driver, after gf slept wif others?

[Malaysian Datuk]

Originally Posted by Frankiestine

slmt malam datuk long time tak jumpa, so how is the situation in jb..angin still blowing kuat? too bad i only 9-5 man, malam more happening so i missing out the fun here and in jb....any good recommendation for day cheonging?

hi brother.....datuk is now officially persona non gratia in JB, might as well since not much action inside.....getting my kicks in SG for the time being

[uhoh]

Bro,

So sorry to hear about your sad relationship. Life has to go on, just dump her and ask her to get out of your life. I too had tasted this kind of bitch, but not to the extend of fcuking around, but she flirts around and i can't take it. I told myself to let her go as she is not the kind of woman that i will be happy with for the rest of my life. I knew she was seeing someone else behind my back, so the last time i met her and fetch her home, i told her "A dog will never kick the habit of eating shit" She just keep quiet, stunned at why i said that.

It wasn't easy. But still, i tried very hard and now, i'm a lot more happier even though i'm still single!

So, bro, i know 4 years is not easy, but trust me and the other bros, letting her go and out of our life will really make you a happier man!

[gonggong18]

Move on my friend. Move on.

[philip666]

Felt so sad to hear so many sad story from the brothers here. I myself not say very yan but I didnt have to go through all these. Of course there are afew times the ex gf break off with me and other time i break off with them. But 1 thing i know is this and it may not be the right thing. But at least it helped me all these years.

When we are in a relationship, dont give 100%. Give the 100% to yourself. If you break off, imediately faster go out to the world and meet people. It is like when u are in relationship u are serving NS in camp. When break up it is book out time.

Go out and meet some new girls. I always break up and start to meet new girls immediately. Never take me more then a month to find a new gf. If any brother here have problem meeting new girls let me know. I currently now have kang tao for a 19 years old girl just break off.

[CyberRod]

Yo bro... Care to share the contact for the 19 year old girl...? Can PM me please...? Thx...!

[ahpaul25]

Originally Posted by philip666

I currently now have kang tao for a 19 years old girl just break off.

Your Kang tao gd bo...........I think her age is suitable for those 23-25guys not a 30yr+ lah.....knn......later same case as Vigo69........si bei sian man....haiz

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by HeadOn

crazy....a gal at this kinda age should be more matured n ready to settle down if got a decent bf liao....not always getting drunk n end up bonking may diff guys..

i think her life is gone case liao..think u better just leave her n move on..u arent tat old to find another decent gf..

Bro, the word "should" is all we can say about these girls. Anyway, I think its complete BullS**it that girls like her can continue dancing and drinking their damn lives away.

I met a couple more in my work place. Whenever I walk by, their heads are always facing the ceiling or the opposite wall. The thought in my mind was "wtf! I don't owe you gals a living. I rather spend money to make M$ Bill Gates richer than on their screwed up faces and bodies."

Sometimes, when I look back at my ex (also clubber and drunkard), I would always lament myself for wasting all my salary on her last time. And, worse was that she used to take money from me to indulge in all her materialistic ways. Crap!

Life is short. Spend money on yourself first. Girls can wait in the queue. Besides, they depreciate by the year, whilst guys appreciate by the month.

[vesfreq]

Originally Posted by Castrol

this forum may not be a good place to say this... IMHO we should not ask where God is, becos God is always everywhere. i think when God helped us along the way, we may not even realise, and thus never even say thanks.

you know bro, this gf/bf thing, learning about relationships the hard way makes you stronger and smarter. dont ever treat any relationship like it is going to be your last.

good luck with your new found love, take it easy bro...

I don't know about god. If anything were to go by, I have become a more cynical man since the day when I broke up with my ex.

Having to think about how to deal with a girl and how to win her heart are no longer priorities in my mind. Its just too tiring to keep up with the conniving mind of a female (both young and old).

In recent months, a few more girls tried to enter my life. The kind of responses I gave them were ..... of that sort of callousness unimaginable before. I would make harsh reckless remarks at this hopeful young girl and laugh over it.

One more girl wanted to meet me. But, right after she told me about having to postpone the meetup because of another appointment with a banker, I told her "my time is money."

Last time, this girl called me so often after breaking up with her bf, I wrote an e-mail telling her to take a hike.

Some people asked me whether I felt bad. Yes, perhaps .... in the beginning. But, I realised that equitable respect should be given to those who are truly sincere in their friendship. I just don't like to seen as a "spare tyre". Nowadays, I never stop to talk to chio bu, because most of them are probably taken or sluts.... The dirty truth I learnt after this many years is that behind every babe and bimbo there is an ugly truth. This ugly truth is for their suitors to find out.

For me, I'm no longer curious and attracted by these sluts. I learnt to live as a hardened man. Work, spend and play a lot. Thats one of the most important fundamentals of life.

One day, a man asked his girl, "how much is our relationship worth?" The girl turned her head and squealed at a poster of a HK pop star.

Be happy and optimistic people. Tomorrow is a new day.

[alwaysbestdeal]

brother vigo69, the truth hurts but then again its experience gain... myself have too have been similar situation... had an ex that disappears after convincing me to loan her a few $K, finally met her last weekend as an FL that I made an appt with to realise its her when the 'FL' tuned up at the hotel... in fact, that pain was light compared to the after effects.. I met a mogolian ger, baoed her for almost half a year, relationship was good till she started to react cold sometime in apr this year, only realised she is bonking other man when one evening, she turned up with love bites all over the body.. she had the cheek to tell me we are adults... so I shld not complain. I walked out and never turned back... probably the good thing I done in that relationship.. but the better part is I found this forum....

in short, Bro vigo69, lets move on, the world is round, she will get her retribution one day and in more severity than wat she has done to you. Lets step forward, there are more things out there to see and do, not forgetting to take time out for cheonging...

cheers bro..

[B-man]

I have to agree with vesfreq. Things are getting alot tougher for us guys nowadays. Wherever you go, you get smacked in the face for being just a guy.

women get away with alot of things just because they are women. sometimes i think this gender equality thing has gone overboard. I got nothing against treating women fairly. And I really mean FAIRLY.

but looking at things in singapore, sometimes it made me wonder. i'm a malaysian but i studied in singapore for the better part of my high school years. haha twas was fun indeed. things were looking alot better during those times.

i must admit that women are more intelligent in certain things than men. we tend to take things head on while women work differently. i guess in a way that makes them more cunning or conniving.

haha that isn't saying that women are bad. just different. and some would be more than willing to take advantage of the situation to their benefit. haha.

like vesfreq said, live life to the fullest of your ability for yourself. thats why we are put in this world for.

[elvislim]

BROTHER, NOWADAY LADY HAVE BEEN CHANGE. TAKE IT EASY.