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i try to not generalise things here. like every countries in the world there is always positive and negative people. in my ex-ex workplace which have alot of highly skilled but lower-educated singaporean worker. i have the chance to speak to many with wife from PRC, thai etc.
some of my ex-colluegues who have PRC wife have introduce them to me. i find them to be good women and hard working. they take care of their family very well. of course, their wife is not SYT but they do labour for their family day and night much like my parent generation. i even know of 1 family where the wife is working while her husband refuse to work. she supported her husband and child by herself.
there is still good PRC ladies around. to be fair, they did not know their wife through KTV, pub etc. most of their wife is intro by others who know them well. some of them is village girls working in the city before they came over. at the sametime, i know of some others who is lazy too. they are good people just lazy to work.
to sum up, i try not to judge people base on where they come from. i make the same mistake years ago before i personally know friends from china. unlike the typical impression we have on them, they are very cool people. in china/thai/vn, it just like everywhere. there is good, there is bad.
Interesting thread. I will like to share the other side of the story.
Case 1: My friend (look like William Hung) met this super pretty PRC girl (80% like Zhang Zi Yi) while he was studying in England. She's in the same university. After 4 years together, she told him that her parents expect her to get married soon. We told him to seriously re-consider. Is she getting married to him for his money, Singapore PR etc...
Turns out this girl (only child) is the daughter of 2 successful businessman. Her mom owns the distribution rights to a famous brand in China. Her father owns a successful trading business too. The girl is a full time stock trader now. With her connections, she gets news of mergers, dividend declarations (insider news) before the public does. My friend actually saw her bank balance before. It's about SGD$5 million and it excludes any inheritance she might get. We hear already also dunno what to say. Now she still lives in China while he flies over to accompany her whenever he can.
Case 2: Another friend met this girl in Australia while studying. She married him and relocated to Singapore. Basically, she is a thrifty sensible lady. My friend always spend beyond his means. Buys cars that are expensive and impractical. Wife got to pay 50% of family expenses, including car. I spoke to the wife before. She doesn't understand why my friend buy stupid cars (poor in quality, servicing and resale value). I'm sure you guys know some European conti brands like that. But as a wife, she told me she will support whatever decision he makes. My friend sibeh heng.
Case 3: Recently another friend told me he found a PRC gf. Age gap: 10 years. Alarm bells start ringing. This girl is here on work attachment. She got sent to his company and he's her superior at work. Sparks flew and the rest is history. After this gf told her mum how wonderful Singapore is, the gf's mum told her to apply for Singapore PR through the investor scheme. I hear already also jaw drop. It means the mum got to send at least SGD$1million to her daughter. The money must be invested in Singapore for a min of 5 years. Another sibeh heng guy.
I think times have changed. A lot of PRC are rich on their own. Don't assume that they are targetting our money. Singapore men are viewed as good husbands by PRC ladies. Naive but loving. Of course, how you get to know them is also very important. GRO in a KTV? I think I will be more careful.
agree......your friend are really lucky to get rich ger frm china...
nowaday china pple are getting richer n richer,,,
Let me tell u. The govt is communists and communist is corrupted. It is their history since emperors time. It is their way of life. The gove will print money to pump up the country oer give it to the people. They dunt have checks on the govt because they are communists. Their money is worthless.
idontknow, i think u are the one knows wat i am talking about. U are smart, And u know all these china girls cheat. U must have been cheated by a china girl before. I even have a china guy that tells me china people cannot be trusted.
sun, u are pathetic chong guo mei loser. I know of a cheena girl go jackpot room and gamble all his husband money. The husband is an idiot to give her money to gamble. Everyday can lose $7000. u are an idiot to marry cheena girl. They are only after ur money. Luv ? bullshit they are not for luv but money.
1st , are you chinese ?
2nd, you are a negative (-) person ...
3rd, you are dreg. - no wonder you call yrself drekman !!!
4th, you are bad news 'cos you encounter all the bad things
its BAD LUCK to know you & listened to all your BS comments .
