My Real Life Story

[darrendon]

One thing to say is that he definitely don't deserve you.

Every experience and encounter comes with a reason.
I know it is easy to say then actually do it.
MOVE ON!!!

Time will heal the scar and makes the scar lighter.

[maxsee]

Eh....is this a repeat thread? Read about the same story previously over here....

[MIFAcafe]

You repeating the same story?

or your new husband also got 2 gfs?

[MIFAcafe]

http://sbfsg.agency/show...=#post12033107

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hi all people here,my name is Sharon,i am 39years old this year,i wan to share a story that happen to me and hope that all people can comment ,give me some solution.thanks a lot
when I was grad from high school,i found a retail sales job as I was those that don't want to enjoy using parent's money,i work hard and sometime after my school end then I would go to work too,almost is work 7days per week,in my workplace I know this guy called M ,he woo me for months and I slowly fell for him,even though a lot of people around me encourage me not to be with him,i still insist,alot of colleagues and friends say he was just after my money as my family background was not bad,around 2years later,we got married,i paid for all wedding dinner and gowns,but I don't mind at all.i just want a happy family.After we married then friends have been telling me that he had a few girlfriend outside,i approached him and asked him few times but he deny.And I trusted him,after few months I saw his handphone with mushy message and he told me that was wrong number,i believed him again.Around age of 30 I gave him money to start a business and bought him a EVO,but he always say he want change car as he love sports car,i changed EVO to GTI to GTR to LEXUS to MERCS.Whenever he say that he have money issue then I would always give him money to tide over,my daughter was the most pity one,she was the one who saw me goin through all this agony,my husband was screaming at me and pulling a long face whenever he is in bad mood.And something I wan tell all people is,he told me he needs to entertain clients ,every since he start his business,he will only be home around 6-7am,and almost everyday he was not home,i told myself again and again to trust him.After 15yrs later,i cant bear anymore as I was heavily in debts because of him,i was chased by banks and friends.i was so depressed,in the end my best friend told me something,dont believe him anymore,he have two girlfriends outside,so I decided to employ a PI to check
Finally after 5days of PI check,they found out that he got two girlfriends and he spend almost every night with either one till the next morning,i was so sad,all along I trusted him but he betrayed again and again,i don't want my kids to grow in a broken family that's why I told myself to trust and believe,
finally after a few friends of mine accompany me and ask me to file for a divorce,and I did it after consideration.
I moved to my parents house for few days and told my parent about this incident,and my paremt say that they wanted to go his hse and find him talk .and we go up to his house together,my parent showed his parent all the PI reports and they was shocked too,they called M home ,he saw the report and beg me for forgiveness,but I feel that its too late ,he was too scary,my mind flash by all the images of the past,he asked for money and called me repeatedly continuously as if I was a atm,its time I be awake,and I told him on the spot that I will divorce with him
he came to my parent house and shedding crocodile tears and say that he know his mistake all that,but my heart is dead,i told him that do u remember once I told you that I am not feeling well and I went to doctor and the doctor say I have some sex infection,and he still scare I pass to him..The doctor say it was a man sex disease.He was such a selfish man,he was the one fooling around and yet he can deny and worry.
After month,we divorced and he told me that he left the girlfriend and say that he was true to me,but never would he know that his friend told me that he is still with the girls,and something more shocking was,it was a plot by him to marry with me and con and cheat my money.
at first I wouldn't believe much what his friend say but his friend told me that when I and my husband attended his friend wedding,his girlfriend was the one sitting on the same table as us and was just sitting next to him,i cried.
I was a fool for so many years ,he cheated me and make me full of debts of up to 7digit,i told myself to be strong as my daughter was still young,but he just wouldn't give me a peace of mind,the court asked him to give kids maintence fee of $500 and he skipped for months,at first I thought he was jobless but in the end I heard that he go with girlfriend to enjoy also don't want to give out daughter the money
I feel so sad,why this world have such a guy,a selfish one
this is my real life story,sorry if my English wasn't good
just want to share and hope u all can share this story around.

[Botakhead]

得饶人处且饶人， 不必逼人上梁山。

黄河流水， 水长流。 如何拄档得了？

[Plaedes]

Dear Sharon,

Sorry to hear about your story. You have fallen in love with a man who does not deserve you. That, in your heart, you know, but refuse to accept the reality.

Guys, please. He had ulterior motives from the start, what more is there to say? Is she asking for any donations of any financial aid? Picking on her maths and english?

There is no other way now, but to move on with your life. Learn to love yourself again, find out what really interests you. What are some things you and your kids always wanted to do together? Go running, take up meditation, take up a sports, take up a course, fill up all your time. Make yourself so tired you will just fall straight to sleep at night.

Read up some sites like Tiny Buddha, they talk a lot of having Peace of Mind. It certainly helped me when my relationship of 15 years ended.

No one can help you but yourself. And only you have the choice to come to a decision. For only you can make yourself happy, even in the worst circumstances. Money can be made back easy at your level.

It's the pain you need to handle and trust issues in men from now.

Cheers