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[jackbl]

Tragicomedy about student-mothers
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VietNamNet Bridge - After several times of having sex without being pregnant, Cam was sure that she was infertile. Until her stomach grew up, she still thought that she suffered from flatulence. She took some digestive medicines but the stomach kept developing. Seeing doctors, she knew that she was pregnant in the fourth month.

"We are her classmates and share a room with her. Now we have to contribute money to care for her. Her husband has abandoned Cam," said a Cam’s roommate. Cam is a fourth-year student of the Saigon University.

Cam’s ex-boyfriend is her high-school classmate. He is now an official in their hometown while Cam went to Saigon for further study. They had sex for several times but Cam was not pregnant. Cam thought that she was sterile. Until her stomach developed, Cam still thought that she suffered from flatulence. Seeing doctors, she just knew that she was pregnant for four months.

Despite being taunted by the two families, the wedding was held very quickly. After the wedding, Cam returned to HCM City to continue studies while her husband stayed at home. However, the man refused to perform marriage registration because he suspected that the unborn baby is not his child. The family of Cam’s husband has also neglected her.

"We blamed her for being foolish, but seeing her crying, she also hugged her cry together. We have contributed money to buy milk and food for her. Every time seeing Cam laughed alone when she saw the ultrasound picture of her unborn baby, we tried to encourage her to live for her child," said a Cam’s roommate.

Falling in love with a student in the same university for about five months, Thi, a third-year student of the University for Social Sciences and Humanity decided to live with her lover in the reproach of her friends. After half a year, due to negligence in taking oral contraceptives, Thi was pregnant. The couple returned home for marriage registration. Blaming the girl for smearing the family tradition, Thi’s parents stop funding her studies. Thi’s husband had to stop studying to work to support his wife and child.

Thi said that two weeks before she gave birth, her husband had to sell their two laptops. To continue her studies, Thi had to send her child to her husband’s parents in the countryside. However the couple had conflict so they decided to separate. Thi pursued studies while her husband returned home to work and raise the child.

At the end of the exam, Thi returned home to visit her child but the husband’s family prevented her from seeing the baby. "My husband's family blamed me to be a spoilt wife and did not deserve to see my baby. Now I can just see my baby through the photos taken with the phone", Thi said.

Not long ago, Mrs. Mai, an innkeeper in Dong Hoa commune, Di An district, Binh Duong province, suddenly received an offer to adopt for two babies of around one-month old from a pair of students of the Ho Chi Minh City University of Agriculture and Forestry who hired her room.

Mrs. Mai said, they lived together for two years but their families did not know. Until the girl was pregnant, the boy called home to ask for his parent’s permission to marry the girl, reasoning that she was about to go abroad for studies. But his parents did not agree.

“After the girl gave birth to a twin, the boy asked several acquaintances to receive his children. Everyone thought that he joked. Until I did not see the babies, asking them, they said they left the babies at the Thu Duc Hospital. They considered their babies as two sweet potatoes. It’s only pity for the babies," Mai said.

Gynecological doctor Phan Hong Anh, Deputy Chair of the HCM City Family Planning Association, the students who have to become fathers and mothers for various reasons will come under pressure as illegal marriage, not having income, experience, being abandoned by boyfriends, etc. Since then, the students cannot handle themselves and their children will not be raised kindly.

PLTPHCM

[milkyshake]

Can someone help to translate this sms:

anh oi anh co toi anh dem quan lot ao nguc cho em nha. dung bo bay khong tot



Is she asking me to return her the clothes or throw away?

Thanks thanks

[milkyshake]

anh oi anh co toi anh dem quan lot ao nguc cho em nha. dung bo bay khong tot


hoi toi anh lay quan lot ao nguc em do


hoi toi em cung xin wa, ma anh co mac duoc dau



quan ao cua nu, anh con trai lay lam gi




This is getting fun. Anyone want to buy over the bra and panty from me? Worn for 5 hours minimum... ;-)

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by milkyshake

anh oi anh co toi anh dem quan lot ao nguc cho em nha. dung bo bay khong tot


hoi toi anh lay quan lot ao nguc em do


hoi toi em cung xin wa, ma anh co mac duoc dau



quan ao cua nu, anh con trai lay lam gi




This is getting fun. Anyone want to buy over the bra and panty from me? Worn for 5 hours minimum... ;-)

koaz... this vb went home bra-less and panty-less?
she is asking you to return her

[milkyshake]

No, she didn't go home braless and pantyless.

