day, each individual choose his own path to walk.

[seekfun]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I already sick of this "falling in love with WL". A lot of samsters go cheong fall for WL. These ppl who read so much shit in this forum abt having relationship with WL n still carry on with love love with his WL, y bother abt them?? They r using their heart to think, that is y all these shits abt "she is very different from other gers". No point talking sense with them. Let them choose their own path... if success, they won't come n praise or reward u, if unsuccess they lost everything or worse kill himself, u also can't do anything. End of the day, each individual choose his own path to walk.

Haha well said, bro agreee with u....

[Reaper]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

and one thing why many sillypore men die under the hands of china mm...cos one word ..a lot of them r corky....they always think they are the 'special' ones to the china gals..but in actual facts the china gal have many 'special ones'....

Totally agree with you..well said....*clap** clap* its true wen the ger tells the guy "u are special to me"....the only part she left out is telling the guy she also has other guys out there who are special her in their own way....wahahaha...... she is telling the truth..just not the whole truth

CHEERS

[jng1103]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Bros,

I always start with the Hokkien song, "一百万“，when come to paying time, I sing "有影无“。

PTR

Aiyoo... why worried? our goberment has already 'subsidised' part of our 'ta pao' fees if still money not enuf, go to PAP and ask for another progress package lor just make sure u vote for PAP hor...

jimbo

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

Hi Bro PTR,

Agrees with the abv statement...

Sometimes i come across people saying..'my china gf is a good girl..your china gf is after $$'...they like to compare, and hope the stories of others turn up to be a tragedy whereas theirs will end up as a fairy tales...

if u start wif a mindset that 'my china gf is differnt from others, cos she is a good gal'..the ending will be a tragedy..best is to keep an open mind ...

and one thing why many sillypore men die under the hands of china mm...cos one word ..a lot of them r corky....they always think they are the 'special' ones to the china gals..but in actual facts the china gal have many 'special ones'....

Bro Maha and SJG,

Both of you are wise guys. (Anyway, Maha, it has been a long time to see you on the forum. How are you???).

Even at my advanced age and the humble number of years in situations with the PRC meimei, I also sometimes fell into this stupid thinking that I am THE special one for her, or she is THE special one for me. I usually wake up when I look at the mirror, and realise that I do not look like Tom Cruise, but Ugly Fat and Old. So how can I be special. The situation changes when I paste my face over with RMB100 bills. Hahahaha...

Bros, when you are in the situation like we have been talking, ask yourself "Am I really a special one to her?" Or "Is she really different from other PRC MMs". I am not trying to generalise, indeed, I should not. Nevertheless, evidence from statistics prevails, you are not in the trap only when you are in the minority exhibited by the statistical distribution.

My 2 cent worth.

PTR

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

maybe thats the prob with me,i always thought "she" is the special 1 who really like me for who i am,not after my $,bro u shld knw who i am talking abt.thk god i eventually woke up,dun knw where i will end if i choose to pursue on further.hope all the bros who are considering going into a r/c with any of the WLs,be it ktv etc..hv a clear mind,be sure of wat u r doing and most importantly,dont regret the final decision u make at the end of the day.

actually now i m being 'bothered' by a mm...messaging me those sweet-nothing messages..and using all her KC traps like wat the threadstarter had experienced on me...as a male, i see liao oso a bit 心动..but end of the day is pointless to dwell too much abt it...

[Shuang_Jie_Gun]

Originally Posted by mahalosux

actually now i m being 'bothered' by a mm...messaging me those sweet-nothing messages..and using all her KC traps like wat the threadstarter had experienced on me...as a male, i see liao oso a bit 心动..but end of the day is pointless to dwell too much abt it...

haiz like that bo bian liao..u ask her sms me lar.lols..kidding ar..btw how u been man,its been a while since i last met up with u.

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

maybe thats the prob with me,i always thought "she" is the special 1 who really like me for who i am,not after my $,bro u shld knw who i am talking abt.

Every cheongsters who fall in love with WL, think like u. She is special not after my money. U still dun understand the fact is if they dun need money, they won't work as WL. They can easily find a low pay job in their country.

Ok assume she loves u a lot n never ask for money, but 1 fine day, her family needs money, who will she turns to?? Of cos u, u r her closest. Then u misinterpret she is here for money, here to con your money, dun this sound funny??

Originally Posted by Shuang_Jie_Gun

thk god i eventually woke up,dun knw where i will end if i choose to pursue on further. hope all the bros who are considering going into a r/c with any of the WLs,be it ktv etc..hv a clear mind,be sure of wat u r doing and most importantly,dont regret the final decision u make at the end of the day.

Learn from mistake n dun repeat the same mistake. Have a clear mind when u go cheonging.... "u pay for her service n not there to talk KC". If u r someone who is soft hearted n easily fall for a ger n u want to prevent all these craps then cheong less.

[mahalosux]

Originally Posted by naemlo

I already sick of this "falling in love with WL". A lot of samsters go cheong fall for WL. These ppl who read so much shit in this forum abt having relationship with WL n still carry on with love love with his WL, y bother abt them?? They r using their heart to think, that is y all these shits abt "she is very different from other gers". No point talking sense with them. Let them choose their own path... if success, they won't come n praise or reward u, if unsuccess they lost everything or worse kill himself, u also can't do anything. End of the day, each individual choose his own path to walk.

these people just want to show they are very 'can' and they r more lao jiao in this circles..is just a matter of face...but in the end it does not constitute to any achievement or a record u can proudly put in your CV...

the best thing is dun boast abt a WL gf in front of frens..as they can find loopholes in the r/s...just keep to yourself...some of my ex classmates eventually get lucky wif their gf from KTV..but they dun go ard boasting abt their r/s or revealin too much about their gf...

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

I usually wake up when I look at the mirror, and realise that I do not look like Tom Cruise, but Ugly Fat and Old. So how can I be special. The situation changes when I paste my face over with RMB100 bills. Hahahaha...

Heeeheheh we have the same situation... ugly fat n old. Young mei mei said she like me a lot, I have to wonder y will she likes me??