SUn814. Do u remember the romanian diplomat. They can kill us, and run away with it. He does not care he kills a chinese. we make ourself as second class citizen, as as asian, are nothing to them. But if u are in n ang moh country, u will be sentenced to death while they can get away with it even if they shoot u. U r stupid n useless.
Don't assume the bank account or bank statement these PRC women showed you is the real one.
I had a friend who get conned in the same manner. The PRC lady showed him her bank account book and it showed a balance of 800,000. On the same day, when she went shopping with him, her gold credit card failed to swipe
She then asked my friend to pay her purchases of 9,800 using his credit card first, saying she would accompany him to the bank to make cash withdrawal.
My friend thought it's safe, since he has seen that 800,000 balance bank book.
After the purchase, she went to toilet and never return
My friend called her number a few times but never return call. Later he used my hp to sms, saying want her FL services. She returned call and my friend spoke to her to demand the money back.
She got the guts to tell my friend that it was a gift from her and even if he reports to Police, she would tell the same story. She even said can also get a lawyer to sue her and she will tell the same story to media and publishes their photos to let his wife aware of it.
To drekman: Its fine. Let these foolish people say whatever they want. No wonder even a lowly prc prostitute can even openly criticise singapore men as stupid..Oh well.. I can only pity those people.., coupled with the fact that the only retort they can give is you have been "rejected" by a PRC
Don't assume the bank account or bank statement these PRC women showed you is the real one.
I had a friend who get conned in the same manner. The PRC lady showed him her bank account book and it showed a balance of 800,000. On the same day, when she went shopping with him, her gold credit card failed to swipe
She then asked my friend to pay her purchases of 9,800 using his credit card first, saying she would accompany him to the bank to make cash withdrawal.
My friend thought it's safe, since he has seen that 800,000 balance bank book.
After the purchase, she went to toilet and never return
My friend called her number a few times but never return call. Later he used my hp to sms, saying want her FL services. She returned call and my friend spoke to her to demand the money back.
She got the guts to tell my friend that it was a gift from her and even if he reports to Police, she would tell the same story. She even said can also get a lawyer to sue her and she will tell the same story to media and publishes their photos to let his wife aware of it.
So in the end, my friend is 9800 poorer
why waste time writing all these ...
QED - your friend is a chiko pek & GREEDY , OK ?
That is why he got trapped !!!
To drekman: Its fine. Let these foolish people say whatever they want. No wonder even a lowly prc prostitute can even openly criticise singapore men as stupid..Oh well.. I can only pity those people.., coupled with the fact that the only retort they can give is you have been "rejected" by a PRC
irregardless of what is your race, i am wondering how u can tolerate someone who throw such insults as Drekman did at another? even if the incidents are his personal ones (some directly from the news such as the Romanian Diplomat) is he right to condemn everyone from PRC, Bangladesh and the Caucasians (haha, did anybody do any calculation of how many percent of human's population he has condemned? i think he is better off living in Mars ) If we think that the prostitutes are lowly, do we have to stood as low as them to even bother about what they has to say? the answer for me is 'no i would not!'
irregardless of what is your race, i am wondering how u can tolerate someone who throw such insults as Drekman did at another? even if the incidents are his personal ones (some directly from the news such as the Romanian Diplomat) is he right to condemn everyone from PRC, Bangladesh and the Caucasians (haha, did anybody do any any calculation of how much percent of human's population he has condemned? i think he is better off living in Mars ) If we think that the prostitutes are lowly, do we have to stood as low as them to even bother about what they has to say? the answer for me is 'no i would not!'
applepie. u r an idoit if u go for china girl. They only cheat ur money. I went to a pub and she give me a towel and charged me. i wan a refund, she says cannot. This the kind of fucking cheena who will cheat ur money. This is singapore n people are entitled for a refund if they dunt wan something or the good are no good. But communists country. They will only cheat n con ur money. There are alot of china firms blacklisted here. Y, because they are corrupted. guan xi is bullshit. Everything is black n white signed in contract. But they dunt belive this. They only belive in cheating n wan ur money.
now i found your post which shows & decribe your mentality ....
conclusion, all your views & opinion is based on your shallow experience with pub girls & the what-nots .... , right ???
21-06-2010, 12:50 AM