She went U Pub to continue working braless and pantyless. Don't know got any lucky customer at U Pub took her or not.


Now she asking me want some more worn bra / panty? Her friend want to sell me.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by KangTuo

koaz... this vb went home bra-less and panty-less?
she is asking you to return her

haha...this is your interpretation...hahaha...haha...

when I was reading I felt very funny too...she said you cannot wear them and dun throw away...haha...

[ErnestK]

wah lau....

People come here working in this line is already very sad. You go and take her bra and panty away???

[milkyshake]

Originally Posted by Hurricane88

haha...this is your interpretation...hahaha...haha...

when I was reading I felt very funny too...she said you cannot wear them and dun throw away...haha...

Well, both of you are right. She did gave me her bra and panties at "Half Song" (obviously not the real name, but can guess real name from here) pub at JC last night. She's just staying at 140 JC, so shouldn't be far to walk home. Thing is she usually work at U Pub and Saigon after JC, so I don't know if she did go last night or not. If she did, good for her lucky customer at Geylang..


And, by the way, I did pay her for the bra and panties. So is willing seller willing buyer.

[Hurricane88]

Originally Posted by milkyshake

And, by the way, I did pay her for the bra and panties. So is willing seller willing buyer.

how much you paid...

[milkyshake]

$10 + $20.

Maybe its too expensive, but nothing beats the thrill of having it removed in the middle of a crowded pub.

But the panties we removed it in the toilet cos have to take off shoes and shorts. Nice...

[yummyymym]

Vay Thi chin e di a ken lau chi chon toi chon lui phi thoi gian nam a do anh

Uh da chon e doi Thi lam rop reng luon Mai 2 ta den voi nhau

What does these 2 sentence mean ?

[jackbl]

Horrors of “manual” abortion
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VietNamNet Bridge - Abortion, the end of the development process of a being-formed human body should have been one of the safest medical procedures, but there are still “manual” abortion procedures in the modern time today.

“Manual” abortion not only removes the unwanted pregnancy, but also claims the lives of the mothers. That's a hefty price to pay for ignorance.

The tragic death

In September 2011, the police of Mai Chau district, Hoa Binh province said that Ms. Kha Thi B, 18 years old, a resident in Nghe village, Van Mai commune died of an abortion.

Forensic autopsy results showed that the victim had uterine perforation at the waist, punctured vagina, hematoma at the waist muscle near the spine, mesenteric tear, vaginal bleeding and bleeding in abdomen, and she died of acute blood loss.


On July 29, 2007 Ms. Vi Thi X from Tien Phong commune, Que Phong district, Nghe An province, was hospitalized in a coma, fluid under the skin. The patient died during the first aid, also because of manual abortion.

It was identified that the woman came to see a local herbalist for an abortion. A few days after that, she had severe abdominal pain. She was brought to hospital but doctors could not save her.

One day later, also in Nghe An, Ms. Lo Thi Them, 44, a resident of Don Phat village, Cam Muon commune also died from manual abortion at the home of a herbalist in Chau Thon commune, Nghe An.

Ms. Nguyen Thi D, from Thai Binh province, died of manual abortion in Hoa Binh province. Forensic examination revealed that from her vagina to the uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries, all were decayed and black as mud. There were signs of severe sepsis in all organs.

Another maternal complication case due to manual abortion in Hoa Binh is Thanh, 42, from Com village, Lien Vu commune, Lac Son district, Hoa Binh province. She went to a local herbalist, 80, to break the 4-month-old pregnancy. As a result, Ms. H. admitted to hospital in a state of hemorrhaging, infection, and was transfused with 600ml of blood.

Abortion with holy water

All these tragic cases are derived from a single cause: abortion with unsafe methods, using sticks, inhalant and herbal medicine.

Looking back at the history of mankind, when medicine was undeveloped, the world used various ways of abortion. The most common of which was the use of plants such as: erigeron, pungent mint and others. The use of plants to abort caused serious side effects.

