GF asks for breakup. What should I do? [Chase her back or turn her to FkBuddy?]

[escaflower]

Ts, I hope this is not Ur first relationship... the way how I see u react to the entire situation, it seem like u just not 服气 why she left u for good.. when I see u mention thrashing albums, giving away the items to the frens, this show how shallow u r..

I think u should accept the fact and move on.. don't tell me u got problem in getting next gf dwn the road..

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by escaflower

Ts, I hope this is not Ur first relationship... the way how I see u react to the entire situation, it seem like u just not 服气 why she left u for good.. when I see u mention thrashing albums, giving away the items to the frens, this show how shallow u r..

I think u should accept the fact and move on.. don't tell me u got problem in getting next gf dwn the road..

she is not my first. she is my third.

i am just not happy with what she had done.

[cuscorex92]

exactly,u din gt é roi u expected wich makes u felt played out

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

already doing it. i smashed the album she made for me. and useless stuff like couple rings.. i going to give it to my parents and ask them to put them away. i never want to see them again.

useful items like belts and cologne, i am going to give it to my friends.

i am just going to try to move on. actually not try.. its must. with time, it will get better.

LOL... i dunno u la.. all i will say is gd luck to u... just dun make pika sis pissed off by ur actions cause of ur childish actions i think quite abit of bros and sis here agree wif me tt u dun really use ur brain to think carefully... all i will say is u have to grow up too...

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

she is not my first. she is my third.

i am just not happy with what she had done.

So she is your third? What have she done to make you so angry? By moving on fast? To get a new boy faster than you get a new girl? Or your third ex is the first girl to say break in all your 3 rs?

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by pikapikapikachu

So she is your third? What have she done to make you so angry? By moving on fast? To get a new boy faster than you get a new girl? Or your third ex is the first girl to say break in all your 3 rs?

wah bibi y do u sound like ur so angry oh??? dun angry ma... lai wo bao ni

[DotaEr]

Originally Posted by pikapikapikachu

So she is your third? What have she done to make you so angry? By moving on fast? To get a new boy faster than you get a new girl? Or your third ex is the first girl to say break in all your 3 rs?

pika,

yes she is my third ex. what makes me so angry is that:

1) she dumped me so sudden without wanting to work things out. which suggests that she want to get rid of me fast so that she can be with the new guy.

2) gets a new bf so sudden which leads me to think that.. its possible that she had developed feelings for the other guy during our r/s. having an emotional r/s with him and two timing me.

3) she is the first girl to dump me for good and also because of point 1 and 2.. thats why i am feeling this way

4) all her lies. she told me that she do not ever want to get into another r/s and she wants to focus on what she have on hand. and less than a week later. this happens. therefore when she tells me that there was no third party, i no longer trust her.

[maxpee88]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

really hurts me to say this,

she has a new boyfriend already. she has been going with a new guy and she has posted updates on whatsapp.. showing heartshape, kisses and love.

Less than a week after she dumped me, she has a new boyfriend. What is this man?

Wah Lannnnnnnn....... Did I not already tell you, and so have the rest of the bros and sis in SBF?

You have to grow up and be a man and accept it and Move on la.

She has every right to do what she wants. I mean, if you reverse the situation and its you and you found a new girl, you would do the same too. You can't change rules to suit your own purpose. get it?

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

pika,

yes she is my third ex. what makes me so angry is that:

1) she dumped me so sudden without wanting to work things out. which suggests that she want to get rid of me fast so that she can be with the new guy.

2) gets a new bf so sudden which leads me to think that.. its possible that she had developed feelings for the other guy during our r/s. having an emotional r/s with him and two timing me.

3) she is the first girl to dump me for good and also because of point 1 and 2.. thats why i am feeling this way

So can I assume that because she is the first girl that dump u and not you dump her that is why you are unhappy?

Are you a loser? Why do you think that only you have the right to dump girls and girls do not have the right to dump you?

[kensheeh89]

Originally Posted by DotaEr

pika,

yes she is my third ex. what makes me so angry is that:

1) she dumped me so sudden without wanting to work things out. which suggests that she want to get rid of me fast so that she can be with the new guy.

2) gets a new bf so sudden which leads me to think that.. its possible that she had developed feelings for the other guy during our r/s. having an emotional r/s with him and two timing me.

3) she is the first girl to dump me for good and also because of point 1 and 2.. thats why i am feeling this way

4) all her lies. she told me that she do not ever want to get into another r/s and she wants to focus on what she have on hand. and less than a week later. this happens. therefore when she tells me that there was no third party, i no longer trust her.

i think u will keep whinin and whinin and whinin huh? i think u better stop and just do ur own thing instead ur really irritatin alot of ppl and me as well

[pikapikapikachu]

Originally Posted by maxpee88

Wah Lannnnnnnn....... Did I not already tell you, and so have the rest of the bros and sis in SBF?

You have to grow up and be a man and accept it and Move on la.

She has every right to do what she wants. I mean, if you reverse the situation and its you and you found a new girl, you would do the same too. You can't change rules to suit your own purpose. get it?

Chill brother! He do not understand our point. Just let him be and let him continue with what he is happy

[shortgirl]

Bro. I know u upset. But what can u do except to move on? If u try to get her back as a gf or fb, she will only look down on u, and maybe brag to her friends about her ex is like a loser, still desperately trying to woo her back, when though she her heart already go to another guy. Even if u really desperate, for the sake of a man's pride, don't show it pls!

Oh ya. And if u need a release I'm sure many bros here can advise u.

[fabiann]

bro, if u do really love her from the bottom of ur heart, shouldnt u be giving her your blessings? be it she ran away, or develop feelings for other guys when she is with you..

i am quite sure everyone will have a bad relationship once in a life time.. their gf have 2 or 3 bf, ran away, betrayal.. i am sure everyone will face these type.

so if u do really want to get revenge on her, end of the day u will be hurting urself.. pick up where u fell, and i believe there are many girls for u out there..

what u have with her is a relationship, not an ownership..

choice and decision on what kind of guys she wants to be with is her own decision.. u cant ask her to change it because u CLAIM to done alot for her..

in love wise, seek no returns if u say u love her.. if not it will be a transaction...


good luck

[notti4u]

This is not the end of the world. My ex gf also treated me the same way as you now. Tell me no bf and one week later saw her holding hands with a guy. So what is the big deal wor.... life got to move on. Isn't it better for you now rather than realising later that she is two timing you instead?

Originally Posted by DotaEr

pika,

yes she is my third ex. what makes me so angry is that:

1) she dumped me so sudden without wanting to work things out. which suggests that she want to get rid of me fast so that she can be with the new guy.

2) gets a new bf so sudden which leads me to think that.. its possible that she had developed feelings for the other guy during our r/s. having an emotional r/s with him and two timing me.

3) she is the first girl to dump me for good and also because of point 1 and 2.. thats why i am feeling this way

4) all her lies. she told me that she do not ever want to get into another r/s and she wants to focus on what she have on hand. and less than a week later. this happens. therefore when she tells me that there was no third party, i no longer trust her.

[swguy40s]

Dota.

You are Man, moves On....There are a better girl out there for you. Show her you can live without her, show her you are cool guy.

Gd luck!