In Egypt, Greece, ancient people also used mercury as a magic pill. In Southeast Asia, abortion was made by creating forces in the stomach. A bas-relief at Angkor Wat, Cambodia, in 1150, shows a demon causing miscarriage by using a pestle to strike the stomach of a pregnant woman. In addition, they also used sharp objects such as needles and hangers to insert into the uterus to destroy the fetus.

But it is very odd that in this 21st century, people voluntarily let quacks perform unsafe abortion measures.

The most important reason is that the victims in these cases all lack of knowledge about sex resulting in unwanted pregnancy. They were ashamed and they went to quacks to abandon the unwanted babies, where abortion is not recognized by law in order to avoid the public but could not avoid death.

In Yen Phu commune, Lac Son district, Hoa Binh province, we were truly creepy horror in the way of abortion applied by Mrs. Bui Thi E, 80, who caused abortion complications for Thanh, 42.

In a tumbledown thatched hut that had nothing worthwhile except for a red painted altar and an old wooden bed, E performed abortion procedures for a lot of people with “holy water” and “mulberry sticks.”

According to a victim, first, E prayed in front of the altar and took a bottle of water from the altar to give it to the patient. She said: "It is holy water, remember to drink it three times a day." Actually, the "holy water" is ... ginger juice.

The next step, she used a knife to cut a dried mulberry branch of around 7cm long, one end sharpened, the other end was tied with catgut. It is most frightening when she told the patient to take off her pants and lie on the bed to poke the sticks into the vagina until it reach the fetus. She left the stick inside the vagina, only leaving the rope out and told: "When the stick falls out, you do not have to drink the holy water."

Later that day, the patient had stomachache. Five days later, the fetus fell out but at the same time she also had her uterus cut because of severe infection.

That “measure” was also applied by a herbalist in Cham Mat, Hoa Binh city and Mr. Bui Van Lon, 60, in Thu Phong commune, Cao Phong district, Hoa Binh. In 2004, he was sentenced because of doing abortions with sticks. However, he still practiced abortion illegally.

Mrs. Vi Thi Quyet in Nghe An, who was hailed as "being very ingenious in abortion," performed hundreds of abortions and also caused the death for Vi Thi X (Tien Phong commune, Que Phong, Nghe An).

This woman often used a small piece of rod like a medicated motorcycle spoke of about 10cm long, to insert into the cervix to make abortion.

A village nurse named Quang Ba Tong in Quanh village, Chau Thon commune, Que Phong district, Nghe An had a more special way: tying two condoms together to the tip of a plastic tube and inserting into the uterus to pump inhalant for Mrs. Lo Thi Them.

Also, in Ung Hoa District, Hanoi, a quack used the torch body as a speculum and bending bicycle spokes to pull fetus out. Yet he could still practice this trick for years.

There are also cases of abortion by herbs, which are not proved by sciences for abortion use. Today, not only the young people in the remote areas, but even women in the capital still use herbs for abortion.

What is the cause?

According to doctor Hoang Thi Tam, from Lac Son district hospital, Hoa Binh province, most of the women who saw quacks for abortions are underage or single so they were afraid to go to clinics. Besides, a part of them lacked knowledge or they were too poor to go to hospital.

According to statistics, Vietnam is one of the three countries with the highest abortion rates in the world, with 20 cases of abortion a day on average, of which 20 - 30% in the adolescent group.

Based on that we need to promote the education of minors, enhance the dissemination and communication on reproductive health, safe sex, contraceptive methods and family planning in the remote areas. Especially we have to strengthen the management of illegal abortion services.

ANTD

[yummyymym]

Originally Posted by yummyymym

Vay Thi chin e di a ken lau chi chon toi chon lui phi thoi gian nam a do anh

Uh da chon e doi Thi lam rop reng luon Mai 2 ta den voi nhau

What does these 2 sentence mean ?

Anyone can help? Thanks

[KangTuo]

Originally Posted by yummyymym

Anyone can help? Thanks

you can help us to help you by telling us what is the content of the conversation. what you sms her?

[yummyymym]

Originally Posted by yummyymym

Vay Thi chin e di a ken lau chi chon toi chon lui phi thoi gian nam a do anh

Uh da chon e doi Thi lam rop reng luon Mai 2 ta den voi nhau

What does these 2 sentence mean ?

Chọn e thi k so nha cua be bon!

This was the previous message to her.

Thank you